Guest guest Posted July 18, 2005 Report Share Posted July 18, 2005 Respected List Members, my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. plaese help me with the below mentioned problems. i have got married recently and right after a mnth of my marriage i have started having problems with my husband. though we both are very keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to be falling apart. whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our situation. secondly, i want to know about my career prospects. when would i get a job and how would it be? though i'm studying in a very reputed college but due to tensions at home i'm unable to concentrate on my studies even. will i be able to tackle the above mentioned problem??? my birth details are: dob: 11th march 1980 tob: 0650hrs place: begusarai(bihar) present location: calcutta(west bengal) thanking in anticipation Regards, bhavna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2005 Report Share Posted July 18, 2005 Dear Ms. Bhavna, You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't get distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be facing as the problems are a part of life and if there is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. Your career will take new heights from the year 2008 onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You will do well in competetive exams involving writing. You may even try appearing for the civil services exam, you have enough time to prepare for that and you definitely have very good chances of cracking the same as well. Regards, Akhil Jain --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 wrote: > Respected List Members, > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > plaese help me with > the below mentioned problems. > > i have got married recently and right after a mnth > of my marriage i > have started having problems with my husband. though > we both are very > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to be > falling apart. > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > situation. > > secondly, i want to know about my career prospects. > when would i get > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying in a > very reputed > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable to > concentrate on my > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > mentioned problem??? > > my birth details are: > > dob: 11th march 1980 > tob: 0650hrs > place: begusarai(bihar) > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > thanking in anticipation > Regards, > bhavna > > > > __ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hi, I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences i would tell you something.. My marriage was saved by self with following approach.. i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey i behaved in a fasion which i did not want inherently..i found that it was my ego..more of the material expectations.. out of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep my wife happy at any cost..it took years but i did change my behavior and won the love and trust of my wife... Sometimes we inherently want something and do something else..and seek answers from outside of us..we need to look within and act on what we actually want .. or donot want.. Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of - thought -> words -> action.. in case we have to change our thinking for a change in the life.. then the cycle should be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will automatically change.. BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. key is to acknowledge and consciously act on them..things which are in our control..we should definitely act upon. GOD loves you.. regards anil , akhil jain <robby_jn> wrote: > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't get > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be > facing as the problems are a part of life and if there > is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. Your > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You will do > well in competetive exams involving writing. You may > even try appearing for the civil services exam, you > have enough time to prepare for that and you > definitely have very good chances of cracking the same > as well. > > > Regards, > > Akhil Jain > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > Respected List Members, > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > > plaese help me with > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > i have got married recently and right after a mnth > > of my marriage i > > have started having problems with my husband. though > > we both are very > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to be > > falling apart. > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > > situation. > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career prospects. > > when would i get > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying in a > > very reputed > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable to > > concentrate on my > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > > mentioned problem??? > > > > my birth details are: > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > tob: 0650hrs > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > thanking in anticipation > > Regards, > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > Start your day with - make it your home page > http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 hi anilji, thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. i totally agree with what u said . however in my case things are more in the hands of my husband than mine. he has grudges and complaints of me. i dont have grudges against him. i never revert back whenever we fight. i'm the listener only till today. he is short tempered and not me. i keep my cool. the divorce is his idea and not mine. i'm ready to sit and talk it