Bhskar , asutosh 12/8 p3

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Bhaskar,

good u saw it in the right spirit i thout for a while [5 hrs] before posting it if chan+rahu can needless trgger antheor round between us, and am happy this is good and usre u can keep this trend going.

I CAN ONLY SAY ONETHING if some one has done something wrong or mean best way is allow it to pass, only when we have to we need to assert ourself to make a point we r not door mats or insects to be trampled upon.

BUT TO WIN over mean people u can only by being meaner not a worthy contest isn't it?

 

bhaskar_jyotish <bhaskar_jyotish (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote: Shri Prashant Sahab,

Pranam.

I agree that I should have let the comments of the latest threads

on me pass, and not over reacted.But not being so mature as want to

be,strong words were unleashed from my side too.

I know that my weak point is immediate reactions , without

sparing a thought for rereading the mail, or rewording it in a more

polite tone, which should be, when I have to address any grieveance.

This has put me in embarassing positions many a times, and am

trying to change myself.

I hope in future I shall not give cause for You having to

correct me. But know this that I like You to correct me, your

corrections are always welcome, just like elder persons

affectionate admonishments to a younger one.

Please forgive me for having spoilt the discipline of the Forum,

I agree at least I should have been patient and more understanding.

PleaseSir, without any hesitation let me know in future too,

whenever I go out of step.

affectioantely,

Bhaskar.

, Prashant Kumar G B

<gbp_kumar wrote:

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> Dear Asutosh, Bhaskar,

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> as Prafulla has said it will be nice if both of u put ur energy

more in astro words than personal swipes. Does affect the image of

the group.

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> I was initially put off by Bhaskars comments in early days when

before he came on to chart reading did make strong comments on a few

posts and when I pointed to some he misread it and over reacted, [i

wish after sensing it as misread and an over-reaction I still failed

and reply to it and went for a low slang show] but did not allow it

to drag too far.

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> In some posts I do observe Bhaskar overdoing it but it is not my

job to watch over any one and sure everyone must set their own

standards this i refer to his attack on Surya was TOO STRONG as even

Pt.Arjun said as Surya was not even reacting badly to anyone of the

taunts every member threw at him so there was overboard.

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> REST OF US HAVE pushed surya to a point that he either stick to

astro or BLOW THE whistle against the wind his choice now we find

Bhaskar also in line so this is a welcome change.

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> BUT BHAsKAR pl see this is not personal but I appreciate the

change so far in ur posts. and now asotosh mars+rahu if he said

w.r.t full chart reading of urs esp when the thread was on did make

MORE SENSE than serve a slant here. really these episodes have

allowed me also like others to know ourselves better and check our

weak sides and become better persons, life is a eternal learning.

> process

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> AGAIN IF U NOTICE TODAY ALSO CHANDRA+RAHU

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> WE HAD A FEW in the past months at least the ones i remember in

Jam, Feb was on RR , later by TARUN CHOPRA twice, june - Tarun

agarwal twice and me and Bhaskar once in July. but I will surely not

react that way again, I feel if other eis no truth in a thread no

use giving it life.

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> I TRIED TO MIX MY STYLE and Pt.arjuns who dos this job as he is

relocating and needs time , resources to start going again am

filling his space, voice too.

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> again no hard feelings plz this is just a mix of well done on a

few and need to do well in few cases no policing.

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