Second marriage and career

December 22, 2004

Respected learned members,

I have two question with regards to my chart:

a) When and how my second marriage will be?

My first marriage was an arranged marriage, which happened on Dec 22nd, 1995 and

the divorce was passed in feb 1998. Though I am saying that was my "first

marriage", it really wasn't any marriage at all. I am mentioning this detail to

shed some light on the authenticity of my chart. But my question really is, how

will my second marriage be? There has been difference of opinion regarding

which house to look at for second marriage and I can't figure out how to read

that. Could someone also predict when it will be? I do know when it will be, I

am still asking that question to see if someone has a way to predict that..and

I would like to learn that method.

b) About my career: I am in the field of psychology and counseling since the

last three years but my background has been in business and marketing. I am at

a junction where I can pursue both simultaneously. I am curious about what my

career house really indicates. It has Sun and mercury (and perhaps my career

keeps changing because of mercury?) placed in it plus the aspect of jupiter.

Which career does that indicate? I have been having thoughts of doing marketing

for the pharmaceutical industry. My 10th lord moon in 6th house with mars, does

this indicate something to do with the medical profession? If so, would I be

sucessful in it?

My birth details are:

DOB: July 22nd 1973

TOB: 12.35 p.m.

POB: New Delhi

I look forward to receiving some guidance.

Thank you,

Dimple

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December 22, 2004

Jai Mata Di

Dear Dimple Ji:

I am a student of astrology and in noway the final authority in what i

analyze. However this is what i feel about your chart.

Usually we see the potential for marriage from 7th house in lagna

chart and the 7th lord. In ur case 7th lord is mangal who is in 6th

house and hence the divorce. However i have seen so many charts where

they have 7th lord in 6th house and even than marriage as been intact,

though a painful marriage. So this makes us wonder if astrology is

case subjective. The answer is no......its our deficiency. So further

studying i got into concept of Upapada Lagna for marriage not sure if

you have read about it but it is showing very good consistency in

results i have observed so far.

The difference between 7th house/lord and Upapada is 7th house and its

arudha shows our attraction to a potential partner, however upapada

shows us the partner we marry (in western world we will say partner we

had long term relationship with / physical relationship does qualify

for upapada if relationship is more than a year )

Now analyzing your UL. Ur UL lord is venus so it did give you a

marriage however we see longevity of marriage from 2nd from UL and

planets that help sustaining marriage from 3rd from UL. In ur case 2nd

from UL is having shani + ketu having drishti from rahu. This is the

reason that lead to divorce, we also consider rashi drishti.

For second marriage we refer to 8th from UL, and if nodes are involved

there than they cast a full stop. In ur case 8th from UL is

saggitarius with Rahu there and hence by what i have learned so far,

there is very bleak chance for second marriage. However, i believe and

trust in vedic astrology cause it shows remedies and karmic relations

for mis-happenings. Though i am not an expert in remedies, i will

suggest u to propitiate rahu by worshipping Durga maa ...i saw || Jai

Mata Di || at the beginning of ur mail ....and this is the precise

reason for you to worship maa.

REMEDY 1. Following is the link with details for worshipping maa,

however i will wait for confirmation from other learned members before

starting the remedy

http://www.srath.com/mantra/durga.htm

Things will definitely improve if you do worshipping with whole heart

and once divine wishes it nothing can be denied.

REMEDY 2. Also UL is a sign of Venus so fasting on friday will enhance

ur marriage potentiality and will guide you correctly if second

marriage is ur karmic destiny.

Ur Darakaraka is mercury which badly afflicted cause its combusted and

retrograde by the presence of Sun who is also ur badhakesh. Also Venus

UL lord is in 11th house which badhak sthana for libra lagna. So the

combination of these things are causing marital problems.

REMEDY 3. Wearing an Emerald wont be a bad suggestion as per me,

however again confirm with other members of the forum. This will

strength your 9th house of luck and 12th house of bed pleasures (of

course which will lead to marriage too). Also make you more decisive

with career i would say.

Please send me a feedback as to what you feel about my readings so as

to enable me for further readings. I also request other members of the

forum, Nitinji Raoji to comment.

Hare Rama Krishna

Bharat

On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 12:31:45 -0800 (PST), Water Fire

<julyrainmermaid wrote:

> III Jai Mata Di III

>

> Respected learned members,

>

> I have two question with regards to my chart:

>

> a) When and how my second marriage will be?

