Please help me to get back my love

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Namaskar Great Astrologers,

 

My name is Rohit. My Girlfirend left me as we had a fight. It has been 2

months since we got seperated. She says that I broke her heart and she

does not trust me anymore. She says that she will neither marry me nor

will she marry anyone else. She says that she will remain unmarried

throughout her life. Can anyone tell me when we would patchup as I am

unable to live without her. Can someone please tell me when she will

come back to me?

 

My details:

R. Rohit Kumar

Dob: 22nd October 1981

Time: 3:15am

Place of Birth: Hyderabad

 

I am in great trouble and i am missing her a lot. Please help me.

 

Thanks,

 

Rohit.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Dear Rohit,

 

No one seems to have answered your letters, so I thought I

would take a stab at it and speak frankly. After reading all

your newsgroup posts and looking at your chart, I'd like to

make a few comments that might be of use to you. But first

let's do a brief review of your behavior during the last five

years:

 

-Though the families of both you and your girlfriend were

against the marriage, you ran away, secretly got married,

and her parents were forced to accept your marriage. This

secret marriage happened under your Venus/Rahu dasha

about 5 years ago, and you have Rahu with the Moon in

the 12th house of hidden affairs for a secret and sometimes

troubled emotional life. With Moon in Cancer you are very

sensitive to rejection and that's understandable, and Rahu

with the Moon can indicate occasional upsetments and inner

turbulence. You're more sensitive lately because transiting

Saturn is in the 12H with your Moon and that makes it

difficult to be objective about your own behavior and

feelings.

 

-Under your agreement with the parents on both sides,

you were supposed to get your degree and a job and then

get remarried. Since at the time, according to your own

words, you were just 20 years old and legally not eligible

for marriage, your parents came to the decision that you

could remarry after you completed your graduation. But

have you? Between June of 2004 and Feb of 2006, you

were running Venus/Jupiter, and Jupiter is the 5L of higher

education and education looked promising. Both you and

your girl friend were still living at home on the financial

expenses of your respective families because you were

not able to be together on your own.

 

-You wrote, "I have sacrificed a lot of things for my girlfriend,

including my studies and health... I also cheated and troubled

my parents a lot." The free-wheeling Venus/Jupiter period

ended in February of this year and now you are running

Venus/Saturn in your dashas, and unfortunately it looks

like certain realities have started to make themselves felt,

and it's going to have to be up to you to straighten out this

situation. You might be able to do it if you take a closer look

at your behavior and some of the questionable decisions

you've made during the last five years.

 

What I'm getting to is this:

 

If you really want to make a new start and have any chance

in this situation, you might want to start out by apologizing

to both families for making such a mess out of things. I'm

know I'm sounding direct here, but you made some agreements

with both sets of parents that you would get your degree.

This you have not done, and yet you want this marriage to

succeed even though you're not in a position to support her

or a family of your own. In other words, it looks like you let

your parents down... you let her down... and worst of all, you

let yourself down.

 

To make a fresh start, start taking responsibility for yourself

under your Venus/Saturn dasha and realize that you have

promises to keep if you want to be on your own. Your degree

and job is the magic key to be with her, if possible, or with

anyone. This means leaving her alone for now and stop

blaming her for not loving you when you haven't created

the financial means to properly support yourself or her.

You'd be better off by making a greater effort to step into

your maturity as an adult. When you complete your degree,

if you haven't done so already, she'll probably hear about it

and know that you're serious about getting your life together

and then maybe you can talk again. And your own particular

life means doing things for yourself first, not for her or your

family--but for your own satisfaction and well-being first.

That makes a man attractive to a woman. Women do not much

go for men in the long-run who sacrifice the very things that

make the relationship possible to begin with: taking care of

one's studies, one's job, one's health.

 

You also have to keep in mind that you may have to deal with

a certain amount of disappointments or delays during your

Sadhesati period. But this period is as much about completions

and emotional maturity as it is about delays. It's also possible

that you will be married more than once, the second time being

in 2010 while you are in your Venus/Mercury period and Mercury

is the 2L of your family life, with transiting Saturn passing through

the 2H as well. In the meantime, please stop blaming her for letting

you down. I truly feel that she's as disappointed as you are, but you

must make a new start by finally taking responsibility for yourself

and building your own self-confidence without leaning on anyone.

You can help this process by strengthening your Sun weak in Libra.

And if there's any unhappiness about what you are studying for your

degree, change it as soon as possible so you can find some satisfaction

in it. You can be very warm and wonderful, good with the public and

pleasing in manner. But you must apply yourself consistently and be

as interested in your own well-being as you are in your girlfriend.

Then bless the current situation for what it is, because it looks to me

that the maturity you gain from it will make your future happiness

possible with her or someone else.

 

Best wishes, Haizen Paige

 

 

 

vedic astrology, <rohit_singh wrote:

>

> Namaskar Great Astrologers,

>

> My name is Rohit. My Girlfirend left me as we had a fight. It has been 2

> months since we got seperated. She says that I broke her heart and she

> does not trust me anymore. She says that she will neither marry me nor

> will she marry anyone else. She says that she will remain unmarried

> throughout her life. Can anyone tell me when we would patchup as I am

> unable to live without her. Can someone please tell me when she will

> come back to me?

