Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 || Om Gurave Namah || Jaya Jagannatha Dear Sangetha, Namaste, This is Jyotish forum, So please provide the date, time and place of birth of yours. If you have the date,time and place of birth for your husband too then it may help more. This way members of this group, learned in Jyotish, may help you. Warm Regards Sanjay P On 4/18/06, bhola_aur_bhala <sangeethaparwani wrote: > > Dear all > > I am writing here because I need suggestions and advise regarding my > husband. We are married for over 5 years and have a daughter. After > about 1 1/2 years of marriage, my husband deserted me and my newborn > daughter because his mother and younger brother told him to do so > (because I had stopped giving all my savings to my mother in law). > We lived in different countries for 2 years thereafter. Later my > mother in law herself contacted me and got us together again (again > in the hope that now again I might give all my savings to her, but I > want to save for my daughter. I am not earning for mother in law). > Recently I had an argument with my mother in law again reg such > things and again she and my husband's younger brother have told him > to desert me and our daughter. My husband loves me and our daughter > very much, but the moment he is told him his mother and younger > brother to desert us, he will completely change and treat us very > badly, because shortly he will be leaving us for good, again. > > My husband is a typical, rather extreme case of being a mama's boy. > I don't stop him from sending his savings to his mother, but she's > not satisfied with that. She needs more and more and more and doesn't > let him even spend money on our daughter. My husband only does what > his mother and younger brother tell him to do. He doesn't use his > own brains, which he accepts too. We, husband and wife, make some > vital decisions in life, he will agree with it whole-heartedly, and > then he will discuss it with his mother and younger brother and will > only do what they say. Most often, he will not do as per our decision > and will even do what we decided not to do, just because his mother > and younger brother told him to do so. Again I repeat, I don't ever > stop him from doing his responsibilities towards his mother, but they > interfere in eery single decision in our life, although we live in a > different country. I dread his calls to his mother and younger > brother, because I know they will change the course of my life with > just one word from them. My husband will not even think whether what > they say is correct or wrong, but just act on it. > > Does anyone know how can I get my husband out of the control of these > people and get him to use his own brains. He treats me and my > daughter like a doormat and gives complete priority only to his > mother and younger brother (who is financially very well settled). > Although we live together (me, husband and daughter) and his mother > and brother live elsewhere, they rule his life - they both know they > can get him to do anything they want - the moment they tell him to > leave us again, he will - which they have already told and he is > planning to leave us in a month's time. > > Is there any vashikaran mantra or anything else by which my husband > will not leave us and go and will not blindly listen to his people > (at least where our married life is concerened), but use his own > judgement. He is not at all hesitating to leave our daughter, > although he loves her very much. > > Thanks for your guidance and suggestions. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 || Om Gurave Namah || Namaste Sangeetha, Below is your chart given. The reasons for marital trouble in your charts 1. The Venus is atmakaaraka, And Lord 7th bhaava. Both indicates that this life the prime life lessons will come from Spouce. 