over though he doesn't want the same. he's an extremist. still i'll try and follow your suggestions in whatever way i can. i hope ur solution works in my case also. thanks a ton Bhavna anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: Hi, I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences i would tell you something.. My marriage was saved by self with following approach.. i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey i behaved in a fasion which i did not want inherently..i found that it was my ego..more of the material expectations.. out of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep my wife happy at any cost..it took years but i did change my behavior and won the love and trust of my wife... Sometimes we inherently want something and do something else..and seek answers from outside of us..we need to look within and act on what we actually want .. or donot want.. Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of - thought -> words -> action.. in case we have to change our thinking for a change in the life.. then the cycle should be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will automatically change.. BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. key is to acknowledge and consciously act on them..things which are in our control..we should definitely act upon. GOD loves you.. regards anil , akhil jain <robby_jn> wrote: > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't get > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be > facing as the problems are a part of life and if there > is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. Your > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You will do > well in competetive exams involving writing. You may > even try appearing for the civil services exam, you > have enough time to prepare for that and you > definitely have very good chances of cracking the same > as well. > > > Regards, > > Akhil Jain > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > Respected List Members, > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > > plaese help me with > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > i have got married recently and right after a mnth > > of my marriage i > > have started having problems with my husband. though > > we both are very > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to be > > falling apart. > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > > situation. > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career prospects. > > when would i get > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying in a > > very reputed > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable to > > concentrate on my > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > > mentioned problem??? > > > > my birth details are: > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > tob: 0650hrs > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > thanking in anticipation > > Regards, > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > Start your day with - make it your home page > http://www./r/hs SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS. Visit your group "" on the web. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hello Ms. Bhavna, I have gone through your horoscope and suggest following remedies that can be taken up. I would also like to request all learned members on the list to give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum that shares thier vast & precious experience. Get you marriage registered with court (if you have not done it so far) If possible get your father gift you the bed you use in your bedroom. Take fathers blessing Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. Recite the Mantra for Budha Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions there certainly are some saving factors too. Try to understand your husband and analyse his behaviour. May be he needs some more from you. Once again I would request all learned members on the list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge they possess and give their comments on the above. My basic theory behind the above remedies is that Sun is the planet primarily causing the problems in the marriage. There are indications that it is love marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has to be pacified or the marriage should have approval of the Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that getting the marriage registered with court is also one of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed by the Sun. Regards, Akhil Jain --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > Hi, > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences i > would tell you something.. > > My marriage was saved by self with following > approach.. > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey i > behaved in a fasion which i did > not want inherently..i found that it was my > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > but i did change my behavior and won the love and > trust of my wife... > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > something else..and seek answers > from outside of us..we need to look within and act > on what we actually want .. or > donot want.. > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of - > thought -> words -> action.. > > in case we have to change our thinking for a change > in the life.. then the cycle should > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > automatically change.. > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. key > is to acknowledge and > consciously act on them..things which are in our > control..we should definitely act > upon. > > GOD loves you.. > > regards > anil > , akhil jain > <robby_jn> wrote: > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't > get > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if > there > > is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. > Your > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You > will do > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You > may > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, > you > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > definitely have very good chances of cracking the > same > > as well. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > > > plaese help me with > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a > mnth > > > of my marriage i > > > have started having problems with my husband. > though > > > we both are very > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to > be > > > falling apart. > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > > > situation. > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career > prospects. > > > when would i get > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying > in a > > > very reputed > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable > to > > > concentrate on my > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > Regards, > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > Start your day with - make it your home > page > > http://www./r/hs > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hello Ms. Bhavna, I have gone through your horoscope and suggest following remedies that can be taken up. I would also like to request all learned members on the list to give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum that shares thier vast & precious experience. Get you marriage registered with court (if you have not done it so far) If possible get your father gift you the bed you use in your bedroom. Take fathers blessing Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. Recite the Mantra for Budha Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions there certainly are some saving factors too. Try to understand your husband and analyse his behaviour. May be he needs some more from you. Thei are indications also that your father have high hopes from you and wanted you to join the civil services like he had. You are quite capable of that and go ahead with that. Once again I would request all learned members on the list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge they possess and give their comments on the above. My basic theory behind the above remedies is that Sun is the planet primarily causing the problems in the marriage. There are indications that it is love marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has to be pacified or the marriage should have approval of the Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that getting the marriage registered with court is also one of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed by the Sun. Regards, Akhil Jain --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > Hi, > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences i > would tell you something.. > > My marriage was saved by self with following > approach.. > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey i > behaved in a fasion which i did > not want inherently..i found that it was my > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > but i did change my behavior and won the love and > trust of my wife... > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > something else..and seek answers > from outside of us..we need to look within and act > on what we actually want .. or > donot want.. > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of - > thought -> words -> action.. > > in case we have to change our thinking for a change > in the life.. then the cycle should > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > automatically change.. > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. key > is to acknowledge and > consciously act on them..things which are in our > control..we should definitely act > upon. > > GOD loves you.. > > regards > anil > , akhil jain > <robby_jn> wrote: > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't > get > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if > there > > is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. > Your > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You > will do > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You > may > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, > you > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > definitely have very good chances of cracking the > same > > as well. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > > > plaese help me with > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a > mnth > > > of my marriage i > > > have started having problems with my husband. > though > > > we both are very > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to > be > > > falling apart. > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > > > situation. > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career > prospects. > > > when would i get > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying > in a > > > very reputed > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable > to > > > concentrate on my > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > Regards, > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > Start your day with - make it your home > page > > http://www./r/hs > > > __ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hi, I was exactly like your husband..but my wife never accepted any of my tantrums..so much so that i was thinking of divorce.. and suddenly out of the blue.. may be out of my love for her..i realized that i was doing wrong.. i would keep throwing tantrums.. till she started crying and then i would repent.. but she always said.. why consol now.. so i went to a psychaitrist and found that i had an obsessive behaviour and started taking the medicines for that .. it took years but life became atleast normal.. i am still on medication.. Now that i am OK now.. my wife knows that displeasing behaviour is not my trueself.. and i also try to revisit my psyc. If