going thru divorce and lost my father,last month.

July 30, 2006

HI all,

I am facing lots of problems in my married life.My husband has tortured me and my daughter a lot and now i am trying to file a divorce case against him since 1 year. Though I dont want divorce but I want some financial security for my daughter and want my husabnd to kep something on my daughters name.I was ready to compromise also but my husbands sister make him go against me. I have been suffering since I got married and now after so many years of my marriage I am unable to bear all this. My parents were helping me financially and emotionally,but last month when I was coming out of the court with my father, a car hit us both and my father died.

Please tell me few remedies as I am loosing my patience. I want ot compromise with my husband but suspect he having affair with his sister as she is not letting him to come to me and there have been several other things which make me to think so.

My DOB 17 july,1968

place-mumbai

time- 9:53 pm.

my husbands- 17 january,1963

place- mumbai

time- 11:10 pm

Thnaks,

Sunjana

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July 30, 2006

Dear Sanjana,

I am sorry, but Your chart does not show divorce.

On the contrary it shows that Your marriage life should move

smoothly,if and only if You are able to handle some more time with

patience..The little torture (this is on mental side)which may be

there, can turn into compromise if You wish. And also one side You

say I have filed a divorce and other side You say I dont want a

divorce. I also notice that Your speech may be the cause of problems

in Your marriage.Its very easy to break the knot my dear, but not

easy to tie again( at this age and expect happiness from a new

realtionship if intended in future.).Please do not misunderstand Your

husband, and put on cross before having a free talk with him. I am

sure your problems would be sorted out by mutual talks, nothing else

is needed.I have also checked your husbands horoscope.Yes the problem

is more from the husbands side. He is also not having stability in

his profession.But things will work out fine. I advise You to please

postpone your decesion of divorce for at least next one year.

Within 3-6 months things will come back in place.But husband nagging

nature will never change miracoulously. It will be predominant in his

life. Either You accept or leave. Its better to accept it if You do

not want to break up your family.There does not seem to be any affair

on his side which You assume.

If You are Hindu,then please start reciting Vishnusahasranaam daily.

Regards,

Bhaskar.

, sunjana 17 <sunjana17

wrote:

>

> HI all,

> I am facing lots of problems in my married life.My husband has

tortured me and my daughter a lot and now i am trying to file a

divorce case against him since 1 year. Though I dont want divorce but

I want some financial security for my daughter and want my husabnd to

kep something on my daughters name.I was ready to compromise also but

my husbands sister make him go against me. I have been suffering

since I got married and now after so many years of my marriage I am

unable to bear all this. My parents were helping me financially and

emotionally,but last month when I was coming out of the court with my

father, a car hit us both and my father died.

> Please tell me few remedies as I am loosing my patience. I want

ot compromise with my husband but suspect he having affair with his

sister as she is not letting him to come to me and there have been

several other things which make me to think so.

> My DOB 17 july,1968

> place-mumbai

> time- 9:53 pm.

>

> my husbands- 17 january,1963

> place- mumbai

> time- 11:10 pm

> Thnaks,

> Sunjana

>

> Here's a new way to find what you're looking for - Answers

>

July 30, 2006

Dear Sanjana,

Further to my last mail I gave You, let me make clear

that though You are a very good lady, but your tolerance levels are

checked,and sweetness in speech can make wonders for You,

and acceptance of Your husband for whatever he is, is not possible

for You. See now You cant go back 15 years and check another persons

horoscope and re-marry. What is done cannot be undone. But how to go

on with these conditions ? That needs to be answered. I find You are

a loving lady to your husband, but want completeness in him in all

departments which is not possible from him with what he is .You

have to give him time and space. He has very fast changing moods

and what he may say in the morning, evening it may be different.At

the moment in Your life You are having divorce like conditions (Which

will come later too in future),but divorce is not to be seen. If You

go against nature and do it, You will be unhappy with the results. As

long as You are not being tortured physically,which I dont think,

forget it. Also nature has already given You its omen outside the

court, that this will only result in ill luck., ie.evil results.

So please excersise your loving nature and patience which you have in

abundance inherently and wait for some time.

Blessings,