dear list mebers sorry(dear anand) and visti]

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Dear Partha,

I am sorry if i hurt you, but my intention was not in the least akin to

that. I do understand you (i have also seen your chart!) and hence i hadn't

participated in the previous mails that were criticising your outbursts. But

at the same time i felt that you would realise that in a public place we

do not have total rights to say whatever we wish to no matter how truly we

believe in them. We have to, as mature members, also consider the general health

of the list. Words on this list are presented without tone, emotion and gesture.

In such an environment anything you write is open to any and every form of

interpretation (and mis-interpretation). Hence one must present only those

statements which usually don't require future explanation or clarification.

Being honest is a virtue but how and where are also important constraints to

the manifestation of your honesty. It is nice to see someone frank and

straightforward. But it is the wisdom of such a person that saves him from

belittle in public. Please do not feel that you are misunderstood.

Regards

K.Anand

partha sarathy wrote:

dear anand after all the people i have recieved mail from my bestfreind on the

list. you know i am weeping. i cannotcontrol my emotions. i thought atleast you

understoodme. ok i give up. sorry folks. i wwent too farpartha sarathy--- Anand

<adithyaputra (AT) (DOT) co.uk> wrote:

Dear Partha, Please do not consider this as a mail againstyou. I do not hold

anything against you and i am sure that the listmembers feel the same. But i

hope you realise that some of the contents ofyour mail cannot be described as

pleasant. Consider someone newlyjoining the group and receiving your reply to

Mr. Chakraborty's mail (onD-27) as his/her first mail. I am sure that you see

that mail as anindication of the general behaviour of this list. He/she might

want to immediately. That wouldn't be nice. Everyone arebusy and

some aren't for some time. As a student, i have a lot of studiesto do and if

someone sent me a mail i might not even reply till10 days. This doen't mean

that one is unconcerned. Think of the state ofthe gurujis on this group. They

must be receiving many such mails (pvt.as well as on the lists). They also have

their daily work to handle. Iagree totally with what Mr. Poddar says about

patience delivering a lotin learning. One has to be patient while one pans the

waters ofastrology for gold. I am sure you know this. A personal suggestion:

Sometimes no one replyingto your queries or stements can discourage one. I

fully agree with youon that. But to discourage other threads isn't appropriate

either.It is popularly said "If one has nothing constructive to say the

leastdamage is done by remaining silent." Reflect on this mail and others.No

one is against you. We feel that the high spirits with whichsomeone might open

his/her inbox to read good mails on astrology might beshattered by mails that

they feel are not very constructive.Wishing you the best,RegardsK.Anand

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