> My first marriage was an arranged marriage, which happened on Dec 22nd, 1995

> and the divorce was passed in feb 1998. Though I am saying that was my

> "first marriage", it really wasn't any marriage at all. I am mentioning this

> detail to shed some light on the authenticity of my chart. But my question

> really is, how will my second marriage be? There has been difference of

> opinion regarding which house to look at for second marriage and I can't

> figure out how to read that. Could someone also predict when it will be? I

> do know when it will be, I am still asking that question to see if someone

> has a way to predict that..and I would like to learn that method.

>

> b) About my career: I am in the field of psychology and counseling since the

> last three years but my background has been in business and marketing. I am

> at a junction where I can pursue both simultaneously. I am curious about

> what my career house really indicates. It has Sun and mercury (and perhaps

> my career keeps changing because of mercury?) placed in it plus the aspect

> of jupiter. Which career does that indicate? I have been having thoughts of

> doing marketing for the pharmaceutical industry. My 10th lord moon in 6th

> house with mars, does this indicate something to do with the medical

> profession? If so, would I be sucessful in it?

>

> My birth details are:

> DOB: July 22nd 1973

> TOB: 12.35 p.m.

> POB: New Delhi

>

> I look forward to receiving some guidance.

>

> Thank you,

> Dimple

>

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December 22, 2004

Dear Bharat Ji,

Thank you so much for reading my chart. I am unfamiliar with some of the terms

you have mentioned. However, I will research those and thus learn more.

I appreciate your efforts for the readings. Like I had mentioned "I do know when

the second marriage will be", at this point I feel I should mention that. The

court marriage (second marriage) already happened on Oct 4th, 1994 and the

hindu ceremony is taking place on jan 21st, 2005.

I am happy to read that both the things that you mentioned (wear an emerald and

worship Ma durga) occured to my conscious mind and I have been wearing an

emerald (I prescribed it to myself out of intuition from my chart) since the

past 4 years or so. also, I got a "bulawa" from Vaishnu Devi mata before I left

India for US in 2001. I went to Vaishnu Devi and asked her for a nice husband. I

feel that it is all her blessings.

So my chart really shows no second marriage and yet it is happening? Should I

then infer that prayers have the strength to change things that are indicated

otherwise in the chart?

I would like to mention one thing, perhaps this may change the house you would

look at for second marriage now. You said that in the western world a

relationship that has lasted more than an year or so would be looked upon as

second marriage. Well, after the divorce I had an emotional attachment to a guy

that lasted for three years. His parents refused to accept me as their

daughter-in-law as I was a divorcee and he had never been married before. In

the end they did, but my self-dignity and fear did not allow me to go to a

house which had already not treated me with respect. Would you consider such

relationships as marriage? If so, then perhaps this would be a third wedding

and would be read from a different house? (I think reading marriages in

astrology is getting more complicated these days ).

Thank you for your interaction,

Regards,

DimpleBharat Vyas <bharatvyas > wrote:

Jai Mata Di Dear Dimple Ji:I am a student of astrology and in noway the final

authority in what ianalyze. However this is what i feel about your

chart.Usually we see the potential for marriage from 7th house in lagnachart

and the 7th lord. In ur case 7th lord is mangal who is in 6thhouse and hence

the divorce. However i have seen so many charts wherethey have 7th lord in 6th

house and even than marriage as been intact,though a painful marriage. So this

makes us wonder if astrology iscase subjective. The answer is no......its our

deficiency. So furtherstudying i got into concept of Upapada Lagna for marriage

not sure ifyou have read about it but it is showing very good consistency

inresults i have observed so far.The difference between 7th house/lord and

Upapada is 7th house and itsarudha shows our

attraction to a potential partner, however upapadashows us the partner we marry

(in western world we will say partner wehad long term relationship with /

physical relationship does qualifyfor upapada if relationship is more than a

year )Now analyzing your UL. Ur UL lord is venus so it did give you amarriage

however we see longevity of marriage from 2nd from UL andplanets that help

sustaining marriage from 3rd from UL. In ur case 2ndfrom UL is having shani +

ketu having drishti from rahu. This is thereason that lead to divorce, we also

consider rashi drishti.For second marriage we refer to 8th from UL, and if

nodes are involvedthere than they cast a full stop. In ur case 8th from UL

issaggitarius with Rahu there and hence by what i have learned so far,there is

very bleak chance for second marriage. However, i believe andtrust in vedic

astrology cause it shows remedies and karmic relationsfor mis-happenings.

