Pain and Purity

[Guest guest]

Dear Friends,

 

On a weekend morning, I am posting this thought of mine which I had

written sometime back. again...not very astrological but near to

life...

 

PAIN AND PURITY:

 

How do we get rid of the pain caused by a loss? The loss is hard to

bear, but that pain must have made the inner being very pure as is

said in Hindi, 'sona tapne par aur khara hota hai' meaning, 'more

you burn the gold, purer it becomes'.

That pain caused by the loss has given the strength to cope up. Time

is a great healer. Pain subsides with time and the loss is felt

less. As long as there is life, there will be losses and gains. A

loss in someway results in a gain. Suffering somewhere makes a man

more pure , more genuine and a better human being. The person who

has always seen sunshine cannot value it. To value the 'presense'

one has to experience the 'absense'. The loss of a materialistic

thing may result in spiritual gain or the loss of a friend may

result in the development of a more mature character. The loss of a

any relationship definitely gives the capability to deal with other

relationships better. Every loss is associated with a positive

outcome. Every cloud has a silver lining.Bearing the pain, bearing

the loss at that moment seems impossible. Human mind tries to find

different ways to overcome the pain and fill the gap and tries to

run away from the reality. Accepting the reality is very hard but to

go through that test and to pass the test brings out the inner

purity which is hidden deep inside, which gives the strength to bear

the pain. So, why to run away from the pain but let's try to bear it

as it will bring out that pure being in us.

 

Manoshi

[Guest guest]

Hi Manoshi,

Quite a nice thought but the fact remains that when we

talk about pain we are also looking ourselves in the mirror. Every

one of us have experienced pain in one form or the other be it

whether in form of a relationship or materialistic etc in our life`s.

Once you try to walk in the clouds the only thing that comes to mind

is that are you strong enough to tread on such a path? Do you have

the strength to muster the feelings associated with even a thought of

a loss? Perhaps most of us are too innocent to take the pain as it

comes even it makes us more pure.

 

Time is great healer is very much true. But the person who is deep

inside with the feeling of a loss will be more embroiled with

thoughts of what is actually lost. The precious moments, a handful of

memories makes a person weak enough to even think of the complexities

involved with a loss( be it making oneself more pure or be it a

consolation that time is a great healer). To value the presence one

has to experience the inner depths of knowledge. And the inner depths

are only be felt once you feel and acknowledge that the person is

with you, even if the person is no longer there, through the

memories, ideas and last but not the least the importance of the

person in your life. A loss of a materialistic world results in a

spiritual one is true for people who have carved for a materialtic

world but think of a person who has never thought of something

materialistic. I know it is really difficult to think of such a

person and such a world. Perhaps that was what Rishis tried to

explore.

 

I think the answer to why try to run away from the pain but let's try

to bear it seems to take us in land of reality. It seems hard to

believe the loss and sometimes it seems like a mirage of oasis in a

desert where we can see lots of memories for a long time to come.

Perhaps that is the reason why human mind tries to find different

ways to overcome the pain and fill the gap and tries to run away from

the reality. Exploring something which is hidden deep inside is not

an easy job as even treasure hunts can take a lot of patience and

time and still the result is not sure whether you will find the

treasure or not. But surely it is not an impossible one. So once you

say every cloud has a silver lining, it is as pure as first drops of

rain which brings relief to a parched land. As the cloud also knows

that it will return someday back again to a place where it actually

belongs, high above the skies and truly that place is really pure.

 

Gaurav

 

 

 

, "khallopapa"

<khallopapa> wrote:

> Dear Friends,

>

> On a weekend morning, I am posting this thought of mine which I had

> written sometime back. again...not very astrological but near to

> life...

>

> PAIN AND PURITY:

>

> How do we get rid of the pain caused by a loss? The loss is hard to

> bear, but that pain must have made the inner being very pure as is

> said in Hindi, 'sona tapne par aur khara hota hai' meaning, 'more

> you burn the gold, purer it becomes'.

> That pain caused by the loss has given the strength to cope up.