2. Mother-In-Law not favourable to marriage. The UL is in Gemini and Moon is 7th from UL indicating that Mother-in-law is a maraka (trouble) for marriage. Moon is also the 2nd lord from UL agrevating the fact The current dasa you are running is Venus Dasa (As shown below). Ven: 2004-10-09 (10:58:11) - 2013-10-09 (18:18:40) This dasa is hence activating problem of Venus being the atmakaaraka. The Solution is Ishta devata which is indicated by Moon. So worship of Krishna(For moon) everyday is best solution for you. Keep images of krishna and recite mantra. Recite mantra like "Om Kliim Krishnaaya namah". you can recite any number of times. Recite songs of krishna you may like. Also recite nine akshari devi mantra(for moon). "Om Aim Hriim Kliim chaamundaayai vicchai" every day. (Atleast one maaala-108) Other remedy you can do is, If possible fast on Wednesdays and Worship Jupiter incarnation Vaamana deva with mantra "Om namobhagavate trivikramaaya" This mantra will help Jupiter on UL and help you over come your difficulties. Warm Regards Sanjay P Dwi-saptati sama dasa (applicable if lagna lord is in 7th or 7th lord is in lagna): Maha Dasas: Sun: 1959-10-09 (22:06:40) - 1968-10-09 (5:33:25) Moon: 1968-10-09 (5:33:25) - 1977-10-09 (12:48:31) Mars: 1977-10-09 (12:48:31) - 1986-10-09 (20:10:24) Merc: 1986-10-09 (20:10:24) - 1995-10-10 (3:40:45) Jup: 1995-10-10 (3:40:45) - 2004-10-09 (10:58:11) Ven: 2004-10-09 (10:58:11) - 2013-10-09 (18:18:40) Sat: 2013-10-09 (18:18:40) - 2022-10-10 (1:38:13) Rah: 2022-10-10 (1:38:13) - 2031-10-10 (9:11:05) sangeeta Natal Chart September 4, 1965 Time: 20:37:00 Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT) Place: 80 E 17' 00", 13 N 05' 00" Chennai, India Altitude: 0.00 meters Lunar Yr-Mo: Viswa-vasu - Bhadrapada Tithi: Sukla Dasami (Mo) (81.19% left) Vedic Weekday: Saturday (Sa) Nakshatra: Moola (Ke) (34.38% left) Yoga: Ayushman (Ke) (95.68% left) Karana: Taitula (Me) (62.39% left) Hora Lord: Saturn (5 min sign: Le) Mahakala Hora: Saturn (5 min sign: Ge) Kaala Lord: Jupiter (Mahakala: Jupiter) Sunrise: 5:57:49 Sunset: 18:17:23 Janma Ghatis: 36.6329 Ayanamsa: 23-22-23.42 Sidereal Time: 19:22:14 Body Longitude Nakshatra Pada Rasi Navamsa Lagna 1 Ar 14' 17.07" Aswi 1 Ar Ar Sun - BK 18 Le 29' 34.39" PPha 2 Le Vi Moon - PK 8 Sg 44' 58.47" Mool 3 Sg Ge Mars - MK 16 Li 23' 30.24" Swat 3 Li Aq Mercury - DK 0 Le 45' 15.81" Magh 1 Le Ar Jupiter - GK 4 Ge 47' 36.96" Mrig 4 Ge Sc Venus - AK 25 Vi 47' 06.22" Chit 1 Vi Le Saturn ® - AmK 20 Aq 35' 57.85" PBha 1 Aq Ar Rahu - PiK 15 Ta 32' 30.71" Rohi 2 Ta Ta Ketu 15 Sc 32' 30.71" Anu 4 Sc Sc Maandi 5 Ta 04' 46.18" Krit 3 Ta Aq Gulika 5 Ta 04' 46.18" Krit 3 Ta Aq Bhava Lagna 27 Pi 41' 55.02" Reva 4 Pi Pi Hora Lagna 7 Sc 29' 45.92" Anu 2 Sc Vi Ghati Lagna 6 Vi 53' 18.61" UPha 4 Vi Pi Vighati Lagna 3 Sc 51' 02.10" Anu 1 Sc Le Varnada Lagna 1 Cn 14' 17.07" Aswi 1 Cn Vi Sree Lagna 27 Sc 28' 35.80" Jye 4 Sc Pi Pranapada Lagna 4 Cn 26' 32.37" Push 1 Cn Le Indu Lagna 8 Pi 44' 58.47" UBha 2 Pi Vi Dhooma 1 Cp 49' 34.39" USha 2 Cp Cp Vyatipata 28 Ge 10' 25.61" Puna 3 Ge Ge Parivesha 28 Sg 10' 25.61" USha 1 Sg Sg Indra Chapa 1 Cn 49' 34.39" Puna 4 Cn Cn Upaketu 18 Cn 29' 34.39" Asre 1 Cn Sg Kaala 26 Ge 38' 20.41" Puna 2 Ge Ta Mrityu 7 Le 23' 06.11" Magh 3 Le Ge Artha Prahara 2 Pi 25' 35.82" PBha 4 Pi Cn Yama Ghantaka 28 Pi 48' 18.41" Reva 4 Pi Pi Prana Sphuta 11 Ta 16' 11.53" Rohi 1 Ta Ar Deha Sphuta 15 Sc 04' 33.95" Anu 4 Sc Sc Mrityu Sphuta 24 Ar 02' 57.68" Bhar 4 Ar Sc Sookshma TriSphuta 20 Cp 23' 43.16" Srav 4 Cp Cn TriSphuta 15 Cp 04' 01.72" Srav 2 Cp Ta ChatusSphuta 3 Ge 33' 36.11" Mrig 4 Ge Sc PanchaSphuta 19 Cn 06' 06.82" Asre 1 Cn Sg Kunda 10 Cn 17' 02.65" Push 3 Cn Li +--------------+ | |As |Ra Md |Ju | | | |Gk | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |-----------+-----------------------+-----------| |SaR | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |-----------| Rasi |-----------| |AL | |Su Me | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |-----------+-----------------------+-----------| |Mo |Ke HL |Ma |Ve GL | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | +--------------+ +--------------+ |GL |As Me |Ra |Mo | | |SaR | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |-----------+-----------------------+-----------| |Ma Md | | | |Gk | | | | | | | | | | | | | Navamsa | | |-----------| |-----------| | | D-9 |Ve | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |-----------+-----------------------+-----------| |AL |Ju Ke | |Su HL | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | +--------------+ Vimsottari Dasa (started from Moon): Ket Ket 1961-01-28 Ven 1961-06-27 Sun 1962-08-29 Moon 1963-01-02 Mars 1963-08-04 Rah 1963-12-30 Jup 1965-01-16 Sat 1965-12-24 Merc 1967-02-01 Ven Ven 1968-01-29 Sun 1971-05-30 Moon 1972-05-29 Mars 1974-01-28 Rah 1975-03-29 Jup 1978-03-29 Sat 1980-11-30 Merc 1984-01-29 Ket 1986-12-01 Sun Sun 1988-01-29 Moon 1988-05-17 Mars 1988-11-18 Rah 1989-03-23 Jup 1990-02-15 Sat 1990-12-07 Merc 1991-11-19 Ket 1992-09-25 Ven 1993-01-28 Moon Moon 1994-01-28 Mars 1994-12-01 Rah 1995-07-01 Jup 1996-12-30 Sat 1998-04-29 Merc 1999-12-01 Ket 2001-04-29 Ven 2001-12-01 Sun 2003-08-01 Mars Mars 2004-01-29 Rah 2004-06-27 Jup 2005-07-16 Sat 2006-06-21 Merc 2007-08-01 Ket 2008-07-28 Ven 2008-12-24 Sun 2010-02-21 Moon 2010-06-30 Rah Rah 2011-01-29 Jup 2013-10-14 Sat 2016-03-05 Merc 2019-01-11 Ket 2021-08-01 Ven 2022-08-20 Sun 2025-08-20 Moon 2026-07-13 Mars 2028-01-12 Jup Jup 2029-01-28 Sat 2031-03-18 Merc 2033-10-02 Ket 2036-01-06 Ven 2036-12-12 Sun 2039-08-14 Moon 2040-05-30 Mars 2041-10-02 Rah 2042-09-07 Sat Sat 2045-01-29 Merc 2048-02-01 Ket 2050-10-14 Ven 2051-11-23 Sun 2055-01-20 Moon 2056-01-03 Mars 2057-08-04 Rah 2058-09-14 Jup 2061-07-19 Merc Merc 2064-01-29 Ket 2066-06-28 Ven 2067-06-25 Sun 2070-04-23 Moon 2071-02-28 Mars 2072-08-01 Rah 2073-07-29 Jup 2076-02-13 Sat 2078-05-21 On 4/18/06, bhola_aur_bhala <sangeethaparwani wrote: > > My details: > > DOB: 4 September 1965, Chennai, 8:37 pm > Husband: 24 August 1968, Bhopal, 10:10 am > > I look forward to hear from the learned astrologers with helpful > suggestions/remedies/mantras. > > Thank you. > > vedic astrology, "Sanjay Prabhakaran" > > <sanjaychettiar wrote: > > > > || Om Gurave Namah || > > Jaya Jagannatha > > Dear Sangetha, > > Namaste, This is Jyotish forum, So please provide the date, time > and place > > of birth of yours. If you have the date,time and place of birth for > your > > husband too then it may help more. This way members of this group, > learned > > in Jyotish, may help you. > > > > Warm Regards > > Sanjay P > > > > > > On 4/18/06, bhola_aur_bhala <sangeethaparwani wrote: > > > > > > Dear all > > > > > > I am writing here because I need suggestions and advise regarding > my > > > husband. We are married for over 5 years and have a daughter. > After > > > about 1 1/2 years of marriage, my husband deserted me and my > newborn > > > daughter because his mother and younger brother told him to do so > > > (because I had stopped giving all my savings to my mother in law). > > > We lived in different countries for 2 years thereafter. Later my > > > mother in law herself contacted me and got us together again > (again > > > in the hope that now again I might give all my savings to her, > but I > > > want to save for my daughter. I am not earning for mother in law). > > > Recently I had an argument with my mother in law again reg such > > > things and again she and my husband's younger brother have told > him > > > to desert me and our daughter. My husband loves me and our > daughter > > > very much, but the moment he is told him his mother and younger > > > brother to desert us, he will completely change and treat us very > > > badly, because shortly he will be leaving us for good, again. > > > > > > My husband is a typical, rather extreme case of being a mama's > boy. > > > I don't stop him from sending his savings to his mother, but she's > > > not satisfied with that. She needs more and more and more and > doesn't > > > let him even spend money on our daughter. My husband only does > what > > > his mother and younger brother tell him to do. He doesn't use his > > > own brains, which he accepts too. We, husband and wife, make some > > > vital decisions in life, he will agree with it whole-heartedly, > and > > > then he will discuss it with his mother and younger brother and > will > > > only do what they say. Most often, he will not do as per our > decision > > > and will even do what we decided not to do, just because his > mother > > > and younger brother told him to do so. Again I repeat, I don't > ever > > > stop him from doing his responsibilities towards his mother, but > they > > > interfere in eery single decision in our life, although we live > in a > > > different country. I dread his calls to his