Negative Psychology - Need Help !!

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Dear Chintan Namaste

 

The Mars is in 3rd house in Shatru rashi and is with lord of

friends. The lagna lord is moon placed in dwiswabhava rashi in 9th

house. The Sun has no neechabhanga but Sa is in trine from lagna as

well as moon. The house for friend is aspected by Sa and neecha Ju.

Me is Ak and its Dasa is operating. The Ma-Ve in 3rd house possibly

has made him to have emotional involment so early in the life. Mas

is aspecting 9th house and its lord is debiliated. So father must

have problems from this child. The aspect of ju on 3rd house will

minimize the problem. Pitakarak Su is neecha and in 8th house in

Navmansha. All this leads to problem to the father. The Sa in 5th

is good for the person. 5th lord is real problem.

 

Now Varshaphala of 2004

 

The varsha lagna is Vrishabha. Lord of Lagna is in 5th and aspecting

lagna. It is placed with Mars again(which is problem creating graha

in Natal chart) which is lord of 12th and 7th in varsha chart. This

is coupled with Ju which is lord of 11th. So influence of friends

will surly be there in the next year as well. The varshesh for 2004

will be moon as it is lagna lord and trirashish aspecting lagna. So

possibly next year he may have 'good' time with friends and much

mental problems. The Mutha is well placed and its lord is in 3rd.

The squre aspect of Sun on muthaesh will not allow him to have

freedom from mother-father. That will lead to more family problems.

The 4th house lord is in 6th and has malefic aspect of Sa and may

show trouble in education. But Vidya saham is in 7th with its lord

along with lagna lord. It is aspected by lagna lord as well. This

is good for education. The punya saham although ill placed but its

lord Ju(which is 9th lord in natalas well) is well placed. So

blessings from elderly person will help him to over come the

problems.

 

So I see that in the natal chart problems creating graha is MA-Ve

and in the Varsha chart again many factors are against his smooth

studies. But I think GURU will help him out. Best remedies will be

to put on Moonga in gold in Anamika and for a year performing

jalabhishek in shivlinga daily will help this person. Performing

pooja of Guru Dattatraya will as well help him.

 

Ofcourse this is my opinion and can be totally wrong.

 

Thanks alot for your Time and Sapce.

 

Prabodh Vekhande

 

Jai Jai Shankar

Har Har Shankar

 

 

 

vedic astrology, Chintan Chhaya

<chintanchhaya> wrote:

> Dearest Learned Gurus and group members:

>

> Many Greetings!

>

> I have my nephew, Chintan [same name as mine], going thru a very

difficult cycle of his life. My sister and bro-in-lo are very tensed

and worried about his future. They, along with my niche, have

written me an email to get some remedies from our astrological group

and to seek some help. I hope someone of us would study his chart

and suggest the possible remedies for him. I would be glad to share

more information you may require.

>

> Birth Details:

>

> DOB: October 25, 1985

> Time: 23:40

> Place: 70E47 22N18 (Rajkot, Gujarat, INDIA)

> Time Zone: East of GMT +0530

>

> The reactions in brief are :

>

> He is not taking studies seriously at all. He was irresolute

before...but..now he has become careless about it. He doesn't even

care for his own career. He understands everything but cannot

implement correct things in this regard. He gets too driven away by

his friends, their lavish life-styles, their attitudes. He has

always fallen prey to cunning friends who have made use of him when

they needed him and now are no more around him to help him out. his

tendency is to always fall into bad company, even he was introduced

to few "Momma's good boys" around his residence by his parents but

they somehow run-away from him or he makes them run.

>

> Too much of emotional attachment to his girlfriend- Maitri, too

much of dependence on her. In the sense he is ready to jump into a

well without any water in it, but that girl doesn't respond so much.

His mind and body is always onset of doing anything, without

thinking, just on a wink of her eyes!. she is a nice girl but she

has her priorities in life - parents, studies and she is focussed.

chintan is always running behind her putting his career and

priorities behind. Even he offends his mom-dad.

>

> He is very extravagant and spendthrift. His mom-dad often

infuriates with him while the matter of fact is they simply cannot

absorb a thought of their money being spend uselessly and carelessly

by his own son! After all these duels between him and his

parents.....Chintan tend to develop an anecdote that - Money is more

important and greater to his parents than their son! He has

something very strong against his daddy. His dad has passed many

sleepless nights in worries, but he does not listen. He spends as he

wants to, doesn't listen to any single thing, wanders like a spoilt-

brat, browsing internet till late night, watching tv - in short all

this he keeps on doing which is strictly against our home ethics.

and so, it makes his mom and dad displeased.

>

> Its understandable that everything will be alright someday (sab

kuch theek ho jayega) , Even un-educated and illiterate people also

enjoys fanciful life, but it is very bad this way. Home environment

is all deteriorated because his small acts and things are against

the ethics of his mom-dad. it is very difficult for them to digest

all these. And just because of that, environment of peach and

harmony has turned to bitterness. His 1yr result is not declared yet

(college result) but not sure what would be the result, and its not

expected even that he can pass with good marks. Their parents are

worried, as naturally, since they are spending Rs 30,000/- yr for

his fees.

