**Mental Problem** PLEASE HELP

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Respected Learned members,

 

I have my Friend Manoj passing thru very difficult phase of his life

and I came across this group to seek your valuable guidence.

 

I am providing his details as under:

 

Name Manoj

DOB 16th MAY 1978

Time 3.30 PM

Place Ahmedabad.

 

Manoj was a bright studen but could not get enough marks in the 12th

(66-64%). He had to go in for Private Engg that too at his time

Maharashtra from where he did his eduction, got a rush everywhere cos

the southern states went on strike. HE wanted to do COMP engg he but

managed to do Electronics. Fine .....

 

After the engg he got admission in one of the best schools in

business Mangaement, but his markesheets were not ready...he had to

do hs management from an ok place. Fine.

 

After his management from in Masters in Information Management

Systems...the Infocomm industry went bust...he could only get a job

as a marketing executive..and...he took that. 2 yrs into that went

the tragedy struck. His father died...& he was very close. He lost

his job. He lost his girlfriend. & then he lost his ertificates( all

degree certificates )....all in a matter of one month.

 

All this has made him a confused individual. He has a wavering

disposition....something i have never seen in him before. He also has

this notion of just earning money whatever & however....He does not

stick to one

thing....but jumps to several as a result nothing happens & then he

again gets frustrated.....all my attempts at positive thinking &

being proactive are dealt with frustration. As a result he is

becoming frustrated.

 

now he is looking for a job in marketing (again) very depressed

(again) & that puts his family members in a condition too....as they

get worried. it seems like nothing is happening....he pulls himself

up for a month & the next month is down again & again for a month ok

& the again down. happening for quite sometime......... also his

relation with her mom has deterioted.... he has not called her in 6

months .....ya........now he does not talk nor wants to be talked

to.....gets irritated very easily ..... it is getting to be a down-

hill.......

 

I want to know when this period will end, what can I / his family

members do..... is there a way out? Will wearing a navratna help in

anyway.

 

PLEASE HELP.

 

Would be thankful for all your help.

 

Regards

Chintan