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Namaste,

 

I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3 years

old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

looking for past few months no luck.

Can some one please advice me what should i do?

Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

Please Please Help me.

My Birth date

9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

 

Regards,

Neelu

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Hallo Neelu,

 

What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

When were you married?

The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-05

to 12.15.

 

Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

 

Pl confirm this:

Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004 onwards?

If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

 

Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

 

Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

 

Regards,

Pradeep

vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

<neelu9singh> wrote:

>

> Namaste,

>

> I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3 years

> old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

> cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

> looking for past few months no luck.

> Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

> Please Please Help me.

> My Birth date

> 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

>

> Regards,

> Neelu

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Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

 

I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in marriage

since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she says

12:05 AM.

 

Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb 2005.

We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work there

is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I donot

work. Which is creating many problems.

So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change. As

I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And only

reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

suffer.

My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able to

keep this marriage.

 

Regards,

Neelu.

 

 

vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

wrote:

>

> Hallo Neelu,

>

> What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> When were you married?

> The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-05

> to 12.15.

>

> Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

>

> Pl confirm this:

> Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004 onwards?

> If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

>

> Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

>

> Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

>

> Regards,

> Pradeep

> vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> <neelu9singh> wrote:

> >

> > Namaste,

> >

> > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

years

> > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

> > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

> > looking for past few months no luck.

> > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

> > Please Please Help me.

> > My Birth date

> > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Neelu

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Neelu ji,

 

I checked your chart.

The upapada is badly afficted. Has papkartaki. UL lord

is in Badhakastana.

Again the 2nd from UL has Retro Sat,Mandi and Gulika,

aspected by the UL lord.

 

Now your job issue, 10th has amavasya Moon, 10th lord

is retro(delay) and the dispositor is combust.

Likelihood of a job forthcoming may not be easy.

 

Now You are running the 8th lords

mahadasa(vimshotarri) and 8th house dasa (narayana).

 

But a ray of hope is 2005 feb 28th your narayana dasa

changes to the 9th house, CP with lagna lord and

mercury.

 

That would be a good time to try to get into school.

This will equip you better for the jobmarket. Your

best bet would be to concentrate on areas you can work

from home.

 

Your 4th lord sun is in 10th. You may be able to work

out from home. Dwispatathi dasa applicabe to you, you

have Sun dasa.

 

Do not give up hope.

Mars is your Ak, there will be trying times in life.

Ganesha is your ishta devatha. Pray with a sincere

heart.

God always answers. May God bless you.

Rema

 

--- neelu9singh <neelu9singh wrote:

 

>

> Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

>

> I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and

> downs in marriage

> since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the

> exact time she says

> 12:05 AM.

>

> Last year was really bad. Things have not improved

> after 8th Feb 2005.

> We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I

> donot work there

> is financial problem. As all my husbands friends

> have settled with

> there kids in there own house. Which we are unable

> to take as I donot

> work. Which is creating many problems.

> So are there any signs of improvement. Are things

> going to change. As

> I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached

> to dad. And only

> reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot

> want them to

> suffer.

> My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> I would be really gratefull if you give some insight

> on the matter.

> Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And

> Will I be able to

> keep this marriage.

>

> Regards,

> Neelu.

>

>

> vedic astrology, "pp_gurav"

> <pp_gurav>

> wrote:

> >

> > Hallo Neelu,

> >

> > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your

> records?

> > When were you married?

> > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna

> changes from 12-05

> > to 12.15.

> >

> > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify

> your TOB.

> >

> > Pl confirm this:

> > Did your marital problems started around Beginning

> Feb 2004 onwards?

> > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in

> your relationship

> > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> >

> > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> >

> > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Pradeep

> > vedic astrology,

> "neelu9singh"

> > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > >

> > > Namaste,

> > >

> > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a

> 3month old, and 3

> years

> > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a

> divorce. I think I

> > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot

> have job, have been

> > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When

> will i get a job?

> > > Please Please Help me.

> > > My Birth date

> > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu

>

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Hallo Neelu,

 

You got marrired in Rahu dasa. Here is what in my opinion with my

limited knowledge, may the learned gurus correct me if I am wrong.

 

I calculated your TOB approx 12:09:30.