>

> Evaluation of the matter is:

>

> When he was a child, he was tortured and tormented by many of our

relatives (it was a untold-equivocal-rule for his relatives to

torture the kids who is doing something wrong rather than explaining

him and guiding him to do the right thing, right way) and that made

him very stoic. After all this saga, he has developed a habit not to

listen to the things for his good and his growth. He has tend to

develop a negative-psychology. If somebody says to him that "You

cannot do this thing"...he will make sure and show that "He really

cannot do that thing as per what was predicted or estimated"

> He thinks that - If you believe that I cannot study and fare

well...I will NOT study and won't work and I will show you that I

CANNOT STUDY WELL..!! .....very different psychology. and frankly

speaking it is very difficult to cope up with such kind of

psychology every time.

>

> we are really tensed about his future and present also. and his

attitude is harmful not only to him, but to us also. he acts as if

he doesn't give a damn to parents, what they say, what they feel.

>

> We have a glimmer of hope that he will be very successful and

frankly speaking he is a very nice person at heart. He always is

maneuvered by people of been victing of a ploy of others or may be

his own friends.

>

> Thanks in Advance !!

>

> Astrologically yours,

> Chintan.

>

>

>

>

>

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As per HP Theory, the case seems a bit difficult.

Reasons are as follows.

1) His Moon is in Visha Mukha and is poisoned.(Chandrama Manaso Jatah:)

2) His Dasa Nath Mercury is again in STABDHA STATE being with Ketu in 4th house.

3) He has very bad Saturn in 5th , house of Thinking.

4) His Badhakadhipati is with Mars in 3rd which again is an unholy alliance.

Thus all dices are loaded against him.

 

Appeasing lord vishnu would be best remedy.

 

Tatvam-AsiChintan Chhaya <chintanchhaya > wrote:

Dearest Learned Gurus and group members:

 

Many Greetings!

 

I have my nephew, Chintan [same name as mine], going thru a very difficult cycle

of his life. My sister and bro-in-lo are very tensed and worried about his

future. They, along with my niche, have written me an email to get some

remedies from our astrological group and to seek some help. I hope someone of

us would study his chart and suggest the possible remedies for him. I would be

glad to share more information you may require.

 

Birth Details:

 

DOB: October 25, 1985

Time: 23:40

Place: 70E47 22N18 (Rajkot, Gujarat, INDIA)

Time Zone: East of GMT +0530

 

The reactions in brief are :

He is not taking studies seriously at all. He was irresolute before...but..now

he has become careless about it. He doesn't even care for his own career. He

understands everything but cannot implement correct things in this regard. He

gets too driven away by his friends, their lavish life-styles, their attitudes.

He has always fallen prey to cunning friends who have made use of him when they

needed him and now are no more around him to help him out. his tendency is to

always fall into bad company, even he was introduced to few "Momma's good boys"

around his residence by his parents but they somehow run-away from him or he

makes them run. Too much of emotional attachment to his girlfriend- Maitri, too

much of dependence on her. In the sense he is ready to jump into a well without

any water in it, but that girl doesn't respond so much. His mind and body is

always onset of doing anything, without thinking, just on a wink of her eyes!.

she is a nice girl but she has her priorities in life - parents, studies and she

is focussed. chintan is always running behind her putting his career and

priorities behind. Even he offends his mom-dad. He is very extravagant and

spendthrift. His mom-dad often infuriates with him while the matter of fact is

they simply cannot absorb a thought of their money being spend uselessly and

carelessly by his own son! After all these duels between him and his

parents.....Chintan tend to develop an anecdote that - Money is more important

and greater to his parents than their son! He has something very strong against

his daddy. His dad has passed many sleepless nights in worries, but he does not

listen. He spends as he wants to, doesn't listen to any single thing, wanders

like a spoilt-brat, browsing internet till late night, watching tv - in short

all this he keeps on doing which is strictly against our home ethics. and so,

it makes his mom and dad displeased. Its

understandable that everything will be alright someday (sab kuch theek ho

jayega) , Even un-educated and illiterate people also enjoys fanciful life, but

it is very bad this way. Home environment is all deteriorated because his small

acts and things are against the ethics of his mom-dad. it is very difficult for

them to digest all these. And just because of that, environment of peach and

harmony has turned to bitterness. His 1yr result is not declared yet (college

result) but not sure what would be the result, and its not expected even that

he can pass with good marks. Their parents are worried, as naturally, since

they are spending Rs 30,000/- yr for his fees. Evaluation of the matter is:

 

When he was a child, he was tortured and tormented by many of our relatives (it

was a untold-equivocal-rule for his relatives to torture the kids who is doing

something wrong rather than explaining him and guiding him to do the right

thing, right way) and that made him very stoic. After all this saga, he has

developed a habit not to listen to the things for his good and his growth. He

has tend to develop a negative-psychology. If somebody says to him that "You

cannot do this thing"...he will make sure and show that "He really cannot do

that thing as per what was predicted or estimated"He thinks that - If you

believe that I cannot study and fare well...I will NOT study and won't work and

I will show you that I CANNOT STUDY WELL..!! .....very different psychology. and

frankly speaking it is very difficult to cope up with such kind of psychology

every time. we are really tensed about his future and

present also. and his attitude is harmful not only to him, but to us also. he

acts as if he doesn't give a damn to parents, what they say, what they feel. We

have a glimmer of hope that he will be very successful and frankly speaking he

is a very nice person at heart. He always is maneuvered by people of been

victing of a ploy of others or may be his own friends. Thanks in Advance !!

 

Astrologically yours,

Chintan.

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