2-Ludhiana re. Marriage or Not, question from Mark Kincaid 9/10

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"sweet_aakriti" <ashugoyal@.

 

wrote:

dear >

i got married n 30th

january 2005.i am going through a pretty rough

time.....my husband

under the infulene of my in-laws has filed a

divorce case in feb

2006.but now he and me both of us dont want a

divorce. due to the

pressure on both sides from my family and

his.......we both r in a

fix as to whther give or not....as both

our familes now dont

support our decisions of us staying togther.his

father has aslo

disowned him and he has nothing in his hand ...no

job

nthn.......whereas he belongs to a very high business family

and

 

please tell me some upaya to cool our families as our next

hearing

 (which maybe the final one) for

divorce is on 15th september.

if u pls tel me abt my future.

 

also please tell us whther we both would lead a peaceful life if we

 

patch up or not????

 

my do.b is 21st oct 79....6:50

am

.......ludhiana

 

his is 13 may 79......11:50

pm......chandigarh

 

 

Dear

Ludhiana:

 

 

Yours may seem

like a very difficult question being the lack of family support you're

both going through, but looking to Astrology to help, is a very wise thing

for you to do!

 

I've looked at both of

your charts, and like most people both charts have plusses and

minuses.

 

The key thing for you

two, however, is to decide what you think is best and go from

there.

Unfortunately, most people

don't know enough about their Stars, to make intelligent enough

decisions.

 

 

So, I will in

short try and help you see yourselves better, and then you get to decide

what your choice should be.

 

You have your Sun

Venus & Mercury, and Moon all in Libra in your

chart.

 This represents a very

kind hearted person, who's very sensite emotionally,

yes?

You were born on a New Moon

so your Moon is very delicate and fragile.

 

You have to

therefore strengthen your Moon, regardless of what you do with this

decision.

Because if you don't then,

all choices will seem overwhelming.

This is not because of the

other circumstances, but because of your chart!

In your husbands chart he

also has a very interesting chart.

He has his Sun Venus Mercury

and Mars all in Aries in the Sign of Aries.

This represents a person who

is very independent and powerful.  His main

concern should be his Moon too because its in Scorpio which represents

challenges.

He also has a very good

Jupiter, being exalted in Cancer in his chart.

The thing you have to decide

is if you want to go it alone.

Families of course are

important, but there’s many instances in which quote:

“families” do not do what is RIGHT for their

children!

There are many instances

where parents don’t want the best for their children because they

try and fix them up with a partner for the same of a dowery alone.  You know that sort of thing.

So, you have to decide is

whether you can handle the quality of going against

them.

Your husband, I think can do

it, but in your chart, all those planets in Libra, you really want

harmony, so it may be much harder for you.

However, you’re meant

to get tougher, to be less ambivalent and learn to stand up on your

own.

But, again the choice is

yours to make.

No one else can make it for

you.

Hope this little analysis

helps.

Sincerely,

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

PS….If you really want to understand any of

your in-laws or family members send in their date of birth info, to see if

what they’re doing is righteous.

 

 

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