Guest guest Posted April 21, 2002 Report Share Posted April 21, 2002 Dear Mahendra, namaste You are saying that the boy and the girl in question have been having an affair for 4 to 5 years. According to vedic standards, then they are already married! That is called gandharva marriage or love marriage and in case of such unions standard matching is not applied. See Prashna Marga, stanzas 54 and 55, chapter on marriage compatibility: "If the couple love each other, they can enter into wedlock, even if there is no agreement in other ways. This is very important in thematter of marriage. One who loves a girl sincerely from his heart should marry her. Pure love is greater than any other virtue." Similar statements are found in Jataka desha marga and B.V. Ramans Muhurta booklet. Besides, Upapada matching is also good for this boy and this girl and since they are obviously loving each other sincerely, they should get married. Regards, Arno PS: Moon matching (kootas) is not the most important consideration. I have seen terrible matches which scored enough points, that is more than 18 and I have seen longlived marriages inspite of low kootas. -----Ursprüngliche Nachricht----- Von: Sunil Varma [divinity_sun] Gesendet: Samstag, 20. April 2002 14:33 An: vedic astrology Betreff: Re: [vedic astrology] Match Complication - 7th House Query Mr. Gopal, I have gone thru the horoscope of the two concerned individuals. I havent done any quantitative analysis, but qualitatively the two horoscoped do not match. In the boys horoscope the seventh lord from moon is retrograde in the 12th. I have seen that retrograde 7th lord creates havoc. the boys horoscope is shudh hwereas the girl's horoscope isnt so. moreover in the girls horoscope the 7th lord is in the 6th house having no benefic aspect. preventing them from marriage would be difficult as the boys is going to run sun dasha and sun is placed in 2nd house. the girl is currently running mercury dasha, the lord of the 7th house. if married, marriage might not last for more than 3 years. the placement of their respective moons in 6-8 position is bad but not so very. My wife and I have the 6-8 placement of moon but we go along very well. rgds Sunil --- Mahendra Goyal <mahendragoyal wrote: > Hello All, > > I am new to this group. I have a unique problem > there > is a boy and girl > they have been having an affair since last 4.5 yrs. > They both want to marry > each other. But some sites and software show the > match > as ok where as some > advise the match incorrect. They are very confused. > > The situation is very complicated due to their > emotional state. Can any gurus > advise if the match is suitable if not are there any > remedies to it. Is there > a way this couple can live a happy life. > > Also the girl has three planets in her seventh house > does it means that she > might marry three times. I have read that a man > marries as many times as > the no of planets in his seventh house in one of > shakuntala devi's book, does > this apply to females as well. > > Boy: > Date of birth : 5 th Feb 1977 > Place of birth : Mumbai, India > India) > Time of birth : 5.13 am > > Girl: > Date of birth : 18 th August 1981 > Place of birth : Mumbai, India > Time of birth : 9.20 pm > > > Thanks & Regards, > Mahendra Goyal > > > > > > ===== > Shree Ganeshay Namah > > Dynamic SMS - Make money for receiving SMS > http://www.dynamicsms.com.au/intro.asp?ref=9821480474&refc=317 > > > > Tax Center - online filing with TurboTax > http://taxes./ > > ------------------------ Sponsor > > Archives: > vedic astrology > > Group info: > vedic astrology/info.html > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to > vedic astrology- > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu > || > > Your use of is subject to > > > Everything you'll ever need on one web page from News and Sport to Email and Music Charts http://uk.my. Your use of is subject to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2002 Report Share Posted April 21, 2002 Vyam Vysadevaya Namah ------- Dear Arno, Only if they have been living together as well, in those years can they be called married. If in doubt check the Upapada, and match the lagnas. Best wishes, Visti. --- Arno Holzmann <arno.holzmann wrote: > Dear Mahendra, namaste > > You are saying that the boy and the girl in question > have been having an > affair for 4 to 5 years. According to vedic > standards, then they are > already married! That is called