Though i am

not an expert in remedies, i willsuggest u to propitiate rahu by worshipping

Durga maa ...i saw || JaiMata Di || at the beginning of ur mail ....and this is

the precisereason for you to worship maa.REMEDY 1. Following is the link with

details for worshipping maa,however i will wait for confirmation from other

learned members beforestarting the

remedyhttp://www.srath.com/mantra/durga.htmThings will definitely improve if

you do worshipping with whole heartand once divine wishes it nothing can be

denied.REMEDY 2. Also UL is a sign of Venus so fasting on friday will enhanceur

marriage potentiality and will guide you correctly if secondmarriage is ur

karmic destiny.Ur Darakaraka is mercury which badly afflicted cause its

combusted andretrograde by the presence of Sun who is also ur badhakesh. Also

VenusUL lord is in 11th house which badhak sthana for libra

lagna. So thecombination of these things are causing marital problems.REMEDY 3.

Wearing an Emerald wont be a bad suggestion as per me,however again confirm

with other members of the forum. This willstrength your 9th house of luck and

12th house of bed pleasures (ofcourse which will lead to marriage too). Also

make you more decisivewith career i would say.Please send me a feedback as to

what you feel about my readings so asto enable me for further readings. I also

request other members of theforum, Nitinji Raoji to comment.Hare Rama

KrishnaBharat On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 12:31:45 -0800 (PST), Water

Fire<julyrainmermaid > wrote:> III Jai Mata Di III> > Respected

learned members,> > I have two question with regards to my chart:> > a) When

and how my second marriage will be? > My first marriage was an arranged

marriage,

which happened on Dec 22nd, 1995> and the divorce was passed in feb 1998. Though

I am saying that was my> "first marriage", it really wasn't any marriage at all.

I am mentioning this> detail to shed some light on the authenticity of my chart.

But my question> really is, how will my second marriage be? There has been

difference of> opinion regarding which house to look at for second marriage and

I can't> figure out how to read that. Could someone also predict when it will

be? I> do know when it will be, I am still asking that question to see if

someone> has a way to predict that..and I would like to learn that method.> >

b) About my career: I am in the field of psychology and counseling since the>

last three years but my background has been in business and marketing. I am> at

a junction where I can pursue both simultaneously. I am curious about> what my

career house really indicates. It

has Sun and mercury (and perhaps> my career keeps changing because of mercury?)

placed in it plus the aspect> of jupiter. Which career does that indicate? I

have been having thoughts of> doing marketing for the pharmaceutical industry.

My 10th lord moon in 6th> house with mars, does this indicate something to do

with the medical> profession? If so, would I be sucessful in it?> > My birth

details are:> DOB: July 22nd 1973> TOB: 12.35 p.m.> POB: New Delhi> > I look

forward to receiving some guidance.> > Thank you,> Dimple> >

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December 22, 2004

Dear Dimpleji:

Hare Rama Krishna,

Reading marriage is not difficult to read from chart but however the

spiritual sanctity of marriage and its implications have changed so

much these days that we have to define new way for defining marriage

and relationships. However i think i will do a reading again to gain

some experience.

Bharat

On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 15:51:07 -0800 (PST), Water Fire

<julyrainmermaid wrote:

> III Jai Mata Di III

>

> Dear Bharat Ji,

>

> Thank you so much for reading my chart. I am unfamiliar with some of the

> terms you have mentioned. However, I will research those and thus learn

> more.

>

> I appreciate your efforts for the readings. Like I had mentioned "I do know

> when the second marriage will be", at this point I feel I should mention

> that. The court marriage (second marriage) already happened on Oct 4th, 1994

> and the hindu ceremony is taking place on jan 21st, 2005.

>

> I am happy to read that both the things that you mentioned (wear an emerald

> and worship Ma durga) occured to my conscious mind and I have been wearing

> an emerald (I prescribed it to myself out of intuition from my chart) since

> the past 4 years or so. also, I got a "bulawa" from Vaishnu Devi mata before

> I left India for US in 2001. I went to Vaishnu Devi and asked her for a nice

> husband. I feel that it is all her blessings.

>

> So my chart really shows no second marriage and yet it is happening? Should

> I then infer that prayers have the strength to change things that are

> indicated otherwise in the chart?

>

> I would like to mention one thing, perhaps this may change the house you

> would look at for second marriage now. You said that in the western world a

> relationship that has lasted more than an year or so would be looked upon as

> second marriage. Well, after the divorce I had an emotional attachment to a

> guy that lasted for three years. His parents refused to accept me as their

> daughter-in-law as I was a divorcee and he had never been married before. In

> the end they did, but my self-dignity and fear did not allow me to go to a

> house which had already not treated me with respect. Would you consider such

> relationships as marriage? If so, then perhaps this would be a third wedding

> and would be read from a different house? (I think reading marriages in

> astrology is getting more complicated these days ).

