Marriages of M. Desai

[Guest guest]

Dear M. Desai,

 

The personal mail I sent you a couple of days back, answering your

questions, bounced. Let me try the list.

 

> 4) First marriage May 1995, first divorce May 1999. Nice girl, we

> disagreed about where to live--Los Angeles or San Francisco. We

> decided to split--who'd want to live in LA if they're living in SF.

> On hind sight, I should have gone to LA and not pissed away my

> marriage.

>

> 5) Second marriage December 1999, second divorce April 2002.

> Horrible, horrible woman. She asked me to go to India to celebrate

> Diwali in October 2001 and diappeared from our aparment while I was

> gone. She left me withing one month of getting her green card. I

> spent over $100,000 on her/for her.

 

First upapada is in Cp. Second is in Le with Moon in it. Third is in

Pi with Saturn in it. Fourth is in Li with Ketu in it.

 

Your statements about the two wives suggest that there was a serious

relationship before them.

 

Leo should show the 2nd marriage. Moon in Leo shows a sensitive and

authoritative, but nice, wife. From your feedback, that seems to fit

the first wife and not the second wife. Moreover, at the time of

first marriage, antardasa as per Narayana dasa was Li and it aspects

Le (and not Cp - first upapada). At the time of the first divorce,

antardasa is Ge containing 2nd lord Mercury who aspects 2nd. That

shows break of the marriage shown by Le. Moreover, 2nd from Le is the

11th house from lagna (i.e. 8th from 4th), showing that the change of

residence is a possible reason. Mercury shows arguments.

 

All this suggests that Leo shows your first marriage. In that case,

second marriage is shown by Pi with Saturn. Saturn-Mars samasaptaka

on upapada axis shows a bad marriage. Rahu in 2nd shows the reason

for the marriage and its final breakup was a Rahu matter - a

clandestine plan. Rahu can show immigration too. Saturn shows a very

selfish person. Aspect of Pi on the 12th from AL shows a lot of

expenditure due to this wife.

 

Based on your feedback, clearly the first and second wives are shown

by Leo and Pisces. Normally, these signs would've shown the 2nd and

3rd wives instead. This means the first upapada in Cp is wasted. This

is what I suspected when I saw your chart. The 2nd from the first

upapada is weak and so the first marriage may not materialize. This

is why I asked Hari to find out if you had any serious relationships

before the two marriages, before prescribing a fast.

 

I would guess that you had a serious relationship before these two

marriages, which could not be converted into a marriage. You were

serious about her for several months, but she finally walked away.

Try to remember. You can reply to me privately if you want. I am

particularly suspicious of 1992-1994 (esp 1992-93).

 

If my judgment is correct, Cp shows the marriage that never happened

and Le and Pi show the two marriages. The next marriage is shown by

Li with Ketu in it. It shows a spiritual, diplomatic and yet short-

tempered lady with lagna in Li or trines or Ar. She may have had a

misfortune related to mother or elder brother. She'll understand you,

bring harmony in your life and help you in fulfilling your dharma.

 

> 6) I continue have complications in marriage--PVR has given me a

> mantra "Om Kleem Narshimaya Namah." Hari has asked me to fast on

 

It is "Om Kleem Narasimhaaya namah". This is not particularly for

marriage. This is for your confused soul to find direction.

 

> Saturdays. Rohini Ranjan Bose has asked me to fast on Friday and

> volunteer my time for destitue young women. I'm following all of

the

> above remedies.

 

As I have clarified, Hari's advice is good for the first marriage.

Fasting on Saturdays will not do much for you now.

 

In my judgment, your next marriage is shown by Li. So fast on

Fridays, pray to Sri Valli after sunset and break the fast. use the 8-

lettered mantra:

 

Om Sree Valli Devyai Namah (108 times)

 

The result will go to Mercury, who is in the 9th from Li and

disposits & aspects the 2nd lord from Li. Praying to Valli (Mars)

after fast on Friday (Li) with a 8-lettered mantra (Mercury) will

bring the next marriage. It will come in Nov 16, 2002-Apr 13, 2003

(Leo antardasa, which aspects Libra).

