FW: The 90/10 Principle (it can Change ur Life) Resending. Worth it.

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yes Saibrother Balachandran it was a variant with the same message

 

SMILES IS THE PERFECT CHOICE SINCE BETWEEN THE TWO LETTERS S WE HAVE

A MILE, TRAVERSED WITH MINIMUM TIME IN TERMS OF WORK DONE BY MUSCLES

IT SURE STRAIGHTENS AND RESOLVES IN ONLY THE LOVE WAY...

 

FOR REACTION FOLLOW THIS:

BEFORE YOU SPEAK OR ACT THINK

IS IT NECESSARY?

IS IT TRUE?

IS IT KIND?

WILL IT HURT ANYONE?

WILL IT IMPROVE UPON THE SILENCE?--

JUST A CRITICAL APPRAISAL FROM THE HEART TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF

THE ABOVE WILL HELP TIDE AND CREATE POOLS OF LOVE AND JOY

BRINGING PEACE AND HAPPINESS

PEACE IS THE STILLNESS WHICH YOU FIND WHEN U LIE QUIET AND GO

WITHIN TO REGROUP AND HAPPINESS IS THE RECHARGED AND SUFFUSED YOU

RADIATING THIS TO ONE AND ALL

 

PRACTICE IT . EACH AND EVERY PRACTICE WILL PERFECT AND MAKE THE

PROCEDURE A HABIT ONE WHICH WILL ULTIMATELY BECOME YOU

 

THANKS FOR READING THE ANSWER AND THE NOTE

YOURS-N-SHIVACONSCIOUSNESS-SAIFRATERNITY

Nayanika

 

- In , "Balachandran M"

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> The 90/10 Principle

> Author : Stephen Covey ( Management Guru)

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> Have you read this before?

> Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life

> (at least the way you react to situations). What is

> this principle?

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> 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of

> life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?

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> We really have no control over 10% of what happens to

> us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The

> plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole

> schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We

> have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is

> different. You determine the other 90%.

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> How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red

> light., but you can control your reaction. Don't let

> people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

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> Let's use an example.

> You are eating breakfast with your family. Your

> daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your

> business shirt. You have no control over what just

> what happened. What happens when the next will be

> determined by how you react.You curse. You harshly

> scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.

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> She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn

> to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup

> too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal

> battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your

> shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has

> been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready

> for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave

> immediately for work.

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> You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school.

> Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a

> 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and

> throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school.

> Your daughter runs into the building without saying

> goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late,

> you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has

> started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get

> worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When

> you arrive home, you find small wedge in your

> relationship with your spouse and daughter.

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> Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why

> did you have a bad day?

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> A) Did the coffee cause it?

> B) Did your daughter cause it?

> C) Did the policeman cause it?

> D) Did you cause it?

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> The answer is " D".

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> You had no control over what happened with the coffee.

> How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your

> bad day. Here is what could have and should have

> happened.

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> Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to

> cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to

> be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush

> upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your

> briefcase, you come back down in time to look through

> the window and see your child getting on the bus. She

> turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and

> cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how

> good the day you are having.

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> Notice the difference?

> Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both

> ended different.

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> Why? Because of how you REACTED.

> You really do not have any control over 10% of what

> happens. The other 90% was determined by your

> reaction.

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> Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.

> If someone says something negative about you, don't be

> a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass.

> You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!

> React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong

> reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired,

> getting stressed out etc.

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> How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?

> Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel?

> A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)

> Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do

> you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten

> seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your

> drive?

> Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about

> it.

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> You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get

> irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy

> and time into finding another job.The plane is late;

> it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why

> take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She

> has no control over what is going on. Use your time to

> study, get to know the other passenger.

> Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

> Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you

> will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing

> if you try it.

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> The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and

> apply this principle.

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> The result? Millions of people are suffering from

> undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache.

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> We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

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> It CAN change your life!!!

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Smile: A

> curve that can set a lot of things straight

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