>

> Thank you for your interaction,

>

> Regards,

> Dimple

>

> Bharat Vyas <bharatvyas wrote:

> Jai Mata Di

>

> Dear Dimple Ji:

>

> I am a student of astrology and in noway the final authority in what i

> analyze. However this is what i feel about your chart.

>

> Usually we see the potential for marriage from 7th house in lagna

> chart and the 7th lord. In ur case 7th lord is mangal who is in 6th

> house and hence the divorce. However i have seen so many charts where

> they have 7th lord in 6th house and even than marriage as been intact,

> though a painful marriage. So this makes us wonder if astrology is

> case subjective. The answer is no......its our deficiency. So further

> studying i got into concept of Upapada Lagna for marriage not sure if

> you have read about it but it is showing very good consistency in

> results i have observed so far.

>

> The difference between 7th house/lord and Upapada is 7th house and its

> arudha shows our attraction to a potential partner, however upapada

> shows us the partner we marry (in western world we will say partner we

> had long term relationship with / physical relationship does qualify

> for upapada if relationship is more than a year )

>

> Now analyzing your UL. Ur UL lord is venus so it did give you a

> marriage however we see longevity of marriage from 2nd from UL and

> planets that help sustaining marriage from 3rd from UL. In ur case 2nd

> from UL is having shani + ketu having drishti from rahu. This is the

> reason that lead to divorce, we also consider rashi drishti.

>

> For second marriage we refer to 8th from UL, and if nodes are involved

> there than they cast a full stop. In ur case 8th from UL is

> saggitarius with Rahu there and hence by what i have learned so far,

> there is very bleak chance for second marriage. However, i believe and

> trust in vedic astrology cause it shows remedies and karmic relations

> for mis-happenings. Though i am not an expert in remedies, i will

> suggest u to propitiate rahu by worshipping Durga maa ...i saw || Jai

> Mata Di || at the beginning of ur mail ....and this is the precise

> reason for you to worship maa.

>

> REMEDY 1. Following is the link with details for worshipping maa,

> however i will wait for confirmation from other learned members before

> starting the remedy

>

> http://www.srath.com/mantra/durga.htm

>

> Things will definitely improve if you do worshipping with whole heart

> and once divine wishes it nothing can be denied.

>

> REMEDY 2. Also UL is a sign of Venus so fasting on friday will enhance

> ur marriage potentiality and will guide you correctly if second

> marriage is ur karmic destiny.

>

> Ur Darakaraka is mercury which badly afflicted cause its combusted and

> retrograde by the presence of Sun who is also ur badhakesh. Also Venus

> UL lord is in 11th house which badhak sthana for libra lagna. So the

> combination of these things are causing marital problems.

>

> REMEDY 3. Wearing an Emerald wont be a bad suggestion as per me,

> however again confirm with other members of the forum. This will

> strength your 9th house of luck and 12th house of bed pleasures (of

> course which will lead to marriage too). Also make you more decisive

> with career i would say.

>

> Please send me a feedback as to what you feel about my readings so as

> to enable me for further readings. I also request other members of the

> forum, Nitinji Raoji to comment.

>

> Hare Rama Krishna

>

> Bharat

>

> On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 12:31:45 -0800 (PST), Water Fire

> <julyrainmermaid wrote:

> > III Jai Mata Di III

> >

> > Respected learned members,

> >

> > I have two question with regards to my chart:

> >

> > a) When and how my second marriage will be?

> > My first marriage was an arranged marriage, which happened on Dec 22nd,

> 1995

> > and the divorce was passed in feb 1998. Though I am saying that was my

> > "first marriage", it really wasn't any marriage at all. I am mentioning

> this

> > detail to shed some light on the authenticity of my chart. But my question

> > really is, how will my second marriage be? There has been difference of

> > opinion regarding which house to look at for second marriage and I can't

> > figure out how to read that. Could someone also predict when it will be? I

> > do know when it will be, I am still asking that question to see if someone

> > has a way to predict that..and I would like to learn that method.

> >

> > b) About my career: I am in the field of psychology and counseling since

> the

> > last three years but my background has been in business and marketing. I

> am

> > at a junction where I can pursue both simultaneously. I am curious about

> > what my career house really indicates. It has Sun and mercury (and perhaps

> > my career keeps changing because of mercury?) placed in it plus the aspect

> > of jupiter. Which career does that indicate? I have been having thoughts

> of

> > doing marketing for the pharmaceutical industry. My 10th lord moon in 6th

> > house with mars, does this indicate something to do with the medical

> > profession? If so, would I be sucessful in it?

> >

> > My birth details are:

> > DOB: July 22nd 1973

> > TOB: 12.35 p.m.

> > POB: New Delhi

> >

> > I look forward to receiving some guidance.

