Guest guest Posted July 30, 2006 Report Share Posted July 30, 2006 Dear learned friends, I am new here. My husband left me 2 months ago, for the second time. We were married in April 2001 and our daughter was born in October 2002. Shortly after that, husband left us in January 2003 and we were reunited in June/July 2005, but he was barely with me for a year and has left us again. I do not know where he is now (India/abroad). He is currently going through the first phase of sade sadi (Leo moonsign) and had lot of troubles with his career when he was with me for the last year. Our details are as follows: Self: 4 September 1965, Chennai, 8:37 pm Husband: 24 August 1968, Bhopal, 10:10 am Ours was a love marriage. Later astrologers told us that our horoscopes didn't match well and accordingly we did have problems. Please note that we were reunited the first time while his sade sati was going on (It started in September 2004 and we were reunited in June/July 2005). The second phase of his sade sati would start sometime in November this year I think. Will that be more hard on him? Will it make him realise that he is neglecting his duties towards his daughter? I am also going through ashtaka shani (Saggitarius moon sign). Can you please shed some light on why are we being separated time and again and when will be reunited again, hopefully this time forever. Thank you a lot. Newbee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 31, 2006 Report Share Posted July 31, 2006 ||Hare Rama Krsna|| Dear Newbee, Namaskar Your seventh lord is placed in the sixth house, this causes alot of seperation between you and your partner, and being that Venus is also your atmakaraka it becomes all the more important, and you will blame yourself for much of the troubles in the relationship. The sixth lord - Mercury, is furthermore in the fifth house which is an unwanted placement giving you an unconcious tendency to reject your husband through actions and choice of words. This would not be a major issue had it not been involved in a curse caused by Sun and Saturns conjunction/aspect on Mercury. Since Mercury lords the Upapada itself we can understand that this was the cause of a slightly delayed marriage, and is also the cause of the marital problems in general. To remedy this you need mantra. First some more timing; Your navamsa will reveal the times when your husband leaves and when he comes back. Here the focus is on the eighth house and here we have Jupiter (childbirth/wealth) and Ketu (Growth/expansion of family). Hence during the times of childbirth or times when major family issues arise or when financial problems arise, your husband would be prompted to leave the home. The eighth lord itself is Mars who is in a parivartana with Saturn, thus empowering them both to give the results of the eighth house and seperation from you. The seventh house is lorded by Venus and will bring the spouse back home. Using Dvisaptati sama dasa (applicable in your chart) Jupiter-Mars (07/2002 - 8/2003) Your husband left you the first time. Venus-Venus (10/2004 - 11/2005) Your husband came back. Venus-Saturn (11/2005 - 01/2007) Your husband left the second time. He will be back after this period in Venus-Rahu, but i don't think permanently. To remedy the soul-level problem and also any eventual health problems which can potentially arise, you must worship Tryambakeshvara. Now, there is a specific Tryambaka mantra given in the Yajur Veda (Black-Yajur Veda, Katha-Grhya Sutra, sloka 37) for the purpose of bringing home and supporting the spouse. The mantra is: tryambakaM yajaamahe sugandhiM patipoShaNam| urvaarukamiva bandhanaanmrtyor mukShiiya maamuShya grhebhyaH|| Please begin this from a Monday and reciting it 108 times in the morning. Best wishes, *** Visti Larsen For services and articles visit: <http://srigaruda.com> http://srigaruda.com *** _____ [] On Behalf Of icymaiden2000 31 July 2006 01:58 [Om Krishna Guru] Pls help...Marriage in trouble Dear learned friends, I am new here. My husband left me 2 months ago, for the second time. We were married in April 2001 and our daughter was born in October 2002. Shortly after that, husband left us in January 2003 and we were reunited in June/July 2005, but he was barely with me for a year and has left us again. I do not know where he is now (India/abroad). He is currently going through the first phase of sade sadi (Leo moonsign) and had lot of troubles with his career when he was with me for the last year. Our details are as follows: Self: 4 September 1965, Chennai, 8:37 pm Husband: 24 August 1968, Bhopal, 10:10 am Ours was a love marriage. Later astrologers told us that our horoscopes didn't match well and accordingly we did have problems. Please note that we were reunited the first time while his sade sati was going on (It started in September 2004 and we were reunited in June/July 2005). The second phase of his sade sati would start sometime in November this year I think. Will that be more hard on him? Will it make him realise that he is neglecting his duties towards his daughter? I am also going through ashtaka shani (Saggitarius moon sign). Can you please shed some light on why are we being separated time and again and when will be reunited again, hopefully this time forever. Thank you a lot. Newbee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2006 Report Share Posted August 2, 2006 || hare räma kåñna || Dear Vistiji, Namaskar Welcome back to the list! I hope you had a good break. You wrote: The sixth lord – Mercury, is furthermore in the fifth house which is an unwanted placement giving you an unconcious