You were running Sg Narayana dasa till 8th Feb 2005, which was

actually not very bad as compare to the coming dasa OF Sc which runs

till Feb 2011. Rahu is in 12th from Sc, so you have to be extremely

cautious. With one wrong decision you could have a big set back. In

fact this dasa can tempt you to make some wrong decisions. About your

job status, I need to see Narayana dasa of D-10? I will let you know

on this tomorrow.

 

Are you some kind of engineer?

 

Regards,

Pradeep

 

 

 

 

vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

<neelu9singh> wrote:

>

> Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

>

> I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in

marriage

> since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she

says

> 12:05 AM.

>

> Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb

2005.

> We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work

there

> is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

> there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I

donot

> work. Which is creating many problems.

> So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change.

As

> I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And

only

> reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> suffer.

> My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

> Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able

to

> keep this marriage.

>

> Regards,

> Neelu.

>

>

> vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

> wrote:

> >

> > Hallo Neelu,

> >

> > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > When were you married?

> > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-

05

> > to 12.15.

> >

> > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> >

> > Pl confirm this:

> > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004

onwards?

> > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> >

> > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> >

> > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Pradeep

> > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > >

> > > Namaste,

> > >

> > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

> years

> > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I

think I

> > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have

been

> > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a

job?

> > > Please Please Help me.

> > > My Birth date

> > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu

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Hallo Rema ji,

 

What time did you take for these calculations?

Regards,

Pradeep

vedic astrology, Rema Menon <remamenon>

wrote:

> Neelu ji,

>

> I checked your chart.

> The upapada is badly afficted. Has papkartaki. UL lord

> is in Badhakastana.

> Again the 2nd from UL has Retro Sat,Mandi and Gulika,

> aspected by the UL lord.

>

> Now your job issue, 10th has amavasya Moon, 10th lord

> is retro(delay) and the dispositor is combust.

> Likelihood of a job forthcoming may not be easy.

>

> Now You are running the 8th lords

> mahadasa(vimshotarri) and 8th house dasa (narayana).

>

> But a ray of hope is 2005 feb 28th your narayana dasa

> changes to the 9th house, CP with lagna lord and

> mercury.

>

> That would be a good time to try to get into school.

> This will equip you better for the jobmarket. Your

> best bet would be to concentrate on areas you can work

> from home.

>

> Your 4th lord sun is in 10th. You may be able to work

> out from home. Dwispatathi dasa applicabe to you, you

> have Sun dasa.

>

> Do not give up hope.

> Mars is your Ak, there will be trying times in life.

> Ganesha is your ishta devatha. Pray with a sincere

> heart.

> God always answers. May God bless you.

> Rema

>

> --- neelu9singh <neelu9singh> wrote:

>

> >

> > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> >

> > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and

> > downs in marriage

> > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the

> > exact time she says

> > 12:05 AM.

> >

> > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved

> > after 8th Feb 2005.

> > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I

> > donot work there

> > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends

> > have settled with

> > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable

> > to take as I donot

> > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things

> > going to change. As

> > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached

> > to dad. And only

> > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot

> > want them to

> > suffer.

> > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight

> > on the matter.

> > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And

> > Will I be able to

> > keep this marriage.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Neelu.

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav"

> > <pp_gurav>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > Hallo Neelu,

> > >

> > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your

> > records?

> > > When were you married?

> > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna

> > changes from 12-05

> > > to 12.15.

> > >

> > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify

> > your TOB.

> > >

> > > Pl confirm this:

> > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning

> > Feb 2004 onwards?

> > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in

> > your relationship

> > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > >

> > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > >

> > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Pradeep

> > > vedic astrology,

> > "neelu9singh"

> > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a

> > 3month old, and 3

> > years

> > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a

> > divorce. I think I

> > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot

> > have job, have been

> > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When

> > will i get a job?

> > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > My Birth date

> > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Neelu

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Hallo Neelu,

 

I also got confused with time again.

Does 12:05 am mean 00:05 in the midnight or not?

Regards,

Pradeep

 

vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

wrote:

>

> Hallo Rema ji,

>

> What time did you take for these calculations?

> Regards,

> Pradeep

> vedic astrology, Rema Menon <remamenon>

> wrote:

> > Neelu ji,

> >

> > I checked your chart.

> > The upapada is badly afficted. Has papkartaki. UL lord

> > is in Badhakastana.

> > Again the 2nd from UL has Retro Sat,Mandi and Gulika,

> > aspected by the UL lord.

