2- & Jayashree, from Mark, 11/26.....re.... Marriage for this lady

[Guest guest]

Dear Jayashree:

 

You've done a good beginning analysis here. But, now...we 'all' need to

understand... not only what malefic influences are going on in 'our' charts

but most! importantly....

 

what can be done....to neutralize....and even transform the 'negative'

influences....into positive effects!

 

To me, this, is the 'greatest'....value and benefit of Jyotish....

 

Not only to see the danger on the horizon, but also, to see what needs to be

done!, differently....

 

And, If it's true that the Planets in our charts only represent our karmas

coming back to roost, so to speak, ....

 

Then 'we', all need to understand 'how' we can change our thought patterns,

which our chart particulars represent so we can produce a new and more

desirable effect!

 

Our challenges and problems in our lives...are like mistaken.... menu orders

in a restaurant.

 

We've done actions in the past, thinking they were correct...and our

'orders' are now coming to us.... but when we look at what the chef is

bringing...we say.....!

 

That's not what I wanted! and he says....'But, that's what you've ordered!'

 

And we look around and say....'But, I want 'that'!'

 

And he says....'ah, very good....and begins to prepare your 'new' order...

 

Life is like that waiter...Life just innocently is giving us the products,

consequences of our actions....

 

Only our malefics...represent our 'mistaken' notions as to what we thought

we wanted!

 

So...now, we are still free to re-order!

 

 

 

When you talk to your friend, can you get a glimmer....what seems to be the

hang up?

 

 

I mean, when you talk with people long enough, it occurs to you, what people

are doing that is literally pushing the fulfillment of desire...away from

themselves!

 

She's also got Sun in Virgo...which is often fairly particular either about

what one wants or sometimes is being a little too critical.

 

Ask her if she's a little hard on herself? That's definitely a Virgo Sun

quality....

 

And if she's that way with herSelf.... then she needs to be careful that

she's not being to 'critical' or Virgoish... so to speak about 'others'!

 

 

I was doing the chart of a lady once, who was single, again after 4 previous

marriages. And she had literally, no!, malefic influence upon both her 7th

house or 7th house lord, which of course I found very interesting!

 

When I talked to her, in conversation, I realized her Virgo Rising was the

culprit.

 

She was not only critical.... of herself....Virgo, in the first House, but

also very critical of the 'mates'....

 

Which made total sense when you think of the energy of the first...house...

might go automatically to the 7th house, almost like a Planet's 7th House

aspect...upon the opposite House.

 

So, I advised her to be less 'critical'....upon herself... and also

especially on her mates....

 

and within a few weeks...she accepted another offer of marriage....and is

now happily married for several years!

 

 

We need to find, and quite often you can hear the dramas, the planets that

are involved in the problems and challenges in our lives....

 

And once identifying the Planets that are causing the unhappinesses... then

we can begin the process to figure out how to change the thought patterns

which those Planets represent...and then....the karmas will be different!

 

 

Jyotish is not only about finding the problems... but changeing our Stars!

 

 

 

 

Take care

 

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

PS.... oh yes... with Saturn in Aquarius in her chart, ask her if she's too

patient, about getting married? Saturn in Aquarius is very good, but

sometimes when Saturn is strong....one is willing to wait....

when sometimes, especially with Virgo in her chart creating....undue,

criticalness.... she might be 'waiting' for a perfect mate.... which may be

unrealistic....

 

 

 

Hope this helps....

 

 

 

Sincerely.....

 

 

 

 

 

PSS.... I also create a daily Jyotish newsletter that follows the Transiting

planets every day as well as a lot of exciting and wonderful Jyotish

knowledge.

 

Feel free to contact me at: m.kincaid for this 'free' newsletter.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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>"Jayashree" <jayashree_ravi

>vedic astrology

>[vedic astrology] Marriage for this lady

>Wed, Nov 26, 2003, 8:48 AM

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> Respected members,

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> A friend of mine, a nice, well-employed lady, is not married at age

> 39. Her dob is: Sep 25th 1964, 10:40:12 AM, New Delhi (77 E 12, 28 N

> 36). She is concerned regarding marriage. I tried to do a thorough

> analysis and here I present my views. Nevertheless, I have to admit

> I'm not an astrologer, but only a learner and hence lack adequate

> knowledge. Can any of you please help with shedding light on her

> prospective marriage?

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> Within my limited knowledge: i) Darakaraka Jupiter singly placed in

> 7th house spoils the bhava ii) Rahu placed in 8th house without

> benefic aspect renders some amount of Kalathra-dosha iii) Upapada

> lagna as well as Upapada Lagnesh Saturn are aspected by Mars, but I'm

> not sure of this as Mars is lagnesh. In Navamsa: the Darakaraka

> Jupiter is in debility in 6th, ii) 7th lord of Navamsa is conjunct

> Rahu and debilitated Moon - this can also be seen as AK Rahu is

> conjoining Saturn in 4th house of mental peace and happiness in the

> Navamsa - I don't know which view is appropriate, but I think Rahu's

> conjunction with Saturn the 7th lord in Navamsa is not good.

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> Now I lack the clarity to give appropriate weightage to the above and

> pinpoint which factor is of real trouble having caused the real delay

> with marriage. Also, some people say, some afflictions in the

> horoscope go away with end of certain dashas. This lady is running

> her Rahu dasa and has already crossed Jupiter and Saturn bhuktis.

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> Can someone please shed light on when marriage is likely for this

> chart and about the quality of the marriage?

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> Thanks and best regards,

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> Jayashree

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