> >

> > Thank you,

> > Dimple

> >

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December 22, 2004

Hare Rama Krishna:

I feel it surely a blessing of Durga maa that you are getting married

again. Looking at the dasha ...you first got married in venus-rahu

dasha and this marriage is taking place in venus-merc-rahu dasha. keep

praying to Durga for sustaining ur married life.

Also i would consider the second relationship of urs as having a

potential for marriage or a marriage which was not defined in true

sense as marriage cause of the presence of rahu which anti-dharmic in

nature (but can lead you to high spirituality if well placed) and

marriage is defined as dharma by Gita. Also second from rahu is

debilitated jupiter which is also retrograde so turned up ending that

relationship. Also 3rd house where rahu is sitting is lorded by

debilitated retrograde jupiter and hence the result.

The third marriage of urs is now been looked from 10th house whose

lord is moon who is in 9th from 10th house. 9th would indicate dharma

and moon is considered a benefic and hence would to logical result of

marriage denoting dharma. The second from 10th is what we will look

now for longevity of ur third marriage. The 11th house is incidently

badhak for ur lagna. The badhakesh is sun placed in ur 10th house for

new marriage. While defining UL sun was considered benefic for

marriage and longevity of marriage cause sun represents dharma. So

though u might face problems in getting married 3rd time u will

finally succeed also grace of maa durga. 11th house is badhak and its

acting as badhak to breaking of marriage so marriage wont break :-) .

Good Luck and Best Wishes ,

Bharat

On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 17:53:56 -0700, Bharat Vyas <bharatvyas wrote:

> Dear Dimpleji:

>

> Hare Rama Krishna,

>

> Reading marriage is not difficult to read from chart but however the

> spiritual sanctity of marriage and its implications have changed so

> much these days that we have to define new way for defining marriage

> and relationships. However i think i will do a reading again to gain

> some experience.

>

> Bharat

>

> On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 15:51:07 -0800 (PST), Water Fire

> <julyrainmermaid wrote:

> > III Jai Mata Di III

> >

> > Dear Bharat Ji,

> >

> > Thank you so much for reading my chart. I am unfamiliar with some of the

> > terms you have mentioned. However, I will research those and thus learn

> > more.

> >

> > I appreciate your efforts for the readings. Like I had mentioned "I do know

> > when the second marriage will be", at this point I feel I should mention

> > that. The court marriage (second marriage) already happened on Oct 4th, 1994

> > and the hindu ceremony is taking place on jan 21st, 2005.

> >

> > I am happy to read that both the things that you mentioned (wear an emerald

> > and worship Ma durga) occured to my conscious mind and I have been wearing

> > an emerald (I prescribed it to myself out of intuition from my chart) since

> > the past 4 years or so. also, I got a "bulawa" from Vaishnu Devi mata before

> > I left India for US in 2001. I went to Vaishnu Devi and asked her for a nice

> > husband. I feel that it is all her blessings.

> >

> > So my chart really shows no second marriage and yet it is happening? Should

> > I then infer that prayers have the strength to change things that are

> > indicated otherwise in the chart?

> >

> > I would like to mention one thing, perhaps this may change the house you

> > would look at for second marriage now. You said that in the western world a

> > relationship that has lasted more than an year or so would be looked upon as

> > second marriage. Well, after the divorce I had an emotional attachment to a

> > guy that lasted for three years. His parents refused to accept me as their

> > daughter-in-law as I was a divorcee and he had never been married before. In

> > the end they did, but my self-dignity and fear did not allow me to go to a

> > house which had already not treated me with respect. Would you consider such

> > relationships as marriage? If so, then perhaps this would be a third wedding

> > and would be read from a different house? (I think reading marriages in

> > astrology is getting more complicated these days ).

> >

> > Thank you for your interaction,

> >

> > Regards,

> > Dimple

> >

> > Bharat Vyas <bharatvyas wrote:

> > Jai Mata Di

> >

> > Dear Dimple Ji:

> >

> > I am a student of astrology and in noway the final authority in what i

> > analyze. However this is what i feel about your chart.

> >

> > Usually we see the potential for marriage from 7th house in lagna

> > chart and the 7th lord. In ur case 7th lord is mangal who is in 6th

> > house and hence the divorce. However i have seen so many charts where

> > they have 7th lord in 6th house and even than marriage as been intact,

> > though a painful marriage. So this makes us wonder if astrology is

> > case subjective. The answer is no......its our deficiency. So further

> > studying i got into concept of Upapada Lagna for marriage not sure if

> > you have read about it but it is showing very good consistency in

> > results i have observed so far.

