Marriage problem - Prompt response would be appreciated !

[Guest guest]

Hi Everybody,

 

I am undergoing severe marriage problems right now. I have already

filed for divorce and reconcialiation doesn't look like much of a

possibility now (but things could change). My wife has a severe rage

problem and I had been trying to get her treated (there are chances

that she might have a psychological disorder). I love her and she

loves me, but her family (her mom,dad and sis) is just a bunch of

cunning, useless liars of destructive mentality. They made false

allegations against me and my family and have filed police cases

against us. The DOB details are as follows

 

My DOB DOB is 19/6/76 and time is 9.45 am , lucknow.

My wife's DOB is 29.9.1978 and time is 3.25 AM , Delhi

 

I am a software engineer in USA and she is doctor. I have the

following questions

 

1. Is this marriage going to work ? Is there any hope ?

2. Is there any possibility of my wife being treated successfuly ?

3. Will she have a successful life and career after divorce ?

4. How is my life and career going to turn out after divorce ?

5. After divorce, are there any chances that we might get together

sometime in future ?

 

btw, I dunno if this is imp., but both she as well as I have had a

serious pre-marital relationship.

 

I would sincerely appreciate ANY help on this.

 

Thanks,

 

P

[Guest guest]

Dear P,

 

There is no chance that this marriage will work. Your wife has no

psychological problems, but she is very adept at exploiting your care and

concerns for her personal gains.

 

Get a divorce as soon as possible, even if you have to give some

substantial amount of money to the girl's family, which they also desire.

 

 

Regards,

 

Ashutosh

 

[The services of this astrologer are free on this group but off-group

consultations may be chargeable]

 

 

 

-

just_another_rocking_guy

Wednesday, 26 April, 2006 06:30

Marriage problem - Prompt response would be appreciated !

 

 

Hi Everybody,

 

I am undergoing severe marriage problems right now. I have already

filed for divorce and reconcialiation doesn't look like much of a

possibility now (but things could change). My wife has a severe rage

problem and I had been trying to get her treated (there are chances

that she might have a psychological disorder). I love her and she

loves me, but her family (her mom,dad and sis) is just a bunch of

cunning, useless liars of destructive mentality. They made false

allegations against me and my family and have filed police cases

against us. The DOB details are as follows

 

My DOB DOB is 19/6/76 and time is 9.45 am , lucknow.

My wife's DOB is 29.9.1978 and time is 3.25 AM , Delhi

 

I am a software engineer in USA and she is doctor. I have the

following questions

 

1. Is this marriage going to work ? Is there any hope ?

2. Is there any possibility of my wife being treated successfuly ?

3. Will she have a successful life and career after divorce ?

4. How is my life and career going to turn out after divorce ?

5. After divorce, are there any chances that we might get together

sometime in future ?

 

btw, I dunno if this is imp., but both she as well as I have had a

serious pre-marital relationship.

 

I would sincerely appreciate ANY help on this.

 

Thanks,

 

P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE

OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

a.. Visit your group "" on the web.

 

b..

 

c..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Thanks for your reply Ashutoshji. You are absolutely right. They have

been exploiting my care and concern for quite some time now. Even in

divorce, I offered her everything I could to settle her in her career,

but she and her family just keep on harassing me.

 

Is there anything that can be done to save this marriage ?

 

When can I expect to get married again ? Will that marriage be

successful ? Could you please give me some details about my future.

 

 

Regards,

Avinash

 

, "astrologerashutosh"

<astrologerashutosh wrote:

>

> Dear P,

>

> There is no chance that this marriage will work. Your

wife has no psychological problems, but she is very adept at

exploiting your care and concerns for her personal gains.

>

> Get a divorce as soon as possible, even if you have to give

some substantial amount of money to the girl's family, which they also

desire.

>

>

> Regards,

>

> Ashutosh

>

> [The services of this astrologer are free on this group but

off-group consultations may be chargeable]

>

>

>

> -

> just_another_rocking_guy

>

> Wednesday, 26 April, 2006 06:30

> Marriage problem - Prompt response would be

appreciated !

>

>

> Hi Everybody,

>

> I am undergoing severe marriage problems right now. I have already

> filed for divorce and reconcialiation doesn't look like much of a

> possibility now (but things could change). My wife has a severe rage

> problem and I had been trying to get her treated (there are chances

> that she might have a psychological disorder). I love her and she

> loves me, but her family (her mom,dad and sis) is just a bunch of

> cunning, useless liars of destructive mentality. They made false

> allegations against me and my family and have filed police cases

> against us. The DOB details are as follows

>

> My DOB DOB is 19/6/76 and time is 9.45 am , lucknow.