your husband is not willing to go to psyc..even then tell him that you love him as he is..try to develop that sixth sense about assessing his mood.. console him.. ask him gently what is bothering him.. say sorry to him.. slowly he will realize the mistake and everything will be normal.. cook what he likes.. you have to be totally devoted to him.. One more life secret i will tell you... Every human being has the same characteristic as GOD.. that is creation of what one thinks , feels and puts energy into..that is Free will gift to humans. Donot think that you want to see things in place..bcose then GOD will give you the experiences of wanting to feel that things are OK.. Just think.. that things are getting better day by day and marriage relationship is getting happier... then you will be able to see this whole drama as an observer.. Have that intense thought that your marriage is normal..donot dwelve into that latent sponsering thought of that you have a personality and dekha jayega..despite you thinking and doing to save the marriage.. look for the deep intense sponsering thought.. and change it to save marriage..if inherently you love him as he is ( or may be without this extreme behaviour ) and would like to live with him. GOD loves you always.. regards anil bindal, bhavna bhardwaj <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > hi anilji, > thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. i totally agree with what u said . however in my case things are more in the hands of my husband than mine. he has grudges and complaints of me. i dont have grudges against him. i never revert back whenever we fight. i'm the listener only till today. he is short tempered and not me. i keep my cool. the divorce is his idea and not mine. i'm ready to sit and talk it over though he doesn't want the same. he's an extremist. still i'll try and follow your suggestions in whatever way i can. i hope ur solution works in my case also. > > thanks a ton > Bhavna > > > anil <anil_bindal2000> wrote: > Hi, > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences i would tell you something.. > > My marriage was saved by self with following approach.. > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey i behaved in a fasion which i did > not want inherently..i found that it was my ego..more of the material expectations.. out > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep my wife happy at any cost..it took years > but i did change my behavior and won the love and trust of my wife... > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do something else..and seek answers > from outside of us..we need to look within and act on what we actually want .. or > donot want.. > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of - thought -> words -> action.. > > in case we have to change our thinking for a change in the life.. then the cycle should > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will automatically change.. > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. key is to acknowledge and > consciously act on them..things which are in our control..we should definitely act > upon. > > GOD loves you.. > > regards > anil > , akhil jain <robby_jn> wrote: > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. Don't get > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may be > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if there > > is a problem there definitely exists a soloution. Your > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You will do > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You may > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, you > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > definitely have very good chances of cracking the same > > as well. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year MBA. > > > plaese help me with > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a mnth > > > of my marriage i > > > have started having problems with my husband. though > > > we both are very > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems to be > > > falling apart. > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve our > > > situation. > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career prospects. > > > when would i get > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying in a > > > very reputed > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable to > > > concentrate on my > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the above > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > Regards, > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > Start your day with - make it your home page > > http://www./r/hs SURRENDER JOYFULLY TO THE WILL OF THE ULTIMATE DIVINITY AND RELISH THE TASTE OF ABSOLUTE BLISS. > > > > > > > > > > Visit your group "" on the web. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Hello bhavna, On top of what Akhil has suggested, i would like to add some more meat to it. You are currently going through Sun MahaDasha, which is causing disputes with your husband. >From 21st Oct 2005, mercury antardasha will start under Sun. Now, after 21st Oct 2005, the situation may get worse becasue Sun is causing serious affilcation to mercury. Also, Please note that mercury as a owner of your marraige house, is already week due to following reasons: 1. It is placed in an evil house(12th) 2. It is aspected by Rahu and Mars(both are forming togather chandal Yoga in sixth house and having full aspect on mercury). 3. It is debilitated in Navamansa chart. 4. ALSO YOUR HOUSE OF MARRAIGE IS AFFILICTED BY THE PLACEMENT OF SATURM BECAUSE AS A NATUAL MELEFIC ITS MOOLTRIKON SIGN LIES IN EVIL HOUSE(i.e. IT BECOMES DOUBLEY HARMFUL) Below are the remedies: 1. Offering of wheat and jaggery (Gur) to a cow on Sunday or daily. 2. Serve father. 3. Surya Namaskar & offer water at the time of sunrise 4. Watering a peeple tree on Saturdays or daily except Sundays. 5. Offering salty rice with dal to beggars/crows. 