Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE Do you wish for a happy married life? Can life be full of pleasures? Can delay in marriages be remedied? The answer is yes! Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual fulfilment. One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a very special change in the life of a person. The direction of life can completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable and understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and its pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities are a part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then the pain becomes much less. In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in which the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more happy. Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many problems which the couples face to this day. Society became dominated by males and women came to play only a passive role in marriages. The fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a man. In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. Without one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in nature cannot go on without cooperation of both. Marriage in the present context Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted.There is more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be believed that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and sorrows. The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the parents have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further complicated matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have only tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after marriage of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. Everyone understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically it continues. If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not able to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and tension for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on is forced to keep mum. Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. Today seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their marriage. A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the case for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy it cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a good husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas are being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the help of which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. One should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for the success of married life. If desired things do not happen on their own then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through Sadhanas? Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog For early marriage Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who can bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable age herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man can try it for getting a good wife. Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is obtained. In other words chant the Mantra daily. Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four sides of the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red flowers. Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang Prachodayaat || After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in a clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man should tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very soon. Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog For quick marriage of girls Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By offering prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's choice. This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting good husbands too. Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If there is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he appears in a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by the girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on the behalf of the prospective bride. In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one has a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under the amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to perform this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it in the sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer seven flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O Gandharvaraaj! You are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is your ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih Labhaami Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav-sarva Namah || Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of chantings must be calculated according to the number of days from Monday to the full moon day. In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the amulet around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of worship. There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type of Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely attains to success. Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog For happy married life Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their habits might be different but they have to live together and make the marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and differences which result in bitterness. If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things which one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the person who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for either life partner. In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a balance and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two persons is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in the months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue chanting one round of Mantra every Monday. In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana is accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do not get up from the seat. One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp and red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from of Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. Make a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the following Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa Beej. Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej and throw behind yourself over your shoulder. Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom Vaagdheeshwaree. Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham Kuru. Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each Siddhiphal put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and place it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. 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Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 I thought for marriage, at least in the case of boys -- *kumari* sadhana was the only way! Maybe I watched too many hindi movies when I was growing up ;-) Seriously, though ("Act your age!" == I can almost hear someone amongst the readers here admonish me!!) and particularly in the somewhat different society in homeland and outside it at least in bigger cities, I sense there is a lot of loneliness and desperation when it comes to relationships. This is where the seed of karmic mistakes get planted and if one is in that magical age of between 30 and 40, more so! If one were to truly buy into "You get who you pray and prepare for" then leaving aside a few karma-bound mal-experiences most of us would have a say in the matter of relationships. Of all things in world, the paradoxical irony of "attach as you detach" applies best for relationships. Even relationships between generations. Parents love their children pathologically without being able to let go and actually begin to believe that they have a say in shaping their children. Many psychologists are minting out of that gold-mine of guilt (maybe we should spell 'guilt' as "g-u-i-l-d" as in guilded lily!). Hey -- if you want to get your mate by wearing a gemstone or chanting a mantra 75000 in forward and 3.5 times in reverse -- more power to you! Once the mate is in your life, though you would have to stop chanting your mantra and actually see, examine and learn to live with that mate! And all the past five years you had not been preparing for that large string of moments when your prayers once answered leave the burden of carrying forward, on your own. Actually, you know what, I am sure there will be more remedials available to carry you through the relationship and the next one and the next one. You just have to change the mantra! None of this is a comment or commentary on the message that I am responding to, just the Subject of the message! Don't torture the messenger! He means well!! RR , "nashvi5" <nashvi5> wrote: > SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE > Do you wish for a happy married life? > Can life be full of