> My wife's DOB is 29.9.1978 and time is 3.25 AM , Delhi

>

> I am a software engineer in USA and she is doctor. I have the

> following questions

>

> 1. Is this marriage going to work ? Is there any hope ?

> 2. Is there any possibility of my wife being treated successfuly ?

> 3. Will she have a successful life and career after divorce ?

> 4. How is my life and career going to turn out after divorce ?

> 5. After divorce, are there any chances that we might get together

> sometime in future ?

>

> btw, I dunno if this is imp., but both she as well as I have had a

> serious pre-marital relationship.

>

> I would sincerely appreciate ANY help on this.

>

> Thanks,

>

> P

>

>

>

>

>

>

SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH

THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

>

>

>

>

>

>

 

>

>

> a.. Visit your group "" on the web.

>

> b..

>

>

> c.. Terms of

Service.

>

>

>

 

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Avinash,

 

You should realize that your attempts to save this

marriage are taken as your weaknesses by them. This marriage will not work,

however hard you may try.

 

You will get married again in october'08. That marriage will be

successfull.

 

 

Regards,

 

Ashutosh

 

[The services of this astrologer are free on this group but off-group

consultations may be chargeable]

 

 

 

-

just_another_rocking_guy

Thursday, 27 April, 2006 00:19

Re: Marriage problem - Prompt response would be appreciated !

 

 

Thanks for your reply Ashutoshji. You are absolutely right. They have

been exploiting my care and concern for quite some time now. Even in

divorce, I offered her everything I could to settle her in her career,

but she and her family just keep on harassing me.

 

Is there anything that can be done to save this marriage ?

 

When can I expect to get married again ? Will that marriage be

successful ? Could you please give me some details about my future.

 

 

Regards,

Avinash

 

, "astrologerashutosh"

<astrologerashutosh wrote:

>

> Dear P,

>

> There is no chance that this marriage will work. Your

wife has no psychological problems, but she is very adept at

exploiting your care and concerns for her personal gains.

>

> Get a divorce as soon as possible, even if you have to give

some substantial amount of money to the girl's family, which they also

desire.

>

>

> Regards,

>

> Ashutosh

>

> [The services of this astrologer are free on this group but

off-group consultations may be chargeable]

>

>

>

> -

> just_another_rocking_guy

>

> Wednesday, 26 April, 2006 06:30

> Marriage problem - Prompt response would be

appreciated !

>

>

> Hi Everybody,

>

> I am undergoing severe marriage problems right now. I have already

> filed for divorce and reconcialiation doesn't look like much of a

> possibility now (but things could change). My wife has a severe rage

> problem and I had been trying to get her treated (there are chances

> that she might have a psychological disorder). I love her and she

> loves me, but her family (her mom,dad and sis) is just a bunch of

> cunning, useless liars of destructive mentality. They made false

> allegations against me and my family and have filed police cases

> against us. The DOB details are as follows

>

> My DOB DOB is 19/6/76 and time is 9.45 am , lucknow.

> My wife's DOB is 29.9.1978 and time is 3.25 AM , Delhi

>

> I am a software engineer in USA and she is doctor. I have the

> following questions

>

> 1. Is this marriage going to work ? Is there any hope ?

> 2. Is there any possibility of my wife being treated successfuly ?

> 3. Will she have a successful life and career after divorce ?

> 4. How is my life and career going to turn out after divorce ?

> 5. After divorce, are there any chances that we might get together

> sometime in future ?

>

> btw, I dunno if this is imp., but both she as well as I have had a

> serious pre-marital relationship.

>

> I would sincerely appreciate ANY help on this.

>

> Thanks,

>

> P

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH

THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> a.. Visit your group "" on the web.

>

> b..

>

>

> c.. Terms of

Service.

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE

OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

 

 

 

Vedic astrology Astrology chart Astrology software

Vedic astrology software

 

 

 

 

a.. Visit your group "" on the web.

 

b..

 

c..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

OK!! m no astrologer but guys did u notice one thing... This man

said that he has already filed for the divorce and his subject

is "Can I save my marriage ?" I dont know what this guy is up to..

 

pls dont waste your precious time over this guy's querry..... I know

his wife pretty well... She tried hard to save the marriage.... but

now she has given up....

If MR.P really wants a reconcilliation , then why doesnt he take the

divorce back...