> >

> > The difference between 7th house/lord and Upapada is 7th house and its

> > arudha shows our attraction to a potential partner, however upapada

> > shows us the partner we marry (in western world we will say partner we

> > had long term relationship with / physical relationship does qualify

> > for upapada if relationship is more than a year )

> >

> > Now analyzing your UL. Ur UL lord is venus so it did give you a

> > marriage however we see longevity of marriage from 2nd from UL and

> > planets that help sustaining marriage from 3rd from UL. In ur case 2nd

> > from UL is having shani + ketu having drishti from rahu. This is the

> > reason that lead to divorce, we also consider rashi drishti.

> >

> > For second marriage we refer to 8th from UL, and if nodes are involved

> > there than they cast a full stop. In ur case 8th from UL is

> > saggitarius with Rahu there and hence by what i have learned so far,

> > there is very bleak chance for second marriage. However, i believe and

> > trust in vedic astrology cause it shows remedies and karmic relations

> > for mis-happenings. Though i am not an expert in remedies, i will

> > suggest u to propitiate rahu by worshipping Durga maa ...i saw || Jai

> > Mata Di || at the beginning of ur mail ....and this is the precise

> > reason for you to worship maa.

> >

> > REMEDY 1. Following is the link with details for worshipping maa,

> > however i will wait for confirmation from other learned members before

> > starting the remedy

> >

> > http://www.srath.com/mantra/durga.htm

> >

> > Things will definitely improve if you do worshipping with whole heart

> > and once divine wishes it nothing can be denied.

> >

> > REMEDY 2. Also UL is a sign of Venus so fasting on friday will enhance

> > ur marriage potentiality and will guide you correctly if second

> > marriage is ur karmic destiny.

> >

> > Ur Darakaraka is mercury which badly afflicted cause its combusted and

> > retrograde by the presence of Sun who is also ur badhakesh. Also Venus

> > UL lord is in 11th house which badhak sthana for libra lagna. So the

> > combination of these things are causing marital problems.

> >

> > REMEDY 3. Wearing an Emerald wont be a bad suggestion as per me,

> > however again confirm with other members of the forum. This will

> > strength your 9th house of luck and 12th house of bed pleasures (of

> > course which will lead to marriage too). Also make you more decisive

> > with career i would say.

> >

> > Please send me a feedback as to what you feel about my readings so as

> > to enable me for further readings. I also request other members of the

> > forum, Nitinji Raoji to comment.

> >

> > Hare Rama Krishna

> >

> > Bharat

> >

> > On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 12:31:45 -0800 (PST), Water Fire

> > <julyrainmermaid wrote:

> > > III Jai Mata Di III

> > >

> > > Respected learned members,

> > >

> > > I have two question with regards to my chart:

> > >

> > > a) When and how my second marriage will be?

> > > My first marriage was an arranged marriage, which happened on Dec 22nd,

> > 1995

> > > and the divorce was passed in feb 1998. Though I am saying that was my

> > > "first marriage", it really wasn't any marriage at all. I am mentioning

> > this

> > > detail to shed some light on the authenticity of my chart. But my question

> > > really is, how will my second marriage be? There has been difference of

> > > opinion regarding which house to look at for second marriage and I can't

> > > figure out how to read that. Could someone also predict when it will be? I

> > > do know when it will be, I am still asking that question to see if someone

> > > has a way to predict that..and I would like to learn that method.

> > >

> > > b) About my career: I am in the field of psychology and counseling since

> > the

> > > last three years but my background has been in business and marketing. I

> > am

> > > at a junction where I can pursue both simultaneously. I am curious about

> > > what my career house really indicates. It has Sun and mercury (and perhaps

> > > my career keeps changing because of mercury?) placed in it plus the aspect

> > > of jupiter. Which career does that indicate? I have been having thoughts

> > of

> > > doing marketing for the pharmaceutical industry. My 10th lord moon in 6th

> > > house with mars, does this indicate something to do with the medical

> > > profession? If so, would I be sucessful in it?

> > >

> > > My birth details are:

> > > DOB: July 22nd 1973

> > > TOB: 12.35 p.m.

> > > POB: New Delhi

> > >

> > > I look forward to receiving some guidance.

> > >

> > > Thank you,

> > > Dimple

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December 22, 2004

Dear Bharat ji,

I am trying to learn astrology and so read some of your mails with a lot of interest.

I was reading through you last mail and came across - "Also second from rahu is

debilitated jupiter which is also retrograde so turned up ending that

relationship. "

It immediately reminded me of the chart of some one I know that has a similar

configuration - 7th house DebRahu and 8th house DebRetJup with MalMoon...... I

would like your analysis and insights on it with regard to marriage, persons

nature and future - the chart is attached. The person has a marriage that has

been very troublesome from day one. Married April 23 2001, First child - Boy -

14th Sep. 2002 (Moola- 2nd pada) After much trouble, almost a year, has been

better. Predictions for future so far have not been good.