> >

> > Now your job issue, 10th has amavasya Moon, 10th lord

> > is retro(delay) and the dispositor is combust.

> > Likelihood of a job forthcoming may not be easy.

> >

> > Now You are running the 8th lords

> > mahadasa(vimshotarri) and 8th house dasa (narayana).

> >

> > But a ray of hope is 2005 feb 28th your narayana dasa

> > changes to the 9th house, CP with lagna lord and

> > mercury.

> >

> > That would be a good time to try to get into school.

> > This will equip you better for the jobmarket. Your

> > best bet would be to concentrate on areas you can work

> > from home.

> >

> > Your 4th lord sun is in 10th. You may be able to work

> > out from home. Dwispatathi dasa applicabe to you, you

> > have Sun dasa.

> >

> > Do not give up hope.

> > Mars is your Ak, there will be trying times in life.

> > Ganesha is your ishta devatha. Pray with a sincere

> > heart.

> > God always answers. May God bless you.

> > Rema

> >

> > --- neelu9singh <neelu9singh> wrote:

> >

> > >

> > > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> > >

> > > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and

> > > downs in marriage

> > > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the

> > > exact time she says

> > > 12:05 AM.

> > >

> > > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved

> > > after 8th Feb 2005.

> > > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I

> > > donot work there

> > > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends

> > > have settled with

> > > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable

> > > to take as I donot

> > > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things

> > > going to change. As

> > > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached

> > > to dad. And only

> > > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot

> > > want them to

> > > suffer.

> > > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight

> > > on the matter.

> > > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And

> > > Will I be able to

> > > keep this marriage.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu.

> > >

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav"

> > > <pp_gurav>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hallo Neelu,

> > > >

> > > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your

> > > records?

> > > > When were you married?

> > > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna

> > > changes from 12-05

> > > > to 12.15.

> > > >

> > > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify

> > > your TOB.

> > > >

> > > > Pl confirm this:

> > > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning

> > > Feb 2004 onwards?

> > > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in

> > > your relationship

> > > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > > >

> > > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > > >

> > > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Pradeep

> > > > vedic astrology,

> > > "neelu9singh"

> > > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Namaste,

> > > > >

> > > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a

> > > 3month old, and 3

> > > years

> > > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a

> > > divorce. I think I

> > > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot

> > > have job, have been

> > > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When

> > > will i get a job?

> > > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > > My Birth date

> > > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > > >

> > > > > Regards,

> > > > > Neelu

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Read only the mail you want - Mail SpamGuard.

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I got the date and time wrong. It was another chart I

was working on. Send to the wrong person. My

apologies.

Rema

 

--- pp_gurav <pp_gurav wrote:

 

>

> Hallo Rema ji,

>

> What time did you take for these calculations?

> Regards,

> Pradeep

> vedic astrology, Rema Menon

> <remamenon>

> wrote:

> > Neelu ji,

> >

> > I checked your chart.

> > The upapada is badly afficted. Has papkartaki. UL

> lord

> > is in Badhakastana.

> > Again the 2nd from UL has Retro Sat,Mandi and

> Gulika,

> > aspected by the UL lord.

> >

> > Now your job issue, 10th has amavasya Moon, 10th

> lord

> > is retro(delay) and the dispositor is combust.

> > Likelihood of a job forthcoming may not be easy.

> >

> > Now You are running the 8th lords

> > mahadasa(vimshotarri) and 8th house dasa

> (narayana).

> >

> > But a ray of hope is 2005 feb 28th your narayana

> dasa

> > changes to the 9th house, CP with lagna lord and

> > mercury.

> >

> > That would be a good time to try to get into

> school.

> > This will equip you better for the jobmarket. Your

> > best bet would be to concentrate on areas you can

> work

> > from home.

> >

> > Your 4th lord sun is in 10th. You may be able to

> work

> > out from home. Dwispatathi dasa applicabe to you,

> you

> > have Sun dasa.

> >

> > Do not give up hope.

> > Mars is your Ak, there will be trying times in

> life.

> > Ganesha is your ishta devatha. Pray with a sincere

> > heart.

> > God always answers. May God bless you.

> > Rema

> >

> > --- neelu9singh <neelu9singh> wrote:

> >

> > >

> > > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> > >

> > > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups

> and

> > > downs in marriage

> > > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the

> > > exact time she says

> > > 12:05 AM.