pleasures? > Can delay in marriages be remedied? > The answer is yes! > Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps > trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First > everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual > fulfilment. > One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a very > special change in the life of a person. The direction of life can > completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable and > understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and its > pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities are a > part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then the > pain becomes much less. > In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In > the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in which > the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. > Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more happy. > Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. > But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of > marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many > problems which the couples face to this day. Society became dominated > by males and women came to play only a passive role in marriages. The > fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a man. > In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. Without > one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in nature > cannot go on without cooperation of both. > Marriage in the present context > Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted.There is > more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be believed > that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and sorrows. > The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the parents > have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further complicated > matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have only > tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after marriage > of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. Everyone > understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically it > continues. > If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not able > to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and tension > for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on is > forced to keep mum. > Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in > India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. Today > seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their marriage. > A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the case > for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy it > cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. > In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good > wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a good > husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas are > being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the help of > which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. One > should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for the > success of married life. If desired things do not happen on their own > then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through Sadhanas? > Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog > For early marriage > Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who can > bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and > comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable age > herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man can > try it for getting a good wife. > Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been > commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is obtained. > In other words chant the Mantra daily. > Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a wooden > seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a > Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four sides of > the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family > deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red flowers. > Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. > Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the > following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. > || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang > Prachodayaat || > > After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in a > clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man should > tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. > Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very soon. > Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog > For quick marriage of girls > Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By offering > prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's choice. > This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting good > husbands too. > Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In > this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If there > is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be > tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he appears in > a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by the > girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on the > behalf of the prospective bride. > In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a > wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - > Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one has > a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under the > amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. > At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to perform > this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it in the > sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer seven > flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O Gandharvaraaj! You > are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is your > ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. > Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. > || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih Labhaami > Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav-sarva > Namah || > > Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of > chantings must be calculated according to the number of days from > Monday to the full moon day. > In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the amulet > around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of > worship. > There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall > appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type of > Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely > attains to success. > Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog > For happy married life > Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two > different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their > habits might be different but they have to live together and make the > marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and differences > which result in bitterness. > If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things which > one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the person > who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. > Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable > that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and > one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for either > life partner. > In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a balance > and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made > more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two persons > is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. > Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in the > months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue chanting > one round of Mantra every Monday. > In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana is > accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One > needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a > rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready > before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do not > get up from the seat. > One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp and > red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write > Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in > another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from of > Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. Make > a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the following > Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa Beej. > Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej and > throw behind yourself over your shoulder. > Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom Vaagdheeshwaree. > Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham Kuru. > > Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and > vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each Siddhiphal > put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and place > it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the > Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 How did that -u- get in there? Ahem -- I was trying to make a point ;-) Sorry purists and linguists! , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> wrote: > I thought for marriage, at least in the case of boys -- *kumari* > sadhana was the only way! Maybe I watched too many hindi movies when > I was growing up ;-) > > Seriously, though ("Act your age!" == I can almost hear someone > amongst the readers here admonish me!!) and particularly in the > somewhat different society in homeland and outside it at least in > bigger cities, I sense there is a lot of loneliness and desperation > when it comes to relationships. This is where the seed of karmic > mistakes get planted and if one is in that magical age of between 30 > and 40, more so! > > If one were to truly buy into "You get who you pray and prepare for" > then leaving aside a few karma-bound mal-experiences most of us > would have a say in the matter of relationships. Of all things in > world, the paradoxical irony of "attach as you detach" applies best > for relationships. Even relationships between generations. Parents > love their children pathologically without being able to let go and > actually begin to believe that they have a say in shaping their > children. Many psychologists are minting out of that gold-mine of > guilt (maybe we should spell 'guilt' as "g-u-i-l-d" as in guilded > lily!). > > Hey -- if you want to get your mate by wearing a gemstone or > chanting a mantra 75000 in forward and 3.5 times in reverse -- more > power to you! Once the mate is in your life, though you would have > to stop chanting your mantra and actually see, examine and learn to > live with that mate! And all the past five years you had not been > preparing for that large string of moments when your prayers once > answered leave the burden of carrying forward, on your own. > Actually, you know what, I am sure there will be more remedials > available to carry you through the relationship and the next one and > the next one. You just have to change the mantra! > > None of this is a comment or commentary on the message that I am > responding to, just the Subject of the message! > > Don't torture the messenger! He means well!! > > RR > > > , "nashvi5" <nashvi5> > wrote: > > SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE > > Do you wish for a happy married life? > > Can life be full of pleasures? > > Can delay in marriages be remedied? > > The answer is yes! > > Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps > > trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First > > everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual > > fulfilment. > > One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a > very > > special change in the life of a person. The direction of life can > > completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable and > > understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and > its > > pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities > are a > > part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then the > > pain becomes much less. > > In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In > > the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in > which > > the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. > > Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more > happy. > > Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. > > But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of > > marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many > > problems which the couples face to this day. Society became > dominated > > by males and women came to play only a passive role in marriages. > The > > fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a > man. > > In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. > Without > > one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in > nature > > cannot go on without cooperation of both. > > Marriage in the present context > > Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted.There > is > > more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be > believed > > that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and > sorrows. > > The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the > parents > > have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further > complicated > > matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have only > > tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after > marriage > > of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. > Everyone > > understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically > it > > continues. > > If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not > able > > to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and > tension > > for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on > is > > forced to keep mum. > > Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in > > India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. > Today > > seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their > marriage. > > A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the > case > > for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy > it > > cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. > > In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good > > wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a > good > > husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas > are > > being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the help > of > > which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. > One > > should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for > the > > success of married life. If desired things do not happen on their > own > > then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through > Sadhanas? > > Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog > > For early marriage > > Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who > can > > bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and > > comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable > age > > herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man > can > > try it for getting a good wife. > > Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been > > commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is > obtained. > > In other words chant the Mantra daily. > > Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a > wooden > > seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a > > Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four sides > of > > the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family > > deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red flowers. > > Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. > > Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the > > following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. > > || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang > > Prachodayaat || > > > > After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in > a > > clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man > should > > tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. > > Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very > soon. > > Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog > > For quick marriage of girls > > Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By > offering > > prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's choice. > > This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting > good > > husbands too. > > Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In > > this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If > there > > is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be > > tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he appears > in > > a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by > the > > girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on the > > behalf of the prospective bride. > > In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a > > wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - > > Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one > has > > a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under the > > amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. > > At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to > perform > > this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it in > the > > sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer seven > > flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O Gandharvaraaj! > You > > are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is > your > > ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. > > Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. > > || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih > Labhaami > > Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav- sarva > > Namah || > > > > Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of > > chantings must be calculated according to the number of days from > > Monday to the full moon day. > > In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the > amulet > > around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of > > worship. > > There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall > > appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type > of > > Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely > > attains to success. > > Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog > > For happy married life > > Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two > > different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their > > habits might be different but they have to live together and make > the > > marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and > differences > > which result in bitterness. > > If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things > which > > one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the > person > > who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. > > Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable > > that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and > > one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for > either > > life partner. > > In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a > balance > > and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made > > more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two > persons > > is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. > > Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in > the > > months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue > chanting > > one round of Mantra every Monday. > > In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana > is > > accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One > > needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a > > rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready > > before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do > not > > get up from the seat. > > One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp > and > > red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write > > Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in > > another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from of > > Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. > Make > > a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the following > > Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa Beej. > > Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej and > > throw behind yourself over your shoulder. > > Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom > Vaagdheeshwaree. > > Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham > Kuru. > > > > Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and > > vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each > Siddhiphal > > put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and > place > > it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the > > Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 What has to happen will. Who has to come into your life, will, when he/she has to. A relationship if has to begin, will and if it has to materialize who can stop it? Not superstitious...it IS so or what's the significance of astrolgy then? Well no harm in trying the 'sadhanas'... ALL THE BEST. Manoshi , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> wrote: > I thought for marriage, at least in the case of boys -- *kumari* > sadhana was the only way! Maybe I watched too many hindi movies when > I was growing up ;-) > > Seriously, though ("Act your age!" == I can almost hear someone > amongst the readers here admonish me!!) and particularly in the > somewhat different society in homeland and outside it at least in > bigger cities, I sense there is a lot of loneliness and desperation > when it comes to relationships. This is where the seed of karmic > mistakes get planted and if one is in that magical age of between 30 > and 40, more so! > > If one were to truly buy into "You get who you pray and prepare for" > then leaving aside a few karma-bound mal-experiences most of us > would have a say in the matter of relationships. Of all things in > world, the paradoxical irony of "attach as you detach" applies best > for relationships. Even relationships between generations. Parents > love their children pathologically without being able to let go and > actually begin to believe that they have a say in shaping their > children. Many psychologists are minting out of that gold-mine of > guilt (maybe we should spell 'guilt' as "g-u-i-l-d" as in guilded > lily!). > > Hey -- if you want to get your mate by wearing a gemstone or > chanting a mantra 75000 in forward and 3.5 times in reverse -- more > power to you! Once the mate is in your life, though you would have > to stop chanting your mantra and actually see, examine and learn to > live with that mate! And all the past five years you had not been > preparing for that large string of moments when your prayers once > answered leave the burden of carrying forward, on your own. > Actually, you know what, I am sure there will be more remedials > available to carry you through the relationship and the next one and > the next one. You just have to change the mantra! > > None of this is a comment or commentary on the message that I am > responding to, just the Subject of the message! > > Don't torture the messenger! He means well!! > > RR > > > , "nashvi5" <nashvi5> > wrote: > > SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE > > Do you wish for a happy married life? > > Can life be full of pleasures? > > Can delay in marriages be remedied? > > The answer is yes! > > Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps > > trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. First > > everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual > > fulfilment. > > One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a > very > > special change in the life of a person. The direction of life can > > completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable and > > understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and > its > > pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities > are a > > part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then the > > pain becomes much less. > > In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. In > > the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in > which > > the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. > > Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more > happy. > > Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. > > But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of > > marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many > > problems which the couples face to this day. Society became > dominated > > by males and women came to play only a passive role in marriages. > The > > fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a > man. > > In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. > Without > > one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in > nature > > cannot go on without cooperation of both. > > Marriage in the present context > > Today the institution of marriage has become very corrupted.There > is > > more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be > believed > > that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and > sorrows. > > The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the > parents > > have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further > complicated > > matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have only > > tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after > marriage > > of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. > Everyone > > understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically > it > > continues. > > If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not > able > > to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and > tension > > for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on > is > > forced to keep mum. > > Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in > > India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. > Today > > seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their > marriage. > > A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the > case > > for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy > it > > cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. > > In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a good > > wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a > good > > husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas > are > > being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the help > of > > which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. > One > > should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for > the > > success of married life. If desired things do not happen on their > own > > then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through > Sadhanas? > > Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog > > For early marriage > > Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who > can > > bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous and > > comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable > age > > herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a man > can > > try it for getting a good wife. > > Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been > > commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is > obtained. > > In other words chant the Mantra daily. > > Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a > wooden > > seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a > > Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four sides > of > > the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family > > deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red flowers. > > Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. > > Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the > > following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. > > || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang > > Prachodayaat || > > > > After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them in > a > > clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man > should > > tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. > > Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very > soon. > > Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog > > For quick marriage of girls > > Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By > offering > > prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's choice. > > This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting > good > > husbands too. > > Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. In > > this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If > there > > is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be > > tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he appears > in > > a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by > the > > girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on the > > behalf of the prospective bride. > > In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover a > > wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - > > Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If one > has > > a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under the > > amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. > > At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to > perform > > this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it in > the > > sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer seven > > flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O Gandharvaraaj! > You > > are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is > your > > ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. > > Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. > > || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih > Labhaami > > Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav- sarva > > Namah || > > > > Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of > > chantings must be calculated according to the number of days from > > Monday to the full moon day. > > In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the > amulet > > around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place of > > worship. > > There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that shall > > appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the type > of > > Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely > > attains to success. > > Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog > > For happy married life > > Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two > > different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their > > habits might be different but they have to live together and make > the > > marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and > differences > > which result in bitterness. > > If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things > which > > one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the > person > > who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. > > Some times the tension due to the differences become so unbearable > > that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops and > > one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for > either > > life partner. > > In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a > balance > > and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be made > > more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two > persons > > is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. > > Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana in > the > > months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue > chanting > > one round of Mantra every Monday. > > In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the Sadhana > is > > accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One > > needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and a > > rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready > > before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana do > not > > get up from the seat. > > One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil lamp > and > > red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write > > Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in > > another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from of > > Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. > Make > > a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the following > > Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa Beej. > > Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej and > > throw behind yourself over your shoulder. > > Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom > Vaagdheeshwaree. > > Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham > Kuru. > > > > Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and > > vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each > Siddhiphal > > put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and > place > > it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the > > Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 definitely Manoshi. I have not problems with Sadhnas but one of the biggest and most difficult sadhana in each individual's life is to change oneself, to change one's perspective. It is not an either/or. One needs to work on all facets of oneself, physical, mental, spiritual in order to get anywhere near the goal that one perceives RR , "khallopapa" <khallopapa> wrote: > What has to happen will. Who has to come into your life, will, when > he/she has to. A relationship if has to begin, will and if it has to > materialize who can stop it? Not superstitious...it IS so or what's > the significance of astrolgy then? Well no harm in trying > the 'sadhanas'... ALL THE BEST. > > Manoshi > > > > , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> > wrote: > > I thought for marriage, at least in the case of boys -- *kumari* > > sadhana was the only way! Maybe I watched too many hindi movies > when > > I was growing up ;-) > > > > Seriously, though ("Act your age!" == I can almost hear someone > > amongst the readers here admonish me!!) and particularly in the > > somewhat different society in homeland and outside it at least in > > bigger cities, I sense there is a lot of loneliness and > desperation > > when it comes to relationships. This is where the seed of karmic > > mistakes get planted and if one is in that magical age of between > 30 > > and 40, more so! > > > > If one were to truly buy into "You get who you pray and prepare > for" > > then leaving aside a few karma-bound mal-experiences most of us > > would have a say in the matter of relationships. Of all things in > > world, the paradoxical irony of "attach as you detach" applies > best > > for relationships. Even relationships between generations. Parents > > love their children pathologically without being able to let go > and > > actually begin to believe that they have a say in shaping their > > children. Many psychologists are minting out of that gold-mine of > > guilt (maybe we should spell 'guilt' as "g-u-i-l-d" as in guilded > > lily!). > > > > Hey -- if you want to get your mate by wearing a gemstone or > > chanting a mantra 75000 in forward and 3.5 times in reverse -- > more > > power to you! Once the mate is in your life, though you would have > > to stop chanting your mantra and actually see, examine and learn > to > > live with that mate! And all the