Rudraksha for forgiveness and doubt of others

[Guest guest]

Om Namah Shivya!

 

I sometimes doubt the goodness of others too much -- I assume that

people will act in a bad way towards me instead of good way.

 

Is there a rudraksha that will help me trust in the goodness of others

more and forgive people more easily?

 

Thank you.

[Guest guest]

Thank you.

 

 

 

I think the way I phrased my question made it sound like I was being too

hard on myself (and perhaps I am!).

 

 

 

The "suspecting others" trait is a quality of myself I would like to change,

but I know that it is not who I am in my core - just a trait that I notice

from time to time and don't like. I am on the path of learning to not blame

myself and not blame others (forgiveness) and more or less satisfied with my

progress.

 

 

 

I was wondering that perhaps a simple physical reminder (perhaps an article

of jewelry, like a bracelet) would help keep these thoughts more firmly in

my mind throughout the day, however. And if I wear a bracelet, I would like

it to be a rudraksh because of all the other benefits. I hope I am making

sense J

 

 

 

I currently wear a mala of mukhs 1/9/11/Gauri Shankar & smaller 5 mukhs

beads. If there is anything else you can suggest I would be grateful ..and

maybe nothing else is even necessary.

 

 

 

Jai Gurudev,

 

 

 

Russell

 

 

 

 

 

 

[] On Behalf Of narasimhaye

Sunday, September 24, 2006 7:31 PM

 

RBSC : Rudraksha for forgiveness and doubt of others

 

 

 

Yrussch, forgiveness and grace must come from yourself to yourself

first. Then from there you are able to forgive others.

 

Positive thinking is important -- you see, if we dwell on doubting the

goodness of others and that they will do bad things to us, then this

will come to manifest. Thought processes are a bit like mantras. If

we keep thinking the same thought everyday, what we think are likely

to happen.

 

Pls try to think that all people you khow and meet will do good things

to you and with you. Think that you will have rewarding friendships,

success with social life, people skills and great friendships. Then

you will attract the same type of great people to your life. (Murphy's

law: "Like attracts like").

 

Perhaps we need to address 2 things:

 

a) Confidence in yourself

 

b) Find ability, insight and wisdom to discern between good people,

good acts or bad.

 

There are several rudraksh beads that can help but would recommend

Saraswati Mala made with small 8mm size 5 mukh beads with sphatika

(quartz crystal) which will also give self confidence. Can add 12

mukh or 13 mukh to this mala if you wish.

 

Alternative is Personalized Mala with mukhs 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12

and 13.

 

For making specifications, please contact Ms Neetaji directly at

rudracentre (AT) hotmail (DOT) com <rudracentre%40hotmail.com> She will reply

to you and give further

guidance as well as custom-making specifications.

 

Ommmmmm

 

 

<%40> , "yrussch"

<russch wrote:

>

> Om Namah Shivya!

>

> I sometimes doubt the goodness of others too much -- I assume that

> people will act in a bad way towards me instead of good way.

>

> Is there a rudraksha that will help me trust in the goodness of

others

> more and forgive people more easily?

>

> Thank you.

>