is there any remedy for this too?

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Namaste every body

This has been happening to me always.When iwas doing job, was in

college, this happened.Now in neighbourhood too. I become popular

first, they want to include me evry where, immediately after that in

surrounding there will be one person who will start doing some things

against me , like if i want to call people my home for get together

this woman will start immediately why does she want to do that? If i

invite people for puja, she starts oh, the other neighbour does very

good every day.If i am helping one neighbour ,she will come there &

take over of the things what initially i was doing for my friend.If any

neighbour wants to ask me some advice medically(i am in medical field)

she will ask them why they are asking me about it ,that other people do

not come, talk to me & i totally get ignored by people with in one

day.I get so much stressed out because with in one day i loose all my

labour to make friends get ruined every time,in the end no body talks

to me,i become loner, they ignore me, but still tell me that they went

together some where, or had fun .

What should i do for that.

If i ignore them ,it does not bother them at all, they are still

together.

What can help me to to get my friends back, to stay with all ,so that

i can also enjoy with them.But this never happens.I can not just be

happy with myself, with my hobbies, you need people to talk to you.My

husband does not talk to any body.He has no enthusiasm towards life

like other woman's husband who take them out for weekends to different

places. He always says he does not know. Go with them.H e does not like

to do any thing at home.He sleeps untill 3 in night, gets up 2 in

afternoon , just want food, will find some things to shout at me about

my son , sits on tv again.Thats how he kills all weekends,

longweekends, This is my life, a hell.

i really wnat to have life what can i do? Its 40 days i am wearing

rudraksh 5,6 8,9,11,12,2(2) ,GS ,but these things have not changed.I

think nothing can change a destiny. But still all advices are welcomed .