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Deven, pls scroll below.......

 

 

, "chopradeven81"

<chopradeven81 wrote:

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> Dear DDji , Narsimhaye ji and all group members.

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> I need some help.

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> I have noticed over the years almost since my childhood that I have

> been continously victim of people's jealousy.

 

Deven, sincerely sorry to hear of your situation. Fully understand how

it must feel to be victim of other people's jealousy becos I knew many

people who had similar problem as you. Don't let these things get you

down or stress you out. See it as leela and maya. I know its easy to

say but hard to do. But pls try to detach yourself.

 

There was one particular girl whose situation was very similar to yours.

I met her in person 2 or 3 years ago. She used Bagalamukhi Yantra,

getting up during early hours to do puja and mantra before sunrise

everyday. With the passage of time, her problems ceased and people left

her alone.

 

At first she found it lonely but later she realised she was better off

without them. She went on to find new friends, new job and new home.

Since then, she has never looked back. Bagalamukhi was her first

purchase from Rudra Centre and it worked wonders for her.

 

 

> I am very staright-forward and honest in my nature and dealings.

 

You have many good virtues which those jealous of you do not happen to

possess.

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> Whenever I progress even a little bit or people start saying big

> things in a taunting way no matter how well they know me and how good

I have been to them.

 

Unfortunately, a lot of people are mostly ungrateful and forget how good

you have been to them, done a lot for them or helped them out. They are

negative people who like to see others go down to their level. In many

communities, whether Indian or other cultures, it happens everywhere.

 

The sort of people who know you well whom you helped but who kept

taunting you instead of being happy for you and saying good things about

your achievements, are full of envy and jealousy -- this blinds them.

Psychologically when people are discontent and always dissatisfied with

themselves, they will never be able to find content or satisfaction with

others.

 

Good souls are those who even if they are impoverished and disadvantaged

in society, accept their fate or karma but continue to keep faith in

God. These good souls are always happy to see others do well and go up

in the world without jealousy or envy. No matter how bad their own

situations are, they will always say good, encouraging words and give

praise if someone is doing well.

 

As if they don't expect me to progress.

 

Obviously they don't want you to progress. These are called "Toxic

Friendships" or 'toxic relationships'. If you go up, they want to pull

you down. Is there anyway you can distance yourself from these people?

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> And many times they try to malign my image in public and if I

> respond, it is termed as an attack. People form groups against me

easily.

 

This means you have more virtues, talents, skills, taste, dress sense,

humility, helpful nature and other good characteristics that they don't

necessary have. This also means subconsciously, they have low self

esteem but huge egos, hence they treat you the way they do.

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> Even if I look good, people have problems and I have to really think

> before I dress up not to look too good.

 

Why should you be living life to suit other people's preferences? Its

important to live for yourself, its your life, not theirs. You have the

right to make your own choices what to wear. If you continue

associating with such people on a long term basis, they will drag you

down to low self-esteem and paranoia about looking good. They sound

more like enemies than friends.

 

Since they continue to hang around you, its becos of what you can

continue to do for them. Are you obliged to continue these toxic

friendships? I guess you've done good many times over. You owe it to

yourself to be rid of such people. Much as its hard to let go sometimes

due to sentimental reasons, know that people can outgrow one another.

Its probably a matter of time before you outgrow them and come to terms

with the fact that they drag you down. Do you want to let this

continue? I should hope not!!

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> I want to know what kind of rudraksha combination or Kshatriya

> kantha should I wear. I also have some family responsibilities and

these things make me insecure and less confident.

 

Mala consisting 2,3,4,5,6,7,8, 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13 mukh rudraksh can

assist clear thinking/clarity of mind in making decisions, bestow

balance, centredness of being, confer security and confidence in being

who you are and what you stand for. Also assists and gives strength,

insight and wisdom in dealing with family responsibilities.

 

Mala can be custom-made and if you wish to obtain it, pls write

directly to Ms Neetaji at rudracentre (AT) hotmail (DOT) com

<rudracentre (AT) hotmail (DOT) com> She will give you good guidance about

specifications and relevant matters. Pls also consider getting

Bagalamukhi Yantra and repeat mantra everyday 108 times if possible.

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> Any suggestions and insights will be highly appreciated.

 

Other friends who had similar experiences as Deven, please share them if

you wish. Would be nice to hear from others and learn from them too.

 

Ommmm

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