Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Hello all Respected Gurujis, I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my parents are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste, secondly, i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a civil marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my parents especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they believe in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either my parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot tempered person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems as well,which even my parents are fearing.. Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this girl and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with my parents improves. my details are- Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time- 17:59 or 5:59 p.m my girlfriends details are- Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new Click here Catch all the FIFA World Cup 2006 action on India Click here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Kunal can you post the coordinates for your girlfriend's place of birth? , kunal sharma <sharma_kunal0 wrote: > > > > Hello all Respected Gurujis, > I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl > since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my parents > are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste, secondly, > i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a civil > marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my parents > especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our > marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but > sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they > are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they believe > in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our > relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either my > parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot tempered > person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems as > well,which even my parents are fearing.. > Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this girl > and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with my > parents improves. > my details are- > Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time- > 17:59 or 5:59 p.m > > my girlfriends details are- > Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m > > > > > > > India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new Click here > Catch all the FIFA World Cup 2006 action on India Click here > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Dear Kunal, Kindly do not do this marriage becoz one reason you are manlik she is not. This is not good, The Same case is with me, I loved a girl and she loved me too. But now we know she is manglik and i m not marries her to save her life. May be some days month you get problem to adjust but see for the long term you can understand Never hurt parents other wise your children will hurt you. Make that girl friend your true friend as i did. Help her in her whole life when she wants your help See kindly sit with the girl and both of you understand the problem i hope both u r educated as we are Baki Maa Bhagwati ki Issha Ritesh Bhatia 098713-70413 kunal sharma <sharma_kunal0 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote: Hello all Respected Gurujis, I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my parents are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste, secondly, i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a civil marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my parents especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they believe in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either my parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot tempered person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems as well,which even my parents are fearing.. Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this girl and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with my parents improves. my details are- Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time- 17:59 or 5:59 p.m my girlfriends details are- Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new Click here Catch all the FIFA World Cup 2006 action on India Click here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Dear Kunal, There is nothing magical about astrology which can change your girlfriend's hot temperament or your parents' adamancy. One thing is sure that you will have to separate from your parents to live a peacefull married life if you marry the girl of your choice. Choice is yours. One more aspect about your horoscope which you should be aware of. Whomever you marry, the negative interference of your family and parents will be there, whatever you do. By performing remedies, you can change your own nature and ways of thinking, not your girlfriend's or your parents'. The best way is to end this controversy once and for all. If you are confident enough that you can lead a happy life with this girl, go and marry her against the wishes of whole world. If you are not confident yourself, and have doubts about her abilities to adjust, then you can keep on consulting astrologers for finding plausible reasons to convince 'yourself' why you should not marry her. All the best, Ashutosh [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] - kunal sharma Thursday, 06 July, 2006 23:16 Can anyone please solve my problem Hello all Respected Gurujis, I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my parents are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste, secondly, i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a civil marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my parents especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they believe in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either my parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot tempered person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems as well,which even my parents are fearing.. Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this girl and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with my parents improves. my details are- Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time- 17:59 or 5:59 p.m my girlfriends details are- Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new Click here Catch all the FIFA World Cup 2006 action on India Click here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 6, 2006 Report Share Posted July 6, 2006 Dear Ashutoshji, I really liked your response to Kunal in terms of how astrology can guide us but at the end of the day, our mind and heart must know what they want. As you have looked at Kunal's chart,would you be able to offer some guidance on what factors you used to analyze issues with parents? This is what I observed: The lord of the 7th house is Saturn - conjuct Jupiter in the 3rd house. They are disposed by Mercury, which is placed in the 8th house. And this mercury also rules 12th house - so this is a case of Vipareet Raja Yoga - success due to someone's loss? If he is successful at marrying the girl, it will be at a loss of his relationship with parents? Also, I see a strong link between the mother, father and siblings on Yuvati bhava. Father is against marriage - Sun is placed in 7th house itself. Moon is casting an aspect on Venus' house (significator of wife). Further it is disposed by Mars - which is placed in 8th house as well - conjuct Mercury, which is the disposter of 7L. Sorry I am sounding all over the place, but the main thing is all the lords and dispositors are in dushtana houses. so it shows the struggle relating to marriage. His Rahu and Ketu on the 1/7 axis both in his lagna and navamsha are indicative of issues with love life as well. In fact, I have seen this combination in several charts where the couple went through a "LOT" to be together. In Ashtavarga too, 7th house only gets 23 points - low points which again I have noticed in people with relationship problems. The connection for love marriage is there but not a direct connection between 5th and 7th lord. Could you elaborate on that? , "astrologerashutosh" <astrologerashutosh wrote: > > Dear Kunal, > > There is nothing magical about astrology which can change your girlfriend's hot temperament or your parents' adamancy. > > One thing is sure that you will have to separate from your parents to live a peacefull married life if you marry the girl of your choice. > > Choice is yours. > > One more aspect about your horoscope which you should be aware of. Whomever you marry, the negative interference of your family and parents will be there, whatever you do. > > By performing remedies, you can change your own nature and ways of thinking, not your girlfriend's or your parents'. > > The best way is to end this controversy once and for all. If you are confident enough that you can lead a happy life with this girl, go and marry her against the wishes of whole world. > > If you are not confident yourself, and have doubts about her abilities to adjust, then you can keep on consulting astrologers for finding plausible reasons to convince 'yourself' why you should not marry her. > > > All the best, > > Ashutosh > > [The services of this professional astrologer are free on this group but off-group consultations are chargeable] > > > > > - > kunal sharma > > Thursday, 06 July, 2006 23:16 > Can anyone please solve my problem > > > > > Hello all Respected Gurujis, > I am under severe depression these days. I am in love with a girl > since 7-8 years and now we both want to get married, but my parents > are against this marriage. One she is not from our caste, secondly, > i am a manglik and she is not. We are planning to go in for a civil > marriage and these days i am having lots of problems with my parents > especially my father. It may happen that they dont accept our > marriage. I sometimes dont feel like thinking about them but > sometimes feel that i am going to do wrong. What should I do,they > are not ready to accept our relationship at any cost as they believe > in astrology and someone has predicted bad about our > relationship.They say they want my happiness..I cant ditch either my > parents nor my girlfriend.My girlfriend is also a very hot tempered > person and a bit dominating,so i fear that there may be problems as > well,which even my parents are fearing.. > Could you please please tell me if I will get married to this girl > and when and all the possible remedies by which my relation with my > parents improves. > my details are- > Date of birth- 30 jan,1981,place-srinagar,jammu and kashmir,time- > 17:59 or 5:59 p.m > > my girlfriends details are- > Date of birth- 9 feb,1981,place-dhanbad,bihar,time-11:45 a.m > > > > India Answers: Share what you know. Learn something new Click here > Catch all the FIFA World Cup 2006 action on India Click here > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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