2-Ludhiana re. Marriage or Not, question from Mark Kincaid 9/10

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wrote:

dear >

i got married n 30th january 2005.i am going through a pretty rough

time.....my husband under the infulene of my in-laws has filed a

divorce case in feb 2006.but now he and me both of us dont want a

divorce. due to the pressure on both sides from my family and

his.......we both r in a fix as to whther give or not....as both

our familes now dont support our decisions of us staying togther.his

father has aslo disowned him and he has nothing in his hand ...no

job nthn.......whereas he belongs to a very high business family

and

please tell me some upaya to cool our families as our next hearing

(which maybe the final one) for divorce is on 15th september.

if u pls tel me abt my future.

also please tell us whther we both would lead a peaceful life if we

patch up or not????

 

 

my do.b is 21st oct 79....6:50 am ......ludhiana

 

 

his is 13 may 79......11:50 pm......chandigarh

 

 

 

Dear Ludhiana:

 

 

 

Yours may seem like a very difficult question being the lack of family

support you're both going through, but looking to Astrology to help, is

a very wise thing for you to do!

 

 

I've looked at both of your charts, and like most people both charts

have plusses and minuses.

 

 

The key thing for you two, however, is to decide what you think is best

and go from there.

 

Unfortunately, most people don't know enough about their Stars, to make

intelligent enough decisions.

 

 

 

So, I will in short try and help you see yourselves better, and then you

get to decide what your choice should be.

 

 

You have your Sun Venus & Mercury, and Moon all in Libra in your chart.

 

This represents a very kind hearted person, who's very sensitive

emotionally, yes?

 

You were born on a New Moon so your Moon is very delicate and fragile.

 

You have to therefore strengthen your Moon, regardless of what you do

with this decision.

 

Because if you don't then, all choices will seem overwhelming.

 

This is not because of the other circumstances, but because of your

chart!

 

In your husbands chart he also has a very interesting chart.

 

He has his Sun Venus Mercury and Mars all in the Sign of Aries.

 

This represents a person who is very independent and powerful. His main

concern should be his Moon too because its in Scorpio which represents

challenges.

 

He needs to improve the quality of his Moon as well.

 

 

He also has a very good Jupiter, being exalted in Cancer in his chart.

 

The thing you have to decide is if you want to go it alone.

 

Families of course are important, but there’s many instances in

which quote: “families†do not do what is RIGHT for their

children!

 

There are many instances where parents don’t want the best for

their children because they try and fix them up with a partner for the

sake of a dowery alone, for example. You know that sort of thing.

 

So, you have to decide is whether you can handle the quality of going

against them.

 

Your husband, I think can do it, but in your chart, all those planets in

Libra, you really want harmony, so it may be harder for you.

 

However, you’re meant to get tougher, to be less ambivalent and

learn to stand up on your own.

 

But, again the choice is yours to make.

 

No one else can make it for you.

 

Hope this little analysis helps.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

 

PS….If you really want to understand any of your in-laws or family

members send in their date of birth info, to see if what they’re

doing is righteous.

 

 

 

 

 

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