Negative Psychology - Need Help !!

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Dearest Learned Gurus and group members:

 

Many Greetings!

 

I have my nephew, Chintan [same name as mine], going thru a very difficult cycle

of his life. My sister and bro-in-lo are very tensed and worried about his

future. They, along with my niche, have written me an email to get some

remedies from our astrological group and to seek some help. I hope someone of

us would study his chart and suggest the possible remedies for him. I would be

glad to share more information you may require.

 

Birth Details:

 

DOB: October 25, 1985

Time: 23:40

Place: 70E47 22N18 (Rajkot, Gujarat, INDIA)

Time Zone: East of GMT +0530

 

The reactions in brief are :

He is not taking studies seriously at all. He was irresolute before...but..now

he has become careless about it. He doesn't even care for his own career. He

understands everything but cannot implement correct things in this regard. He

gets too driven away by his friends, their lavish life-styles, their attitudes.

He has always fallen prey to cunning friends who have made use of him when they

needed him and now are no more around him to help him out. his tendency is to

always fall into bad company, even he was introduced to few "Momma's good boys"

around his residence by his parents but they somehow run-away from him or he

makes them run. Too much of emotional attachment to his girlfriend- Maitri, too

much of dependence on her. In the sense he is ready to jump into a well without

any water in it, but that girl doesn't respond so much. His mind and body is

always onset of doing anything, without thinking, just on a wink of her eyes!.

she is a nice girl but she has her priorities in life - parents, studies and she

is focussed. chintan is always running behind her putting his career and

priorities behind. Even he offends his mom-dad. He is very extravagant and

spendthrift. His mom-dad often infuriates with him while the matter of fact is

they simply cannot absorb a thought of their money being spend uselessly and

carelessly by his own son! After all these duels between him and his

parents.....Chintan tend to develop an anecdote that - Money is more important

and greater to his parents than their son! He has something very strong against

his daddy. His dad has passed many sleepless nights in worries, but he does not

listen. He spends as he wants to, doesn't listen to any single thing, wanders

like a spoilt-brat, browsing internet till late night, watching tv - in short

all this he keeps on doing which is strictly against our home ethics. and so,

it makes his mom and dad displeased. Its

understandable that everything will be alright someday (sab kuch theek ho

jayega) , Even un-educated and illiterate people also enjoys fanciful life, but

it is very bad this way. Home environment is all deteriorated because his small

acts and things are against the ethics of his mom-dad. it is very difficult for

them to digest all these. And just because of that, environment of peach and

harmony has turned to bitterness. His 1yr result is not declared yet (college

result) but not sure what would be the result, and its not expected even that

he can pass with good marks. Their parents are worried, as naturally, since

they are spending Rs 30,000/- yr for his fees. Evaluation of the matter is:

 

When he was a child, he was tortured and tormented by many of our relatives (it

was a untold-equivocal-rule for his relatives to torture the kids who is doing

something wrong rather than explaining him and guiding him to do the right

thing, right way) and that made him very stoic. After all this saga, he has

developed a habit not to listen to the things for his good and his growth. He

has tend to develop a negative-psychology. If somebody says to him that "You

cannot do this thing"...he will make sure and show that "He really cannot do

that thing as per what was predicted or estimated"He thinks that - If you

believe that I cannot study and fare well...I will NOT study and won't work and

I will show you that I CANNOT STUDY WELL..!! .....very different psychology. and

frankly speaking it is very difficult to cope up with such kind of psychology

every time. we are really tensed about his future and

present also. and his attitude is harmful not only to him, but to us also. he

acts as if he doesn't give a damn to parents, what they say, what they feel. We

have a glimmer of hope that he will be very successful and frankly speaking he

is a very nice person at heart. He always is maneuvered by people of been

victing of a ploy of others or may be his own friends. Thanks in Advance !!

 

Astrologically yours,

Chintan.

 

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