past five years you had not been > > preparing for that large string of moments when your prayers once > > answered leave the burden of carrying forward, on your own. > > Actually, you know what, I am sure there will be more remedials > > available to carry you through the relationship and the next one > and > > the next one. You just have to change the mantra! > > > > None of this is a comment or commentary on the message that I am > > responding to, just the Subject of the message! > > > > Don't torture the messenger! He means well!! > > > > RR > > > > > > , "nashvi5" <nashvi5> > > wrote: > > > SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE > > > Do you wish for a happy married life? > > > Can life be full of pleasures? > > > Can delay in marriages be remedied? > > > The answer is yes! > > > Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps > > > trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. > First > > > everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual > > > fulfilment. > > > One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a > > very > > > special change in the life of a person. The direction of life > can > > > completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable > and > > > understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and > > its > > > pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities > > are a > > > part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then > the > > > pain becomes much less. > > > In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. > In > > > the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in > > which > > > the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. > > > Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more > > happy. > > > Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. > > > But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of > > > marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many > > > problems which the couples face to this day. Society became > > dominated > > > by males and women came to play only a passive role in > marriages. > > The > > > fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a > > man. > > > In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. > > Without > > > one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in > > nature > > > cannot go on without cooperation of both. > > > Marriage in the present context > > > Today the institution of marriage has become very > corrupted.There > > is > > > more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be > > believed > > > that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and > > sorrows. > > > The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the > > parents > > > have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further > > complicated > > > matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have > only > > > tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after > > marriage > > > of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. > > Everyone > > > understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically > > it > > > continues. > > > If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not > > able > > > to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and > > tension > > > for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on > > is > > > forced to keep mum. > > > Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in > > > India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. > > Today > > > seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their > > marriage. > > > A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the > > case > > > for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy > > it > > > cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. > > > In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a > good > > > wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a > > good > > > husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas > > are > > > being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the > help > > of > > > which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. > > One > > > should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for > > the > > > success of married life. If desired things do not happen on > their > > own > > > then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through > > Sadhanas? > > > Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog > > > For early marriage > > > Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who > > can > > > bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous > and > > > comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable > > age > > > herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a > man > > can > > > try it for getting a good wife. > > > Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been > > > commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is > > obtained. > > > In other words chant the Mantra daily. > > > Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a > > wooden > > > seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a > > > Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four > sides > > of > > > the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family > > > deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red > flowers. > > > Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. > > > Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the > > > following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. > > > || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang > > > Prachodayaat || > > > > > > After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them > in > > a > > > clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man > > should > > > tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. > > > Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very > > soon. > > > Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog > > > For quick marriage of girls > > > Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By > > offering > > > prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's > choice. > > > This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting > > good > > > husbands too. > > > Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. > In > > > this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If > > there > > > is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be > > > tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he > appears > > in > > > a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by > > the > > > girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on > the > > > behalf of the prospective bride. > > > In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover > a > > > wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - > > > Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If > one > > has > > > a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under > the > > > amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. > > > At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to > > perform > > > this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it > in > > the > > > sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer > seven > > > flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O > Gandharvaraaj! > > You > > > are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is > > your > > > ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. > > > Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. > > > || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih > > Labhaami > > > Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav- > sarva > > > Namah || > > > > > > Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of > > > chantings must be calculated according to the number of days > from > > > Monday to the full moon day. > > > In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the > > amulet > > > around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place > of > > > worship. > > > There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that > shall > > > appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the > type > > of > > > Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely > > > attains to success. > > > Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog > > > For happy married life > > > Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two > > > different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their > > > habits might be different but they have to live together and > make > > the > > > marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and > > differences > > > which result in bitterness. > > > If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things > > which > > > one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the > > person > > > who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. > > > Some times the tension due to the differences become so > unbearable > > > that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops > and > > > one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for > > either > > > life partner. > > > In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a > > balance > > > and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be > made > > > more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two > > persons > > > is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. > > > Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana > in > > the > > > months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue > > chanting > > > one round of Mantra every Monday. > > > In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the > Sadhana > > is > > > accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One > > > needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and > a > > > rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready > > > before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana > do > > not > > > get up from the seat. > > > One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil > lamp > > and > > > red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write > > > Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in > > > another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from > of > > > Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. > > Make > > > a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the > following > > > Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa > Beej. > > > Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej > and > > > throw behind yourself over your shoulder. > > > Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom > > Vaagdheeshwaree. > > > Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham > > Kuru. > > > > > > Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and > > > vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each > > Siddhiphal > > > put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and > > place > > > it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the > > > Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 Actually the other day I read something, maybe here: Fate brings your soul-mate to you. You still must take the first step and turn it into a relationship and then nurture it continually! RR , "khallopapa" <khallopapa> wrote: > What has to happen will. Who has to come into your life, will, when > he/she has to. A relationship if has to begin, will and if it has to > materialize who can stop it? Not superstitious...it IS so or what's > the significance of astrolgy then? Well no harm in trying > the 'sadhanas'... ALL THE BEST. > > Manoshi > > > > , "rohiniranjan" <rrgb@s...> > wrote: > > I thought for marriage, at least in the case of boys -- *kumari* > > sadhana was the only way! Maybe I watched too many hindi movies > when > > I was growing up ;-) > > > > Seriously, though ("Act your age!" == I can almost hear someone > > amongst the readers here admonish me!!) and particularly in the > > somewhat different society in homeland and outside it at least in > > bigger cities, I sense there is a lot of loneliness and > desperation > > when it comes to relationships. This is where the seed of karmic > > mistakes get planted and if one is in that magical age of between > 30 > > and 40, more so! > > > > If one were to truly buy into "You get who you pray and prepare > for" > > then leaving aside a few karma-bound mal-experiences most of us > > would have a say in the matter of relationships. Of all things in > > world, the paradoxical irony of "attach as you detach" applies > best > > for relationships. Even relationships between generations. Parents > > love their children pathologically without being able to let go > and > > actually begin to believe that they have a say in shaping their > > children. Many psychologists are minting out of that gold-mine of > > guilt (maybe we should spell 'guilt' as "g-u-i-l-d" as in guilded > > lily!). > > > > Hey -- if you want to get your mate by wearing a gemstone or > > chanting a mantra 75000 in forward and 3.5 times in reverse -- > more > > power to you! Once the mate is in your life, though you would have > > to stop chanting your mantra and actually see, examine and learn > to > > live with that mate! And all the past five years you had not been > > preparing for that large string of moments when your prayers once > > answered leave the burden of carrying forward, on your own. > > Actually, you know what, I am sure there will be more remedials > > available to carry you through the relationship and the next one > and > > the next one. You just have to change the mantra! > > > > None of this is a comment or commentary on the message that I am > > responding to, just the Subject of the message! > > > > Don't torture the messenger! He means well!! > > > > RR > > > > > > , "nashvi5" <nashvi5> > > wrote: > > > SADHANAS FOR MARRIAGE > > > Do you wish for a happy married life? > > > Can life be full of pleasures? > > > Can delay in marriages be remedied? > > > The answer is yes! > > > Life is very strange. Every person be it a man or a Woman keeps > > > trying to get more and more pleasures and comforts in life. > First > > > everyone wishes for material pleasures and then for spiritual > > > fulfilment. > > > One important event in life is marriage. Marriage brings about a > > very > > > special change in the life of a person. The direction of life > can > > > completely change after marriage. If one gets a wise, capable > and > > > understanding life partner then one feels like enjoying life and > > its > > > pleasures to the full. Problems, obstacles and responsibilities > > are a > > > part of life. But if one's life partner is understanding then > the > > > pain becomes much less. > > > In the Indian Society too marriage is given great significance. > In > > > the ancient times there used to be the ritual of Swayamvar in > > which > > > the girls were given the freedom to choose their own husbands. > > > Because the marriage used to be by choice hence life was more > > happy. > > > Married life was not a problem or a burden for them. > > > But as times passed the social system changed and the ritual of > > > marriage became some what distorted due to which there were many > > > problems which the couples face to this day. Society became > > dominated > > > by males and women came to play only a passive role in > marriages. > > The > > > fact is that a woman is as important a part of the society as a > > man. > > > In married life both are equal. Both supplement each other. > > Without > > > one the other cannot contemplate a whole life. The creation in > > nature > > > cannot go on without cooperation of both. > > > Marriage in the present context > > > Today the institution of marriage has become very > corrupted.There > > is > > > more pain in married life than happiness. It has come to be > > believed > > > that birth of a girl in a home means advent of problems and > > sorrows. > > > The reason for this is that for the marriage of the girl the > > parents > > > have to struggle a lot. The problem of dowry has further > > complicated > > > matters. High life styles, ostentation and false values have > only > > > tended to make the problem of dowry more grave. Even after > > marriage > > > of the girl problems for the parents or the girl do not end. > > Everyone > > > understands that the prevalent system is wrong yet paradoxically > > it > > > continues. > > > If by the time the girl is of marriageable age parents are not > > able > > > to find a suitable match then it becomes a cause of worry and > > tension > > > for them. The poor girl even if she understands what is going on > > is > > > forced to keep mum. > > > Even in the present age love marriage is not easily possible in > > > India. And not just girls even boys are forced into marriages. > > Today > > > seventy out of hundred couples are not satisfied with their > > marriage. > > > A man is not able to get the girl of his choice and same is the > > case > > > for the girl. Still life goes on. But where there is no true joy > > it > > > cannot be called life. It becomes more of a burden. > > > In the ancient times men used to do special Sadhanas to get a > good > > > wife. And similarly women used to perform rituals for getting a > > good > > > husband. Having studied the ancient texts some special Sadhanas > > are > > > being produced here for the readers of the magazine with the > help > > of > > > which they could make their married lives more happy and joyous. > > One > > > should not hesitate in trying these Sadhanas that are meant for > > the > > > success of married life. If desired things do not happen on > their > > own > > > then what is the harm in getting wishes fulfilled through > > Sadhanas? > > > Bhuvaneshwarj Vivaah Prayog > > > For early marriage > > > Among the ten Mahavidyas Bhuvaneshwari is the Mother Goddess who > > can > > > bestow totality in married life and make it happy, prosperous > and > > > comfortable. This Sadhana can be tried by a girl of marriageable > > age > > > herself or someone else can also