6. Offering namkeen roti with mustard oil applied on it, in pieces to crows everyday morning. 7. Donating black pulse or salt or mustard oil on Saturdays. 8. Being considerate to the servants/poor. 9. Wear Emerald of good quality in Bronze metal in your left hand's little finger. For any doubts and queries please get back to me. Regards, Vinay --- akhil jain <robby_jn wrote: > Hello Ms. Bhavna, > > I have gone through your horoscope and suggest > following remedies that can be taken up. I would > also > like to request all learned members on the list to > give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum that > shares thier vast & precious experience. > > Get you marriage registered with court (if you have > not done it so far) > If possible get your father gift you the bed you use > in your bedroom. > Take fathers blessing > Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. > Recite the Mantra for Budha > > Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions there > certainly are some saving factors too. Try to > understand your husband and analyse his behaviour. > May > be he needs some more from you. > > Once again I would request all learned members on > the > list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge > they > possess and give their comments on the above. > > My basic theory behind the above remedies is that > Sun > is the planet primarily causing the problems in the > marriage. There are indications that it is love > marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has to be > pacified or the marriage should have approval of the > Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that > getting the marriage registered with court is also > one > of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed by > the > Sun. > > > Regards, > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > > > Hi, > > > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences > i > > would tell you something.. > > > > My marriage was saved by self with following > > approach.. > > > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey > i > > behaved in a fasion which i did > > not want inherently..i found that it was my > > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep > > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > > but i did change my behavior and won the love and > > trust of my wife... > > > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > > something else..and seek answers > > from outside of us..we need to look within and act > > on what we actually want .. or > > donot want.. > > > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of > - > > thought -> words -> action.. > > > > in case we have to change our thinking for a > change > > in the life.. then the cycle should > > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > > automatically change.. > > > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. > key > > is to acknowledge and > > consciously act on them..things which are in our > > control..we should definitely act > > upon. > > > > GOD loves you.. > > > > regards > > anil > > , akhil > jain > > <robby_jn> wrote: > > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. > Don't > > get > > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may > be > > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if > > there > > > is a problem there definitely exists a > soloution. > > Your > > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You > > will do > > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You > > may > > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, > > you > > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > > definitely have very good chances of cracking > the > > same > > > as well. > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year > MBA. > > > > plaese help me with > > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a > > mnth > > > > of my marriage i > > > > have started having problems with my husband. > > though > > > > we both are very > > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems > to > > be > > > > falling apart. > > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve > our > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career > > prospects. > > > > when would i get > > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying > > in a > > > > very reputed > > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable > > to > > > > concentrate on my > > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the > above > > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > > Regards, > > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > > Start your day with - make it your home > > page > > > http://www./r/hs > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? 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Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 hello vinay ji, i thank you from the core of my heart. i'll definitely do these. i just hope things work out for me. please tell me will my marriage survive or it wont?? r there any chances of my going abroad? thanking you in anticipation Bhavna vinay kumar <vinay_s75 wrote: Hello bhavna, On top of what Akhil has suggested, i would like to add some more meat to it. You are currently going through Sun MahaDasha, which is causing disputes with your husband. >From 21st Oct 2005, mercury antardasha will start under Sun. Now, after 21st Oct 2005, the situation may get worse becasue Sun is causing serious affilcation to mercury. Also, Please note that mercury as a owner of your marraige house, is already week due to following reasons: 1. It is placed in an evil house(12th) 2. It is aspected by Rahu and Mars(both are forming togather chandal Yoga in sixth house and having full aspect on mercury). 3. It is debilitated in Navamansa chart. 4. ALSO YOUR HOUSE OF MARRAIGE IS AFFILICTED BY THE PLACEMENT OF SATURM BECAUSE AS A NATUAL MELEFIC ITS MOOLTRIKON SIGN LIES IN EVIL HOUSE(i.e. IT BECOMES DOUBLEY HARMFUL) Below are the remedies: 1. Offering of wheat and jaggery (Gur) to a cow on Sunday or daily. 