Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 After reading your mail i became more depressed. do u mean to tell that i'll never have a good life? is it better to end my life here? my present relationship is really a mental torture and u are telling me that even if i get marrried again i won't have a god life? why people have only bad times in their life? i have not caused harm to anyone so far knowingly. do u atleast have an idea whether i'll become successful as a musician? please reply soon. thanks, nisha Dear Nisha, Your second marriage will be a self-arranged marriage, a love-marriage. There will not be much harmony in the second marriage also, and you will time and again feel that the first one was better. Anyway, careerwise, music and singing suits you more than computers. 2007 will be a lot better for you and you will get married again in the end of that year. Take care of your health, respiratory problems, around diwali this year. All the best, Ashutosh [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] - nisha V Thursday, 20 July, 2006 14:22 please help me find the right path Sir/Madam, My name is Nisha and I'm from Kerala India. I'm going through a bad phase in life as i'm going to split up with my husband soon. it's been one year since we got married and at the time of marriage the astros who checked our horoscopes told they match but since our married life was very bad we checked again n now astros tell they don't match. they told according to the stars my husband won't give me a good happy life and it's better to split. My query is that even if we split up will i get a good life?will i get married again to someone who will take good care of me n love me sincerely. I'm interested and talented in singing. I'm learning hindustani classical but so far i have not become successful. i've done my education in computers.. which one suits me best? my birth data is as follows: Nisha V Birth date and time : 21 / Nov / 1980 ; 6.58 am nearest city : trivandrum , kerala state thanks, Nisha How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2006 Report Share Posted July 21, 2006 Hello, Sorry to barge in. But there are so many departments in each of our lives where we cannot have complete happiness, if it is not to be meant that way.For ex.marriage , If a person does not have marriage happiness in his life, it will not be there how many times let him marry. But there are so many other sections of your life where how much any third person tries to spoil,you will still have happiness in that section, because you were meant to have happiness there. My jyotish Guru tells me that dosent matter, once You come to know about the areas of your life, where plus is there and where minus is there (Due to purva janams actions) let be, that is let stay. Dont fight with destiny. Try to improve with what You already have and find happiness there. Life is adjusting. i cannot comment on Your horoscope as I have not seen and will not see either, as already some fellow astrologer has done, I do not intend to confuse matters, or break any unwritten code of ethics, unless it is a medical urgency or grave matter. Hope for time being You will accept this and stay calm. Search for the positives in your life and enjoy. Bye and regards, Bhaskar. , nisha V <mewati80 wrote: > > After reading your mail i became more depressed. do u mean to tell that i'll never have a good life? is it better to end my life here? my present relationship is really a mental torture and u are telling me that even if i get marrried again i won't have a god life? > why people have only bad times in their life? i have not caused harm to anyone so far knowingly. do u atleast have an idea whether i'll become successful as a musician? > please reply soon. > thanks, > nisha > > > > Dear Nisha, > > Your second marriage will be a self-arranged marriage, a love- marriage. There will not be much harmony in the second marriage also, and you will time and again feel that the first one was better. > > Anyway, careerwise, music and singing suits you more than computers. 2007 will be a lot better for you and you will get married again in the end of that year. > > Take care of your health, respiratory problems, around diwali this year. > > All the best, > > Ashutosh > > [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] > > - > nisha V > > Thursday, 20 July, 2006 14:22 > please help me find the right path > > Sir/Madam, > My name is Nisha and I'm from Kerala India. I'm going through a bad phase in life as i'm going to split up with my husband soon. it's been one year since we got married and at the time of marriage the astros who checked our horoscopes told they match but since our married life was very bad we checked again n now astros tell they don't match. they told according to the stars my husband won't give me a good happy life and it's better to split. > My query is that even if we split up will i get a good life?will i get married again to someone who will take good care of me n love me sincerely. > I'm interested and talented in singing. I'm learning hindustani classical but so far i have not become successful. i've done my education in computers. which one suits me best? my birth data is as follows: > Nisha V > Birth date and time : 21 / Nov / 1980 ; 6.58 am > nearest city : trivandrum , kerala state > > thanks, > Nisha > > > How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2006 Report Share Posted July 23, 2006 Dear Nisha, The problem always lies within oneself. If someone tortures you, you must be giving him/her a ground to torture you. The one who is dominated always unconsciously seeks a dominator. Unless and untill you change your own ways of thinking and the way you allow others to perceive you, every relationship will end the same way. I have seen marriages where one partner was tortured by the other for years altogether, but the suffering partner still stuck in the marriage. Whereas, in some other marriages, the harassing one was given a clear reply by the harassed partner pn the very first day and either the torturing one started behaving normally or the marriage ended very quickly. We humans can be divided in two groups, masochists and sadists. If you are a masochist, you will unconsciously seek a sadist partner. A masochist person, even if married to a normal person, can turn him/her into a sadist, by own submissive behaviour. So, change your attitude towards life and look for a balanced relationship. It is possible to change one's nature, but extremely difficult. If you can do that, you will be happy even in the present marriage. Music is a good career for you. You will be successfull at it. All the best, Ashutosh [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] - nisha V Friday, 21 July, 2006 16:04 hi ashutosh.. After reading your mail i became more depressed. do u mean to tell that i'll never have a good life? is it better to end my life here? my present relationship is really a mental torture and u are telling me that even if i get marrried again i won't have a god life? why people have only bad times in their life? i have not caused harm to anyone so far knowingly. do u atleast have an idea whether i'll become successful as a musician? please reply soon. thanks, nisha Dear Nisha, Your second marriage will be a self-arranged marriage, a love-marriage. There will not be much harmony in the second marriage also, and you will time and again feel that the first one was better. Anyway, careerwise, music and singing suits you more than computers. 2007 will be a lot better for you and you will get married again in the end of that year. Take care of your health, respiratory problems, around diwali this year. All the best, Ashutosh [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] - nisha V Thursday, 20 July, 2006 14:22 please help me find the right path Sir/Madam, My name is Nisha and I'm from Kerala India. I'm going through a bad phase in life as i'm going to split up with my husband soon. it's been one year since we got married and at the time of marriage the astros who checked our horoscopes told they match but since our married life was very bad we checked again n now astros tell they don't match. they told according to the stars my husband won't give me a good happy life and it's better to split. My query is that even if we split up will i get a good life?will i get married again to someone who will take good care of me n love me sincerely. I'm interested and talented in singing. I'm learning hindustani classical but so far i have not become successful. i've done my education in computers. which one suits me best? my birth data is as follows: Nisha V Birth date and time : 21 / Nov / 1980 ; 6.58 am nearest city : trivandrum , kerala state thanks, Nisha How low will we go? Check out Messenger's low PC-to-Phone call rates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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