try it on her behalf. Even a > man > > can > > > try it for getting a good wife. > > > Start this Sadhana from any Friday. Once the Sadhana has been > > > commenced then trying it daily till the desired result is > > obtained. > > > In other words chant the Mantra daily. > > > Early in the morning have a bath. Wear fresh clothes. Cover a > > wooden > > > seat with yellow cloth. On a mound of rice grains place a > > > Bhuvaneshwari Yantra. With vermilion write Hreem on all four > sides > > of > > > the Yantra. Light a ghee lamp. First of all pray to your family > > > deity. Then offer vermilion on the Yantra. Also offer red > flowers. > > > Pray for the fulfilment of your wish. > > > Then with a rock crystal rosary (Sfatik) chant one round of the > > > following Mantra each time offering a red flower to the Goddess. > > > || Om Kaamdevaay Vidmahe Pushpbaannaay Dheemahi Tanno-anang > > > Prachodayaat || > > > > > > After the Mantra chanting collect all the flowers and tie them > in > > a > > > clean cloth. If the Yantra is in form of an amulet then a man > > should > > > tie it on the right hand and a woman on the left. > > > Do this daily for 15 days. One surely gets the right match very > > soon. > > > Gandharvaraaj Chetaanaa Prayog > > > For quick marriage of girls > > > Gandharvaraaj is the deity of love, marriage and beauty. By > > offering > > > prayers to him one can get married to the person of one's > choice. > > > This is a Sadhana only for girls. Women can try it for getting > > good > > > husbands too. > > > Start this Sadhana from a Monday and end it on a full moon day. > In > > > this period one should chant the Mantra ten thousand times. If > > there > > > is some problem in a love marriage then too this Sadhana can be > > > tried. Once Gandharvaraaj is pleased through a Sadhana he > appears > > in > > > a subtle form to bless the Sadhak. This Sadhana must be tried by > > the > > > girl in the night. Some other family member can also try it on > the > > > behalf of the prospective bride. > > > In the night of Monday have a bath and wear fresh clothes. Cover > a > > > wooden seat with a yellow cloth. In its centre place the amulet - > > > Siddhi Gandharva Taabeej. Before it place a Siddhi Chakra. If > one > > has > > > a particular wish then write it on a paper and place it under > the > > > amulet. Light a ghee lamp and incense. > > > At ten in the night start the Sadhana. It is not necessary to > > perform > > > this Sadhana in the place of worship rather one can also do it > in > > the > > > sleeping room or any other isolated spot. First of all offer > seven > > > flowers on the amulet and pray to Gandharvaraaj -O > Gandharvaraaj! > > You > > > are very kind. Air is your vehicle. Love is your form. Beauty is > > your > > > ornament. Please help me fulfil my wish. > > > Next chant the following Mantra with Vishvaasu Manni rosary. > > > || Om Kleem Vishvaasu Naam Gandharvah Kanyaah Naamaadhipatih > > Labhaami > > > Dev-dattaam Kanyaam Suroopaam Salaankaaraam Tasmei Vishvaav- > sarva > > > Namah || > > > > > > Each day chant the Mantra with the same rosary. The number of > > > chantings must be calculated according to the number of days > from > > > Monday to the full moon day. > > > In the night of full moon chant five extra rounds and tie the > > amulet > > > around your waist. Place the Siddhi Chakra at home in the place > of > > > worship. > > > There are many more Sadhanas related to quick marriage that > shall > > > appear in the future issues of the magazine. What ever be the > type > > of > > > Sadhana if it is used for a good and pure cause then one surely > > > attains to success. > > > Poornna Grihasth Sukh Prayog > > > For happy married life > > > Marriage means the coming together of a man and woman from two > > > different backgrounds. Their thoughts might be different, their > > > habits might be different but they have to live together and > make > > the > > > marriage a success. But many times there are quarrels and > > differences > > > which result in bitterness. > > > If there is tension in the house one is not able to do things > > which > > > one has planned. The ancient texts state - Very lucky is the > > person > > > who gets a good and cooperative spouse in life. > > > Some times the tension due to the differences become so > unbearable > > > that married life seems to be a burden, progress in life stops > and > > > one becomes frustrated. Such a situation is not favourable for > > either > > > life partner. > > > In such a situation Sadhana is the only means of attaining a > > balance > > > and harmony in married life. Through it married life could be > made > > > more happy, successful and peaceful. When the thinking of two > > persons > > > is in harmony then life surely is peaceful. > > > Try this Sadhana on a Monday. It is better to try this Sadhana > in > > the > > > months of Kaartik, Maargsheersh or Sharad. One can continue > > chanting > > > one round of Mantra every Monday. > > > In the night of a Monday at ten start the Sadhana. If the > Sadhana > > is > > > accomplished at midnight then it proves even more rewarding. One > > > needs 21 Maayaa Beejs, five Kaamya Prayog Siddh Siddhiphals and > a > > > rock crystal rosary for this Sadhana. Keep these articles ready > > > before starting the Sadhana. Once you have started the Sadhana > do > > not > > > get up from the seat. > > > One also needs rice grains dyed yellow with turmeric, an oil > lamp > > and > > > red cloth. With vermilion draw a circle and in its centre write > > > Kleem. All around it place the five Kaamya Siddhi Phals. Then in > > > another circle place the 21 Maayaa Beejs. Meditate on the from > of > > > Kaamaakshi Devi and pray to her to give success in married life. > > Make > > > a mark of vermilion on each Maayaa Beej. Then chant the > following > > > Mantra 21 times each time offering rice rains on one Maayaa > Beej. > > > Also with each chanting pickup the rice grains and Maayaa Beej > and > > > throw behind yourself over your shoulder. > > > Dhaam Dheem Dhoom Dhoorjateh Patnee Vaam Veem Voom > > Vaagdheeshwaree. > > > Kraam Kreem Kroom Kaalikaa Devee, Shaam Sheem Shoom Me Shubham > > Kuru. > > > > > > Offer saffron on each Siddhiphal and also offer rice grains and > > > vermilion. Each time chant the Mantra. Then picking each > > Siddhiphal > > > put it in a clean cloth chanting the Mantra. Tie the cloth and > > place > > > it under your bed. This is a very, easy ritual. By chanting the > > > Mantra regularly one can make life even more peaceful and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2004 Report Share Posted June 7, 2004 Dear All, Before considering sadhanas for marriage one should look at i) Tithi ii)the placement of kalatrakaraka Venus with respect to the 7th lord and the position of the moon. Tithi Lord rules relationships and it functions like Venus. Placement in Kendra in either Rasi or Navamsa should give strong prospects for marriage. Some astrolgers even advice using the mantra of the tithi lord to improve relationships. Reg K. Ajith _ This report is solely for information and general circulation only and may not be published, circulated, reproduced or distributed in whole or in part to any other person without our written consent. This report should not be construed as an offer or solicitation for the subscription, purchase or sale of the securities mentioned herein. Whilst we have taken all reasonable care to ensure that the information contained in this publication is not untrue or misleading at the time of publication, we cannot guarantee its accuracy or completeness, and you should not act on it without first independently verifying its contents. Any opinion or estimate contained in this report is subject to change without notice. We have not given any consideration to and we have not made any investigation of the investment objectives, financial situation or particular needs of the recipient or any class of persons, and accordingly, no warranty whatsoever is given and no liability whatsoever is accepted for any loss arising whether directly or indirectly as a result of the recipient or any class of persons acting on such information or opinion or estimate. OCBC Securities Pte Ltd and its related and affiliated corporations together with their respective directors and officers may have or take positions in the securities mentioned in this report and may also perform or seek to perform broking and other investment or securities-related services for the corporations whose securities are mentioned in this report as well as other parties generally. Privileged/Confidential information may be contained in this message. If you are not the addressee indicated in this message (or responsible for delivery of the message to such person), you may not copy or deliver this message to anyone. Opinions, conclusions and other information in this message that do not relate to the official business of my company shall be understood as neither given nor endorsed by it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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