 

Anyway, good luck and take care!

 

May Jupiter's light shine on us,

Narasimha

[Guest guest]

Dear M.Desai,

 

> Dear Mr. PVR:

>

> I'm crying when I'm writing you this e-mail. Your uncanny ability and

> your uncanny prediction has once more made me a believer in Vedic

> Astrology. Here are the predicions you made in this e-mail that are

> absolutely true.

 

Thank you for the feedback!

 

> 3) You also noted the following:

> > "If my judgment is correct, Cp shows the marriage that never happened

> > and Le and Pi show the two marriages. The next marriage is shown by

> > Li with Ketu in it. It shows a spiritual, diplomatic and yet short-

> > tempered lady with lagna in Li or trines or Ar. She may have had a

> > misfortune related to mother or elder brother. She'll understand

> you,

> > bring harmony in your life and help you in fulfilling your dharma."

>

> I just married for the third time. This girl lost her mother when she

> was 11 years old. She is extremely spiritual, diplomatic (exhaled

> Mercury in 10th) and occasionaly throws a tantrum. I'm madly in love

 

For the benefit of interested members, I will explain the logic behind what

I wrote. In rasi chart, 4th upapada showing the 3rd wife is in Li with Ketu

in it. Libra with Ketu in it shows a spiritual person. Ketu also shows some

short-temper. Libra shows diplomacy.

 

Now, look at navamsa. The 7th house shows the first girl. The current wife

is shown by the 4th house Scorpio. It contains Venus. Venus shows diplomacy.

Jupiter in 12th shows spirituality. Lord Ketu in 3rd shows some short

temper.

 

Why did I say misfortune related to mother? From Scorpio in navamsa, 4th

lord is Rahu (stronger co-lord of Aq). He is in marana karaka sthana (death

causing house). If a planet is in marana karaka sthana, houses owned by it

are destroyed. I'll give the marana karaka sthanas of planets for ready

reference: Sun - 12th, Moon - 8th, Mars & Mercury - 7th, Jupiter - 3rd,

Venus - 6th, Saturn - 1st, Rahu - 9th. Here, in your navamsa, 4th lord from

Sc is in marana karaka sthana. That shows misfortune related to mother.

Probably, in your wife's chart also, 4th house is afflicted or the 4th lord

is in marana karaka sthana.

 

How do we time your current wife's mother's death from your chart?

 

Find Narayana dasa of navamsa for spouse. It will be

 

Narayana Dasa of D-9 chart (a versatile phalita rasi dasa):

 

Maha Dasas:

 

Ta: 1967-06-14 (17:30:00) - 1973-06-14 (06:23:56)

Sg: 1973-06-14 (06:23:56) - 1983-06-14 (19:51:52)

<Cn: 1983-06-14 (19:51:52) - 1993-06-14 (09:31:48)>>>

Aq: 1993-06-14 (09:31:48) - 2000-06-14 (04:27:03)

Vi: 2000-06-14 (04:27:03) - 2004-06-14 (05:09:05)

 

Note that Cn is the sign containing 4th lord Rahu in marana karaka sthana.

You said your wife lost her mother when she was 11. In all probability, it

was during the Cn dasa, i.e. after 1983.

 

> with this girl, everything is fine except mental comaptibility. I

> guess I'll have to marry a Stanford University Phd to find mental

> compatibility. Hence, I'll have to work on it.

 

In your navamsa, Scorpio contains UL. That's why I said this wife will help

you fulfill your dharma in marital life. It is the 4th house containing

Venus. Undoubtedly, she will bring inner (navamsa) harmony (Venus and 4th)

in your life. Don't worry too much about mental or intellectual

compatibility. Despite her drawbacks, she'll be an excellent wife and a

great influence in your life.

 

> Mr. PVR, your predictions are just unbelievablely accurate. I don't

> know how you do it but, you did it. Few days back I bought one of

> your books and hope I learn something from it.