gandharva marriage > or love marriage and > in case of such unions standard matching is not > applied. > > See Prashna Marga, stanzas 54 and 55, chapter on > marriage compatibility: > > "If the couple love each other, they can enter into > wedlock, even if > there is no agreement in other ways. This is very > important in thematter > of marriage. One who loves a girl sincerely from his > heart should marry > her. Pure love is greater than any other virtue." > > Similar statements are found in Jataka desha marga > and B.V. Ramans > Muhurta booklet. Besides, Upapada matching is also > good for this boy and > this girl and since they are obviously loving each > other sincerely, they > should get married. > > Regards, Arno > > PS: Moon matching (kootas) is not the most important > consideration. I > have seen terrible matches which scored enough > points, that is more than > 18 and I have seen longlived marriages inspite of > low kootas. > > > > -----Ursprüngliche Nachricht----- > Von: Sunil Varma [divinity_sun] > Gesendet: Samstag, 20. April 2002 14:33 > An: vedic astrology > Betreff: Re: [vedic astrology] Match Complication - > 7th House Query > > Mr. Gopal, > > I have gone thru the horoscope of the two concerned > individuals. I havent done any quantitative > analysis, > but qualitatively the two horoscoped do not match. > In > the boys horoscope the seventh lord from moon is > retrograde in the 12th. I have seen that retrograde > 7th lord creates havoc. the boys horoscope is shudh > hwereas the girl's horoscope isnt so. moreover in > the > girls horoscope the 7th lord is in the 6th house > having no benefic aspect. > preventing them from marriage would be difficult as > the boys is going to run sun dasha and sun is placed > in 2nd house. the girl is currently running mercury > dasha, the lord of the 7th house. > if married, marriage might not last for more than 3 > years. > the placement of their respective moons in 6-8 > position is bad but not so very. My wife and I have > the 6-8 placement of moon but we go along very well. > > > rgds > Sunil > > --- Mahendra Goyal <mahendragoyal wrote: > > > Hello All, > > > > I am new to this group. I have a unique problem > > there > > is a boy and girl > > they have been having an affair since last 4.5 > yrs. > > They both want to marry > > each other. But some sites and software show the > > match > > as ok where as some > > advise the match incorrect. They are very > confused. > > > > The situation is very complicated due to their > > emotional state. Can any gurus > > advise if the match is suitable if not are there > any > > remedies to it. Is there > > a way this couple can live a happy life. > > > > Also the girl has three planets in her seventh > house > > does it means that she > > might marry three times. I have read that a man > > marries as many times as > > the no of planets in his seventh house in one of > > shakuntala devi's book, does > > this apply to females as well. > > > > Boy: > > Date of birth : 5 th Feb 1977 > > Place of birth : Mumbai, India > > India) > > Time of birth : 5.13 am > > > > Girl: > > Date of birth : 18 th August 1981 > > Place of birth : Mumbai, India > > Time of birth : 9.20 pm > > > > > > Thanks & Regards, > > Mahendra Goyal > > > > > > > > > > > > ===== > > Shree Ganeshay Namah > > > > Dynamic SMS - Make money for receiving SMS > > > http://www.dynamicsms.com.au/intro.asp?ref=9821480474&refc=317 > > > > > > > > Tax Center - online filing with TurboTax > > http://taxes./ > > > > ------------------------ Sponsor > > > > Archives: > > vedic astrology > > > > Group info: > > > vedic astrology/info.html > > > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to > > vedic astrology- > > > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > > > || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri > Krishnaarpanamastu > > || > > > > Your use of is subject to > > > > > > > > > > Everything you'll ever need on one web page > from News and Sport to Email and Music Charts > http://uk.my. > > > Archives: > vedic astrology > > Group info: > vedic astrology/info.html > > To UNSUBSCRIBE: Blank mail to > vedic astrology- > > ....... May Jupiter's light shine on us ....... > > || Om Tat Sat || Sarvam Sri Krishnaarpanamastu > || > > Your use of is subject to > > > > Games - play chess, backgammon, pool and more http://games./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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