Time

> is a great healer. Pain subsides with time and the loss is felt

> less. As long as there is life, there will be losses and gains. A

> loss in someway results in a gain. Suffering somewhere makes a man

> more pure , more genuine and a better human being. The person who

> has always seen sunshine cannot value it. To value the 'presense'

> one has to experience the 'absense'. The loss of a materialistic

> thing may result in spiritual gain or the loss of a friend may

> result in the development of a more mature character. The loss of a

> any relationship definitely gives the capability to deal with other

> relationships better. Every loss is associated with a positive

> outcome. Every cloud has a silver lining.Bearing the pain, bearing

> the loss at that moment seems impossible. Human mind tries to find

> different ways to overcome the pain and fill the gap and tries to

> run away from the reality. Accepting the reality is very hard but

to

> go through that test and to pass the test brings out the inner

> purity which is hidden deep inside, which gives the strength to

bear

> the pain. So, why to run away from the pain but let's try to bear

it

> as it will bring out that pure being in us.

>

> Manoshi

[Guest guest]

Good analysis Gaurav.

 

regards

Manoshi

 

 

, "gauravkom"

<gauravkom> wrote:

> Hi Manoshi,

> Quite a nice thought but the fact remains that when we

> talk about pain we are also looking ourselves in the mirror. Every

> one of us have experienced pain in one form or the other be it

> whether in form of a relationship or materialistic etc in our

life`s.

> Once you try to walk in the clouds the only thing that comes to

mind

> is that are you strong enough to tread on such a path? Do you have

> the strength to muster the feelings associated with even a thought

of

> a loss? Perhaps most of us are too innocent to take the pain as it

> comes even it makes us more pure.

>

> Time is great healer is very much true. But the person who is deep

> inside with the feeling of a loss will be more embroiled with

> thoughts of what is actually lost. The precious moments, a handful

of

> memories makes a person weak enough to even think of the

complexities

> involved with a loss( be it making oneself more pure or be it a

> consolation that time is a great healer). To value the presence

one

> has to experience the inner depths of knowledge. And the inner

depths

> are only be felt once you feel and acknowledge that the person is

> with you, even if the person is no longer there, through the

> memories, ideas and last but not the least the importance of the

> person in your life. A loss of a materialistic world results in a

> spiritual one is true for people who have carved for a materialtic

> world but think of a person who has never thought of something

> materialistic. I know it is really difficult to think of such a

> person and such a world. Perhaps that was what Rishis tried to

> explore.

>

> I think the answer to why try to run away from the pain but let's

try

> to bear it seems to take us in land of reality. It seems hard to

> believe the loss and sometimes it seems like a mirage of oasis in

a

> desert where we can see lots of memories for a long time to come.

> Perhaps that is the reason why human mind tries to find different

> ways to overcome the pain and fill the gap and tries to run away

from

> the reality. Exploring something which is hidden deep inside is

not

> an easy job as even treasure hunts can take a lot of patience and

> time and still the result is not sure whether you will find the

> treasure or not. But surely it is not an impossible one. So once

you

> say every cloud has a silver lining, it is as pure as first drops

of

> rain which brings relief to a parched land. As the cloud also

knows

> that it will return someday back again to a place where it

actually

> belongs, high above the skies and truly that place is really pure.

>

> Gaurav

>

>

>

> , "khallopapa"

> <khallopapa> wrote:

> > Dear Friends,

> >

> > On a weekend morning, I am posting this thought of mine which I

had

> > written sometime back. again...not very astrological but near to

> > life...

> >

> > PAIN AND PURITY:

> >

> > How do we get rid of the pain caused by a loss? The loss is hard

to

> > bear, but that pain must have made the inner being very pure as

is

> > said in Hindi, 'sona tapne par aur khara hota hai'

meaning, 'more

> > you burn the gold, purer it becomes'.

> > That pain caused by the loss has given the strength to cope up.

> Time

> > is a great healer. Pain subsides with time and the loss is felt

> > less. As long as there is life, there will be losses and gains.

A

> > loss in someway results in a gain. Suffering somewhere makes a

man

> > more pure , more genuine and a better human being. The person

who

> > has always seen sunshine cannot value it. To value

the 'presense'

> > one has to experience the 'absense'. The loss of a

materialistic

> > thing may result in spiritual gain or the loss of a friend may

> > result in the development of a more mature character. The loss

of a

> > any relationship definitely gives the capability to deal with

other

> > relationships better. Every loss is associated with a positive

> > outcome. Every cloud has a silver lining.Bearing the pain,

bearing

> > the loss at that moment seems impossible. Human mind tries to

find

> > different ways to overcome the pain and fill the gap and tries

to

> > run away from the reality. Accepting the reality is very hard

but

> to

> > go through that test and to pass the test brings out the inner

> > purity which is hidden deep inside, which gives the strength to

> bear

> > the pain. So, why to run away from the pain but let's try to

bear

> it

> > as it will bring out that pure being in us.

> >

> > Manoshi