Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Hello, My name is Amanda and I'm having a really big problem with my current relationship. My boyfriend and I met on January 09, 2006 in Baltimore, Maryland USA. In May 2006 he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and I took him back.Then In July I caught him with another women in his house, and I took him back. Just recently he proposed to me and told me he wants to get married and start a family. I love him but I'm not sure if I'm making the right decision. For some reason I have realized that I opearte extremly well when I'm in a relationship. BUt when I'm single I'm depressed and sometimes extremly cold. I'm not sure if I want to marry him because I love him or if its because I cant stand being alone. I'm just trying to figute out if we are really compatible or if I'm wasting my time. This is really hard for me to admit my situation because I like peopole to see me and my world as perfect but its not..I havent even shared these events with my close friends (My boyfriend cheating) Please help me..I have knowone else to confine in with my problems because i'm too embarasses. Thanks a lot in advance. I really need this :-( Amanda 08/19/1984 13:20 pm Tampa, Florida Aarron 10/21/1982 11:45 am Baltimore, Maryland Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 Just doing prasna chart (Cancer Asdt, Ke Sa in Leo, Ma, (Me), Su, Ve in Libra, Jp in Scorpio, Ra in Aqua, Mo in Gem. In D9, As is Libra, Ke in Sag, Ma in Pis, Sa (Me) in Aries, Mo, Su in Taurus, Ra, Ve in Gemin, Jp in Cancer), looks like this marriage is not going to happen, as karaka of marriage is not aspecting the lagna. lagna is aspected by Ra, Jp - So, doubts about the marriage can be inferred. Analyzing the partner, we take 7th from Karaka Ve, i.e Aries lorded by Ma and use the house that Ma is in as lagna and analyze the partner. We can see that Ma is with Su, (Me), and Ve in Libra. This person is either uninterested in partners or has multiple partners. >From the info so far, we can notice the doubt in the mind of the questioner and the multiple partners of her partner. He is very practical (debilitated planet in lagna), independent (9th lord in lagna), bossy (Sun in lagna). --- vedic astrology, "Amanda" <amanda_mitchell_84 wrote: > > Hello, > > My name is Amanda and I'm having a really big problem with my > current relationship. My boyfriend and I met on January 09, 2006 in > Baltimore, Maryland USA. In May 2006 he cheated on me with his ex > girlfriend and I took him back.Then In July I caught him with > another women in his house, and I took him back. Just recently he > proposed to me and told me he wants to get married and start a > family. I love him but I'm not sure if I'm making the right > decision. For some reason I have realized that I opearte extremly > well when I'm in a relationship. BUt when I'm single I'm depressed > and sometimes extremly cold. I'm not sure if I want to marry him > because I love him or if its because I cant stand being alone. I'm > just trying to figute out if we are really compatible or if I'm > wasting my time. This is really hard for me to admit my situation > because I like peopole to see me and my world as perfect but its > not..I havent even shared these events with my close friends (My > boyfriend cheating) Please help me..I have knowone else to confine > in with my problems because i'm too embarasses. Thanks a lot in > advance. I really need this :-( > > Amanda > 08/19/1984 13:20 pm > Tampa, Florida > > Aarron > 10/21/1982 11:45 am > Baltimore, Maryland > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 10, 2006 Report Share Posted November 10, 2006 In general praying to your mother, and may be wearing a pearl is a good thing. As there is mother's curse in the horoscope (Mo with Ra and graha aspect by Ma, Ke) - Causing Shock (Cheating) and anger from mother or mother like person. Also, there is astama chandra cauing death like fealing while discharging karma in the society, though exited (Mo exalted) but doing it. There is so much ups and downs and disturbances that work suffers. Strengthening moon helps. Also, the planet which can rescue moon is karaka for eight house moon. So, putting Thil (Sesame oil) lamp on Sat evening and praying to mother Kali helps. Not sure what you will have to do as some of these are not related to your dharma. Wish I was more knowledgeable to suggest Christian equivalents of