Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Dearest Learned Gurus and group members: Many Greetings! I have my nephew, Chintan [same name as mine], going thru a very difficult cycle of his life. My sister and bro-in-lo are very tensed and worried about his future. They, along with my niche, have written me an email to get some remedies from our astrological group and to seek some help. I hope someone of us would study his chart and suggest the possible remedies for him. I would be glad to share more information you may require. Birth Details: DOB: October 25, 1985 Time: 23:40 Place: 70E47 22N18 (Rajkot, Gujarat, INDIA) Time Zone: East of GMT +0530 The reactions in brief are : He is not taking studies seriously at all. He was irresolute before...but..now he has become careless about it. He doesn't even care for his own career. He understands everything but cannot implement correct things in this regard. He gets too driven away by his friends, their lavish life-styles, their attitudes. He has always fallen prey to cunning friends who have made use of him when they needed him and now are no more around him to help him out. his tendency is to always fall into bad company, even he was introduced to few "Momma's good boys" around his residence by his parents but they somehow run-away from him or he makes them run. Too much of emotional attachment to his girlfriend- Maitri, too much of dependence on her. In the sense he is ready to jump into a well without any water in it, but that girl doesn't respond so much. His mind and body is always onset of doing anything, without thinking, just on a wink of her eyes!. she is a nice girl but she has her priorities in life - parents, studies and she is focussed. chintan is always running behind her putting his career and priorities behind. Even he offends his mom-dad. He is very extravagant and spendthrift. His mom-dad often infuriates with him while the matter of fact is they simply cannot absorb a thought of their money being spend uselessly and carelessly by his own son! After all these duels between him and his parents.....Chintan tend to develop an anecdote that - Money is more important and greater to his parents than their son! He has something very strong against his daddy. His dad has passed many sleepless nights in worries, but he does not listen. He spends as he wants to, doesn't listen to any single thing, wanders like a spoilt-brat, browsing internet till late night, watching tv - in short all this he keeps on doing which is strictly against our home ethics. and so, it makes his mom and dad displeased. Its understandable that everything will be alright someday (sab kuch theek ho jayega) , Even un-educated and illiterate people also enjoys fanciful life, but it is very bad this way. Home environment is all deteriorated because his small acts and things are against the ethics of his mom-dad. it is very difficult for them to digest all these. And just because of that, environment of peach and harmony has turned to bitterness. His 1yr result is not declared yet (college result) but not sure what would be the result, and its not expected even that he can pass with good marks. Their parents are worried, as naturally, since they are spending Rs 30,000/- yr for his fees. Evaluation of the matter is: When he was a child, he was tortured and tormented by many of our relatives (it was a untold-equivocal-rule for his relatives to torture the kids who is doing something wrong rather than explaining him and guiding him to do the right thing, right way) and that made him very stoic. After all this saga, he has developed a habit not to listen to the things for his good and his growth. He has tend to develop a negative-psychology. If somebody says to him that "You cannot do this thing"...he will make sure and show that "He really cannot do that thing as per what was predicted or estimated" He thinks that - If you believe that I cannot study and fare well...I will NOT study and won't work and I will show you that I CANNOT STUDY WELL..!! .....very different psychology. and frankly speaking it is very difficult to cope up with such kind of psychology every time. we are really tensed about his future and present also. and his attitude is harmful not only to him, but to us also. he acts as if he doesn't give a damn to parents, what they say, what they feel. We have a glimmer of hope that he will be very successful and frankly speaking he is a very nice person at heart. He always is maneuvered by people of been victing of a ploy of others or may be his own friends. Thanks in Advance !! Astrologically yours, Chintan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Dear Chintan, Something non astrological.... hope it helps Well the first thing to get the boy on line is to make him realize the value of money. As you have written that he is attached to his girlfriend and doesnt listens to his parents. In such a case the parents should talk to his girlfriend and take her help to get him on the correct track. Possibly the girl can convice him to make a career first. Perhaps the reason could be the torture that you have mentioned later. It would be better that parents start looking beyond then putting the question 'you cannot do it'. Such questions should be avoided as you see there is a tendency to go against what is being said. Secondly you have mentioned he is extravagent. I hope the boy`s parents are being modest enough of giving him money from quite sometime in making him extravagent. Anyways, but restrain should be excerised by boy`s father in not forcing to many things on the boy as he is not in a good situation (since the boy in no case is going to listen to him). Gaurav , "Chintan" <chintan_c@h...