> > >

> > > Last year was really bad. Things have not

> improved

> > > after 8th Feb 2005.

> > > We have differnce of opinion too much... and

> sice I

> > > donot work there

> > > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends

> > > have settled with

> > > there kids in there own house. Which we are

> unable

> > > to take as I donot

> > > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > > So are there any signs of improvement. Are

> things

> > > going to change. As

> > > I can live alone. But both my kids are very

> attached

> > > to dad. And only

> > > reason which holds me back is these kids. I

> donot

> > > want them to

> > > suffer.

> > > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > > I would be really gratefull if you give some

> insight

> > > on the matter.

> > > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me.

> And

> > > Will I be able to

> > > keep this marriage.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu.

> > >

> > >

> > > vedic astrology,

> "pp_gurav"

> > > <pp_gurav>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hallo Neelu,

> > > >

> > > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of

> your

> > > records?

> > > > When were you married?

> > > > The time you have given is very sensitive,

> Lagna

> > > changes from 12-05

> > > > to 12.15.

> > > >

> > > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to

> rectify

> > > your TOB.

> > > >

> > > > Pl confirm this:

> > > > Did your marital problems started around

> Beginning

> > > Feb 2004 onwards?

> > > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening

> in

> > > your relationship

> > > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > > >

> > > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both

> times.

> > > >

> > > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Pradeep

> > > > vedic astrology,

> > > "neelu9singh"

> > > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Namaste,

> > > > >

> > > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a

> > > 3month old, and 3

> > > years

> > > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of

> getting a

> > > divorce. I think I

> > > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I

> donot

> > > have job, have been

> > > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > > Can some one please advice me what should i

> do?

> > > > > Are things going to change in my marriage?

> When

> > > will i get a job?

> > > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > > My Birth date

> > > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar,

> India.

> > > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > > >

> > > > > Regards,

> > > > > Neelu

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

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Namaste,

 

Your chart has a lot of afflictions to the seventh house and has

mangal dosh as well.

 

Looking ahead you will run rahu-budh dasha from May of this year,

2005. Budh is afflicted by shani from 10th house and sun, but he is in

10th house from moon and aspects 10th from lagna. Shani in transit

will move into karka your 10th house of career and will aspect 10th

lord from lagna, moon.Later at the end of september uru moves in to

seventh from moon, from where he will aspect the 10th lord from lagna

which happens to be moon. So in mercury anterdasha the possibility of

finding work is there. So please keep trying.

 

Also note that all these transits will also activate your 7th house,

so you need to be careful in your decisions as it realtes to marriage.

 

>From a non astrological perspective, as you are currently not

employed, how you plan to support yourself, should you decide to go on

your own. I am sure you have thought about these things as well.

Please do not give up hope, I think Budh anter dasha would give you

some start in career.

 

Good luck and God Bless.

 

....

 

 

On Sun, 27 Feb 2005 09:12:25 -0000, neelu9singh <neelu9singh wrote:

>

> Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

>

> I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in marriage

> since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she says

> 12:05 AM.

>

> Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb 2005.

> We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work there

> is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

> there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I donot

> work. Which is creating many problems.

> So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change. As

> I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And only

> reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> suffer.

> My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

> Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able to

> keep this marriage.

>

> Regards,

> Neelu.

>

>

> vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

>

> wrote:

> >

> > Hallo Neelu,

> >

> > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > When were you married?

> > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-05

> > to 12.15.

> >

> > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> >

> > Pl confirm this:

> > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004 onwards?

> > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> >

> > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> >

> > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Pradeep

> > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > >

> > > Namaste,

> > >

> > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

> years

> > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

> > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

> > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

> > > Please Please Help me.

> > > My Birth date

> > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu

>

>

>

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Hello Pradeepjee,

 

I was born just after midnight 12:05 midnight I am sure abt time

12:05- 12:15.

 

I donot want to get in to divorce. As I my kids will suffer. I can go

thru anything for my kids. I want best for them. So is there something

that can be done to save this marriage. Like wraring some gems or

something. He is a best dad one can ask ofr. But a worst husband.

 

My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 AM Agra.

Is there a possibility of him buying a home... As that pressure on him

is making our realtionship more hard. Where shall he be settling in

India or US.