2. Serve father. 3. Surya Namaskar & offer water at the time of sunrise 4. Watering a peeple tree on Saturdays or daily except Sundays. 5. Offering salty rice with dal to beggars/crows. 6. Offering namkeen roti with mustard oil applied on it, in pieces to crows everyday morning. 7. Donating black pulse or salt or mustard oil on Saturdays. 8. Being considerate to the servants/poor. 9. Wear Emerald of good quality in Bronze metal in your left hand's little finger. For any doubts and queries please get back to me. Regards, Vinay --- akhil jain <robby_jn wrote: > Hello Ms. Bhavna, > > I have gone through your horoscope and suggest > following remedies that can be taken up. I would > also > like to request all learned members on the list to > give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum that > shares thier vast & precious experience. > > Get you marriage registered with court (if you have > not done it so far) > If possible get your father gift you the bed you use > in your bedroom. > Take fathers blessing > Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. > Recite the Mantra for Budha > > Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions there > certainly are some saving factors too. Try to > understand your husband and analyse his behaviour. > May > be he needs some more from you. > > Once again I would request all learned members on > the > list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge > they > possess and give their comments on the above. > > My basic theory behind the above remedies is that > Sun > is the planet primarily causing the problems in the > marriage. There are indications that it is love > marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has to be > pacified or the marriage should have approval of the > Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that > getting the marriage registered with court is also > one > of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed by > the > Sun. > > > Regards, > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > > > Hi, > > > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences > i > > would tell you something.. > > > > My marriage was saved by self with following > > approach.. > > > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey > i > > behaved in a fasion which i did > > not want inherently..i found that it was my > > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep > > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > > but i did change my behavior and won the love and > > trust of my wife... > > > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > > something else..and seek answers > > from outside of us..we need to look within and act > > on what we actually want .. or > > donot want.. > > > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of > - > > thought -> words -> action.. > > > > in case we have to change our thinking for a > change > > in the life.. then the cycle should > > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > > automatically change.. > > > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. > key > > is to acknowledge and > > consciously act on them..things which are in our > > control..we should definitely act > > upon. > > > > GOD loves you.. > > > > regards > > anil > > , akhil > jain > > <robby_jn> wrote: > > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. > Don't > > get > > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may > be > > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if > > there > > > is a problem there definitely exists a > soloution. > > Your > > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You > > will do > > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You > > may > > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, > > you > > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > > definitely have very good chances of cracking > the > > same > > > as well. > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year > MBA. > > > > plaese help me with > > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a > > mnth > > > > of my marriage i > > > > have started having problems with my husband. > > though > > > > we both are very > > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems > to > > be > > > > falling apart. > > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve > our > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career > > prospects. > > > > when would i get > > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying > > in a > > > > very reputed > > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable > > to > > > > concentrate on my > > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the > above > > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > > Regards, > > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > > Start your day with - make it your home > > page > > > http://www./r/hs > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? 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Guest guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Dear Bhavna, Sometimes truth is too hard to digest. But, it should be said to prevent future problems. You have a yoga for more than one marriages. This yoga is only giving its effects. Ashutosh. - bhavna bhardwaj Tuesday, July 19, 2005 17:10 Re: future career prospects. hello vinay ji, i thank you from the core of my heart. i'll definitely do these. i just hope things work out for me. please tell me will my marriage survive or it wont?? r there any chances of my going abroad? thanking you in anticipation Bhavna vinay kumar <vinay_s75 wrote: Hello bhavna, On top of what Akhil has suggested, i would like to add some more meat to it. You are currently going through Sun MahaDasha, which is causing disputes with your husband. From 21st Oct 2005, mercury antardasha will start under Sun. Now, after 21st Oct 2005, the situation may get worse becasue Sun is causing serious affilcation to mercury. Also, Please note that mercury as a owner of your marraige house, is already week due to following reasons: 1. It is placed in an evil house(12th) 2. It is aspected by Rahu and Mars(both are forming togather chandal Yoga in sixth house and having full aspect on mercury). 