the above. --- Ranga. P.S: Note I am a student, and would appreciate any comments from seniors on the remedies suggested above. vedic astrology, "pvangara" <pvangara wrote: > > Just doing prasna chart (Cancer Asdt, Ke Sa in Leo, Ma, (Me), Su, Ve > in Libra, Jp in Scorpio, Ra in Aqua, Mo in Gem. In D9, As is Libra, Ke > in Sag, Ma in Pis, Sa (Me) in Aries, Mo, Su in Taurus, Ra, Ve in > Gemin, Jp in Cancer), looks like this marriage is not going to happen, > as karaka of marriage is not aspecting the lagna. > > lagna is aspected by Ra, Jp - So, doubts about the marriage can be > inferred. Analyzing the partner, we take 7th from Karaka Ve, i.e Aries > lorded by Ma and use the house that Ma is in as lagna and analyze the > partner. > We can see that Ma is with Su, (Me), and Ve in Libra. This person is > either uninterested in partners or has multiple partners. > > From the info so far, we can notice the doubt in the mind of the > questioner and the multiple partners of her partner. He is very > practical (debilitated planet in lagna), independent (9th lord in > lagna), bossy (Sun in lagna). > --- > > > > vedic astrology, "Amanda" > <amanda_mitchell_84@> wrote: > > > > Hello, > > > > My name is Amanda and I'm having a really big problem with my > > current relationship. My boyfriend and I met on January 09, 2006 in > > Baltimore, Maryland USA. In May 2006 he cheated on me with his ex > > girlfriend and I took him back.Then In July I caught him with > > another women in his house, and I took him back. Just recently he > > proposed to me and told me he wants to get married and start a > > family. I love him but I'm not sure if I'm making the right > > decision. For some reason I have realized that I opearte extremly > > well when I'm in a relationship. BUt when I'm single I'm depressed > > and sometimes extremly cold. I'm not sure if I want to marry him > > because I love him or if its because I cant stand being alone. I'm > > just trying to figute out if we are really compatible or if I'm > > wasting my time. This is really hard for me to admit my situation > > because I like peopole to see me and my world as perfect but its > > not..I havent even shared these events with my close friends (My > > boyfriend cheating) Please help me..I have knowone else to confine > > in with my problems because i'm too embarasses. Thanks a lot in > > advance. I really need this :-( > > > > Amanda > > 08/19/1984 13:20 pm > > Tampa, Florida > > > > Aarron > > 10/21/1982 11:45 am > > Baltimore, Maryland > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 dear Miss amanada In ur boyfriend horo dara karakan (spouse) is venus and also the 7th lord and 12th and is very close to sun in natal chart. In d-9 chart saTURN AND VENUS IS vargottama ie in the same house as seen in natal chart so it is very strong. thithi is not compatible. u have to avoid purna thithi and ur boyfriend's thithi is purna.ur thithi is compatible for him. sun is debilitated in ur boyfriend's chart and he happens to be putra karakan In natal chart the asthakavarga points of urs are higher than that of ur boy friend so u will always try to dominate probably this may lead to friction. Moon is debilitated in ur boyfriend's chart hence there is a possibility of his mind swaying or craving for pleasures outside as and when opportunity arises. but his star lord is mercury which is well placed in both natal and d-9 chart which can have a chek. ur a7 and boy's ak are 6 /8 position which isnt favourable. the boys A7 and ur AK are in 3/11 position so he has to follow u. favourable points are moon position is 7th to each other which is good though rahu and mars aspect each other. mars dosha is nullified because both have mars dosha. most of the other points in relation to compatiblity are good. In our country because of strong family ties we will reccomend this matching as good.but in ur country lack of family ties it will be very difficult to predict that married life will be long lasting. However from the compatiblity points i have given u the analysis, u can decide accordingly and go ahead if ur confident that ur boyfriend will be sincere and have longlasting family ties. with good wishes, k.gopu Amanda 08/19/1984 13:20 pm Tampa, Florida Aarron 10/21/1982 11:45 am Baltimore, Maryland Everyone is raving about the all-new Mail beta. http://new.mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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