Guest guest Posted July 18, 2005 Report Share Posted July 18, 2005 Dear friend, Adjustment and proper undestanding or grasp of the other's point of view- politeness in criticism of others or the spouse are the basic requirements for a happy and sustainable married life. (1) Weakness of lagna lord and Mars(Immaturity of Ego) (2) Weakness of Moon and 5th lord/ affliction to 5th house (inability to control emotions) as well as - analyse and grasp things in their proper perspective So how far it is proper on the part of a good astrologer to advise marriage of one mangalik boy with another mangalik girl ? In a number of divorce/ separation cases it has been seen that both the boys as well as the girls have Mangalik dosha in their charts. Is not it wise to advise a girl/boy with strong and mature personality and emotions and having good longevity against an Mangalik boy/girl rather than advising two short- tempered/egoistic/emotionally imbalanced person to marry each other. As married life is the foundation of Grihasthshram in our Indian Culture- cabable of achieving Chaturvarga- Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha. I earnestly request the learned members of the group to share their judicious opinion and valuable experience on the matter. M.Tripathy, Delhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2005 Report Share Posted July 18, 2005 Dear Tripathy ji' Any thing to prevent bad is always good.Basically one of the objective of Astrology is too indicate and forewarn.unfortunately in Astrology we are not sitting in the seat of judgements. Mangalik doshs may lead to as stated under; "In a number of divorce/ separation cases it has been seen that both the boys as well as the girls have Mangalik dosha in their charts". Where there are no such doshas too seperations take place.what ever may be the reason when events take place we can only feel whether any kind saving grace can be found in Astrology. Grahamaitri is the first and foremost which should be there and later all kind of astrological issues. Even if all such doshas could be over come by delaying postponing,still afflictions come up later with reference children. I feel that two young proposed for marriage have to consider as a dharma and willing participate,share and live with contentment.If these are forgotten all our efforts of matching will be futile exercise. May be our Hindu Shastras have to come out openly and deviate the indulgence in materilistic and over ambitions. Let the minds thinking to have a marriage relationship get fully prepared to adjust together,live together and finally love each other but not any other consideration krishnan Tutu <omkrishnaguru wrote: Dear friend, Adjustment and proper undestanding or grasp of the other's point of view- politeness in criticism of others or the spouse are the basic requirements for a happy and sustainable married life. (1) Weakness of lagna lord and Mars(Immaturity of Ego) (2) Weakness of Moon and 5th lord/ affliction to 5th house (inability to control emotions) as well as - analyse and grasp things in their proper perspective So how far it is proper on the part of a good astrologer to advise marriage of one mangalik boy with another mangalik girl ? In a number of divorce/ separation cases it has been seen that both the boys as well as the girls have Mangalik dosha in their charts. Is not it wise to advise a girl/boy with strong and mature personality and emotions and having good longevity against an Mangalik boy/girl rather than advising two short- tempered/egoistic/emotionally imbalanced person to marry each other. As married life is the foundation of Grihasthshram in our Indian Culture- cabable of achieving Chaturvarga- Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha. I earnestly request the learned members of the group to share their judicious opinion and valuable experience on the matter. M.Tripathy, Delhi SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS. Visit your group "" on the web. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Dear friends, With wishes of happiness and prosperity for all. " Where there are no such doshas too seperations take place.what ever may be the reason when events take place we can only feel whether any kind saving grace can be found in Astrology." YES, THE BEAUTY OF ASTROLOGY LIES IN ITS USEFULNESS. "Grahamaitri is the first and foremost which should be there and later all kind of astrological issues." YES, THERE MUST BE COMPATIBILITY BETWEEN THE PLANETS INFLUENCING THE LAGNA AND THE TRINES(INNER NATURE) OF THE BRIDE AS WELL AS THE GROOM. NATURAL MALEFICS IN TRINES- AND WEAKNESS OF MOON AND MARS GIVES INABILITY TO SEE THE POSITIVE THINGS IN OTHERS' VIEWS- THE INABILITY TO BEAR CRITICISM AND ADJUST IN ADVERSE SITUATION - MAY ARISE BECAUSE OF INHARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE LAGNA LORD AND 8TH LORD- THE AFFLICTION TO PLANETS OWNING/OCCUPYING TRINES. THE CARE AND RESPECT FOR OTHER'S VIEWS AND SENTIMENTS CAN BE ASSESSED FROM THE STRENGTH OF THE 5TH LORD/HOUSE AND MOON. BESIDES THE ABOVE THE TWO ISSUES OF LONGEVITY AND CHILDLESSNESS, IMPOTENCY/BARRENESS etc. has to be seen to avoid a lot of lot of problems following marriage. "Even if all such doshas could be over come by delaying postponing,still afflictions come up later with reference children." YES, BY DELAYING- WE MAY TRY TO HOOWINK THE PERIOD AND SUB-PERIOD LORDS- BUT WHAT ABOUT THE EFFECT OF THE PLANET RULING SUB-SUB PERIODS OR ANTARDASHA ! STRONGEST LORDS OF 2ND, 3RD, 6TH, 12TH AND 8TH HOUSES WHENEVER CONTTROLS THE AFFAIRS OF MARRIAGE AND GIVE MARRIAGE DURING THEIR PERIOD OR SUB-PERIOD ARE SURE TO CREATE MARITAL PROBLEMS ALSO. I feel that two young proposed for marriage have to consider as a dharma and willing participate,share and live with contentment.If these are forgotten all our efforts of matching will be futile exercise. May be our Hindu Shastras have to come out openly and deviate the indulgence in materilistic and over ambitions. Let the minds thinking to have a marriage relationship get fully prepared to adjust together,live together and finally love each other but not any other consideration > krishnan IN THE TRADITIONAL METHODS OF MATCH MAKING THE BHRIGU RISHI'S SYSTEM OF DASHA MELAK MATCHING SEEMS TO BE BETTER THAN THE SIMPLE KUTA MATCHING METHODS- especially the matching of the Moon signs Nadi(Adya-Madhya- Antya) Yoni Bala (strength of both the horoscopes including longevity, children and character) Varga(based on the most used name of the individual) and Bhavanadhipa- compatibility between the planets ruling the lagna and the 7th houses as well as other houses in the charts of the bride as well as the grooms. With regards to all, M.Tripathy, Delhi > Adjustment and proper undestanding or grasp of the other's point of > view- politeness in criticism of others or the spouse are the basic > requirements for a happy and sustainable married life. > > (1) Weakness of lagna lord and Mars(Immaturity of Ego) > > (2) Weakness of Moon and 5th lord/ affliction to 5th house > > (inability to control emotions) > > as well as - analyse and grasp things in their proper perspective > > So how far it is proper on the part of a good astrologer to advise > > marriage of one mangalik boy with another mangalik girl ? > > > In a number of divorce/ separation cases it has been seen that both > the boys as well as the girls have Mangalik dosha in their charts. > > > Is not it wise to advise a girl/boy with strong and mature > personality and emotions and having good longevity against an > Mangalik boy/girl rather than advising two short- > tempered/egoistic/emotionally imbalanced person to marry each other. > As married life is the foundation of Grihasthshram in our Indian > Culture- cabable of achieving Chaturvarga- Dharma, Artha, Kama and > Moksha. > > I earnestly request the learned members of the group to share their > judicious opinion and valuable experience on the matter. > > M.Tripathy, > > Delhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hello Tripathi ji, Let's strive to preserve the beauty and convey thespirit of our reliable.dependabla and consistent field of study made out from Vedas.Le'ts glorify it's importance anf put in understandable terms to the needy in finding solutions to heir pressing problems krishnan Tutu <omkrishnaguru wrote: Dear