2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'? ....> Mark Kincaid 4/29

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Dear Mark,

My rising sign is taurus.

Thanks,

Ashok

I was just wondering if you could look into my chart and give me some advice as

to how my relationships are going to be!

Dear Mark:

Knowing your rising sign will really make a difference because I can see both

blessings & frustrations, in your Taurus rising chart.

First of all, the good news. Venus in Taurus, in the 1st house is extremely

good for all relationships in general, and because Venus also aspects the 7th

house of partnerships, therefore this too, is very beneficial.

However, even with that good Venus in the Taurus rising, the intense

conglomeration of Astrological qualities, of your 'Mars, Jupiter, Saturn &

Rahu, all in Leo', in your 4th house, fully aspects your 7th house, too, due to

Mars' fourth house aspect, from there.

First of all, Mars is kuja dosha there, which means you have both Venus & Mars,

the two extremes of realitionship energy, simultaneously aspecting the 7th.

This is both good and bad.

You'll therefore have a good inclination, and best of intentions due to Venus,

but, your Mars, represents an element where you'll either be, too Marish, in

relationships, and/or attract potential partners that are too Marish.

The solution is to understand this, and then, do something, anything really, to

minimize that tendency to be too Marish.

Traditionally, Jyotish says things like marry another kuja dosha person, etc.

but I find this sometimes, makes the Mars' drama, even more intense.

Though I understand the reasoning because when another person has the same

challenge, then, they tend not to blame the other person, because they already

can know, sometimes, that this is their challenge too.

The real solution, however, is for both people to learn to de-maximize their too

Marish energy, especially where it concerns members of the opposite sex, or

partners.

Also, your chart, shows that you should look for someone, who also has a very

good Venus, and someone who will help you unravel all that somewhat intense

'Leo' side to yourself...

Does any of this make sense?

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Wed, 27 Apr 2005 15:33:28 -0700 (PDT)

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com>

Re: 2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'?

.....> Mark Kincaid 4/27

Dear Mark,

My rising sign is taurus.

Thanks,

Ashok

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Dear Mark,

Sorry to bother you again. But we decided against the relationship as it was

leading nowhere and we had a lot of things which was not common.

I was just wondering if you could look into my chart and give me some advice as

to how my relationships are going to be!

Thanks again,

Ashok

Dear Ashok:

Glad to hear it! I'll look at your chart, however, I'm not sure of your rising sign?

I have a Cancer rising? Do you know?

More later...

Mark Kincaid

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Sat, 16 Apr 2005 20:38:38 -0700 (PDT)

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com>

Re: 2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'?

.....> Mark Kincaid 4/9

Dear Mark,

Sorry to bother you again. But we decided against the relationship as it was

leading nowhere and we had a lot of things which was not common.

I was just wondering if you could look into my chart and give me some advice as

to how my relationships are going to be!

Thanks again,

Ashok

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Congrats!

Mark

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Sat, 9 Apr 2005 18:46:52 -0700 (PDT)

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com>

Re: 2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'?

.....> Mark Kincaid 4/9

Thanks for your answers Mark! You have hit the nail on the head! I will take

some time and think about the relationship.

Thanks again.

Ashok

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Dear Ashok:

What is your girlfriends' rising sign or Ascendent?

Till I get that, I will say one thing about your concerns.

See below:

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Tue, 5 Apr 2005 18:10:59 -0700 (PDT)

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com>

Re: 2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'?

.....> Mark Kincaid 4/3

Dear Mark,

Your details are correct. I am in love with this girl and would like to marry her.

This is the first thing that alerts me. When you say this, inspite of the fact that you only

know here for just 2 months, this is a kind of red flag.

We should take an attitude of getting to know people, and Vedic science says, we should

even go through 4 seasons in the courting and pre-marital, stage.

This pressure to be with someone in the beginning is an undue pressure and strains all

the realities of the situation.

If she's really healthy for you, this wouldn't be so difficult!

She thinks that this is not going to happen and our relationship is going to

end. I know her for a just 2 months now. She feels that I will be hurt if our

relationship continues and anything untoward happens later say like she leaving

me for someone else.

Her attitude especially doesn't sound positive enough to guarantee a happy and success union.

It's hard enough between 2 individuals who both want to work on the relationship and all

the challenges and problems that we all face in life.

I am not sure how to convince her.

I wouldn't try and convince her! If she can't see your value, I'd look for someone else.

Instead I'd focus on you, better understanding that which would be more healthy for yourself.

As you become clearer as to what's going on in your chart, especially related to

relationships then you'll find yourself, conjuring up much better candidates!

Her date of birth is 08-June-1988. Her name is Amber Cole. She has lots of goals

and I would like her to achieve them.

First way in which you can help her achieve her goals, is to get out of her way and not resist

her inclination to not be in a relationship with you.

please guide us thro this period.

If she has any inclination to work with you on this, then, that would be

different, then we could talk about the realities of the two of your charts.

Jyotish has so many wonderful insights in our charts, especially related to

'relationships' and marriage.