U( MR.P) HAVE FILED IT... SHE HASNT... STOP making a fool of

everybody and urself and STOP blaming others(her family)... STOP

posing urself as a CRY BABY coz if u really want to save the

marriage , u can take THE DIVORCE back anytime and u guys can talk

about reconciliation but u r not ready for that.. So, how can u balme

that gal or her family......

THINK ! THINK ! and THINK ! Who will be the sufferers ??? It will be

you and your wife only...

 

She has tried hard for 4 months ...Now its ur turn to come out with

clear thoughts... Till now, u havent shown any positive sign..U want

her to drop the complaint against you and you dont want to drop any

case against her in USA...I dont understand it.. If somebody is clear

about this.. pls lemme know!!!

 

At one side, this guy is saying that he wants to save the marriage

and on the other side he is saying that I will not drop any case and

continue with the DIVORCE...Sorry!! I just fail to understand...Mr.P,

U badly need a good counsellor...

 

Her parents and all her realtives tried to talk to his parents but

his parents were like STONES.. coz they just wanted them to

seperate....SINGLE EFFORTHis parents never did ANY to save their

marriage ... They keep feeding him. They dont want them to live

happily..They just kept crying in front of him and everybody else and

kept telling him the negative things... I dont know what kind of

parents are they and what will they get out of it... MEBBE JUST AN

EGO SATISFACTION that too for the time being at the cost of their

son's marriage...... But u have to pay a big price for their EGO

SATISFACTION..

 

Now what do u want ????... Things have changed now... there is no

such thing " Its my way or the highway" now... Yes !! guys , he used

to say this to that gal.... Now, that gal and her near and dears has

no choice but to be prepared for the worse and bravely face the

consequences inflicted by Mr.P...

 

His parents and brother are really stupid, useless,cunning and wicked

people ( I can go on and on for the parents and brother like them)...

After a year or so, everybody will be busy in their lives... And U(

Mr.P) will keep thinking about the "HAPPY FAMILY"... U will be alone

MR.P... Parents will also die one day and ur brother will also get

married one day and he will have "HIS HAPPY FAMILY"... U can be happy

with your carrer and with "NO HAPPY FAMILY OF YOURS"...

 

About the future of your wife , it will be great and MR.P!!! u pls

dont worry about it... She's got a great life ahead... As acc to

you , u did everything for her career...

 

I dont know what his parents and brother will get by destroying

their son's marriage... anyway,Mr.P might realise it later but then

it will be too late as there is no hope for Mr.P in her life...

 

P.S.. premarital relations doesnt matter.. what matter is did any of

you have any post marital affair ?? If not and u keep thinking about

the premarital things then u r a BIG FOOL and IMMATURE...

 

Good bye,

Kanchan.

 

P.S. I hope I have not written anything that is hurtful to anybidy

here in the group.. If somebody felt bad, then, M really sorry !! I

just wanted him to tell certain things as he doesnt want to listen to

anybody..

There are so many good astrologers in this group.. They can have a

look at his horoscope and can get an idea about the boy... And guys,

if u can tell him that the issue b/w them is so trivial and he should

get some good counselling, It would be great for him as well for his

wife... His wife never wanted this realtion to break... but now she

can not act like puppet and keep doing things just to make him or his

family happy...

[Guest guest]

dear friends

 

your mail to set the record straight from your perspective is fine

but since both the parties are expressing that neither wants a

divorce and both are highlighting the efforts each has put up, both

parties shall respect one another and shall not project one as good

and another as bad in a public group like this which is viewed by

thousands of members across the globe.

 

it is generally observed that one partner is highly egoistic,

selfish and does not accommodate the other leading to a separation.

the same person in the second marriage sheds the ego, make all sorts

of compromises and accommodate all the sentiments of the other so

that the second marriage would be the last and final marriage and

both parties cannot afford another third marriage and so on. if

this flexibility and accommodation is displayed in the first

marriage itself, things will not come to such a pass of separation.

 

since the matter is sub judice, a good counselling will help both

parties in either continue their marriage or separate in a peaceful

manner with mutual consent without any hard feelings and painting

the other as bad in public groups.

 

with best wishes and blessings for both.

pandit arjun

 

, "kanch_ag" <kanch_ag

wrote:

>

> OK!! m no astrologer but guys did u notice one thing... This man

> said that he has already filed for the divorce and his subject

> is "Can I save my marriage ?" I dont know what this guy is up to..

>

> pls dont waste your precious time over this guy's querry..... I

know

> his wife pretty well... She tried hard to save the marriage....

but

> now she has given up....

> If MR.P really wants a reconcilliation , then why doesnt he take

the

> divorce back...

