Requesting help - Please

June 8, 2005

Sriman Arjun Pandit Prabhu,

I have been closely following your posts in Jyotish Remedies group, and find

your approach to jyotish analysis very fascinating. I understand that to

truly grasp jyotish, one must sincerely study the science, but sincere

attitude and constant study isn't sufficient to master Vedic astrology, is

this correct? One must be blessed with special abilities and intuition in

order to be a jyotish, and such qualities are visible in the chart, yes?

I would like to request your advice. I am currently facing a great dilemma

in my life because of the following reason: I am married for over 13 years,

and our marital situation has been bad ever since my first daughter was born

(roughly 7 years ago). I consider myself a very passive type of person, and

accepted my relationship problem as one of my karmic lesson I have to go

through.

Nonetheless, I accidentally met a person (female) in the beginning of this

year that has shown great sympathy and friendship towards me. I naturally

developed a strong attachment, and our relationship proved more to be then

just friendship. I actually feel ashamed of this because I believe loyalty

and respect are important qualities to develop. Also, I perform devotional

service, and try to be a humble servant of my guru and Sri Krsna. I am

convinced that spiritual development and love to God is our ultimate goal,

but still, we tend to make mistakes.

I kindly ask you to guide me. Is a possible that I will overcome this

problem and remain with my wife until the end of life? Will I ever become

conditioned by my senses and commit mistakes in my marital life? Will I ever

gain sufficient detachment from sense gratification and maybe become a

serious devotee of Sri Krsna?

I recognize that this type of consultation is very personal and may seem

very trivial. I have sought advice in other astrology groups, but couldn't

get any help. I decided to insist, and therefore, can you please tell me

which planetary influence is responsible for such effect? What kind of

remedy is applicable in my case?

Also, I have been going through financial problems every since I started my

own business in 1999, but fortunately, have my mother backing me up whenever

necessary. Although I do enjoy what I do, my self-own business never seems

to reach break-even-point. I also have a big debt with the government,

because I received a subsidy to start the business. They claim that I haven'

t achieved the goals, and may request reimbursement. This is a very

disappointing situation for me, and I may end up loosing nearly everything I

have. Is this because of I am going through Saturn dasa? Will there be a

turning point to this situation?

I look forward to your kind advice.

Thank you very much. Hare Krsna,

Rama Raghava das

Birth date: 28 October 1962

Time of birth: 14:55

Place of birth: Rio de Janeiro - Brazil (43 W 14 - 22 S 54)

Time Zone: +3

June 8, 2005

Dear Roy Kamiki,

Although your query was addressed to Sri Arjun Panditji, I

got interested in your case because you seemed to have the same problem that I

had and I was born 4 days before you.

An astrologer once told me that he found that a lot of his clients born in

the 61-63 time period had troubles with their marriage and he too was amongst

them. Many were happily remarried.

I belive the source of our troubles to be

#1 Venus in Scorpio - bad spouse

#2 Conjunction of Sa + Ke making it prone to philosophical Tapaswi yoga

combinations in all D charts

#3 debilitated Ma being hammered by Ra (allowing the women to be the boss)

In my case the ex left me after 11 yrs of marriage (she was born in a similar

time frame).

Thought I share this with you, just to reassure that this stuff is happening to

us because of the weak marriage suit, in the cards that was dealt to us.

Best Wishes

Soumit

Roy Kamiki <nutrideias wrote: