Please help! My husband is very abusive

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I am pained at heart to hear about your problem.Your dasa bhukthis in progress

are Budha Mahardasa /Shani bhkthi from 1-11-2002 to 10-7-2005.

therefore till the end date of Shani bhukthi you may have to put up with the

problem.Budha is the sapthamadhipathy from chandra lagnam and Shani is the

sapthamadhipathy from janma lagnam.Therefore the problem.Shani takes to direct

motion from 22-3-2005 and from then onwards you may find relief.

Regards,

Jagannathan.kalyani0405 <kalyani0405 > wrote:

Respected sir,My birth details are as follows:DOB: 14th April 1969, Time

4.30PMPlace: Bombay.Thank you.Sincerely,Kalyani--- In

vedic astrology, "Raghunatha Rao Nemani" wrote:> > Om Krishna

Guru> > Namaste Kalayani,> > It was sad to know about your situation. Can you

please provide > your birth details as well, so that I may attempt to give my >

analysis.> > Regards> Raghunatha Rao> > > --- In

vedic astrology, "kalyani0405" > wrote:> > > > Dear all,> > > >

I'm going through a very bad period in my life. I have a 1 month > old > > and

cannot handle the abuse of my husband. I've thought of > committing

> > suicide many times but have controlled the urge to do so. He is > very > >

loving a lot of times but has a irritable nature and gets angry > very > >

easily.> > Please analze my husband's chart and let me know what is going on.>

> I would appreciate any information I can get. > > His details are as

follows:> > July 21, 1962, 1.28 PM, Madakasira (13.57N,77.19E), India.> > > >

Thanking you.> > > > Sincerely,> > Kalyani------------------------

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Dear Raymond,

 

You have done a fine analysis of Kalyani's chart.Adding my

understanding:

 

(1)Mars in 4th in Scorpio does not cause Kuja Dosha

 

(2)In my opinion the problem in her marriage is due to the Neecha

position of 7th lord in the 9th which robs her of the felicity

required in marriage.In addition the close yuti of Guru with Ketu in

the 2nd is very bad for family life (This makes her confused &

lacking selfconfidence)

 

(3)The nature of the husband is also quite hot (7th lord in close

yuti with Surya)

 

(4)Remedies would be the following:

 

(i)Graha Shanti should be done for Shani,Chandra & Ketu

 

(ii)She should fast on Tuesdays

 

Regards,

 

aavesh

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

vedic astrology, "astynaz" <astynaz>

wrote:

>

>

> Hi,

>

> I wondered about her Mars in Scorpio in 4th. Is that Kuja Dosha? Or

> is the Kuja Dosha nullified because Mars is in Scorpio. Mars

> aspecting 7th. I feel that could indicate an aggressive and

violent

> partner. Her 7th house lord Saturn is in Aries,and so her 7th house

> lord is debilitated,and it also rulers her 6th house. That would

seem

> like problems in the marriage and the spouse could be an enemy of

> sorts. Hitting the spouse seems more like enemy behavior and not

> friendly behavior. The dispositor of her Saturn in Aries, Mars

> aspects the 7th house. Her Venus is in retrograde and in 8th

> house,and that seems like a placement that bring

> trouble,disappointment involving the spouse. Rahu is conjunct her

> Venus, and that would seem like an erratic,uncontrollable spouse.

> 12th house lord Moon conjuncts Venus,and that seems like there

could

> be suffering and loss involving spouse. Spouse could be too much

into

> sexual pleasures. I wonder if her husband ever cheated on her. The

> dispositor of her Venus, Jupiter is her 8th house lord and aspects

> Venus, and that could indicate trouble and disappointment involving

> the spouse.

>

> In her navamsha, she has retrograde Venus conjunct Mars, and that

> could indicate indicate problems including violence involving the

> spouse. I also wonder if the placement of her Venus and Mars

> dispositor, Saturn in 6th could indicate problems in marriage that

> can include the spouse being an enemy of sorts.

>

>

> I also see that Mars is her atma karaka, and so aggression and

> violence in her life would seem to be something that has been a

> strong focus in her life,and it aspects 7th house.....so it

involves

> relationships. I find it interesting that her Venus is her atmaya

> karaka. I read that atmaya karaka can be like a counselor. In her

> case, maybe it means a need for marriage counseling.

>

>

> That's all I have to say. I wish the lady luck. Nobody should be

> abused. No man should hit a woman.

>

>

>

> Raymond

>

>

>

> -- In vedic astrology, sanjaychettiar@g... wrote:

> >

> > || Om Gurave Namah ||

> > Dear Kalyani,

> > Your UL is also in Scorpio, ( Smt Vasudha also had it there).

> > Scorpion is natural 8th house, And can sometimes pick the

qualities

> > of scorpion. It's ruled by both Mars and Ketu together, The

> > mutual fight between these malefics to control Sc can be quite

> > bad.

> >

> > Fasting on Upapada day, Tuesdays in this case, Should be taken

> > only if your really want to continue the relationship. So if wish

> > you can do the fasting. It's upto you, to weight the dharma.

> >

> > Your UL is 12th from AL, So you will definitely think of

rejecting

> > him.

> >

> > 7th from Venus is ruled by Mercury. If you want do the

> > Tripurasundari Mantra or any stotra. From what little I

understood

> > from my Guru Sanjay Rath is that Shakti(Mother) mantra can, if

> > needed,beat the person and get him line. But, Tell me how's your

> > mother's health.

> >

> > Pray to Krishna.

> >

> > Warm Regards

> > Sanjay P

> >

> > Om Tat Sat

> >

> >

> > vedic astrology, "kalyani0405"

> > <kalyani0405> wrote:

> > >

> > > Respected sir,

> > >

> > > My birth details are as follows:

> > > DOB: 14th April 1969, Time 4.30PM

> > > Place: Bombay.

> > >

> > > Thank you.

> > >

> > > Sincerely,

> > > Kalyani

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, "Raghunatha Rao Nemani"

> > > <raon1008> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Om Krishna Guru

> > > >

> > > > Namaste Kalayani,

> > > >

> > > > It was sad to know about your situation. Can you please

provide

> > > > your birth details as well, so that I may attempt to give my

> > > > analysis.

> > > >

> > > > Regards

> > > > Raghunatha Rao

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > vedic astrology, "kalyani0405"

> > > > <kalyani0405> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > > Dear all,

> > > > >

> > > > > I'm going through a very bad period in my life. I have a 1

> month

> > > > old

> > > > > and cannot handle the abuse of my husband. I've thought of

> > > > committing

> > > > > suicide many times but have controlled the urge to do so.

He

> is

> > > > very

> > > > > loving a lot of times but has a irritable nature and gets

> angry

> > > > very

> > > > > easily.

> > > > > Please analze my husband's chart and let me know what is

> going on.

> > > > > I would appreciate any information I can get.

> > > > > His details are as follows:

> > > > > July 21, 1962, 1.28 PM, Madakasira (13.57N,77.19E), India.

> > > > >

> > > > > Thanking you.

> > > > >

> > > > > Sincerely,

> > > > > Kalyani

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Namaste,

 

Looking at your husband's chart, he has strong mangal dosh in the

chart. Mangal is in 8th from lagna and is 4th from moon. So needless

to say he has martian temparament. Also this mangal is 7th lord and in

8th from lagna. Also 7th lord sun from chandra is in 6th from chandra

and is afflicted by Rahu. aspected by shani.

 

Shani and ketu are in the 4th house from lagna severlely afflicting it

and they are in 12th from moon.

 

The one redeeming feature in your husband's chart is a gaja kesari

yoga in the fifth house, this guru apects 9th and the lagna and

ofcourse 7th from moon.

 

I would try to bring those guru's qulities out of him. I see thats

one of the redeeming feature. Otherwise there are many affliction in

the chart to the seventh house.

 

He is in Budh-shani dasha and shani is yogakaraka for libra lagna and

also rashi lord for chandra rashi. Thats what is saving grace. However

he will be entering ketu mahadasha. ketu is afflictor to the fourth

house and is in 12th from moon afflicted by shani and sun. Ketu dasha

will not be as lenient as the current shani anter dasha.

The coming transits of shani in karka at the end of May and of guru in

september are better for your husband and I hope and pray that they

will bring some sense to the relationship

 

Please pray to whatever higher power you beleive in and please get

some professional counselling with your husband.

 

Good luck and God Bless

 

....

 

 

On Fri, 25 Feb 2005 13:16:03 -0000, kalyani0405 <kalyani0405 wrote:

>

> Dear all,

>

> I'm going through a very bad period in my life. I have a 1 month old

> and cannot handle the abuse of my husband. I've thought of committing

> suicide many times but have controlled the urge to do so. He is very

> loving a lot of times but has a irritable nature and gets angry very

> easily.

> Please analze my husband's chart and let me know what is going on.

> I would appreciate any information I can get.

> His details are as follows:

> July 21, 1962, 1.28 PM, Madakasira (13.57N,77.19E), India.

>

> Thanking you.

>

> Sincerely,

> Kalyani

>

>

>

>

>

>

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