Please help me.

 

Regards,

Neelu.

 

vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav> wrote:

>

> Hallo Neelu,

>

> You got marrired in Rahu dasa. Here is what in my opinion with my

> limited knowledge, may the learned gurus correct me if I am wrong.

>

> I calculated your TOB approx 12:09:30.

> You were running Sg Narayana dasa till 8th Feb 2005, which was

> actually not very bad as compare to the coming dasa OF Sc which runs

> till Feb 2011. Rahu is in 12th from Sc, so you have to be extremely

> cautious. With one wrong decision you could have a big set back. In

> fact this dasa can tempt you to make some wrong decisions. About your

> job status, I need to see Narayana dasa of D-10? I will let you know

> on this tomorrow.

>

> Are you some kind of engineer?

>

> Regards,

> Pradeep

>

 

 

 

>

>

>

> vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> <neelu9singh> wrote:

> >

> > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> >

> > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in

> marriage

> > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she

> says

> > 12:05 AM.

> >

> > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb

> 2005.

> > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work

> there

> > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

> > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I

> donot

> > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change.

> As

> > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And

> only

> > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> > suffer.

> > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

> > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able

> to

> > keep this marriage.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Neelu.

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > Hallo Neelu,

> > >

> > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > > When were you married?

> > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-

> 05

> > > to 12.15.

> > >

> > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> > >

> > > Pl confirm this:

> > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004

> onwards?

> > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > >

> > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > >

> > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Pradeep

> > > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

> > years

> > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I

> think I

> > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have

> been

> > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a

> job?

> > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > My Birth date

> > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Neelu

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Respected Panditji,

 

I have given thought to how will I survive withput a job, with two

kids. Thats one of the reason which has stopped me uptill now. And

another is he is a very good dad, so I donot want my kids to not have

both parents in there lives. they have not committed any fault for

them to suffer. Another Raj (My husband) he is not physically abusive,

most of the days he is nice, only thing he hates more is I donot

work... that too because he is unable to buy a house... which he wants

for his kids to enjoy. So is it possible for him to buy a house. his

dob 25th march 1971 6:15 AM agra. If he can settle down it will

definetly ease our problems.

Can I do anything which can lessen our problems. Please guide.

 

Pranam,

Neelu

 

vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote:

> Namaste,

>

> Your chart has a lot of afflictions to the seventh house and has

> mangal dosh as well.

>

> Looking ahead you will run rahu-budh dasha from May of this year,

> 2005. Budh is afflicted by shani from 10th house and sun, but he is in

> 10th house from moon and aspects 10th from lagna. Shani in transit

> will move into karka your 10th house of career and will aspect 10th

> lord from lagna, moon.Later at the end of september uru moves in to

> seventh from moon, from where he will aspect the 10th lord from lagna

> which happens to be moon. So in mercury anterdasha the possibility of

> finding work is there. So please keep trying.

>

> Also note that all these transits will also activate your 7th house,

> so you need to be careful in your decisions as it realtes to marriage.

>

> From a non astrological perspective, as you are currently not

> employed, how you plan to support yourself, should you decide to go on

> your own. I am sure you have thought about these things as well.

> Please do not give up hope, I think Budh anter dasha would give you

> some start in career.

>

> Good luck and God Bless.

>

> ...

>

>

> On Sun, 27 Feb 2005 09:12:25 -0000, neelu9singh <neelu9singh>

wrote:

> >

> > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> >

> > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in marriage

> > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she says

> > 12:05 AM.

> >

> > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb 2005.

> > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work there

> > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

> > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I donot

> > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change. As

> > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And only

> > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> > suffer.

> > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

> > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able to

> > keep this marriage.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Neelu.

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

> >

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > Hallo Neelu,

> > >

> > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > > When were you married?

> > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-05

> > > to 12.15.

> > >

> > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> > >

> > > Pl confirm this:

> > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004 onwards?

> > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > >

> > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > >

> > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Pradeep

> > > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Namaste,

> > > >

> > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

> > years

> > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

> > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

> > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

> > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > My Birth date

> > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Neelu

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Namaste,

 

Your husband's kundali has one very good yoga called Dharma

-karmadhipiti yoga. It is exchange of 9th lord mangal and 10th lord

guru. I think this one combination alone can save everything if things

are channeled correctly. Your husband will run into Shani-mangal dasha

at the end of 2005. Mangal although has no direct connection with 4th

house for house, but he is a bhoomiputra so a natural significator of

landed property, and it aspects the 4th house. There are some problems

in the chart as to almost close conjunction of rahu and shukra the

kaltrakaraka although they are in different signs, in bhava kundali

they move in the 12 th house and also moon is there. Shani the

mahadasha lord is debilited in dhana staan.

 

I would concentrate on the positives here which is the exchange of 9th

and 10th house. Also guru being in the 9th house a person can be very

religious. Is this so for your husband. If he is religious he may be

amenable to idea that "one should not covet what others have" Yes , it

is nice to have to have a house for kids and all that but as long as

he knows you are and he is trying best to achieve that..rest just

leave it to some higher power. As I suggested, by end of the year you

have a good chance to start a career. I am sure with understanding

everything will workout for the better.

 

Please hang in there and do not give up hope. When hope is alive the

stars will eventually align.

 

Good luck.

 

....

 

 

On Mon, 28 Feb 2005 01:52:12 -0000, neelu9singh <neelu9singh wrote:

>

> Respected Panditji,

>

> I have given thought to how will I survive withput a job, with two

> kids. Thats one of the reason which has stopped me uptill now. And

> another is he is a very good dad, so I donot want my kids to not have

> both parents in there lives. they have not committed any fault for

> them to suffer. Another Raj (My husband) he is not physically abusive,

> most of the days he is nice, only thing he hates more is I donot

> work... that too because he is unable to buy a house... which he wants

> for his kids to enjoy. So is it possible for him to buy a house. his

> dob 25th march 1971 6:15 AM agra. If he can settle down it will

> definetly ease our problems.

> Can I do anything which can lessen our problems. Please guide.

>

> Pranam,

> Neelu

>

> vedic astrology, Panditji <navagraha@g...> wrote:

> > Namaste,

> >

> > Your chart has a lot of afflictions to the seventh house and has

> > mangal dosh as well.

> >

> > Looking ahead you will run rahu-budh dasha from May of this year,

> > 2005. Budh is afflicted by shani from 10th house and sun, but he is in

> > 10th house from moon and aspects 10th from lagna. Shani in transit

> > will move into karka your 10th house of career and will aspect 10th

> > lord from lagna, moon.Later at the end of september uru moves in to

> > seventh from moon, from where he will aspect the 10th lord from lagna

> > which happens to be moon. So in mercury anterdasha the possibility of

> > finding work is there. So please keep trying.

> >

> > Also note that all these transits will also activate your 7th house,

> > so you need to be careful in your decisions as it realtes to marriage.

> >

> > From a non astrological perspective, as you are currently not

> > employed, how you plan to support yourself, should you decide to go on

> > your own. I am sure you have thought about these things as well.

> > Please do not give up hope, I think Budh anter dasha would give you

> > some start in career.

> >

> > Good luck and God Bless.

> >

> > ...

> >

> >

> > On Sun, 27 Feb 2005 09:12:25 -0000, neelu9singh <neelu9singh>

>

> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> > >

> > > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in marriage

> > > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she says

> > > 12:05 AM.

> > >

> > > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th Feb 2005.

> > > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work there

> > > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled with

> > > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I donot

> > > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to change. As

> > > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad. And only

> > > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> > > suffer.

> > > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the matter.

> > > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be able to

> > > keep this marriage.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu.

> > >

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

> > >

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hallo Neelu,

> > > >

> > > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > > > When were you married?

> > > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from 12-05

> > > > to 12.15.

> > > >

> > > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> > > >

> > > > Pl confirm this:

> > > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004 onwards?

> > > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your relationship

> > > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > > >

> > > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > > >

> > > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Pradeep

> > > > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Namaste,

> > > > >

> > > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old, and 3

> > > years

> > > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I think I

> > > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job, have been

> > > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get a job?

> > > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > > My Birth date

> > > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > > >

> > > > > Regards,

> > > > > Neelu

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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> > >

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Hallo Neelu,

 

Yesterday what I wrote was based on time 12.05 in the noon. But

strange is that even after taking mid night time, the same dasa is

running.

 

In my opinion your situation might change drastically(better side)

from July 12 2005. Your chances of getting job are great from 12

August 2005.