 

I just used the principles I learnt without compromising. Sometimes, we

compromise and try to make up our own rules to explain things somehow or the

other. I also used to be guilty of that. When I met Sanjay during the recent

conferences, I realized the importance of sticking to the rules given by the

tradition.

 

Also, I used to be weak in judging multiple marriages. After going through

some examples with Sanjay during his USA visit, my foundations became clear.

 

> Mr. PVR, can you please give me a mantra that'll make my third

> marriage work. I'm 35 and would like to settle down. Both my prior

> marriages have broken suddenly and due to circumstances beyond my

> control. Please, please, please give me a remedy that'll make this

> marriage work and give me and my parents some peace of mind and

> happiness. My parents are on the verge of emotional breakdown due to

> marriage problems. Thank you.

>

> MD

 

Do the remedies I gave for your pitri sapa (father's curse) earlier. Do the

Narasimha mantra I gave earlier, so that your soul finds its direction. And,

until your third marriage stabilizes, fast on Fridays (current upapada is in

Li) and read the following mantra 108 times after sunrise and break the

fast:

 

Om Namo Bhagavate Vaasudevaaya

 

This mantra has 8 letters and its effect will go to Mercury in Gemini (8th

house). The mantra is also for Narayana, i.e. Mercury. So it will thoroughly

activate Mercury. As Mercury is the 9th lord in 9th from Libra, he is the

protector of this marriage. Do this mantra every Friday. Vasudeva will

safeguard this marriage.

 

In another mail, you wrote:

 

> I just looked at my wife's (3rd and hopefully last) chart. She is a

> Sagittarius ascendant in the Rashi chart and Aries ascendant in

> Navamsah. -- She isn't Libra ascendant as you've predicted.--Just for

 

Thank you for the feedback. I made a mistake. I was taught to take the 7th

from UL if it is stronger, but I keep forgetting it. In your chart, Aries is

stronger than Libra (use Narayana dasa rules). So take Aries and trines/7th

from Aries. Sagittarius is fine - it is a trine from Aries.

 

But considering the influence of Venus on this wife as per your rasi and

navamsa, she must have a strong Venusian influence. Venus must be closely

aspecting lagna or lagna lord or probably in a trine in navamsa.

 

> your information. You predict that the next marriage will be between

> November 16, 2002 and April 13, 2003. -- I've already married but she

> is still in India and it appears that we will be united around

> November or 2002 so this prediction appear to be coming true as even

> though I'm married, we're not living together--the physical part of

> marriage is not there and it may happen around November. Thanks.

 

I thought you were looking to get married. Thanks for clarifying that the

marriage corresponding to Libra has already taken place. Vi-Ta antardasa in

March 14-June 14, 2002 brought this marriage (note Ta's aspect on Li). Next,

Ar dasa started. First antardasa of Vi runs from June 14 to Nov 16. It is

not so good (12th from Li). Le antardasa to come next aspects Li. Things

will work out in this antardasa (Nov 16-Apr 13). All the best!

 

Be patient, check your anger and control your idealism. Your current wife

will change your life for better. She'll stay with you. Do the mantras I

gave with faith. Good luck!

 

May Jupiter's light shine on us,

Narasimha

[Guest guest]

Dear Gurus,

 

I am having trouble in finding out why the first marriage (with Moon

in the Leo) failed.

 

The 2nd from the UL (Leo) had Mars and it was aspected by

Mercury and Saturn.

 

The 2nd lord from Leo (Mercury) was in his own house.

 

Is the presence of natural malefic Mars with the aspect of natural

malefic saturn on the 2nd from UL the problem for the marriage?.

 

Kindly clarify?

 

Sincerely,

Sudarsan-Chennai.

 

 

vedic astrology, "pvr108" <pvr@c...> wrote:

> Dear M. Desai,

>

> The personal mail I sent you a couple of days back, answering your

> questions, bounced. Let me try the list.

>

> > 4) First marriage May 1995, first divorce May 1999. Nice girl, we

> > disagreed about where to live--Los Angeles or San Francisco. We

> > decided to split--who'd want to live in LA if they're living in

SF.