>

> My details:

> R. Rohit Kumar

> Dob: 22nd October 1981

> Time: 3:15am

> Place of Birth: Hyderabad

>

> I am in great trouble and i am missing her a lot. Please help me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Rohit.

>

>

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Describe correctly what has made her feel frustrated. Your lagna lord is

debilitated, in malefic Navamsa and Nakshatra without any benefic aspect.

 

P.Kumar

 

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<rohit_singh (AT) dell (DOT) com>

<vedic astrology>

Friday, May 19, 2006 10:01 PM

[vedic astrology] Please help me to get back my love

 

 

Namaskar Great Astrologers,

 

My name is Rohit. My Girlfirend left me as we had a fight. It has been 2

months since we got seperated. She says that I broke her heart and she

does not trust me anymore. She says that she will neither marry me nor

will she marry anyone else. She says that she will remain unmarried

throughout her life. Can anyone tell me when we would patchup as I am

unable to live without her. Can someone please tell me when she will

come back to me?

 

My details:

R. Rohit Kumar

Dob: 22nd October 1981

Time: 3:15am

Place of Birth: Hyderabad

 

I am in great trouble and i am missing her a lot. Please help me.

 

Thanks,

 

Rohit.

[Guest guest]

Dear Rohit,

YOur chart does show that the fight must have been due to an

exceedingly bad temper from your side though probably on judgemental

balance you may have been on the right side. You have a tendency to

take a very offensive profile at times and difficult for the other

person to calm you down.

Is that right?

Pran Razdan

 

vedic astrology, <rohit_singh wrote:

>

> Namaskar Great Astrologers,

>

> My name is Rohit. My Girlfirend left me as we had a fight. It has been 2

> months since we got seperated. She says that I broke her heart and she

> does not trust me anymore. She says that she will neither marry me nor

> will she marry anyone else. She says that she will remain unmarried

> throughout her life. Can anyone tell me when we would patchup as I am

> unable to live without her. Can someone please tell me when she will

> come back to me?

>

> My details:

> R. Rohit Kumar

> Dob: 22nd October 1981

> Time: 3:15am

> Place of Birth: Hyderabad

>

> I am in great trouble and i am missing her a lot. Please help me.

>

> Thanks,

>

> Rohit.

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

We had a fight and I totally lost my temper.I used harsh words towards

her and also raised my hand on her. In depression, she complained about

it to her father. So her father called me up and started scolding me. He

also started insulting my parents. I could not take this and spoke to

her father in a rude manner which led to a huge quarell. I had to use

harsh words on her father too. this made the girl angry as I insulted

her and her parents. She says that i broke her heart and she hates to

see my face. I apologized her but she is not getting convinced. I

realized my mistake and want her back.

 

Our relationship is 10 years old. As our parents were against our

marriage, both of us ran away 5 years back. But at that time i was only

20 years old and was legaly not eligible for marriage. However, our

parents had to accept for our marriage because in our community no one

would get ready to marry a girl who had ran away with someone. our

parents came to a conclusion that once i complete my studies and get a

good job, they would get us married. NOw I am done with my studies and

have been working in a reputed firm for the past 2 years. From the time

we ran away till now, me & my grilfriend used to see each other once or

twice a week and used to speak over the phone daily for hours & hours

together. 5 years back on 27th November, i also filled her maang with

sindur & tied a mangalsutra in her neck. Since then, we both used to

treat each other as Husband & Wife even tough we were unmarried for the

rest of the world. We also used to celebrate our marriage aniversary

every year. We also had a physical relationship numerous times. The girl

loved me very much but my gruesome act made her leave me. Now as she

does not carry a good reputaion in our caste & community, it is likely

that no one would come forward to marry her. Even if some one comes, it

would be only for the huge dowry amount his parents would give her. Will

such a person keep her happy? Can a husbad tolerate that his wife had a

sexual relationship with a many for 10 years before marriage?? When

asked all these questions to her, she says that to avoid such troubles,

she would remain unmarried life long but would never marry me as I

insulted her and her parents. I apologized her mare than a lakh times

but she does not even want to see my face. Now I have realized my

mistake & want her back at any cost. i cant live without her. Please

help me.

 

Thanks,

 

Rohit.

 

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vedic astrology

[vedic astrology] On Behalf Of P Kumar

Saturday, May 20, 2006 6:13 PM

vedic astrology

Re: [vedic astrology] Please help me to get back my love

 

 

Describe correctly what has made her feel frustrated. Your lagna lord is

debilitated, in malefic Navamsa and Nakshatra without any benefic

aspect.

 

P.Kumar

 

-

<rohit_singh (AT) dell (DOT) com>

<vedic astrology>

Friday, May 19, 2006 10:01 PM

[vedic astrology] Please help me to get back my love

 

 

Namaskar Great Astrologers,

 

My name is Rohit. My Girlfirend left me as we had a fight. It has been 2

months since we got seperated. She says that I broke her heart and she

does not trust me anymore. She says that she will neither marry me nor

will she marry anyone else. She says that she will remain unmarried

throughout her life. Can anyone tell me when we would patchup as I am

unable to live without her. Can someone please tell me when she will

come back to me?

 

My details:

R. Rohit Kumar

Dob: 22nd October 1981

Time: 3:15am

Place of Birth: Hyderabad

 

I am in great trouble and i am missing her a lot. Please help me.

 

Thanks,

 

Rohit.