tendency to reject your husband through actions and choice of words. Could you kindly explain the principle behind this? Why does this placement affect the spouse? Is the mention of action and choice of words related to Mercury, or to a more generic result? Pranaam, Samir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2006 Report Share Posted August 2, 2006 ||Hare Rama Krsna|| Dear Samir, Namaskar Thanks, i had a good break. I have talked about this in my book. Its part of a few ‘village rules’ from the parampara. Best wishes, *** Visti Larsen For services and articles visit: <http://srigaruda.com> http://srigaruda.com *** _____ [] On Behalf Of Samir Shah 02 August 2006 09:07 RE: [Om Krishna Guru] Pls help...Marriage in trouble || hare räma kåñna || Dear Vistiji, Namaskar Welcome back to the list! I hope you had a good break. You wrote: The sixth lord – Mercury, is furthermore in the fifth house which is an unwanted placement giving you an unconcious tendency to reject your husband through actions and choice of words. Could you kindly explain the principle behind this? Why does this placement affect the spouse? Is the mention of action and choice of words related to Mercury, or to a more generic result? Pranaam, Samir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 Visti Ji Thank you very much for taking time to study my chart and for your various replies and being patient with me. Regards Newbee , "Visti Larsen" <visti wrote: > > ||Hare Rama Krsna|| > > Dear Newbee, Namaskar > > Your seventh lord is placed in the sixth house, this causes alot of > seperation between you and your partner, and being that Venus is also your > atmakaraka it becomes all the more important, and you will blame yourself > for much of the troubles in the relationship. > > The sixth lord - Mercury, is furthermore in the fifth house which is an > unwanted placement giving you an unconcious tendency to reject your husband > through actions and choice of words. This would not be a major issue had it > not been involved in a curse caused by Sun and Saturns conjunction/aspect on > Mercury. Since Mercury lords the Upapada itself we can understand that this > was the cause of a slightly delayed marriage, and is also the cause of the > marital problems in general. To remedy this you need mantra. > > > > First some more timing; > > Your navamsa will reveal the times when your husband leaves and when he > comes back. Here the focus is on the eighth house and here we have Jupiter > (childbirth/wealth) and Ketu (Growth/expansion of family). Hence during the > times of childbirth or times when major family issues arise or when > financial problems arise, your husband would be prompted to leave the home. > > The eighth lord itself is Mars who is in a parivartana with Saturn, thus > empowering them both to give the results of the eighth house and seperation > from you. > > The seventh house is lorded by Venus and will bring the spouse back home. > > Using Dvisaptati sama dasa (applicable in your chart) > > Jupiter-Mars (07/2002 - 8/2003) Your husband left you the first time. > > Venus-Venus (10/2004 - 11/2005) Your husband came back. > > Venus-Saturn (11/2005 - 01/2007) Your husband left the second time. > > He will be back after this period in Venus-Rahu, but i don't think > permanently. > > > > To remedy the soul-level problem and also any eventual health problems which > can potentially arise, you must worship Tryambakeshvara. Now, there is a > specific Tryambaka mantra given in the Yajur Veda (Black-Yajur Veda, > Katha-Grhya Sutra, sloka 37) for the purpose of bringing home and supporting > the spouse. The mantra is: > > > > tryambakaM yajaamahe sugandhiM patipoShaNam| > > urvaarukamiva bandhanaanmrtyor mukShiiya maamuShya grhebhyaH|| > > > > Please begin this from a Monday and reciting it 108 times in the morning. > > Best wishes, > > *** > > Visti Larsen > > For services and articles visit: > > <http://srigaruda.com> http://srigaruda.com > > *** > > _____ > > [] On > Behalf Of icymaiden2000 > 31 July 2006 01:58 > > [Om Krishna Guru] Pls help...Marriage in trouble > > > > Dear learned friends, > > I am new here. > > My husband left me 2 months ago, for the second time. We were > married in April 2001 and our daughter was born in October 2002. > Shortly after that, husband left us in January 2003 and we were > reunited in June/July 2005, but he was barely with me for a year and > has left us again. I do not know where he is now (India/abroad). He > is currently going through the first phase of sade sadi (Leo > moonsign) and had lot of troubles with his career when he was with > me for the last year. > > Our details are as follows: > > Self: 4 September 1965, Chennai, 8:37 pm > > Husband: 24 August 1968, Bhopal, 10:10 am > > > Ours was a love marriage. Later astrologers told us that our > horoscopes didn't match well and accordingly we did have problems. > > Please note that we were reunited the first time while his sade sati > was going on (It started in September 2004 and we were reunited in > June/July 2005). > > The second phase of his sade sati would start sometime in November > this year I think. Will that be more hard on him? Will it make him > realise that he is neglecting his duties towards his daughter? > > I am also going through ashtaka shani (Saggitarius moon sign). > > Can you please shed some light on why are we being separated time > and again and when will be reunited again, hopefully this time > forever. > > Thank you a lot. > > Newbee > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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