> wrote: > Dearest Learned Gurus and group members: > > Many Greetings! > > I have my nephew, Chintan [same name as mine], going thru a very difficult cycle of his life. My sister and bro-in-lo are very tensed and worried about his future. They, along with my niche, have written me an email to get some remedies from our astrological group and to seek some help. I hope someone of us would study his chart and suggest the possible remedies for him. I would be glad to share more information you may require. > > Birth Details: > > DOB: October 25, 1985 > Time: 23:40 > Place: 70E47 22N18 (Rajkot, Gujarat, INDIA) > Time Zone: East of GMT +0530 > > The reactions in brief are : > > He is not taking studies seriously at all. He was irresolute before...but..now he has become careless about it. He doesn't even care for his own career. He understands everything but cannot implement correct things in this regard. He gets too driven away by his friends, their lavish life-styles, their attitudes. He has always fallen prey to cunning friends who have made use of him when they needed him and now are no more around him to help him out. his tendency is to always fall into bad company, even he was introduced to few "Momma's good boys" around his residence by his parents but they somehow run-away from him or he makes them run. > > Too much of emotional attachment to his girlfriend- Maitri, too much of dependence on her. In the sense he is ready to jump into a well without any water in it, but that girl doesn't respond so much. His mind and body is always onset of doing anything, without thinking, just on a wink of her eyes!. she is a nice girl but she has her priorities in life - parents, studies and she is focussed. chintan is always running behind her putting his career and priorities behind. Even he offends his mom-dad. > > He is very extravagant and spendthrift. His mom-dad often infuriates with him while the matter of fact is they simply cannot absorb a thought of their money being spend uselessly and carelessly by his own son! After all these duels between him and his parents.....Chintan tend to develop an anecdote that - Money is more important and greater to his parents than their son! He has something very strong against his daddy. His dad has passed many sleepless nights in worries, but he does not listen. He spends as he wants to, doesn't listen to any single thing, wanders like a spoilt-brat, browsing internet till late night, watching tv - in short all this he keeps on doing which is strictly against our home ethics. and so, it makes his mom and dad displeased. > > Its understandable that everything will be alright someday (sab kuch theek ho jayega) , Even un-educated and illiterate people also enjoys fanciful life, but it is very bad this way. Home environment is all deteriorated because his small acts and things are against the ethics of his mom-dad. it is very difficult for them to digest all these. And just because of that, environment of peach and harmony has turned to bitterness. His 1yr result is not declared yet (college result) but not sure what would be the result, and its not expected even that he can pass with good marks. Their parents are worried, as naturally, since they are spending Rs 30,000/- yr for his fees. > > Evaluation of the matter is: > > When he was a child, he was tortured and tormented by many of our relatives (it was a untold-equivocal-rule for his relatives to torture the kids who is doing something wrong rather than explaining him and guiding him to do the right thing, right way) and that made him very stoic. After all this saga, he has developed a habit not to listen to the things for his good and his growth. He has tend to develop a negative-psychology. If somebody says to him that "You cannot do this thing"...he will make sure and show that "He really cannot do that thing as per what was predicted or estimated" > He thinks that - If you believe that I cannot study and fare well...I will NOT study and won't work and I will show you that I CANNOT STUDY WELL..!! .....very different psychology. and frankly speaking it is very difficult to cope up with such kind of psychology every time. > > we are really tensed about his future and present also. and his attitude is harmful not only to him, but to us also. he acts as if he doesn't give a damn to parents, what they say, what they feel. > > We have a glimmer of hope that he will be very successful and frankly speaking he is a very nice person at heart. He always is maneuvered by people of been victing of a ploy of others or may be his own friends. > > Thanks in Advance !! > > Astrologically yours, > Chintan. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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