friends, With wishes of happiness and prosperity for all. " Where there are no such doshas too seperations take place.what ever may be the reason when events take place we can only feel whether any kind saving grace can be found in Astrology." YES, THE BEAUTY OF ASTROLOGY LIES IN ITS USEFULNESS. "Grahamaitri is the first and foremost which should be there and later all kind of astrological issues." YES, THERE MUST BE COMPATIBILITY BETWEEN THE PLANETS INFLUENCING THE LAGNA AND THE TRINES(INNER NATURE) OF THE BRIDE AS WELL AS THE GROOM. NATURAL MALEFICS IN TRINES- AND WEAKNESS OF MOON AND MARS GIVES INABILITY TO SEE THE POSITIVE THINGS IN OTHERS' VIEWS- THE INABILITY TO BEAR CRITICISM AND ADJUST IN ADVERSE SITUATION - MAY ARISE BECAUSE OF INHARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE LAGNA LORD AND 8TH LORD- THE AFFLICTION TO PLANETS OWNING/OCCUPYING TRINES. THE CARE AND RESPECT FOR OTHER'S VIEWS AND SENTIMENTS CAN BE ASSESSED FROM THE STRENGTH OF THE 5TH LORD/HOUSE AND MOON. BESIDES THE ABOVE THE TWO ISSUES OF LONGEVITY AND CHILDLESSNESS, IMPOTENCY/BARRENESS etc. has to be seen to avoid a lot of lot of problems following marriage. "Even if all such doshas could be over come by delaying postponing,still afflictions come up later with reference children." YES, BY DELAYING- WE MAY TRY TO HOOWINK THE PERIOD AND SUB-PERIOD LORDS- BUT WHAT ABOUT THE EFFECT OF THE PLANET RULING SUB-SUB PERIODS OR ANTARDASHA ! STRONGEST LORDS OF 2ND, 3RD, 6TH, 12TH AND 8TH HOUSES WHENEVER CONTTROLS THE AFFAIRS OF MARRIAGE AND GIVE MARRIAGE DURING THEIR PERIOD OR SUB-PERIOD ARE SURE TO CREATE MARITAL PROBLEMS ALSO. I feel that two young proposed for marriage have to consider as a dharma and willing participate,share and live with contentment.If these are forgotten all our efforts of matching will be futile exercise. May be our Hindu Shastras have to come out openly and deviate the indulgence in materilistic and over ambitions. Let the minds thinking to have a marriage relationship get fully prepared to adjust together,live together and finally love each other but not any other consideration > krishnan IN THE TRADITIONAL METHODS OF MATCH MAKING THE BHRIGU RISHI'S SYSTEM OF DASHA MELAK MATCHING SEEMS TO BE BETTER THAN THE SIMPLE KUTA MATCHING METHODS- especially the matching of the Moon signs Nadi(Adya-Madhya- Antya) Yoni Bala (strength of both the horoscopes including longevity, children and character) Varga(based on the most used name of the individual) and Bhavanadhipa- compatibility between the planets ruling the lagna and the 7th houses as well as other houses in the charts of the bride as well as the grooms. With regards to all, M.Tripathy, Delhi > Adjustment and proper undestanding or grasp of the other's point of > view- politeness in criticism of others or the spouse are the basic > requirements for a happy and sustainable married life. > > (1) Weakness of lagna lord and Mars(Immaturity of Ego) > > (2) Weakness of Moon and 5th lord/ affliction to 5th house > > (inability to control emotions) > > as well as - analyse and grasp things in their proper perspective > > So how far it is proper on the part of a good astrologer to advise > > marriage of one mangalik boy with another mangalik girl ? > > > In a number of divorce/ separation cases it has been seen that both > the boys as well as the girls have Mangalik dosha in their charts. > > > Is not it wise to advise a girl/boy with strong and mature > personality and emotions and having good longevity against an > Mangalik boy/girl rather than advising two short- > tempered/egoistic/emotionally imbalanced person to marry each other. > As married life is the foundation of Grihasthshram in our Indian > Culture- cabable of achieving Chaturvarga- Dharma, Artha, Kama and > Moksha. > > I earnestly request the learned members of the group to share their > judicious opinion and valuable experience on the matter. > > M.Tripathy, > > Delhi SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS. Vedic astrology Astrology chart Astrology software Visit your group "" on the web. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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