3. It is debilitated in Navamansa chart. 4. ALSO YOUR HOUSE OF MARRAIGE IS AFFILICTED BY THE PLACEMENT OF SATURM BECAUSE AS A NATUAL MELEFIC ITS MOOLTRIKON SIGN LIES IN EVIL HOUSE(i.e. IT BECOMES DOUBLEY HARMFUL) Below are the remedies: 1. Offering of wheat and jaggery (Gur) to a cow on Sunday or daily. 2. Serve father. 3. Surya Namaskar & offer water at the time of sunrise 4. Watering a peeple tree on Saturdays or daily except Sundays. 5. Offering salty rice with dal to beggars/crows. 6. Offering namkeen roti with mustard oil applied on it, in pieces to crows everyday morning. 7. Donating black pulse or salt or mustard oil on Saturdays. 8. Being considerate to the servants/poor. 9. Wear Emerald of good quality in Bronze metal in your left hand's little finger. For any doubts and queries please get back to me. Regards, Vinay --- akhil jain <robby_jn wrote: > Hello Ms. Bhavna, > > I have gone through your horoscope and suggest > following remedies that can be taken up. I would > also > like to request all learned members on the list to > give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum that > shares thier vast & precious experience. > > Get you marriage registered with court (if you have > not done it so far) > If possible get your father gift you the bed you use > in your bedroom. > Take fathers blessing > Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. > Recite the Mantra for Budha > > Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions there > certainly are some saving factors too. Try to > understand your husband and analyse his behaviour. > May > be he needs some more from you. > > Once again I would request all learned members on > the > list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge > they > possess and give their comments on the above. > > My basic theory behind the above remedies is that > Sun > is the planet primarily causing the problems in the > marriage. There are indications that it is love > marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has to be > pacified or the marriage should have approval of the > Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that > getting the marriage registered with court is also > one > of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed by > the > Sun. > > > Regards, > > Akhil Jain > > > > --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > > > Hi, > > > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my experiences > i > > would tell you something.. > > > > My marriage was saved by self with following > > approach.. > > > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know whey > i > > behaved in a fasion which i did > > not want inherently..i found that it was my > > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to keep > > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > > but i did change my behavior and won the love and > > trust of my wife... > > > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > > something else..and seek answers > > from outside of us..we need to look within and act > > on what we actually want .. or > > donot want.. > > > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle of > - > > thought -> words -> action.. > > > > in case we have to change our thinking for a > change > > in the life.. then the cycle should > > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > > automatically change.. > > > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of imperfections.. > key > > is to acknowledge and > > consciously act on them..things which are in our > > control..we should definitely act > > upon. > > > > GOD loves you.. > > > > regards > > anil > > , akhil > jain > > <robby_jn> wrote: > > > Dear Ms. Bhavna, > > > > > > You have very promising career ahead of you. > Don't > > get > > > distracted/disheartened by the problems you may > be > > > facing as the problems are a part of life and if > > there > > > is a problem there definitely exists a > soloution. > > Your > > > career will take new heights from the year 2008 > > > onwards, whe the Mahadasha of Moon begins. You > > will do > > > well in competetive exams involving writing. You > > may > > > even try appearing for the civil services exam, > > you > > > have enough time to prepare for that and you > > > definitely have very good chances of cracking > the > > same > > > as well. > > > > > > > > > Regards, > > > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > > > --- bhavna_bhardwaj_2005 > > > <bhavna_bhardwaj_2005> wrote: > > > > > > > Respected List Members, > > > > my name is Bhavna and i'm doing final year > MBA. > > > > plaese help me with > > > > the below mentioned problems. > > > > > > > > i have got married recently and right after a > > mnth > > > > of my marriage i > > > > have started having problems with my husband. > > though > > > > we both are very > > > > keen to keep our marriage intact but it seems > to > > be > > > > falling apart. > > > > whatever we do doesn't seem to help improve > our > > > > situation. > > > > > > > > secondly, i want to know about my career > > prospects. > > > > when would i get > > > > a job and how would it be? though i'm studying > > in a > > > > very reputed > > > > college but due to tensions at home i'm unable > > to > > > > concentrate on my > > > > studies even. will i be able to tackle the > above > > > > mentioned problem??? > > > > > > > > my birth details are: > > > > > > > > dob: 11th march 1980 > > > > tob: 0650hrs > > > > place: begusarai(bihar) > > > > present location: calcutta(west bengal) > > > > > > > > thanking in anticipation > > > > Regards, > > > > bhavna > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __ > > > Start your day with - make it your home > > page > > > http://www./r/hs > > > > > > > > > > > Tired of spam? 