> U( MR.P) HAVE FILED IT... SHE HASNT... STOP making a fool of

> everybody and urself and STOP blaming others(her family)... STOP

> posing urself as a CRY BABY coz if u really want to save the

> marriage , u can take THE DIVORCE back anytime and u guys can talk

> about reconciliation but u r not ready for that.. So, how can u

balme

> that gal or her family......

> THINK ! THINK ! and THINK ! Who will be the sufferers ??? It will

be

> you and your wife only...

>

> She has tried hard for 4 months ...Now its ur turn to come out

with

> clear thoughts... Till now, u havent shown any positive sign..U

want

> her to drop the complaint against you and you dont want to drop

any

> case against her in USA...I dont understand it.. If somebody is

clear

> about this.. pls lemme know!!!

>

> At one side, this guy is saying that he wants to save the marriage

> and on the other side he is saying that I will not drop any case

and

> continue with the DIVORCE...Sorry!! I just fail to

understand...Mr.P,

> U badly need a good counsellor...

>

> Her parents and all her realtives tried to talk to his parents but

> his parents were like STONES.. coz they just wanted them to

> seperate....SINGLE EFFORTHis parents never did ANY to save their

> marriage ... They keep feeding him. They dont want them to live

> happily..They just kept crying in front of him and everybody else

and

> kept telling him the negative things... I dont know what kind of

> parents are they and what will they get out of it... MEBBE JUST AN

> EGO SATISFACTION that too for the time being at the cost of their

> son's marriage...... But u have to pay a big price for their EGO

> SATISFACTION..

>

> Now what do u want ????... Things have changed now... there is no

> such thing " Its my way or the highway" now... Yes !! guys , he

used

> to say this to that gal.... Now, that gal and her near and dears

has

> no choice but to be prepared for the worse and bravely face the

> consequences inflicted by Mr.P...

>

> His parents and brother are really stupid, useless,cunning and

wicked

> people ( I can go on and on for the parents and brother like

them)...

> After a year or so, everybody will be busy in their lives... And U

(

> Mr.P) will keep thinking about the "HAPPY FAMILY"... U will be

alone

> MR.P... Parents will also die one day and ur brother will also get

> married one day and he will have "HIS HAPPY FAMILY"... U can be

happy

> with your carrer and with "NO HAPPY FAMILY OF YOURS"...

>

> About the future of your wife , it will be great and MR.P!!! u pls

> dont worry about it... She's got a great life ahead... As acc to

> you , u did everything for her career...

>

> I dont know what his parents and brother will get by destroying

> their son's marriage... anyway,Mr.P might realise it later but

then

> it will be too late as there is no hope for Mr.P in her life...

>

> P.S.. premarital relations doesnt matter.. what matter is did any

of

> you have any post marital affair ?? If not and u keep thinking

about

> the premarital things then u r a BIG FOOL and IMMATURE...

>

> Good bye,

> Kanchan.

>

> P.S. I hope I have not written anything that is hurtful to anybidy

> here in the group.. If somebody felt bad, then, M really sorry !!

I

> just wanted him to tell certain things as he doesnt want to listen

to

> anybody..

> There are so many good astrologers in this group.. They can have a

> look at his horoscope and can get an idea about the boy... And

guys,

> if u can tell him that the issue b/w them is so trivial and he

should

> get some good counselling, It would be great for him as well for

his

> wife... His wife never wanted this realtion to break... but now

she

> can not act like puppet and keep doing things just to make him or

his

> family happy...

>

[Guest guest]

Dear all,

 

Is it just a concidence that Mr. P and Kanchan are both members of

this group. Or it is some kind of attention seeking drama being played online.

 

The astrologers here go by the birth details given by the querists. No

one is concerned about who the sender really is. We have no way of knowing

whether the birth details given here are correct or false.

 

Please do not exploit the helpful intentions of the astrologers in this

group.

 

 

Ashutosh

 

 

 

 

-

panditarjun2004

Friday, 28 April, 2006 08:39

Re: Marriage problem - Prompt response would be appreciated !

 

 

dear friends

 

your mail to set the record straight from your perspective is fine

but since both the parties are expressing that neither wants a

divorce and both are highlighting the efforts each has put up, both

parties shall respect one another and shall not project one as good

and another as bad in a public group like this which is viewed by

thousands of members across the globe.

 

it is generally observed that one partner is highly egoistic,

selfish and does not accommodate the other leading to a separation.

the same person in the second marriage sheds the ego, make all sorts

of compromises and accommodate all the sentiments of the other so

that the second marriage would be the last and final marriage and

both parties cannot afford another third marriage and so on. if

this flexibility and accommodation is displayed in the first

marriage itself, things will not come to such a pass of separation.

