My apologies to jyotishi friends for sarcasm - for RRji

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Dear friend Ranjan Ji

 

you have vast knowledge and I always like your writing style as it suits the

current generation. either in the kishore patnaikji's thread or in the previous

gurmeet singhji's thread on both the occasions, i made a open request to both of

them to show maturity by saving their positive energies.

 

i also wish to take this opportunity in thanking Tanvirji for creating this

wonderful group which has attracted the best talents and he has given more than

100% freedom to all the members.

 

Wishing all the best for JR with continued knowledge sharing

arjun

 

Tanvir <ultimate wrote:

Dear Rohini Ji

 

When I said you are sarcastic sometimes then I did not want to express any

discomfort about it. Rather I have said that your sarcasms are pointed to some

unusual or not-so-sensible behaviour of people. So I have no problems with it.

Please try not to misunderstand me! I would said earlier if I had any problems.

I think most of the people are fine with the way you express yourself.

 

There is no need to change your writing mode to a formal one (As I feel so) - it

is fine ; however only some members like Kishore Ji might prefer a formal

interaction, that is merely what I was saying.

 

I mean what I am saying.

 

Lots of misunderstandings around - may be something up with current transits?

 

Regards

Tanvir

 

 

 

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Which is mine, is forever mine.

 

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Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:54 AM

My apologies to jyotishi friends for "sarcasm"

 

 

Dear Tanvir and forum friends,

 

The positive for me personally that came out of this episode was that

well-wishers and friends have shared honestly their perception that I

tend to come across as 'sarcastic' and I believe have been perceived

as inflicting 'barbs'. Strangely -- none of this had anything to do

with my use of the word 'fellow' but it allowed people to express

their discomfort in the past. I was sincerely not aware that

sometimes my teasing nature (and it only comes out amongst those who

are my cyberfriends and in a sense cybercommunity where I live and

work. I am not at all a stodgy and egoistic or formal person (I hate

being a stuffed shirt actually!) and had no idea that what I

considered as informal jest which I would happily take from others

too and have in the past without feeling hurt or throwing a tantrum

was causing pain. Srinivas ji's email brought that to me very

clearly. I wish he had expressed this earlier. I do get irritated, I

am human, when I sense and see that people are talking casually about

astrology or are being phony and through asking reading requests in a

certain tone. But, if I have caused pain, to those whom I have given

advice astrologically, due to what was perceived as sarcasm by them -

- I sincerely apologize for that, because I respect their perception.

I cut my cyberteeth in 80s and early 90s in fora which were very

informal and with nearly no people from Indian or Asian origins. My

cyberpersona developed in that environment which was extremely

informal, and open. In contrast many of the modern jyotish forums are

very formal and we address others with the formality that I too grew

up in in India with decades ago.

 

Okay, no more informal chit chat for me. People are sensitive and

like their distance and so I will try hard and regain my veneer of

politeness and formality and distance. And since there will still be

people from time to time who shall try to provoke me, I will have to

be extra cautious, reserved and careful with them and try to avoid

them even when they provoke. I realize now that this is a very

different cyberrealm now. Thanks to all friends and supporters for

all they have given me and once more apologies for any pain I caused,

whether intentionally or not!

 

RR

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ABSOLUTE BLISS.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Thanks, you are very kind.

 

RR

 

, arjun pandit

<panditarjun2004> wrote:

>

> Dear friend Ranjan Ji

>

> you have vast knowledge and I always like your writing style as it

suits the current generation. either in the kishore patnaikji's

thread or in the previous gurmeet singhji's thread on both the

occasions, i made a open request to both of them to show maturity by

saving their positive energies.

>

> i also wish to take this opportunity in thanking Tanvirji for

creating this wonderful group which has attracted the best talents

and he has given more than 100% freedom to all the members.

>

> Wishing all the best for JR with continued knowledge sharing

> arjun

>

> Tanvir <ultimate@s...> wrote:

> Dear Rohini Ji

>

> When I said you are sarcastic sometimes then I did not want to

express any discomfort about it. Rather I have said that your

sarcasms are pointed to some unusual or not-so-sensible behaviour of

people. So I have no problems with it. Please try not to

misunderstand me! I would said earlier if I had any problems. I think

most of the people are fine with the way you express yourself.

>

> There is no need to change your writing mode to a formal one (As I

feel so) - it is fine ; however only some members like Kishore Ji

might prefer a formal interaction, that is merely what I was saying.

>

> I mean what I am saying.

>

> Lots of misunderstandings around - may be something up with current

transits?

>

> Regards

> Tanvir

>

>

>

> What cannot happen, can never happen.

> Which is mine, is forever mine.

>

> http://www.jyotish-remedies.com - Vedic Astrology (Jyotish)

> Predictive astrology with incredibly powerful problem solving

remedies

> Where relief and solutions are found

>

>

>

> -

> Rohini (Crystal Pages)

>

> Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:54 AM

> My apologies to jyotishi friends for "sarcasm"

>

>

> Dear Tanvir and forum friends,

>

> The positive for me personally that came out of this episode was

that

> well-wishers and friends have shared honestly their perception

that I

> tend to come across as 'sarcastic' and I believe have been

perceived

> as inflicting 'barbs'. Strangely -- none of this had anything to

do

> with my use of the word 'fellow' but it allowed people to express

> their discomfort in the past. I was sincerely not aware that

> sometimes my teasing nature (and it only comes out amongst those

who

> are my cyberfriends and in a sense cybercommunity where I live

and

> work. I am not at all a stodgy and egoistic or formal person (I

hate

> being a stuffed shirt actually!) and had no idea that what I

> considered as informal jest which I would happily take from

others

> too and have in the past without feeling hurt or throwing a

tantrum

> was causing pain. Srinivas ji's email brought that to me very

> clearly. I wish he had expressed this earlier. I do get

irritated, I

> am human, when I sense and see that people are talking casually

about

> astrology or are being phony and through asking reading requests

in a

> certain tone. But, if I have caused pain, to those whom I have

given

> advice astrologically, due to what was perceived as sarcasm by

them -

> - I sincerely apologize for that, because I respect their

perception.

> I cut my cyberteeth in 80s and early 90s in fora which were very

> informal and with nearly no people from Indian or Asian origins.

My

> cyberpersona developed in that environment which was extremely

> informal, and open. In contrast many of the modern jyotish forums

are

> very formal and we address others with the formality that I too

grew

> up in in India with decades ago.

>

> Okay, no more informal chit chat for me. People are sensitive and

> like their distance and so I will try hard and regain my veneer

of

> politeness and formality and distance. And since there will still

be

> people from time to time who shall try to provoke me, I will have

to

> be extra cautious, reserved and careful with them and try to

avoid

> them even when they provoke. I realize now that this is a very

> different cyberrealm now. Thanks to all friends and supporters

for

> all they have given me and once more apologies for any pain I

caused,

> whether intentionally or not!

>

> RR

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH

THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS.

>

>

>

>

>

>

> Hindu astrology Vedic astrology Free vedic astrology

>

>

>

>

>

> Visit your group "" on the web.

>

>

>

>

> Terms of

Service.

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click.

>

>

>