> > On hind sight, I should have gone to LA and not pissed away my

> > marriage.

> >

> > 5) Second marriage December 1999, second divorce April 2002.

> > Horrible, horrible woman. She asked me to go to India to

celebrate

> > Diwali in October 2001 and diappeared from our aparment while I

was

> > gone. She left me withing one month of getting her green card. I

> > spent over $100,000 on her/for her.

>

> First upapada is in Cp. Second is in Le with Moon in it. Third is

in

> Pi with Saturn in it. Fourth is in Li with Ketu in it.

>

> Your statements about the two wives suggest that there was a

serious

> relationship before them.

>

> Leo should show the 2nd marriage. Moon in Leo shows a sensitive and

> authoritative, but nice, wife. From your feedback, that seems to

fit

> the first wife and not the second wife. Moreover, at the time of

> first marriage, antardasa as per Narayana dasa was Li and it

aspects

> Le (and not Cp - first upapada). At the time of the first divorce,

> antardasa is Ge containing 2nd lord Mercury who aspects 2nd. That

> shows break of the marriage shown by Le. Moreover, 2nd from Le is

the

> 11th house from lagna (i.e. 8th from 4th), showing that the change

of

> residence is a possible reason. Mercury shows arguments.

>

> All this suggests that Leo shows your first marriage. In that case,

> second marriage is shown by Pi with Saturn. Saturn-Mars samasaptaka

> on upapada axis shows a bad marriage. Rahu in 2nd shows the reason

> for the marriage and its final breakup was a Rahu matter - a

> clandestine plan. Rahu can show immigration too. Saturn shows a

very

> selfish person. Aspect of Pi on the 12th from AL shows a lot of

> expenditure due to this wife.

>

> Based on your feedback, clearly the first and second wives are

shown

> by Leo and Pisces. Normally, these signs would've shown the 2nd and

> 3rd wives instead. This means the first upapada in Cp is wasted.

This

> is what I suspected when I saw your chart. The 2nd from the first

> upapada is weak and so the first marriage may not materialize. This

> is why I asked Hari to find out if you had any serious

relationships

> before the two marriages, before prescribing a fast.

>

> I would guess that you had a serious relationship before these two

> marriages, which could not be converted into a marriage. You were

> serious about her for several months, but she finally walked away.

> Try to remember. You can reply to me privately if you want. I am

> particularly suspicious of 1992-1994 (esp 1992-93).

>

> If my judgment is correct, Cp shows the marriage that never

happened

> and Le and Pi show the two marriages. The next marriage is shown by

> Li with Ketu in it. It shows a spiritual, diplomatic and yet short-

> tempered lady with lagna in Li or trines or Ar. She may have had a

> misfortune related to mother or elder brother. She'll understand

you,

> bring harmony in your life and help you in fulfilling your dharma.

>

> > 6) I continue have complications in marriage--PVR has given me a

> > mantra "Om Kleem Narshimaya Namah." Hari has asked me to fast on

>

> It is "Om Kleem Narasimhaaya namah". This is not particularly for

> marriage. This is for your confused soul to find direction.

>

> > Saturdays. Rohini Ranjan Bose has asked me to fast on Friday and

> > volunteer my time for destitue young women. I'm following all of

> the

> > above remedies.

>

> As I have clarified, Hari's advice is good for the first marriage.

> Fasting on Saturdays will not do much for you now.

>

> In my judgment, your next marriage is shown by Li. So fast on

> Fridays, pray to Sri Valli after sunset and break the fast. use the

8-

> lettered mantra:

>

> Om Sree Valli Devyai Namah (108 times)

>

> The result will go to Mercury, who is in the 9th from Li and

> disposits & aspects the 2nd lord from Li. Praying to Valli (Mars)

> after fast on Friday (Li) with a 8-lettered mantra (Mercury) will

> bring the next marriage. It will come in Nov 16, 2002-Apr 13, 2003

> (Leo antardasa, which aspects Libra).

>

> Anyway, good luck and take care!

>

> May Jupiter's light shine on us,

> Narasimha