 

since the matter is sub judice, a good counselling will help both

parties in either continue their marriage or separate in a peaceful

manner with mutual consent without any hard feelings and painting

the other as bad in public groups.

 

with best wishes and blessings for both.

pandit arjun

 

, "kanch_ag" <kanch_ag

wrote:

>

> OK!! m no astrologer but guys did u notice one thing... This man

> said that he has already filed for the divorce and his subject

> is "Can I save my marriage ?" I dont know what this guy is up to..

>

> pls dont waste your precious time over this guy's querry..... I

know

> his wife pretty well... She tried hard to save the marriage....

but

> now she has given up....

> If MR.P really wants a reconcilliation , then why doesnt he take

the

> divorce back...

> U( MR.P) HAVE FILED IT... SHE HASNT... STOP making a fool of

> everybody and urself and STOP blaming others(her family)... STOP

> posing urself as a CRY BABY coz if u really want to save the

> marriage , u can take THE DIVORCE back anytime and u guys can talk

> about reconciliation but u r not ready for that.. So, how can u

balme

> that gal or her family......

> THINK ! THINK ! and THINK ! Who will be the sufferers ??? It will

be

> you and your wife only...

>

> She has tried hard for 4 months ...Now its ur turn to come out

with

> clear thoughts... Till now, u havent shown any positive sign..U

want

> her to drop the complaint against you and you dont want to drop

any

> case against her in USA...I dont understand it.. If somebody is

clear

> about this.. pls lemme know!!!

>

> At one side, this guy is saying that he wants to save the marriage

> and on the other side he is saying that I will not drop any case

and

> continue with the DIVORCE...Sorry!! I just fail to

understand...Mr.P,

> U badly need a good counsellor...

>

> Her parents and all her realtives tried to talk to his parents but

> his parents were like STONES.. coz they just wanted them to

> seperate....SINGLE EFFORTHis parents never did ANY to save their

> marriage ... They keep feeding him. They dont want them to live

> happily..They just kept crying in front of him and everybody else

and

> kept telling him the negative things... I dont know what kind of

> parents are they and what will they get out of it... MEBBE JUST AN

> EGO SATISFACTION that too for the time being at the cost of their

> son's marriage...... But u have to pay a big price for their EGO

> SATISFACTION..

>

> Now what do u want ????... Things have changed now... there is no

> such thing " Its my way or the highway" now... Yes !! guys , he

used

> to say this to that gal.... Now, that gal and her near and dears

has

> no choice but to be prepared for the worse and bravely face the

> consequences inflicted by Mr.P...

>

> His parents and brother are really stupid, useless,cunning and

wicked

> people ( I can go on and on for the parents and brother like

them)...

> After a year or so, everybody will be busy in their lives... And U

(

> Mr.P) will keep thinking about the "HAPPY FAMILY"... U will be

alone

> MR.P... Parents will also die one day and ur brother will also get

> married one day and he will have "HIS HAPPY FAMILY"... U can be

happy

> with your carrer and with "NO HAPPY FAMILY OF YOURS"...

>

> About the future of your wife , it will be great and MR.P!!! u pls

> dont worry about it... She's got a great life ahead... As acc to

> you , u did everything for her career...

>

> I dont know what his parents and brother will get by destroying

> their son's marriage... anyway,Mr.P might realise it later but

then

> it will be too late as there is no hope for Mr.P in her life...

>

> P.S.. premarital relations doesnt matter.. what matter is did any

of

> you have any post marital affair ?? If not and u keep thinking

about

> the premarital things then u r a BIG FOOL and IMMATURE...

>

> Good bye,

> Kanchan.

>

> P.S. I hope I have not written anything that is hurtful to anybidy

> here in the group.. If somebody felt bad, then, M really sorry !!

I

> just wanted him to tell certain things as he doesnt want to listen

to

> anybody..

> There are so many good astrologers in this group.. They can have a

> look at his horoscope and can get an idea about the boy... And

guys,

> if u can tell him that the issue b/w them is so trivial and he

should

> get some good counselling, It would be great for him as well for

his

> wife... His wife never wanted this realtion to break... but now

she

> can not act like puppet and keep doing things just to make him or

his

> family happy...

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE

OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

 

 

 

Vedic astrology Astrology chart Astrology software

Vedic astrology software

 

 

 

 

a.. Visit your group "" on the web.

 

b..