mother and younger > > > brother, because I know they will change the course of my life > with > > > just one word from them. My husband will not even think whether > what > > > they say is correct or wrong, but just act on it. > > > > > > Does anyone know how can I get my husband out of the control of > these > > > people and get him to use his own brains. He treats me and my > > > daughter like a doormat and gives complete priority only to his > > > mother and younger brother (who is financially very well settled). > > > Although we live together (me, husband and daughter) and his > mother > > > and brother live elsewhere, they rule his life - they both know > they > > > can get him to do anything they want - the moment they tell him to > > > leave us again, he will - which they have already told and he is > > > planning to leave us in a month's time. > > > > > > Is there any vashikaran mantra or anything else by which my > husband > > > will not leave us and go and will not blindly listen to his people > > > (at least where our married life is concerened), but use his own > > > judgement. He is not at all hesitating to leave our daughter, > > > although he loves her very much. > > > > > > Thanks for your guidance and suggestions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ....... 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Guest guest Posted April 18, 2006 Report Share Posted April 18, 2006 Hare Krishna Dear Good lady and wife, I'm sorry to hear the suffering you are going through trying to keep your family together. God helps those who help themselves. You are a good wife/person trying to save this marriage and situation. I dont know if it is possible though, both of you have some serious afflictions to your house of marriage, but it is good you try the remedies given by Sanjay P. I want to add that you should document whatever is happening- especially if he ever hits you or anyone threatens you, and write it in a journal and leave it always with someone you can trust, so that if this trouble making and envious mother in law tries anything serious it is documented. Do not trust her and stay away from her.Some people will do anything, to get what they want. Your husband is starting a dasa of Mars, so could be situation gets worse. ( I could be wrong . hopefully i am, but i want you to be smart, and intelligent and take measures to protect and think ahead). Of course it makes a difference where you live-country etc, and what kind of help you can take and get. I can tell you even if you gave the mother inlaw all your money it wouldnt satisfy her.be smart and careful. I pray your husband realizes he needs to take care of his new family. Best wishes, Lakshmi vedic astrology, "bhola_aur_bhala" <sangeethaparwani wrote: > > My details: > > DOB: 4 September 1965, Chennai, 8:37 pm > Husband: 24 August 1968, Bhopal, 10:10 am > > I look forward to hear from the learned astrologers with helpful > suggestions/remedies/mantras. > > Thank you. > > vedic astrology, "Sanjay Prabhakaran" > <sanjaychettiar@> wrote: > > > > || Om Gurave Namah || > > Jaya Jagannatha > > Dear Sangetha, > > Namaste, This is Jyotish forum, So please provide the date, time > and place > > of birth of yours. If you have the date,time and place of birth for > your > > husband too then it may help more. This way members of this group, > learned > > in Jyotish, may help you. > > > > Warm Regards > > Sanjay P > > > > > > On 4/18/06, bhola_aur_bhala <sangeethaparwani@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear all > > > > > > I am writing here because I need suggestions and advise regarding > my > > > husband. We are married for over 5 years and have a daughter. > After > > > about 1 1/2 years of marriage, my husband deserted me and my > newborn > > > daughter because his mother and younger brother told him to do so > > > (because I had stopped giving all my savings to my mother in law). > > > We lived in different countries for 2 years thereafter. Later my > > > mother in law herself contacted me and got us together again > (again > > > in the hope that now again I might give all my savings to her, > but I > > > want to save for my daughter. I am not earning for mother in law). > > > Recently