With thanks and regards,

Vinoo

Bharat Vyas [bharatvyas ]Sent:

Thursday, December 23, 2004 07:08vedic astrologyRe:

[vedic astrology] Second marriage and careerHare Rama Krishna:I feel it surely

a blessing of Durga maa that you are getting marriedagain. Looking at the dasha

....you first got married in venus-rahudasha and this marriage is taking place in

venus-merc-rahu dasha. keeppraying to Durga for sustaining ur married life.Also

i would consider the second relationship of urs as having apotential for

marriage or a marriage which was not defined in truesense as marriage cause of

the presence of rahu which anti-dharmic innature (but can lead you to high

spirituality if well placed) andmarriage is defined as dharma by Gita. Also

second from rahu isdebilitated jupiter which is also retrograde so turned up

ending thatrelationship. Also 3rd house where rahu is sitting is lorded

bydebilitated retrograde jupiter and hence the result.The third marriage of urs

is now been looked from 10th house whoselord is moon who is in 9th from 10th

house. 9th would indicate dharmaand moon is considered a benefic and hence

would to logical result ofmarriage denoting dharma. The second from 10th is

what we will looknow for longevity of ur third marriage. The 11th house is

incidentlybadhak for ur lagna. The badhakesh is sun placed in ur 10th house

fornew marriage. While defining UL sun was considered benefic formarriage and

longevity of marriage cause sun represents dharma. Sothough u might face

problems in getting married 3rd time u willfinally succeed also grace of maa

durga. 11th house is badhak and itsacting as badhak to breaking of marriage so

marriage wont break :-) .Good Luck and Best Wishes ,Bharat

Attachment: (application/octet-stream) 7th House Rahu and 8th DebRetJup.jhd [not stored]

December 23, 2004

Dear Bharat Ji,

Thank you for your reading and kind words. I feel like mata conveyed this to me through you.

Regards,

DimpleBharat Vyas <bharatvyas > wrote:

Hare Rama Krishna:I feel it surely a blessing of Durga maa that you are getting

marriedagain. Looking at the dasha ...you first got married in venus-rahudasha

and this marriage is taking place in venus-merc-rahu dasha. keeppraying to

Durga for sustaining ur married life.Also i would consider the second

relationship of urs as having apotential for marriage or a marriage which was

not defined in truesense as marriage cause of the presence of rahu which

anti-dharmic innature (but can lead you to high spirituality if well placed)

andmarriage is defined as dharma by Gita. Also second from rahu isdebilitated

jupiter which is also retrograde so turned up ending thatrelationship. Also 3rd

house where rahu is sitting is lorded bydebilitated retrograde jupiter and hence

the result.The third marriage of urs is now been looked

from 10th house whoselord is moon who is in 9th from 10th house. 9th would

indicate dharmaand moon is considered a benefic and hence would to logical

result ofmarriage denoting dharma. The second from 10th is what we will looknow

for longevity of ur third marriage. The 11th house is incidentlybadhak for ur

lagna. The badhakesh is sun placed in ur 10th house fornew marriage. While

defining UL sun was considered benefic formarriage and longevity of marriage

cause sun represents dharma. Sothough u might face problems in getting married

3rd time u willfinally succeed also grace of maa durga. 11th house is badhak

and itsacting as badhak to breaking of marriage so marriage wont break :-)