I used Narayana dasa of D-10 to get these dates.

 

Regards,

Pradeep

 

vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

<neelu9singh> wrote:

>

> Hello Pradeepjee,

>

> I was born just after midnight 12:05 midnight I am sure abt time

> 12:05- 12:15.

>

> I donot want to get in to divorce. As I my kids will suffer. I can

go

> thru anything for my kids. I want best for them. So is there

something

> that can be done to save this marriage. Like wraring some gems or

> something. He is a best dad one can ask ofr. But a worst husband.

>

> My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 AM Agra.

> Is there a possibility of him buying a home... As that pressure on

him

> is making our realtionship more hard. Where shall he be settling in

> India or US.

> Please help me.

>

> Regards,

> Neelu.

>

> vedic astrology, "pp_gurav" <pp_gurav>

wrote:

> >

> > Hallo Neelu,

> >

> > You got marrired in Rahu dasa. Here is what in my opinion with my

> > limited knowledge, may the learned gurus correct me if I am wrong.

> >

> > I calculated your TOB approx 12:09:30.

> > You were running Sg Narayana dasa till 8th Feb 2005, which was

> > actually not very bad as compare to the coming dasa OF Sc which

runs

> > till Feb 2011. Rahu is in 12th from Sc, so you have to be

extremely

> > cautious. With one wrong decision you could have a big set back.

In

> > fact this dasa can tempt you to make some wrong decisions. About

your

> > job status, I need to see Narayana dasa of D-10? I will let you

know

> > on this tomorrow.

> >

> > Are you some kind of engineer?

> >

> > Regards,

> > Pradeep

> >

>

>

>

> >

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > >

> > > Dhanyavad Pradeepjee,

> > >

> > > I was married on 27th June 1999. I have had ups and downs in

> > marriage

> > > since the day we married. Mom is not sure of the exact time she

> > says

> > > 12:05 AM.

> > >

> > > Last year was really bad. Things have not improved after 8th

Feb

> > 2005.

> > > We have differnce of opinion too much... and sice I donot work

> > there

> > > is financial problem. As all my husbands friends have settled

with

> > > there kids in there own house. Which we are unable to take as I

> > donot

> > > work. Which is creating many problems.

> > > So are there any signs of improvement. Are things going to

change.

> > As

> > > I can live alone. But both my kids are very attached to dad.

And

> > only

> > > reason which holds me back is these kids. I donot want them to

> > > suffer.

> > > My husbands DOB 25th March 1971 6:15 Agra.

> > > I would be really gratefull if you give some insight on the

matter.

> > > Shall I find a job. Do you see a career for me. And Will I be

able

> > to

> > > keep this marriage.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Neelu.

> > >

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, "pp_gurav"

<pp_gurav>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Hallo Neelu,

> > > >

> > > > What is the exact time mentioned in any of your records?

> > > > When were you married?

> > > > The time you have given is very sensitive, Lagna changes from

12-

> > 05

> > > > to 12.15.

> > > >

> > > > Give any siginificant event(good/bad) to rectify your TOB.

> > > >

> > > > Pl confirm this:

> > > > Did your marital problems started around Beginning Feb 2004

> > onwards?

> > > > If yes then your TOB could be near 12.15.

> > > > Are there any signs of improvement/worsening in your

relationship

> > > > since 8 Feb 2005 compared to year 2004?

> > > >

> > > > Year 2004 was very bad for you taking both times.

> > > >

> > > > Pl let me know, so that I can look further.

> > > >

> > > > Regards,

> > > > Pradeep

> > > > vedic astrology, "neelu9singh"

> > > > <neelu9singh> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Namaste,

> > > > >

> > > > > I am in a really bad state of mind. Having a 3month old,

and 3

> > > years

> > > > > old.. I am unable to make decision of getting a divorce. I

> > think I

> > > > > cannot take this mental abuse anymore. I donot have job,

have

> > been

> > > > > looking for past few months no luck.

> > > > > Can some one please advice me what should i do?

> > > > > Are things going to change in my marriage? When will i get

a

> > job?

> > > > > Please Please Help me.

> > > > > My Birth date

> > > > > 9th Feb 1976 12:05 - 12:15 AM Ahmadnagar, India.

> > > > > Rightnow in Sunnyvale, CA.

> > > > >

> > > > > Regards,

> > > > > Neelu

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