2-Krishna,....kuja dosha & success in relationships & marriage? > Mark Kinc

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Namasthe

 

May I sumup

"Dampathyoschaanyonyam sakthi: subhada viseshatha: proktha"

"Panigrahanam nrinamathyartham chindaneeyam syal"

 

The benefic aspect is the love and attraction to each other between a

male and female. The marriage ( human beings) should be given utmost

importance.

 

 

"yasyam mana: samasaktham thameva vivahel budha:"

sarvanugunabhagepi manonugunathadhika"

 

An intelligent person should marry a person whom his/her mind is

demanding / attracted. For all the Gunas (campatability), The

compatability of the mind is the most important.

 

Prasna Marga

 

Note the word "Intelligent"

 

All the other rules given are to help a person decide what is in

store, what is wrong , what is correct and what could be done to

improve ones life.

 

 

A marriage in Indian concept is a bond between the two to cherish /

enjoy / suffer together in this birth and the rest if there is any.

 

(My wife has Mars in the 8th exalted, Sun in the 7th AND we are

happily married for the last 12 years - A simple minded loving person ).

 

 

 

A.G.Suresh Babu

 

 

 

 

 

vedic astrology, Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid@m...>

wrote:

> Dear Krishna:

>

> There are 2 primary aspects to successful relationships...

>

> #1 Compatability,....and

>

> #2 Skill in relationships....

>

> and not necessarily in that order. I've met a lot of people who had

> compatable enough charts but failed, and I've also met people, with

small

> degrees of compatability, and yet they succeeded...

>

> Marriage and partnerships is probably, 90% attitude, so if one is

willing to

> work on the relationship, and has 'enough' compatability....

>

> then, it can work.

>

> But, both people need to want success, in their relationships....and the

> climate, today,

> where it's so easy to get divorced is disastrous for partnerships...

>

> Your Mars in the 7th, can be combined with another person who also

has Mars

> aspecting the 7th, but this isn't a guarantte for success.

>

> There are many other issues, that need to be addressed...

>

> the Short version of all this is:

>

> o Are both people going to the same place spiritually? In other

words,

> are your long-term,

> life goals, similar....

>

> o ARe you compatible, emotionally, or are your Moon's compatible...?

>

> o ARe the two charts compatible, in general....

>

> o If compatibility is enough, then, how are each person's skill at

> relationships..

>

> o And finally, I've noticed a lot of people suffer and fail,

because they

> have two many weaknesses in their individual charts, so Saturn and

malefic

> houses, can't be so strong, that one fails, no matter whom one is

with....

>

> I'd suggest you have both your charts analysed, with these kinds of

points

> in mind...

>

> Good luck,

>

>

> Mark Kincaid

>

>

>

> ps... oh, yes, your Mars in the 7th, can be a detriment to marriage,

but it

> doesn't have to remain that way. Any Malefic influences to the

> 'relationship' houses and Planets, ... needs to be improved, and if we

> improve ourselves, then success is possible...

>

> You have to ask yourself, if 'partners' complain that you're too

aggressive,

> or fiery, or bossy, in relationships?

>

> If partners tell you this, then, you can be inspired to learn how to

> diminish, that maleficness, otherwise, it may be difficult in marriage.

>

> There are other things that can be good and bad, for ex. your Moon's

very

> good, in Cancer...

> and emotionally, you should be with someone else who has a generous,

softer,

> more kind hearted emotional nature...

>

> However, you also have those planets in Virgo, Sun, Rahu & Mercury.

>

> Only Mercury's really happy there, so you have to be careful that

you're not

> too hard, or critical

> on 'yourself',....or 'others'....

>

> You can use that good detailed, conscious energy at work, (in your 10th

> house) but when you come home, you need to shift into a more sweet,

giving,

> Venus nature....

>

> Lots of people fail in relationships for a number of clear Astrological

> resons.

>

> Men especially suffer because they're either too Marish or too critical.

>

> That's why Venus is the natural ruler of partnerships...

>

> And for Venus, Venus appreciates, see's the half-full glass, and is

loving

> and giving....

>

> Giving, after all is the key, to success in relationships....

>

> hope this helps

>

>

> Mark Kincaid

>

>

>

>

>

> kris nag <storageman1977>

> vedic astrology

> Sat, 26 Mar 2005 12:14:58 -0800 (PST)

> vedic astrology

> Re: [vedic astrology] 2-Krishna,....Re: what is kuja dosha?

> Mark

> Kincaid.... 3/25

>

>

> Namaste Gurujis Mr.Mark,

>

> Thanks for replying to query on kuja dosha.

>

> As requested Iam sending my D.O.B. Please tell whether I need to

look for

> bride with kuja dosha as Iam in the process of seeing bride.

>

> MY

> > date of birth:7th october 1977

> > time: 11:19 am

> > place:Erode, 11.20 N, 77.46 E

> >

> >

> > Rasi chart:

> > RASI:KATAGAM

> > lagna:sagittarius

> > sunsign: Libra

> > 4th house: ketu

> > 7th house: Mars, Jupiter

> > 8th house: Moon

> > 9th house: Venus, saturn

> > 10th house: sun, mercury, Rahu

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> by God blessings,

>

> krishna

>

>

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> Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid@m...> wrote:

> Dear Krishna:

>

> Kuja dosha is both an important consideration in marriage, and is

yet, not

> the dreaded curse,

> that one would get from others sometimes.

>

> However Mars in the 7th is part of kuja dosha because it represents

one of

> those places in the chart where Mars will be influencing the 7th

house of

> marriage.

>

> Generally the rule is to be connected with someone who also has kuja

dosha,

> but practical experience shows that too, can have it's own set of

problems.

>

> I've looked at some people's charts, and both people's difficult

Mars just

> means twice as much argueing.

>

> I'd suggest that you publish your dob info, and have people look at

all the

> various aspects of your chart, so as find some solution.

>

> Sincerely,

>

>

> Mark Kincaid

>

> ps... one quick bit of advice, for most Mars aspects upon the 7th

house, is

> to change one's ways associated with one's Marishness.

>

> In other words, if one has the habit of being too Marish, especially

related

> to affairs of the heart, and partnerships, then, the suggestion is

to tone

> down that degree of Mars, assertiveness.

>

> The only exception I've found to this, is a client of mine who had

Mars in

> Cancer, in her 7th, and she also needed to stand up for herself, more.

>

> That's why I suggested, giving your dob, info, ....

>

> ciao

>

>

>

>

>

> kris nag <storageman1977>

> vedic astrology

> Fri, 25 Mar 2005 13:18:52 -0800 (PST)

> vedic astrology

> Re: [vedic astrology] Re: what is kuja dosha and what if

one has

> it?what are the precautions to be tak

>

>

> Namasthe Guruji,

> This is an excellent explanation.But I have one

> basic doubt.

>

> As per your prediction I shouldnt have mangalya dosha as I have

mars in 7th

> place and my moon sign is cancer with sagitarrius lagna but some

astrologers

> insist that I should marry a girl with mangalya dosha.

>

> As Iam in the process of bride search it would be helpful if you could

> reply.

>

> with God blessings

> krishna

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sureshbabuag <sureshbabuag> wrote:

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> Namasthe

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> For a female 7th is the Kalatra Sthana and 8th is the Mangalya Sthana.

> For a male only 7th is considered (kalatra Sthana). Any malefic

> influence by way of position or aspect in these rasi/bhava should be

> countered equaly in the other chart.

>

> To make it clear

>

> If a female chart is having Mars in the 7th or 8th the male chart

> should have a similar planet in the 7th (8th is not considered).

>

> if this influence is in the 7th of a male chart then the 7th of the

> female should have simlar planet.

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> if Mars is in the 1st he aspects the 7th & 8th rasi , if he in the 4th

> he aspects the 7th (4th drishti), if he is in the 2nd he aspects the

> 8th rasi and if he is in the 12th the he aspects the 7th rasi. Hence

> these positions are said to be Kuja Dosha positions.

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> Of these the position in the 7th of male and female and 8th of female

> are the worst.

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> Exeption to the above is

> Mars in capricorn (exaltation ) and in cancer (debilation) is not

> considered are kuja dosha. Any exalted planet including mars is

> considered benefic. Mars in cancer is like a charcoal ( burning

> meterial in water) - incapable of any gross mischief.

>

> A malefic position in the kendras particulary influences once

> character, attitudes sometimes adversely and may not be condusive for

> a happy married life. for example sun influences ego, authority- Mars

> influences anger, military like attitudes while saturn induces

> stuborness.

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> The idea of matching is that the other side should be capable of

> handling such persons. apart from these there are other genetic /

> phisycal/metabolic/Psychological compapatabilty issues embeded in the

> same situation.

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> Be it a partnership or frienship , it shall be between equals.

>

> It is this eqality that is being sought in marriage.

>

> A.G.Suresh Babu

>

vedic astrology, "v.suresh babu"

> <sureshbabu_27aug> wrote:

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> > Respected Members,

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> > May i know what is kuja dosha and

> when does one have it in a chart?

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> > thanking you

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> > with regards

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> > v.suresh babu

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