Oppression by Husband and In-Laws

[Guest guest]

Hello Sir's

My dob is Novemeber 7th 1962

Time 10 PM indian standard time

Place - Hyderabad South India

 

i had earlier posted my dob and recieved my chart. I'am married to a

man 19 years older to me. it has been 15 years we managed our live

with quite a few ups and down. Recently i found out that my husband

had not disclosed his family secrets to me all these years. he was

married before and never had a family. He is overpowered by his

mother and sister's as he can't stand up for himself. But at the same

time he managed to handle me very smartly.Recently his sisters

managed to transfer his property on to thier name . His family made

sure that i do not get or have a say in his property. Which has

devasted me as i have 2 small children. Now i live in a constant

insecure atmosphere not knowing when my husband will give some bad

news as they went to the extent of making him give me a seperation

letter from a lawyer,which i managed to make him withdraw he did that

to silence me as he did not want me to ask any question's regarding

his assets which he long time ago gifted to elder sister as he was

going thru a divorce, but never told me until recently when

everything was done with.

His date of birth us october 7th 1944.

What i want to know is how much more will his sister's harm me and

kids and control him. is there a happy ending of will i walk out of

his life once my kids are grown up which iam thinking about

constantly.

How will this end! will he have the heart to be honest with me and

fight for justice for his wife and children.

[Guest guest]

Hello Sushmita ji,

 

Can you post your husband`s time of birth and place of birth also?

 

Gaurav

 

, "sushmita" <u_sastri>

wrote:

> Hello Sir's

> My dob is Novemeber 7th 1962

> Time 10 PM indian standard time

> Place - Hyderabad South India

>

> i had earlier posted my dob and recieved my chart. I'am married to

a

> man 19 years older to me. it has been 15 years we managed our live

> with quite a few ups and down. Recently i found out that my husband

> had not disclosed his family secrets to me all these years. he was

> married before and never had a family. He is overpowered by his

> mother and sister's as he can't stand up for himself. But at the

same

> time he managed to handle me very smartly.Recently his sisters

> managed to transfer his property on to thier name . His family made

> sure that i do not get or have a say in his property. Which has

> devasted me as i have 2 small children. Now i live in a constant

> insecure atmosphere not knowing when my husband will give some bad

> news as they went to the extent of making him give me a seperation

> letter from a lawyer,which i managed to make him withdraw he did

that

> to silence me as he did not want me to ask any question's regarding

> his assets which he long time ago gifted to elder sister as he was

> going thru a divorce, but never told me until recently when

> everything was done with.

> His date of birth us october 7th 1944.

> What i want to know is how much more will his sister's harm me and

> kids and control him. is there a happy ending of will i walk out of

> his life once my kids are grown up which iam thinking about

> constantly.

> How will this end! will he have the heart to be honest with me and

> fight for justice for his wife and children.

[Guest guest]

Hello Sushmita:

 

I just read this note from you. I hadn't known that your husband and

his family was being abusive. Sorry for my earlier post (I hadn't

known your situation based on that mail from you).

 

Now listen, your husband is trying to get rid of you and cheat you by

transferring all his property to his sister. Now, had he been in the

United States, he has to declare under the penalty of perjury ALL his

assets and income. The tranfer of his property to his sister to

shield it from the court is known as "preferantial tranfer" and the

court would void it.

 

India follows the same English common law so the Indian court will

condut a discovery and the all the property he has transferred to his

sister's name will be declared a community property of YOU and HIM.

Now, I don't want to be naive--we're talking about a country where

politicians, police and judges are for sell. So, it is highly likely

that your husband will GET AWAY with his dishonesty and YOU"LL BE ON

THE STREETS.

 

Now, considering the fact that we live in Kali-yug, you need to

protect yourself and your children so you'll have to be cunning,

cruel, ruthless and FIGHT BACK. Even Lord Krishna said that if enemy

comes to your door and threatens your very existence, you're allowed

to fight back.

