Guest guest Posted May 21, 2005 Report Share Posted May 21, 2005 Friends, This may sound like a non astrological topic but could be of relevance to astrologers. Parents of a female native ( born 3 rd Sept 1974 - they do not want to post more details on any forum ) were in consultation with me last few months as her marriage was getting delayed , she was totally focused in her career , traveled abroad number of times and overall doing outstandingly well in career. But she rejected many good proposals for last 3 years , She had mentioned to me that marriage is not at all her priority and not only that she has not liked any proposal but she never felt like getting married , never had that natural inner feeling of getting settled in matrimonial relationship , eventually go family way etc. All that changed last few months. She one day met with a boy nowhere comparable to her. He has a ordinary career , was junior to her by 4 years , not of her caste etc . But suddenly she felt that her mind set , outlook for getting involved in relationship changed. She though that this "prince charming" is the life partner for her. All her focuses changed. Marriage became top priority for her. She just could not think of career or anything else but this boy. Same was the situation from boy's side. There was stiff resistance from both parent's side. Yesterday evening I got a news that they have ran away from home and got secretly married. Coupled with this, I have tackled few situations in last many years where natives have confessed to me that they suddenly got that "aha" feeling after meeting someone - irrespective of age , married status , caste , position in society etc. Like a "lightening" they felt that they have found a life partner and such was the impetus of this divine attraction that they went ahead with the relationship causing huge embarrassments to everyone concerned and had to do many compromises in personal life. Even it has happened when people have never met physically but have communicated over internet but got same feeling . And these were not situations where one developed a relationship out of steady association which got converted eventually into more emotional and tender involvement. What I am trying to say is that in such situations, the involvement happened more like a sudden "event" than a steady "process". I think there must be truth in what is called as "made for each other" or "love at first sight" concept where a person suddenly feels that he has met his/her life partner and as Steven covey has said there is a sudden "paradigm shift". I have read article where neuroscientists / psychologist had tried to analyses the brain chemistry in such situations of love at first light. Can we predict such behaviors astrologically ? It is different than just a love marriage which I know can be predicted. I have been doing research on these cases but not found conclusive proof yet except that Venus had unique aspects with Mars and / or Neptune apart from other peculiarities of Seventh lord and stars in seventh house- but no concussion I have reached yet. I know I have made a mention of this issue in general without taking reference of any specific case study. But many such relationships are happening causing huge embarrassment to all concerned - hence this posting. I apologize for the cross posting in two forums. Regards, Anil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2005 Report Share Posted May 23, 2005 Good evening! Dear Anil! It is very interesting for me to know the data of this case. As nobody could prevent the force of embodiment of another life into this world (perhaps this pare are ready to give the birth to their child(ren). Lyudmila , Anil VSNL <gogatea@v...> wrote: > Friends, > > This may sound like a non astrological topic but could be of relevance to > astrologers. Parents of a female native ( born 3 rd Sept 1974 - they do not > want to post more details on any forum ) were in consultation with me last > few months as her marriage was getting delayed , she was totally focused in > her career , traveled abroad number of times and overall doing outstandingly > well in career. But she rejected many good proposals for last 3 years , She > had mentioned to me that marriage is not at all her priority and not only > that she has not liked any proposal but she never felt like getting married > , never had that natural inner feeling of getting settled in matrimonial > relationship , eventually go family way etc. > > All that changed last few months. She one day met with a boy nowhere > comparable to her. He has a ordinary career , was junior to her by 4 years > , not of her caste etc . But suddenly she felt that her mind set , outlook > for getting involved in > relationship changed. She though that this "prince charming" is the life > partner for her. All her focuses changed. Marriage became top priority for > her. She just could not think of career or anything else but this boy. Same > was the situation from boy's side. There was stiff resistance from both > parent's side. Yesterday evening I got a news that they have ran away from > home and got secretly married. > > Coupled with this, I have tackled few situations in last many years where > natives have confessed to me that they suddenly got that "aha" feeling after > meeting someone - irrespective of age , married status , caste , position in > society etc. Like a "lightening" they felt that they have found a life > partner and such was the impetus of this divine attraction that they went > ahead with the relationship causing huge embarrassments to everyone > concerned and had to do many compromises in personal life. Even it has > happened when people have never met physically but have communicated over > internet but got same feeling . And these were not situations where one > developed a relationship out of steady association which got converted > eventually into more emotional and tender involvement. > > What I am trying to say is that in such situations, the involvement happened > more like a sudden "event" than a steady "process". > > I think there must be truth in what is called as "made for each other" or > "love at first sight" concept where a person suddenly feels that he has met > his/her life partner and as Steven covey has said there is a sudden > "paradigm shift". > > I have read article where neuroscientists / psychologist had tried to > analyses the brain chemistry in such situations of love at first light. > > Can we predict such behaviors astrologically ? It is different than just a > love marriage which I know can be predicted. I have been doing research on > these cases but not found conclusive proof yet except that Venus had unique > aspects with Mars and / or Neptune apart from other peculiarities of Seventh > lord and stars in seventh house- but no concussion I have reached yet. > > I know I have made a mention of this issue in general without taking > reference of any specific case study. But many such relationships are > happening causing huge embarrassment to all concerned - hence this posting. > > I apologize for the cross posting in two forums. > > Regards, > > Anil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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