You should study a little bit what compatibility and especially what challenges

are in your own chart.

This would be the best way for you to attract a more ideal mate!

Thanking you.

Ashok

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

ps... You have some very good things in your chart, from an Exalted Sun to a very good Venus,

you'll find another!

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Okay, I'll try.

Should be good for me to get more familiar with such things as time zones and

day light savings, in India.

It's so big, I've tended to resist it, hehe.

Okay, your date of birth, info. is:

Name: Ashok Subbarama

DoB: 23-Apr-1980 06:23 AM

PoB: Ponneri, TamilNadu, India

Ponneri 13.2 N 80.15 E

Can you verify for me, your time zone and whether there was day light savings on your dob?

I have 5 time zone, and daylight savings since 1945?

Is this correct?

Please then, put in your own words what you're going through when you say: your life is at

a crossroads. Also describe the challenges you're going through with your girlfriend.

Also, do you know her date of birth info?

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

Don't forget to check out my , and join for Jyotish research at:

JoeTischResearchProject/

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Sun, 3 Apr 2005 16:41:11 -0700 (PDT)

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com>

Re: 2-Ashok:, re....Relationship question and 'life at crossroads'?

.....> Mark Kincaid 4/3

Thanks Mark.

I have never done any charts. I dont what my rising sign is.

Hope you will help.

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Dear Markl,

I desperately seek advice. My life is at crossroads. I am deeply in love with a

girl and want to marry her. I am not sure where this is going to lead.

Dear Ashok:

I'd be very happy to help you.

I'd like to invite you to participate in a Jyotish research project if you'd like.

I know that Jyotish has much to teach us regarding all aspects of our lives, including

our relationship lives.

Have you had many charts done before?

Do you know your chart?

Please also include details of her chart, too.

We should be able to see the dynamics of why you're both going through what you're going through.

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

Check out my , for Jyotish research at:

JoeTischResearchProject/

Also, tell me what your rising sign is?

ashok sharma <pensharma >

Sun, 3 Apr 2005 15:30:31 -0700 (PDT)

m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com

Re: [vedic astrology] 2-Pavan:, re.... Kuja dosha and delays in

marriage... & chart....> Mark Kincaid 4/3

Dear Marc,

I desperately seek advice. My life is at crossroads. I am deeply in love with a

girl and want to marry her. I am not sure where this is going to lead.

Name: Ashok Subbarama

DoB: 23-Apr-1980 06:23 AM

PoB: Ponneri, TamilNadu, India

Ponneri 13.2 N 80.15 E

Kindly advice.

Thanks,

Ashok

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid (AT) mchsi (DOT) com> wrote:

Dear Pavan:

See below:

"bpavan2k1" <bpavan2k1 >

vedic astrology

Sat, 02 Apr 2005 11:37:27 -0000

vedic astrology

Re: [vedic astrology] Re: 2-Bpavan:, re.... Kuja dosha and delays in marriage...

Dear Mark ..

thanks for that reply .. My DOB details are as follows.

DOB : 02/28/1980

Time : 12:20 PM

What are benefic and malefic planets in my horoscope?

The main benefics are:

Venus, because it's Exalted, in your chart.

Moon in Cancer, because it's in it's Own sign...

and

Sun and Mercury may represent some positive qualites, because Sun's the lord of the 4th,

in the 10th and Mercury's lord of the 5th, in the 10th.... both of which are positive lordships.

Malefics:

Mars & Rahu, both in the 4th house and close to Jupiter, may represent some of the malefic

energy in your chart.

Also, Saturn in Virgo, in the 11th, aspecting all important 11th house, may act

slightly malefically for you.

The best way to figure out whether a planet's 'acting' malefically, is....

whether the positive or negative sides to it's nature are going on...

How wil Rahu,

Mars and Jupiter being together will effect(in 4th house) ?

Mars & Jupiter can be positive or negative together.

If Mars dominates, rather then Jupiter, then, 'fighting' or crusading for one's beliefs,

even spiritual causes, may be bossy, or prejudiced.

However, if you keep good balance between these two qualities, then, Mars will

represent fighting for what is right, both within yourself,...and in others...

or the environment....

In the

same way Sun,Mercury and Ketu.(in 10th house).

Sun & Mercury, generally, love being together, though Ketu's influence can represent

some negatives...

Fortunately, Ketu is pretty far away from both Sun & Mercury, but,....

do you or your self-confidence ever suffer any negative influences, self-doubt, etc.?

This may be due to Ketu and even Rahu's influence upon the 10th house.

U have asked me abt my

home life . It was not that good. It was always with tensions till

2004.

This is very symbolic of Mars & Rahu in the 4th....

Glad to hear, it's mellowing out!

What did you do to change this?

Please describe some examples of the tensions there, were they with your Mother,

predominantly or Father?

Also, what did you do, if anything to change and improve this?

Now its ok.

One more intersting thing I was wearing a blue sapphire from 1998 to

2003. Til 1998 evrything was very good @ studies. Suddenly my grades

declined.

When did your grades, first suffer?

I had 2 face many troubles. (I was wearing it to my ring

finger till 2001 and then changed it to my middle finger). That was

Ketu Mahadasa for me(1997-2004). That period of 1998-2003 was

pathetic for me. Nothing went on my way. Both my home life and my

professional life was in shatters.

We also need to look at the transits, especially, over the last 5 years, ....

In 2000, Jupiter went into a planetary war with Saturn, and over the last 5 years,

they continued negatively influenceing each other,.... such we've been in a huge,

World-wide recession.

Do you know Saturn's 3rd house aspect, and have you watched the influence of the

Transits, for you?

Can you explain y that happnd. In

2001 for a very brief period(for 6 months after which I lost it

somewhere), I was wearing a yellow topaz.

Gems can have some slight positive influence, however I find the configurations in our

charts, dashas, and transits, have a very powerful affect.

Recently went 2 a jyothish. He told me to wear a diamond on my middle

finger. WHat do u say ???

Thanks Mark

Regards,

Pavan

My Jyotish is predominantly about 'Jyotish Transformations' and especially, about how

we can improve our lives, through improving the malefic planets in our charts.

Is there anything in your life you wish was different, or better?

Let me know...

ps.,.... Do you know your chart, well? Does it fit you?

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

Lagna : Taurus

3rd House : Moon (in Cancer)

4th house : Mars,Jupiter and Rahu (in Leo)

5th House : saturn (in Virgo)

10th House : Sun,Mercury,Ketu(in Aquarius)

11th House : Venus (in Pisces)

Navamsha chart is as follows :

Lagna : Virgo

3rd : Ketu (in Scorpio)

4th : Moon (Saggitarius)

5th : Saturn (Capricorn)

6th : Sun (Aquarius)

7th : Venus (Pisces)

9th : Rahu (Taurus)

10th : Mercury(Gemini)

11th : Jupiter, Mars(Cancer)

Dear Pavan:

See below:

"bpavan2k1" <bpavan2k1 >

vedic astrology

Fri, 01 Apr 2005 09:24:55 -0000

vedic astrology

[vedic astrology] Re: 2-Bpavan:, re.... Kuja dosha and

delays in marriage....> MarkKincaid

Hi Suresh and Mark ..

Thanks a lot for ur inputs .. Can u plz check my horoscope ?? I

donno anythin , but think that Kuja Dosha exist but my Mars is in

Leo.

If you have a Taurus rising, then, yes, Mars is in the 4th house,

which

is one of the classic kuja dosha positions.

However,.... the best way to tell whether one is still experiencing

Mars'

imbalance...

is to ask yourself, do you feel heat, or aggravations, around the

home,

or home life, (ie. 4th house), and do you find that tension, in your

relationship

house, too?

As Suresh told that Mars in Leo will not account to be a Kuja

Dosha .. Is it so??

I'd never make that kind of blanket experience.

I find the house, as many in Jyotish also believe, that the house, is

more important

then, the Sign.

Mars in Leo, has it's own particular kind of tension, too often being

associated with

bossyness, and abusive, or controlling, manipulative kinds of Mars'

behaviors...

Though in your case, your very good Moon, (in Cancer), and your

Exalted Venus,

should minimize some of that malefic potential of Mars...

What is your experience?

My Mars is debiliated in Navamsha(in Cancer with

Jupiter who is exalted). Is this interesting having 2 planets one

exalted and other debiliated in the same house??

Fist of all, the Navamsa chart is such an interesting addition to the

realities of the birth chart,

ie. add the qualities of the Planets/Sign, from the Navamsa to the

one's in your birth chart.

Therefore, Mars is less positive in Leo, and under-developed in

Cancer.

So, the suggestion will be, be sure that you're not taken advantage

of in certain aspects

of marriage, (ie. Navamsa chart), but don't be too pushy, or bossy,

at home, under the home,

roof.

Reg me Im doing good now, though I was doing very bad before 2 years.

You and millions of others, were experienceing a lot of grief, over

the last few years,

when Saturn and jupiter were colliding from 2000.

My Venus(Shukra) Mahadasa started in 2004 start and Im in middle of

Sadhe Sath period. How will my future hold esp, my career, marriage

and any chances of foreign travel ??

Life is often a mixture of positive and negative moments or

realities, so...

Jyotish can help us know when and which areas of our lives will

experience the most

success, and which areas, will involve our challenges.

You said it well, above when you said, you had recently entered your

Venus, (Exalted

in Pisces), period....and yet, also in Sade Sat.

Venus will represent a very good aspect,....and

Sade Sat will represent a simultaneously, challenging part....

Learning how to take advantage of the positives, or benefic parts...

and especially learning how to change and transform, the negatives,

is a great benefit

of Astrology.

My details are

My horo is as follows.

Next time, please send in your date of birth, day, and year, too.

Rising sign, is good...

take care

Hope this helps

Sincerely,

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

 

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