 

c..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

dear brother ashutosh

 

it is true that world wide web is like a maya sabha where everything

is real only virtually. we do not know whether the querent is a

male or a female. in the last two years in this group, several men

approached as women and vice versa.

 

i believe every one on the face value till he or she is proved

otherwise. this is where prashna shastra comes handy to the

astrologer. in prashna chart, the astrologer would be able to

predict whether the querent is real or false, the gender of the

querent and also other details besides answers. however, i am not a

specialist in prashna chart and more learnt people in this are

krishnanji, nemaniji and tatvamji.

 

to put both Mr.P and Kanchan at rest, these prashna experts may like

to predict what is behind both the partners approaching the same

forum and painting one another good or bad.

 

with best wishes and regards

arjun

 

, "astrologerashutosh"

<astrologerashutosh wrote:

>

> Dear all,

>

> Is it just a concidence that Mr. P and Kanchan are

both members of this group. Or it is some kind of attention seeking

drama being played online.

>

> The astrologers here go by the birth details given by the

querists. No one is concerned about who the sender really is. We

have no way of knowing whether the birth details given here are

correct or false.

>

> Please do not exploit the helpful intentions of the

astrologers in this group.

>

>

> Ashutosh

>

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> panditarjun2004

>

> Friday, 28 April, 2006 08:39

> Re: Marriage problem - Prompt response would be

appreciated !

>

>

> dear friends

>

> your mail to set the record straight from your perspective is

fine

> but since both the parties are expressing that neither wants a

> divorce and both are highlighting the efforts each has put up,

both

> parties shall respect one another and shall not project one as

good

> and another as bad in a public group like this which is viewed

by

> thousands of members across the globe.

>

> it is generally observed that one partner is highly egoistic,

> selfish and does not accommodate the other leading to a

separation.

> the same person in the second marriage sheds the ego, make all

sorts

> of compromises and accommodate all the sentiments of the other

so

> that the second marriage would be the last and final marriage

and

> both parties cannot afford another third marriage and so on. if

> this flexibility and accommodation is displayed in the first

> marriage itself, things will not come to such a pass of

separation.

>

> since the matter is sub judice, a good counselling will help

both

> parties in either continue their marriage or separate in a

peaceful

> manner with mutual consent without any hard feelings and

painting

> the other as bad in public groups.

>

> with best wishes and blessings for both.

> pandit arjun

>

> , "kanch_ag" <kanch_ag@>

> wrote:

> >

> > OK!! m no astrologer but guys did u notice one thing... This

man

> > said that he has already filed for the divorce and his subject

> > is "Can I save my marriage ?" I dont know what this guy is up

to..

> >

> > pls dont waste your precious time over this guy's querry.....

I

> know

> > his wife pretty well... She tried hard to save the

marriage....

> but

> > now she has given up....

> > If MR.P really wants a reconcilliation , then why doesnt he

take

> the

> > divorce back...

> > U( MR.P) HAVE FILED IT... SHE HASNT... STOP making a fool of

> > everybody and urself and STOP blaming others(her family)...

STOP

> > posing urself as a CRY BABY coz if u really want to save the

> > marriage , u can take THE DIVORCE back anytime and u guys can

talk

> > about reconciliation but u r not ready for that.. So, how can

u

> balme

> > that gal or her family......

> > THINK ! THINK ! and THINK ! Who will be the sufferers ??? It

will

> be

> > you and your wife only...

> >

> > She has tried hard for 4 months ...Now its ur turn to come out

> with

> > clear thoughts... Till now, u havent shown any positive

sign..U

> want

> > her to drop the complaint against you and you dont want to

drop

> any

> > case against her in USA...I dont understand it.. If somebody

is

> clear

> > about this.. pls lemme know!!!

> >

> > At one side, this guy is saying that he wants to save the

marriage

> > and on the other side he is saying that I will not drop any

case

> and

> > continue with the DIVORCE...Sorry!! I just fail to

> understand...Mr.P,

> > U badly need a good counsellor...

> >

> > Her parents and all her realtives tried to talk to his parents

but

> > his parents were like STONES.. coz they just wanted them to

> > seperate....SINGLE EFFORTHis parents never did ANY to save

their

> > marriage ... They keep feeding him. They dont want them to

live

> > happily..They just kept crying in front of him and everybody

else

> and

> > kept telling him the negative things... I dont know what kind

of

> > parents are they and what will they get out of it... MEBBE

JUST AN

> > EGO SATISFACTION that too for the time being at the cost of

their

> > son's marriage...... But u have to pay a big price for their

EGO

> > SATISFACTION..