 

So, you'll have to be cunning. Be nice to your husband, give me a

massage when he comes home every day, cook his favorite food, have

sex with him if he is still able to get it up, be nice to him and

FIND OUT in detail EXACTLY where his property is, what his property

is, who is the legal owner of the property and when was it trasferred.

 

Thereafter, anytime he tries to intimidate you or hurt you, yell and

scream and create witnesses. Write letters to your friends as to how

he and his relatives are abusing you, even the post that you made on

this board is evidence and then hire a lawyer, give him all the

evidence and file a lawsuit against him.

 

Why are you so timid? This is Kali-you, fight back!! Rather then this

lying old hag of a husband sending you a separation notice (after

hiding his assets), you send him a notice for the pain and suffering

he has caused you.

 

Hope this is helpful.

MD

 

, "sushmita" <u_sastri>

wrote:

> Hello Sir's

> My dob is Novemeber 7th 1962

> Time 10 PM indian standard time

> Place - Hyderabad South India

>

> i had earlier posted my dob and recieved my chart. I'am married to

a

> man 19 years older to me. it has been 15 years we managed our live

> with quite a few ups and down. Recently i found out that my husband

> had not disclosed his family secrets to me all these years. he was

> married before and never had a family. He is overpowered by his

> mother and sister's as he can't stand up for himself. But at the

same

> time he managed to handle me very smartly.Recently his sisters

> managed to transfer his property on to thier name . His family made

> sure that i do not get or have a say in his property. Which has

> devasted me as i have 2 small children. Now i live in a constant

> insecure atmosphere not knowing when my husband will give some bad

> news as they went to the extent of making him give me a seperation

> letter from a lawyer,which i managed to make him withdraw he did

that

> to silence me as he did not want me to ask any question's regarding

> his assets which he long time ago gifted to elder sister as he was

> going thru a divorce, but never told me until recently when

> everything was done with.

> His date of birth us october 7th 1944.

> What i want to know is how much more will his sister's harm me and

> kids and control him. is there a happy ending of will i walk out of

> his life once my kids are grown up which iam thinking about

> constantly.

> How will this end! will he have the heart to be honest with me and

> fight for justice for his wife and children.

[Guest guest]

Gauravji

you asked me about my husband's Time of birth i did not hear fromyou,

is it possible for you let me know without this. you help willbe

appreicated! HID DOB IS 0CTOBER 7TH 1944 PLACE HYDERABD INDIA.

thanks!

SUSHMITA

 

 

, "Gaurav Sharma"

<gauravkom> wrote:

> Hello Sushmita ji,

>

> Can you post your husband`s time of birth and place of birth also?

>

> Gaurav

>

> , "sushmita" <u_sastri>

> wrote:

> > Hello Sir's

> > My dob is Novemeber 7th 1962

> > Time 10 PM indian standard time

> > Place - Hyderabad South India

> >

> > i had earlier posted my dob and recieved my chart. I'am married

to

> a

> > man 19 years older to me. it has been 15 years we managed our

live

> > with quite a few ups and down. Recently i found out that my

husband

> > had not disclosed his family secrets to me all these years. he

was

> > married before and never had a family. He is overpowered by his

> > mother and sister's as he can't stand up for himself. But at the

> same

> > time he managed to handle me very smartly.Recently his sisters

> > managed to transfer his property on to thier name . His family

made

> > sure that i do not get or have a say in his property. Which has

> > devasted me as i have 2 small children. Now i live in a constant

> > insecure atmosphere not knowing when my husband will give some

bad

> > news as they went to the extent of making him give me a

seperation

> > letter from a lawyer,which i managed to make him withdraw he did

> that

> > to silence me as he did not want me to ask any question's

regarding

> > his assets which he long time ago gifted to elder sister as he

was

> > going thru a divorce, but never told me until recently when

> > everything was done with.

> > His date of birth us october 7th 1944.

> > What i want to know is how much more will his sister's harm me

and

> > kids and control him. is there a happy ending of will i walk out

of

> > his life once my kids are grown up which iam thinking about

> > constantly.

> > How will this end! will he have the heart to be honest with me

and

> > fight for justice for his wife and children.