Can anyone solve my problem? (for John)

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Its so strange to see that few people in this group are recommending him to leave his parents(who i think are against his marriage because he is manglik and the girl is not,which means because the happiness of their son). How can people tell him to leave his parents,who are everything for a person. People instead of giving him the remedies to improve relations with his family to find a solution,they are telling him to leave them.

Kunal, you should never ever think of leaving your parents( or listen to such people who dont have any regard for parents).This doesnt mean that you shouldn't think of that girl.You should think of both,your parents and that girl also and find a solution and do the remedies.

I hope ppl stop giving such suggestions here and should rather give remedies to him to strengthen the bonds with his parents, as parents are GOD.

 

 

John <jr_esq > wrote: Namaste Kunal,

 

Since your parents are against the marriage, it is advisable that you

DO NOT stay with your parents. You will have to prove that you can

be your own man to provide for your wife and family.

 

I have not looked at your girlfriend's chart. But you have

kujadosha. Since you already said that she does not have kujadosha,

I don't think it would matter what I say or any other jyotishi for

that matter.

 

Nonetheless, I still feel that you are wavering in your decision to

marry this woman. My advice is that you logically think out the

possiblities as follows:

 

1. Do I truly love this woman?

 

2. If yes, do I have the financial means to support her and my

future family?

 

3. Am I prepared to live with this woman and future family despite

the consequences of my parent's disapproval and present community

norms?

 

If you can say yes to all questions, then you should marry this

woman. If not, you should NOT marry this woman.

 

Regards,

 

John R.

 

vedic astrology, kunal sharma

<sharma_kunal0 wrote:

>

> Thanks for your analysis.

> Does my chart show any separation from my parents. I want to stay

with them,but i feel my girlfriend doesnt want to stay with them.

> and what about i am manglik and she is not...

>

> John <jr_esq wrote:

> Namaste Kunal,

>

> You were born under the sign of Cancer with the Moon in the

nakshatra

> of Anuradha.

>

> The chart shows that you will marry your girlfriend inspite of the

> opposition from your parents or advise from your astrologer.

>

> Since you are likely to make this decision, you should cultivate

and

> strengthen the love of your wife as the basis of your relationship

> and future family. You may need to distance yourself from your

> parents and those who proscribe the caste system in your country.

>

> Regards,

>

> John R.

>

> vedic astrology, kunal sharma

> <sharma_kunal0@> wrote:

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> > Hello all Respected Gurujis,

> > I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl

> > since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my

parents

> > are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste,

secondly,

> > i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a

civil

> > marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my

> parents

> > especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our

> > marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but

> > sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they

> > are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they

> believe

> > in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our

> > relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either

> my

> > parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot

tempered

> > person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems

as

> > well,which even my parents are fearing..

> > Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this

girl

> > and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with

my

> > parents improves.

> > my details are-

> > Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time-

> > 17:59 or 5:59 p.m

> >

> > my girlfriends details are-

> > Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m

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