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Guest guest Posted July 30, 2005 Report Share Posted July 30, 2005 Dear Ashutosh Ji, If a native has a yoga for two marriages in its chart and the marriage is done without performing any remedies prior to the marriage, can marrying again with its spouse dilute the effect of that yoga? What remedies shuld we suggest to such a native if he/she seeks the guidance before marriage? can Kumbh vivah or Tulsi vivah be suggested in all such cases? Is there any other remedy for that can be suggested? Regards, Akhil Jain --- Astrologer Ashutosh <astrologerashutosh wrote: > Dear Bhavna, > > Sometimes truth is too hard to > digest. But, it should be said to prevent future > problems. You have a yoga for more than one > marriages. This yoga is only giving its effects. > > > Ashutosh. > > > - > bhavna bhardwaj > > Tuesday, July 19, 2005 17:10 > Re: future career prospects. > > > hello vinay ji, > i thank you from the core of my heart. i'll > definitely do these. i just hope things work out for > me. please tell me will my marriage survive or it > wont?? r there any chances of my going abroad? > > thanking you in anticipation > Bhavna > > vinay kumar <vinay_s75 wrote: > Hello bhavna, > > On top of what Akhil has suggested, i would like > to > add some more meat to it. > > You are currently going through Sun MahaDasha, > which > is causing disputes with your husband. > From 21st Oct 2005, mercury antardasha will start > under Sun. Now, after 21st Oct 2005, the situation > may > get worse becasue Sun is causing serious > affilcation > to mercury. > Also, Please note that mercury as a owner of your > marraige house, is already week due to following > reasons: > 1. It is placed in an evil house(12th) > 2. It is aspected by Rahu and Mars(both are > forming > togather chandal Yoga in sixth house and having > full > aspect on mercury). > 3. It is debilitated in Navamansa chart. > 4. ALSO YOUR HOUSE OF MARRAIGE IS AFFILICTED BY > THE > PLACEMENT OF SATURM BECAUSE AS A NATUAL MELEFIC > ITS > MOOLTRIKON SIGN LIES IN EVIL HOUSE(i.e. IT BECOMES > DOUBLEY HARMFUL) > > Below are the remedies: > > 1. Offering of wheat and jaggery (Gur) to a cow on > Sunday or daily. > 2. Serve father. > 3. Surya Namaskar & offer water at the time of > sunrise > 4. Watering a peeple tree on Saturdays or daily > except > Sundays. > 5. Offering salty rice with dal to beggars/crows. > 6. Offering namkeen roti with mustard oil applied > on > it, in pieces to crows everyday morning. > 7. Donating black pulse or salt or mustard oil on > Saturdays. > 8. Being considerate to the servants/poor. > 9. Wear Emerald of good quality in Bronze metal in > your left hand's little finger. > > For any doubts and queries please get back to me. > > Regards, > Vinay > > > > --- akhil jain <robby_jn wrote: > > > Hello Ms. Bhavna, > > > > I have gone through your horoscope and suggest > > following remedies that can be taken up. I would > > also > > like to request all learned members on the list > to > > give me an oppurtunity to be part of the forum > that > > shares thier vast & precious experience. > > > > Get you marriage registered with court (if you > have > > not done it so far) > > If possible get your father gift you the bed you > use > > in your bedroom. > > Take fathers blessing > > Recite Aditya Hridyam strotram daily. > > Recite the Mantra for Budha > > > > Let me tell ou this, if their are afflictions > there > > certainly are some saving factors too. Try to > > understand your husband and analyse his > behaviour. > > May > > be he needs some more from you. > > > > Once again I would request all learned members > on > > the > > list to help me with the vast oceon of knowledge > > they > > possess and give their comments on the above. > > > > My basic theory behind the above remedies is > that > > Sun > > is the planet primarily causing the problems in > the > > marriage. There are indications that it is love > > marriage againstbthe fathers wish. THe Sun has > to be > > pacified or the marriage should have approval of > the > > Sun. Sun also represents King hence I feel that > > getting the marriage registered with court is > also > > one > > of the ways to get the marriage approve/blessed > by > > the > > Sun. > > > > > > Regards, > > > > Akhil Jain > > > > > > > > --- anil <anil_bindal2000 wrote: > > > > > Hi, > > > > > > I am not an astrologer..but out of my > experiences > > i > > > would tell you something.. > > > > > > My marriage was saved by self with following > > > approach.. > > > > > > i wanted to save my marriage and did not know > whey > > i > > > behaved in a fasion which i did > > > not want inherently..i found that it was my > > > ego..more of the material expectations.. out > > > of life..so i told myself..that i will try to > keep > > > my wife happy at any cost..it took years > > > but i did change my behavior and won the love > and > > > trust of my wife... > > > > > > Sometimes we inherently want something and do > > > something else..and seek answers > > > from outside of us..we need to look within and > act > > > on what we actually want .. or > > > donot want.. > > > > > > Anything that menifests in our life is a cycle > of > > - > > > thought -> words -> action.. > > > > > > in case we have to change our thinking for a > > change > > > in the life.. then the cycle should > > > be .. act > words > thoughts.. so ignore the > > > thoughts ( reactive ) and do what one's > > > heart /sould feels right.. then thinking will > > > automatically change.. > > > > > > BTW, i am no perfect and full of > imperfections.. > > key > > > is to acknowledge and > > > consciously act on them..things which are in > our > === message truncated === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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