Can anyone solve my problem- Dont mix US culture with the Indian culture

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Dear Friends,

The lagna lord is debilitated in 5th house and is further aspected

by rahu.

presently lagna is being transited by saturn ,all these combinations

seem to indicate the emotional turmoil in the persns horoscope.

later this year saturn will move to his 2nd house hence aspecting

his 4th house and depleting his peace and causing sorrow to mother.

9th house of father is being transitted by rahu and later this year

rahu will enter 8th house.mars in 8th as such indicates troubles to

spouse after marriage.

I personally feel that the boy will marry against the will of

parents and suffer due to an unstable marriage.

better to avoid it by keeping the decision pending for last months

of 2007.

with regards

vikas

 

 

vedic astrology, shruti sharma

<shruti_atul_sharma wrote:

>

> It may be a norm or as you say a common sense to throw parents out

of your life in US, but in India we respect our parents like GOD and

our culture does not promote this.

> Please, dont try to mix the US culture with our Indian culture

(claiming it to be a common sense). We are extremely pround of our

Indian culture.

>

> John <jr_esq wrote:

> Namaste Parul and all,

>

> It appears that my recommendations to Kunal did not consider the

> cultural situation involved in cases like this in India. As you

may

> already know, I was brought up and schooled in the USA, and as

such I

> have adopted many of the accepted norms of the American society.

It

> was not my intention to get into a debate about the role of

parents

> in Indian society and their significance in spiritual matters.

>

> As an independent observer of the chart in question, nonetheless,

I

> still stand by the recommendations on the grounds of reason and

> common sense. I believe these grounds are universal and applicable

> to all cultures. The person involved can take these

recommendations

> at face value or reject them as he sees fit depending on the

> situation of his life.

>

> Regards,

>

> John R.

>

> vedic astrology, parul sharma <booxer999@>

> wrote:

> >

> >

> >

> > Its so strange to see that few people in this group are

> recommending him to leave his parents(who i think are against his

> marriage because he is manglik and the girl is not,which means

> because the happiness of their son). How can people tell him to

leave

> his parents,who are everything for a person. People instead of

> giving him the remedies to improve relations with his family to

find

> a solution,they are telling him to leave them.

> > Kunal, you should never ever think of leaving your parents( or

> listen to such people who dont have any regard for parents).This

> doesnt mean that you shouldn't think of that girl.You should think

of

> both,your parents and that girl also and find a solution and do

the

> remedies.

> > I hope ppl stop giving such suggestions here and should rather

> give remedies to him to strengthen the bonds with his parents, as

> parents are GOD.

> >

> >

> > John <jr_esq@> wrote: Namaste Kunal,

> >

> > Since your parents are against the marriage, it is advisable

that

> you

> > DO NOT stay with your parents. You will have to prove that you

can

> > be your own man to provide for your wife and family.

> >

> > I have not looked at your girlfriend's chart. But you have

> > kujadosha. Since you already said that she does not have

kujadosha,

> > I don't think it would matter what I say or any other jyotishi

for

> > that matter.

> >

> > Nonetheless, I still feel that you are wavering in your decision

to

> > marry this woman. My advice is that you logically think out the

> > possiblities as follows:

> >

> > 1. Do I truly love this woman?

> >

> > 2. If yes, do I have the financial means to support her and my

> > future family?

> >

> > 3. Am I prepared to live with this woman and future family

despite

> > the consequences of my parent's disapproval and present

community

> > norms?

> >

> > If you can say yes to all questions, then you should marry this

> > woman. If not, you should NOT marry this woman.

> >

> > Regards,

> >

> > John R.

> >

> > vedic astrology, kunal sharma

> > <sharma_kunal0@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Thanks for your analysis.

> > > Does my chart show any separation from my parents. I want to

stay

> > with them,but i feel my girlfriend doesnt want to stay with them.

> > > and what about i am manglik and she is not...

> > >

> > > John <jr_esq@> wrote:

> > > Namaste Kunal,

> > >

> > > You were born under the sign of Cancer with the Moon in the

> > nakshatra

> > > of Anuradha.

> > >

> > > The chart shows that you will marry your girlfriend inspite of

> the

> > > opposition from your parents or advise from your astrologer.

> > >

> > > Since you are likely to make this decision, you should

cultivate

> > and

> > > strengthen the love of your wife as the basis of your

> relationship

> > > and future family. You may need to distance yourself from your

> > > parents and those who proscribe the caste system in your

country.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > >

> > > John R.

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, kunal sharma

> > > <sharma_kunal0@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Hello all Respected Gurujis,

> > > > I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a

> girl

> > > > since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my

> > parents

> > > > are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste,

> > secondly,

> > > > i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for

a

> > civil

> > > > marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my

> > > parents

> > > > especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept

our

> > > > marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but

> > > > sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I

> do,they

> > > > are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they

> > > believe

> > > > in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our

> > > > relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch

> either

> > > my

> > > > parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot

> > tempered

> > > > person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be

> problems

> > as

> > > > well,which even my parents are fearing..

> > > > Could you please please tell me if I will get married to

this

> > girl

> > > > and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation

> with

> > my

> > > > parents improves.

> > > > my details are-

> > > > Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and

> kashmir,time-

> > > > 17:59 or 5:59 p.m

> > > >

> > > > my girlfriends details are-

> > > > Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

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