> >

> > Now what do u want ????... Things have changed now... there is

no

> > such thing " Its my way or the highway" now... Yes !! guys ,

he

> used

> > to say this to that gal.... Now, that gal and her near and

dears

> has

> > no choice but to be prepared for the worse and bravely face

the

> > consequences inflicted by Mr.P...

> >

> > His parents and brother are really stupid, useless,cunning and

> wicked

> > people ( I can go on and on for the parents and brother like

> them)...

> > After a year or so, everybody will be busy in their lives...

And U

> (

> > Mr.P) will keep thinking about the "HAPPY FAMILY"... U will be

> alone

> > MR.P... Parents will also die one day and ur brother will also

get

> > married one day and he will have "HIS HAPPY FAMILY"... U can

be

> happy

> > with your carrer and with "NO HAPPY FAMILY OF YOURS"...

> >

> > About the future of your wife , it will be great and MR.P!!! u

pls

> > dont worry about it... She's got a great life ahead... As acc

to

> > you , u did everything for her career...

> >

> > I dont know what his parents and brother will get by

destroying

> > their son's marriage... anyway,Mr.P might realise it later but

> then

> > it will be too late as there is no hope for Mr.P in her life...

> >

> > P.S.. premarital relations doesnt matter.. what matter is did

any

> of

> > you have any post marital affair ?? If not and u keep thinking

> about

> > the premarital things then u r a BIG FOOL and IMMATURE...

> >

> > Good bye,

> > Kanchan.

> >

> > P.S. I hope I have not written anything that is hurtful to

anybidy

> > here in the group.. If somebody felt bad, then, M really

sorry !!

> I

> > just wanted him to tell certain things as he doesnt want to

listen

> to

> > anybody..

> > There are so many good astrologers in this group.. They can

have a

> > look at his horoscope and can get an idea about the boy... And

> guys,

> > if u can tell him that the issue b/w them is so trivial and he

> should

> > get some good counselling, It would be great for him as well

for

> his

> > wife... His wife never wanted this realtion to break... but

now

> she

> > can not act like puppet and keep doing things just to make him

or

> his

> > family happy...

> >

>

>

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Dear readers,

the said part is quite often we react on the picture of the marriage as given

by one side,r arely we get both sides views, so we must observe and make our

own judgements than believe the self-pity of the one side we hear.

 

Now as Pt. Arjun has said the level of accomodation the divorcees show on 2nd

if they show on their 1st it is worth it

 

and I agree as it saves the family order, the children from such marriages

get to continue good traits else the effects of broken families brreeds broken

emotions, valueless lives.

 

IT IS SIMPLE NEITHER GOOD TIMES OR BAD TIMES ARE PERMENANT and just as they

shift positions we need to wait for the bad times to pass.

 

quite of then 7 1/2 sani or ardhashtama, or ashtama sani with bad dashas at

that tie have an effect some prayers, counselling etc can help the good old

joint family or ELDERS counselling them itself was a good thing we miss

today.the momentry heat, then the contionous addition to such hurt egos and

settling the egos than the problem leads to seperation, at times no lsss if one

gives up their ego and climbs down, once they r married and chilrren are there

there is need to shed ego and climb down for famoly sake

 

UNLESS WHEN THERE IS VIOLENCE, CONTEMPT ESP of leders, family,rules ethihcs

curruption marriages must not break.

infidelity too if unintetionally or momentry rather than a habit if forgiven

helps.

 

the couple must assess peridically why thigns went wrong and what they can do

differently and still keep their marriage smooth, happier than before.

 

WARRING COUPLES PLEASE NOTE

THE FAMILY IS THE BEDROCK OF SOCIAL LIFE

WE CAN TAKE THE BETTER SIDE (LIBERLAISM, OPENSESS), OF WEST BUT PRESERVE OUR

FAMILY ORDER, THEY HAVE RESPECTED OURS AND ADMIT OUR SUPIORITY IN TOLORENCE,

MUTUAL ACCOMODATION.

 

A HAPPY HOME MAKES A HAPPY SOCIETY, A HAPPY SOCIETY A STATE, COUNTRY.

SAVE FAMILIES AS FAR AS YOU CAN.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

panditarjun2004 <panditarjun2004 wrote: dear friends

 

your mail to set the record straight from your perspective is fine

but since both the parties are expressing that neither wants a

divorce and both are highlighting the efforts each has put up, both

parties shall respect one another and shall not project one as good

and another as bad in a public group like this which is viewed by

thousands of members across the globe.

