Experiece the Love URGENT----Surya

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Amitasurya vishnubhotla <surya_prakashv > wrote:

Dear Amita,Even for all the people who talk so much philosophy inlife ... it's

very difficult to accept loss of anykind in their own personal lives ...I can

instantly connect to the feeling that you mighthave felt at that instant ...

and maybe eventually weall grow out of those feelings .. yet when the arethere

they are very real to us and are verytroublesome as well !!I personally think

your mom is very lucky! and inspiteof what she said .. I am sure for her you

are alwaysfirst among the equals ! .. I am saying this because Ihave had

similar experiences in my own life ... Take care,Surya.--- Amita Shukla

<shuklaamita > wrote:> Dear Manoshi> > I do not understand you when

you say "I am sorry ,> but I don't support your view". Well thanks for>

converting my simple thought to a complex view.> I do not know what in my mail

prompted you to write> things like> Do not judge your parents, you can never

forgive> them etc etc.> Wow this was way out of line. > No body is doubting or

questioning parents here.> > I Reread the original mail on selfless service

and> luv and thought to share what prompted me to write> in response:> >

1.Well when some people were talking about GIVING> selfless service and

selfless love somehow i also> thought about the RECEIVER of selfless service

and> selfless love.> > 2.Well when some people were talking about attaining>

the Ultimate(peace,God,Moksha, nature etc what name> one wants to give) i was

thinking as that person who> had to let go of his/her dear person 'coz that

dear> one had gone so high on the spiritual path

that> there was no return.> > > My mother is so deeply immersed in her

spiritual> life that she has no expectations from any body and> at same time

she is all willing to help any body who> is in need.> She is so much full of

luv and peace that she does> not differentiate between me and any other human>

being.> She only thinks and sees God. > > On the other hand it is little hard

for me to accept> her new form.It is very hard for me to LET GO of> her.But i

am trying to do that with the best of> ability 'coz i know this will make her

happy.> At that particular time in my life i was very sick> and demoralized.And

only thing i wanted in my life> was my mother as my mother.So some how i felt>

hurt.And i know it was wrong on my part .But> probably i am too low on the

spiritual level.> > I really respect her

and want to be like her one> day.> > I think i have my point clear.> > Folks

Thx for all your time.> I am not judging any body here.I just had an>

experience and i shared it.> Please do not twist things.> > Thx> Amita> > >

> > khallopapa <khallopapa > wrote:> Dear Amita,> > I am sorry , but I

dont support your view. I feel> Parents are God. I > think we are no one to

JUDGE them or can never have> that much of > capability to ever forgive them.

If we doubt our> parent's love, it's > the biggest sin. I dont think anyone

would be ever> born to love us > as much as our parents do...whether selfless

or not> ...I dont care.> > Manoshi> > > > > --- In

, Amita> Shukla

> <shuklaamita> wrote:> > -"I strongly beleive that 'Selfless Love' would>

lead > > to 'Selfess Service', concluding in 'Nishkama> Karma'"> > -"first one

has to > > EXPERIENCE THE PAIN and then when you UNDERSTAND> that PAIN , > >

automatically flows that selfless LOVE when you> serve"> > > > After reading

the above lines i could not resist> sharing my > experience:> > > > Once i

fell very ill and was on complete bed rest> more than a > month.I called my

mother for help from India.> > > > My mother who is very religious and pious

women> came for my help > all the way from india.> > > > She did so much for me

which i can not repay it by> any means.> > > > I really luv and respect her a

lot.> > > > But once while both

me and her were talking she> told me> > > > "When i serve you i think i am

serving god and see> god in you"> > > > I know for sure she luvs me a lot but

when she> said the above line > i was so much hurt 'coz i felt i had called my

> mother for help but > in turn it was a social worker who is working>

selflessly.I felt as > if i had lost my mother.> > > > Some how till now i can

not forget her words.> > > > > > > > Thx> > > > Amita> > > > > > khallopapa

<khallopapa> wrote:> > Dear RG,> > > > No, you are not the only one who

has this> 'technical' problem. I > > have too, but more important is to try to

develop> that selfless > > love. I, from my experience, can say that, first>

one has to

> > EXPERIENCE THE PAIN and then when you UNDERSTAND> that PAIN , > >

automatically flows that selfless LOVE when you> serve. There is a > > big

difference between sympathize and empathize.> Put yourself in > > that position

if you have not experienced the> pain...and then you > > realize how it hurts

when one is doing a favour(> out of pity) or > so-> > called serving you for

some fulfilment of his/her> desires.> > > > I hope I made sense.> > > >

regards> > > > Manoshi> > > > > > > > ,

Ravinder> Grover > > <astrology@c...> wrote:> > > Dear Manoshi> > > > > > Its

very nice of you to bring the issue of> 'Selfless Love'. > Many > > thanks. I

strongly beleive that 'Selfless Love'> would lead > > to 'Selfess Service',

concluding in 'Nishkama> Karma', the path way > > to Liberation.> > > > > > But

I have a technical question & problem,> probablly it only > > applies to me

and nobody else. > > > 1.. How do I develop 'Selfless Love' ?> > > 2.. I

have tried serving selflessly, technical> speaking, but > at > > later stage I

realised that I was NOT serving or> loving > Selflessly. > > I always had some

elements of EGO and DESIRE> behind it. May be, > I > > was always desiting for

the Fruit of the Action. > What do I do > now? > > I know my problem but I have

not been able to come> out of this for > > ages.> > > Can

anybody help me?> === message truncated ===

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