..Good Luck and Best Wishes ,BharatOn Wed, 22 Dec 2004 17:53:56 -0700, Bharat

Vyas <bharatvyas > wrote:> Dear Dimpleji:> > Hare Rama Krishna,> >

Reading marriage is not difficult to

read from chart but however the> spiritual sanctity of marriage and its

implications have changed so> much these days that we have to define new way

for defining marriage> and relationships. However i think i will do a reading

again to gain> some experience.> > Bharat> > On Wed, 22 Dec 2004 15:51:07 -0800

(PST), Water Fire> <julyrainmermaid > wrote:> > III Jai Mata Di III> >>

> Dear Bharat Ji,> >> > Thank you so much for reading my chart. I am unfamiliar

with some of the> > terms you have mentioned. However, I will research those

and thus learn> > more.> >> > I appreciate your efforts for the readings. Like

I had mentioned "I do know> > when the second marriage will be", at this point

I feel I should mention> > that. The court marriage (second marriage) already

happened on Oct 4th, 1994>

> and the hindu ceremony is taking place on jan 21st, 2005.> >> > I am happy to

read that both the things that you mentioned (wear an emerald> > and worship Ma

durga) occured to my conscious mind and I have been wearing> > an emerald (I

prescribed it to myself out of intuition from my chart) since> > the past 4

years or so. also, I got a "bulawa" from Vaishnu Devi mata before> > I left

India for US in 2001. I went to Vaishnu Devi and asked her for a nice> >

husband. I feel that it is all her blessings.> >> > So my chart really shows no

second marriage and yet it is happening? Should> > I then infer that prayers

have the strength to change things that are> > indicated otherwise in the

chart?> >> > I would like to mention one thing, perhaps this may change the

house you> > would look at for second marriage now. You said that in the

western

world a> > relationship that has lasted more than an year or so would be looked

upon as> > second marriage. Well, after the divorce I had an emotional

attachment to a> > guy that lasted for three years. His parents refused to

accept me as their> > daughter-in-law as I was a divorcee and he had never been

married before. In> > the end they did, but my self-dignity and fear did not

allow me to go to a> > house which had already not treated me with respect.

Would you consider such> > relationships as marriage? If so, then perhaps this

would be a third wedding> > and would be read from a different house? (I think

reading marriages in> > astrology is getting more complicated these days ).>

>> > Thank you for your interaction,> >> > Regards,> > Dimple> >> >> > Bharat

Vyas <bharatvyas > wrote:>

> Jai Mata Di> >> > Dear Dimple Ji:> >> > I am a student of astrology and in

noway the final authority in what i> > analyze. However this is what i feel

about your chart.> >> > Usually we see the potential for marriage from 7th

house in lagna> > chart and the 7th lord. In ur case 7th lord is mangal who is

in 6th> > house and hence the divorce. However i have seen so many charts

where> > they have 7th lord in 6th house and even than marriage as been

intact,> > though a painful marriage. So this makes us wonder if astrology is>

> case subjective. The answer is no......its our deficiency. So further> >

studying i got into concept of Upapada Lagna for marriage not sure if> > you

have read about it but it is showing very good consistency in> > results i have

observed so far.> >> > The difference between 7th house/lord

and Upapada is 7th house and its> > arudha shows our attraction to a potential

partner, however upapada> > shows us the partner we marry (in western world we

will say partner we> > had long term relationship with / physical relationship

does qualify> > for upapada if relationship is more than a year )> >> > Now

analyzing your UL. Ur UL lord is venus so it did give you a> > marriage however

we see longevity of marriage from 2nd from UL and> > planets that help

sustaining marriage from 3rd from UL. In ur case 2nd> > from UL is having shani

+ ketu having drishti from rahu. This is the> > reason that lead to divorce, we

also consider rashi drishti.> >> > For second marriage we refer to 8th from UL,

and if nodes are involved> > there than they cast a full stop. In ur case 8th

from UL is> > saggitarius with Rahu there and hence by what i have

learned so far,> > there is very bleak chance for second marriage. However, i

believe and> > trust in vedic astrology cause it shows remedies and karmic

relations> > for mis-happenings. Though i am not an expert in remedies, i will>

> suggest u to propitiate rahu by worshipping Durga maa ...i saw || Jai> > Mata

Di || at the beginning of ur mail ....and this is the precise> > reason for you

to worship maa.> >> > REMEDY 1. Following is the link with details for

worshipping maa,> > however i will wait for confirmation from other learned

members before> > starting the remedy> >> >

http://www.srath.com/mantra/durga.htm> >> > Things will definitely improve if

you do worshipping with whole heart> > and once divine wishes it nothing can be

denied.> >> > REMEDY 2. Also UL

is a sign of Venus so fasting on friday will enhance> > ur marriage potentiality

and will guide you correctly if second> > marriage is ur karmic destiny.> >> >

Ur Darakaraka is mercury which badly afflicted cause its combusted and> >

retrograde by the presence of Sun who is also ur badhakesh. Also Venus> > UL

lord is in 11th house which badhak sthana for libra lagna. So the> >

combination of these things are causing marital problems.> >> > REMEDY 3.

Wearing an Emerald wont be a bad suggestion as per me,> > however again confirm

with other members of the forum. This will> > strength your 9th house of luck

and 12th house of bed pleasures (of> > course which will lead to marriage too).

Also make you more decisive> > with career i would say.> >> > Please send me a

feedback as to what you feel about my readings so as> > to enable

me for further readings. I also request other members of the> > forum, Nitinji

Raoji to comment.> >> > Hare Rama Krishna> >> > Bharat> >> >

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December 23, 2004

Dear Bharat ji,

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