 

it is generally observed that one partner is highly egoistic,

selfish and does not accommodate the other leading to a separation.

the same person in the second marriage sheds the ego, make all sorts

of compromises and accommodate all the sentiments of the other so

that the second marriage would be the last and final marriage and

both parties cannot afford another third marriage and so on. if

this flexibility and accommodation is displayed in the first

marriage itself, things will not come to such a pass of separation.

 

since the matter is sub judice, a good counselling will help both

parties in either continue their marriage or separate in a peaceful

manner with mutual consent without any hard feelings and painting

the other as bad in public groups.

 

with best wishes and blessings for both.

pandit arjun

 

, "kanch_ag" <kanch_ag

wrote:

>

> OK!! m no astrologer but guys did u notice one thing... This man

> said that he has already filed for the divorce and his subject

> is "Can I save my marriage ?" I dont know what this guy is up to..

>

> pls dont waste your precious time over this guy's querry..... I

know

> his wife pretty well... She tried hard to save the marriage....

but

> now she has given up....

> If MR.P really wants a reconcilliation , then why doesnt he take

the

> divorce back...

> U( MR.P) HAVE FILED IT... SHE HASNT... STOP making a fool of

> everybody and urself and STOP blaming others(her family)... STOP

> posing urself as a CRY BABY coz if u really want to save the

> marriage , u can take THE DIVORCE back anytime and u guys can talk

> about reconciliation but u r not ready for that.. So, how can u

balme

> that gal or her family......

> THINK ! THINK ! and THINK ! Who will be the sufferers ??? It will

be

> you and your wife only...

>

> She has tried hard for 4 months ...Now its ur turn to come out

with

> clear thoughts... Till now, u havent shown any positive sign..U

want

> her to drop the complaint against you and you dont want to drop

any

> case against her in USA...I dont understand it.. If somebody is

clear

> about this.. pls lemme know!!!

>

> At one side, this guy is saying that he wants to save the marriage

> and on the other side he is saying that I will not drop any case

and

> continue with the DIVORCE...Sorry!! I just fail to

understand...Mr.P,

> U badly need a good counsellor...

>

> Her parents and all her realtives tried to talk to his parents but

> his parents were like STONES.. coz they just wanted them to

> seperate....SINGLE EFFORTHis parents never did ANY to save their

> marriage ... They keep feeding him. They dont want them to live

> happily..They just kept crying in front of him and everybody else

and

> kept telling him the negative things... I dont know what kind of

> parents are they and what will they get out of it... MEBBE JUST AN

> EGO SATISFACTION that too for the time being at the cost of their

> son's marriage...... But u have to pay a big price for their EGO

> SATISFACTION..

>

> Now what do u want ????... Things have changed now... there is no

> such thing " Its my way or the highway" now... Yes !! guys , he

used

> to say this to that gal.... Now, that gal and her near and dears

has

> no choice but to be prepared for the worse and bravely face the

> consequences inflicted by Mr.P...

>

> His parents and brother are really stupid, useless,cunning and

wicked

> people ( I can go on and on for the parents and brother like

them)...

> After a year or so, everybody will be busy in their lives... And U

(

> Mr.P) will keep thinking about the "HAPPY FAMILY"... U will be

alone

> MR.P... Parents will also die one day and ur brother will also get

> married one day and he will have "HIS HAPPY FAMILY"... U can be

happy

> with your carrer and with "NO HAPPY FAMILY OF YOURS"...

>

> About the future of your wife , it will be great and MR.P!!! u pls

> dont worry about it... She's got a great life ahead... As acc to

> you , u did everything for her career...

>

> I dont know what his parents and brother will get by destroying

> their son's marriage... anyway,Mr.P might realise it later but

then

> it will be too late as there is no hope for Mr.P in her life...

>

> P.S.. premarital relations doesnt matter.. what matter is did any

of

> you have any post marital affair ?? If not and u keep thinking

about

> the premarital things then u r a BIG FOOL and IMMATURE...

>

> Good bye,

> Kanchan.

>

> P.S. I hope I have not written anything that is hurtful to anybidy

> here in the group.. If somebody felt bad, then, M really sorry !!

I

> just wanted him to tell certain things as he doesnt want to listen

to

> anybody..

> There are so many good astrologers in this group.. They can have a

> look at his horoscope and can get an idea about the boy... And

guys,

> if u can tell him that the issue b/w them is so trivial and he

should

> get some good counselling, It would be great for him as well for

his

> wife... His wife never wanted this realtion to break... but now

she

> can not act like puppet and keep doing things just to make him or

his

> family happy...

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

 

 

 

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