I had an argument with my mother in law again reg such > > > things and again she and my husband's younger brother have told > him > > > to desert me and our daughter. My husband loves me and our > daughter > > > very much, but the moment he is told him his mother and younger > > > brother to desert us, he will completely change and treat us very > > > badly, because shortly he will be leaving us for good, again. > > > > > > My husband is a typical, rather extreme case of being a mama's > boy. > > > I don't stop him from sending his savings to his mother, but she's > > > not satisfied with that. She needs more and more and more and > doesn't > > > let him even spend money on our daughter. My husband only does > what > > > his mother and younger brother tell him to do. He doesn't use his > > > own brains, which he accepts too. We, husband and wife, make some > > > vital decisions in life, he will agree with it whole- heartedly, > and > > > then he will discuss it with his mother and younger brother and > will > > > only do what they say. Most often, he will not do as per our > decision > > > and will even do what we decided not to do, just because his > mother > > > and younger brother told him to do so. Again I repeat, I don't > ever > > > stop him from doing his responsibilities towards his mother, but > they > > > interfere in eery single decision in our life, although we live > in a > > > different country. I dread his calls to his mother and younger > > > brother, because I know they will change the course of my life > with > > > just one word from them. My husband will not even think whether > what > > > they say is correct or wrong, but just act on it. > > > > > > Does anyone know how can I get my husband out of the control of > these > > > people and get him to use his own brains. He treats me and my > > > daughter like a doormat and gives complete priority only to his > > > mother and younger brother (who is financially very well settled). > > > Although we live together (me, husband and daughter) and his > mother > > > and brother live elsewhere, they rule his life - they both know > they > > > can get him to do anything they want - the moment they tell him to > > > leave us again, he will - which they have already told and he is > > > planning to leave us in a month's time. > > > > > > Is there any vashikaran mantra or anything else by which my > husband > > > will not leave us and go and will not blindly listen to his people > > > (at least where our married life is concerened), but use his own > > > judgement. He is not at all hesitating to leave our daughter, > > > although he loves her very much. > > > > > > Thanks for your guidance and suggestions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 Dear Sanjay and Lakshmi Ji Thank you very much for your kind replies and remedies. Sanjay Ji, you mention that I am running Venus dasha since Sept/oct 2004 which is causing problems. But then, we were separated in May 2003 and we got back together in June 2005, while the Venus dasha was going on. Also my husband is running Sade Sati at present and there is one more year of the first cycle to be finished. Could this be a reason. As per Sade Sati he is having a lot of problems with his job. Maybe Shani Devta is punishing him because he's not ready to take his responsibilities, especially of his daughter. Sanjay Ji, I am a full time working mom and even now I have to take complete care of my daughter (even while husband lives with us). Is it ok if I say those mantras while I am cooking, on days when I won't have time to sit and say them. Should I do all three remedies, or would you suggest any 1 or 2 in particular. Lakshmi Ji, you are correct, even if gave all my money to my MIL, she will never be satisfied. I have to mention here that my borther-in- law is an even bigger enemy of our happy married life than his mother. He himself is not yet married (but is planning to get married this year), but is bent on breaking our happiness. I really hope and pray there should be a miracle and my husband shoudl not leave me and our daughter alone in a foreign country. Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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