Can anyone solve my problem- Dont mix US culture with the Indian culture

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It may be a norm or as you say a common sense to throw parents out of your life in US, but in India we respect our parents like GOD and our culture does not promote this.

Please, dont try to mix the US culture with our Indian culture(claiming it to be a common sense). We are extremely pround of our Indian culture.

 

John <jr_esq > wrote:

Namaste Parul and all,

 

It appears that my recommendations to Kunal did not consider the

cultural situation involved in cases like this in India. As you may

already know, I was brought up and schooled in the USA, and as such I

have adopted many of the accepted norms of the American society. It

was not my intention to get into a debate about the role of parents

in Indian society and their significance in spiritual matters.

 

As an independent observer of the chart in question, nonetheless, I

still stand by the recommendations on the grounds of reason and

common sense. I believe these grounds are universal and applicable

to all cultures. The person involved can take these recommendations

at face value or reject them as he sees fit depending on the

situation of his life.

 

Regards,

 

John R.

 

vedic astrology, parul sharma <booxer999

wrote:

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>

>

> Its so strange to see that few people in this group are

recommending him to leave his parents(who i think are against his

marriage because he is manglik and the girl is not,which means

because the happiness of their son). How can people tell him to leave

his parents,who are everything for a person. People instead of

giving him the remedies to improve relations with his family to find

a solution,they are telling him to leave them.

> Kunal, you should never ever think of leaving your parents( or

listen to such people who dont have any regard for parents).This

doesnt mean that you shouldn't think of that girl.You should think of

both,your parents and that girl also and find a solution and do the

remedies.

> I hope ppl stop giving such suggestions here and should rather

give remedies to him to strengthen the bonds with his parents, as

parents are GOD.

>

>

> John <jr_esq wrote: Namaste Kunal,

>

> Since your parents are against the marriage, it is advisable that

you

> DO NOT stay with your parents. You will have to prove that you can

> be your own man to provide for your wife and family.

>

> I have not looked at your girlfriend's chart. But you have

> kujadosha. Since you already said that she does not have kujadosha,

> I don't think it would matter what I say or any other jyotishi for

> that matter.

>

> Nonetheless, I still feel that you are wavering in your decision to

> marry this woman. My advice is that you logically think out the

> possiblities as follows:

>

> 1. Do I truly love this woman?

>

> 2. If yes, do I have the financial means to support her and my

> future family?

>

> 3. Am I prepared to live with this woman and future family despite

> the consequences of my parent's disapproval and present community

> norms?

>

> If you can say yes to all questions, then you should marry this

> woman. If not, you should NOT marry this woman.

>

> Regards,

>

> John R.

>

> vedic astrology, kunal sharma

> <sharma_kunal0@> wrote:

> >

> > Thanks for your analysis.

> > Does my chart show any separation from my parents. I want to stay

> with them,but i feel my girlfriend doesnt want to stay with them.

> > and what about i am manglik and she is not...

> >

> > John <jr_esq@> wrote:

> > Namaste Kunal,

> >

> > You were born under the sign of Cancer with the Moon in the

> nakshatra

> > of Anuradha.

> >

> > The chart shows that you will marry your girlfriend inspite of

the

> > opposition from your parents or advise from your astrologer.

> >

> > Since you are likely to make this decision, you should cultivate

> and

> > strengthen the love of your wife as the basis of your

relationship

> > and future family. You may need to distance yourself from your

> > parents and those who proscribe the caste system in your country.

> >

> > Regards,

> >

> > John R.

> >

> > vedic astrology, kunal sharma

> > <sharma_kunal0@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Hello all Respected Gurujis,

> > > I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a

girl

> > > since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my

> parents

> > > are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste,

> secondly,

> > > i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a

> civil

> > > marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my

> > parents

> > > especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our

> > > marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but

> > > sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I

do,they

> > > are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they

> > believe

> > > in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our

> > > relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch

either

> > my

> > > parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot

> tempered

> > > person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be

problems

> as

> > > well,which even my parents are fearing..

> > > Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this

> girl

> > > and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation

with

> my

> > > parents improves.

> > > my details are-

> > > Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and

kashmir,time-

> > > 17:59 or 5:59 p.m

> > >

> > > my girlfriends details are-

> > > Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m

> > >

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