Guest guest Posted October 6, 2006 Report Share Posted October 6, 2006 Dear Deven Ji Namaskar and thank you for the reply......sorry....my mistake in reading your message regarding the taunting way others speak to you on occassion........combination recommended will help a lot to avoid the difficulties that you have concern over and the 17 Mukhi will overcome all obstacles to bring unexpected money to you and your family..........there are times in life for most all of us where we simply have to not say anything about what we are doing or what we think as there are many who do not understand and if one finds themselves in a community of these type of people is best to get on with our lives and say little to others.......eventually you will find others of like mind and you will be able to enjoy confideing in one our two people as you move forward hope this helps and sorry for the misinterpretation on my part Wishing you and Family the Best DD , deven chopra <chopradeven81 wrote: > > Dear DDji > > thankyou very much for taking time out to reply to my problem. > > Probably to some extent I am not able to clearly state everything. > > Seems that you have understood that I speak in a taunting way. > it is not like that. > > I mean to say that when I achieve something or there is anything good about me people start taunting and find some or the other way to just harass > me and it is never anybody alone. It is that if somebody wants to create problem for me.he/she can easily gather support from people to do taht. > > In concise you can say............it doesn't take time to get people together against me............even if I have not done anything to them. > > If there is any one person I can tackle them....................I don't fear anybody............I have a reply to each and every ones questions if the person agrees to remain in a gentleman's limits.I ..........am that strong. > > My problem is how to avoid these useless problems. > > Right now I am wearing a 12 Mukhi rudraksha and one 13 mukhi gaurishankar. > Botha beads are Nepali amd I bought all beads from Rudra Center. > > Apart from this I am wearing a mala (108 +1 ) of 8 mm rudraksha beads. > Also I am wearing 3beads of 3 mukhi and one 4 mukhi. > > Please suggest. > Also I want to buy a 17 mukhi.for money. > though it will be a big amount but I can consider to take a loan for that. > > Please tell me how this is supposed to work. > > Regards > Deven Chopra > rudracenter <no_reply> wrote: Dear Deven Ji > > Seems this is all about how you see yourself and the way you might > be communicating with others.......... and how they percieve that > communication > > there really are no new experiences as others have felt what you are > describeing also and a good guide is found in ancient knowledge that > says........if one remains silent and says nothing acting in a > somewhat normal manner then no one knows who that person is or what > they are about and ........therefore their actions will speak louder > than their words.......in this case there would be nothing anyone > could say about such a person except from what they see the person > accomplishing > > This comes naturally as one simply acts as others do in the same > group setting..........a modern interpretation of this might be to > listen more and say nothing and stay in background so to speak as a > method of going around this obstacle in life..........your successes > and accomplishments always speak for themselves and reflect your > abilities however saying to much can overshadow any action....is > simply the way the world is > > looking at what you have said in your message am seeing that you > feel that when you speak people react in ways that are not in your > best interests > > if you read over your message you will see for yourself that you > deal with the issue of being straight forward and honest in nature > and dealings however........when you progress a little bit and start > saying big things in a taunting way..........they try to malign your > image in public...........and if you respond in your straight > forward manner then they considered this as an attack > > Being straight forward and honest is a two edged sword......it can > be harsh and speaking in a taunting way can be intimidateing or it > can be soft and easily accepted so it really depends on > communication skills and the way something is said > > since we can all learn more about communication skills this might be > an area of interest to explore on the internet or by reading a book > on communication skills so that more can be learned about body > language and ways to approach other through speech so they are more > readily acceptable to what you are trying to communicate to > them........ if self image and expectations of how others recieve > you are important..........you will then be more aware and prepared > for interractions with others that are takeing place in your life > and be more pro active in your communications > > Since you feel this difficulty has been happening to you since > childhood it might be a good experience to investigate this subject > of communcation with others as the learning will give you more self > confidence in your daily life and give your self image a lift so > that you do not become self conscious > > In addition if you wear the 3 Mukhi Lord Agni Rudraksha that is > credited with destroying past Karma and stopping all difficulties > before they start with the 5 Mukhi Kaalagni Rudraksha that is > credited with destroying present moment Karma you will be in a clear > space so to speak where you can go forward and change your methods > of communcation with others so that they recive you in better light > at all times..........adding the 6 Mukhi Lord Kartikey will save > from worldly sorrows and an 8 Mukhi Lord Ganesha Rudraksha will move > all the obstacles on all levels.......with all this in place the 12 > Mukhi Lord Surya Rudraksha would be makeing you the center of > attentiion without saying a word to anyone > > so by increaseing your knowledge of how others communicate and > recieve communcations........and wearing the Holy Rudraksha this is > a good plan to try and correct the difficulties you have > mentioned........if the difficulty continues then is time to seek > the advice of a professional counselor who can direct you in a way > that will help you with your goal to be seen and understood for who > you really are > > hope this helps > > Wishing you and Family the Best > > Rudra Center India and America > > DharmaDev Arya > > , "chopradeven81" > <chopradeven81@> wrote: > > > > Dear DDji , Narsimhaye ji and all group members. > > > > I need some help. > > > > I have noticed over the years almost since my childhood that I have > > been continously victim of people's jealousy. > > > > I am very staright-forward and honest in my nature and dealings. > > > > Whenever I progress even a little bit or people start saying big > > things in a taunting way no matter how well they know me and how > good I have been to them. As if they don't expect me to progress. > > > > And many times they try to malign my image in public and if I > > respond, it is termed as an attack. > > > > People form groups against me easily. > > > > Even if I look good, people have problems and I have to really > think > > before I dress up not to look too good. > > > > I want to know what kind of rudraksha combination or Kshatriya > > kantha should I wear. > > > > I also have some family responsibilities and these things make me > > insecure and less confident. > > > > Any suggestions and insights will be highly appreciated. > > > > Regards > > Deven Chopra > > > > > > > > > > Find out what India is talking about on - Answers India > Send FREE SMS to your friend's mobile from Messenger Version 8. Get it NOW > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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