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Dear List

members, Namaskar

This is

what i answered in a mail to Vijay Kumar, about matching recently. This was on

the ‘’ list.

See my

comments to Vijays questions in [visti].

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font-family:Tahoma;font-weight:bold">Vijay Kumar

[v_kumar (AT) cdotb (DOT) ernet.in]

08 December 2005 13:03

Visti Larsen

Upapada

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Dear Sh. Visti,

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I am

trying to send this mail since 2 days to the list but in vain as it is

bouncing, hence am sending on your

personal

mail id.

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font-style:italic">[Visti] I checked your status, but don’t see why you

are bouncing, though it does indicate that you are. I have given you

‘unmoderated’ status on the list now, so there should be no

problem.

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Thanks for a lot of

wisdom shared to the group. I have the request to guide me for the

following matters and oblige.

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font-style:italic">[Visti] Your welcome.

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01. For a

person to finalise the match for marriage out of many proposals in hand,

what considerations should be

observed in

terms of the mutual placement of Upapada of the proposed match ?

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font-style:italic">[Visti] Upapada matching is a different scenario. This shows

WHO you consider as your spouse. If you do not consider your partner as a

spouse, then you will not marry.

font-style:italic">Here it is important to differentiate between two types of

marriage first: Arranged marriages and Love marriages. The difference here is

in ‘who is choosing the spouse’. If you let someone else choose for

you, then it is considered an arranged marriage. If the decision is not out of

love, we consider this an arranged marriage. In such cases the Upapadas of the

couple will match each other, i.e. both upapadas could be in Taurus. These do

not have to match each others lagna.

font-style:italic">In love marriages, or those of self-choice, the upapada of

the spouse should match your lagna, and vice versa. Then one will consider that

person as a spouse and the marriage can happen, otherwise not and the match

should not be advised.

font-style:italic">A big dilemma among those who have practiced this is, that

it can be difficult to know whether the native is in their first, second,

third, etc relationship and what is the scenario? This takes some practice.

Upapada matching is a must.

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02. To what

extent, do you find kuta matching pertinent in your experience?

Should that be the main criterion for

marriage alliance decision Vs Upapada placement ?

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font-style:italic">[Visti] The point system of matching does not give a clear

idea of the matching, as some of the matching techniques need not be applied

initially like Yoni or Vaishya matching, which only have a very temporary

function or are limited to the conjugal life. Married life doesn’t limit

itself to the bedroom alone! The Matching techniques applied from the Moon and

its nakshatra are more indicative of the families/communities of the bride and

groom, as well as the health and karmic indications. Here it should be

mentioned, that matching of characters (especially Gana matching) should be

done from lagna instead of Moon. This is also useful in predictions from the

natal chart alone, i.e. if a native has a Sattvic planet in lagna, then they

are deva gana by nature, but if their Janmanakshatra is in a Rakshasa Gana

nakshatra, then the native will be shunned by their family, and also very

different from it by nature. Your family and your personality may not be the

same.

font-style:italic">Rajiu and Vedha matching should always be applied without

fail as it not only shows the ability of one partner to protect the other, but

remedies based on the relationship as well. Gotra and Varna matching need not be applied unless the

couple will be working together. In this way each of the techniques should be

understood first, and not just used as a point system.

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03. I have yet

not understood how to observe Rasi (Bha) Kuta in matching scnerio. There are

many conflicting rules

in

various texts. Kindly guide me to the underlying principle in it.

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font-style:italic">[Visti] This type of Kuta matching is interesting.

Stri-Dirgha and Rashi kuta are similar, where the Rashi kuta has some

pecularity. The stri-dirgha technique is to see whether the brides Moon

is in the bright half or dark half from the grooms moon. I.e. if the grooms

moon is in Taurus, then the brides Moon is well placed, if in the signs between

Taurus and Scorpio (Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra and Scorpio).

This is based on the principle of the bright and dark fortnights of the Moon.

font-style:italic">This technique shows how much support is available from the

grooms family/community, to support the bride. Since the bride used to leave

her family to join the husbands, the support available for her is seen using

this technique. Lack of support can give family disputes, monetary problems and

etc. In todays world the husband may not be the sole benefactor in the family,

hence this technique should be understood like this also. In many cases the

brides family is a greater support to the relationship than the grooms. More

below.

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04. In

Nadi kuta, the matching is done as usual by nakshatra classification.

Some texts also tabulate nadis by

nakshatra padas. Here again, there is a lot of confusion whether the

classification against nakshatra pada

finally dictate ?

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font-style:italic">[Visti] I was not taught Nadi/Bhuta matching, but i was told

that this relates to genetics and health. I don’t think this can be

substituted for other matchings.

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05. Can the Gana

Kuta dosha be neglected in case of Graha-maitri and Nadi's are

matched. I have observed that

many texts agree to almost agree to ignore most of the

doshas if Graha-maitri and Nadi's are matched. Kindly

guide.

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font-style:italic">[Visti] Graha Maitri: If the panchada sambandha (of

the dispositors of moon signs - shubhapati) is inauspicious, then surely the

bad effects of the Stri-dirgha and Rashi kuta will manifest. Because the graha

maitri shows the actual relationship between the bride and groom, this is of

absolute importance!

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06.

Finally, below is the birth details of a girl.

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Dr. Neelanjana Saxena

18-08-1978

03:26 Hrs IST

Allahabad [81E51, 25N26], India

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Kindly indicate the rough estimate of marriage timing and oblige.

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font-style:italic">[Visti] This girl is on her first upapada. It will be an

arranged marriage, due to the aspects of eighth lords on the upapada. The

current time is looking very strong for marriage, and i believe she could

finalize very soon, i.e. within the next year, based on the dasas. The transit

of Jupiter into Scorpio after next summer should be planned as the marriage

time. Advise the girl to fast on Fridays and perform Rudrabhisheka to bring the

marriage quicker.

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Thanks

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Vijay Kumar

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