Guest guest Posted March 20, 2004 Report Share Posted March 20, 2004 Dear Learned Members I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32, 75e54 Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from maternal uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage (faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a stable job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher education ( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i quit one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading books on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is obscure socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda, aromatherapy etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my body, no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it non-attachment, just disinterested so far). I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my parents. Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and values (or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would keep my away from my son, though) My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be doing whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6 planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i am wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand. My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada 43n39, 79w23 I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character and his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and a stable family have problems settling in later life. Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them (i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the results) Thanks Rajesh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2004 Report Share Posted March 20, 2004 Rajesh, I can't help with your horoscope as I currently have no software for this. However, I want to say how sorry I am for everything you've been through, and also to mention what a wonderful parent you are to be so concerned for your son. Although having your chart done will help you immensely, have you had any other sort of counselling? You have been through a great deal with accidents, loss of work, difficult marriage etc, so it's no wonder you feel apathetic and unmotivated. After what you've been through, most of us would feel depressed and unable to get on with day to day living. I just wonder if talking things through with a professional might help you. You have been extremely brave and I hope things improve for you soon. Flick. Author website: http://www.witchcraft.org/elenhawke.htm On 21/3/04 5:42 am, "rajesh" <rrgupta97 wrote: > Dear Learned Members > > I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32, > 75e54 > > Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from maternal > uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage > (faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car > sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced > extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a stable > job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher education > ( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i quit > one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the > last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading books > on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is obscure > socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in > Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as > yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda, aromatherapy > etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two > cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took > it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my body, > no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it > non-attachment, just disinterested so far). > > I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my parents. > Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and values > (or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my > welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would > keep my away from my son, though) > > My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be doing > whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie > my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6 > planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i > wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i am > wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand. > > My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada 43n39, > 79w23 > > I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character and > his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and a > stable family have problems settling in later life. > > Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed > prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them > (i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the > results) > > Thanks > > > Rajesh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2004 Report Share Posted March 21, 2004 Don't worry, 6 planets in 6,8,12 are possible in VIPAREET RAJ YOGA too. Can you give dates of the events you've mentioned in your mail. Vaasistha rajesh [rrgupta97] Sunday, March 21, 2004 11:12 AM A reading request please Dear Learned Members I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32, 75e54 Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from maternal uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage (faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a stable job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher education ( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i quit one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading books on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is obscure socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda, aromatherapy etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my body, no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it non-attachment, just disinterested so far). I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my parents. Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and values (or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would keep my away from my son, though) My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be doing whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6 planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i am wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand. My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada 43n39, 79w23 I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character and his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and a stable family have problems settling in later life. Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them (i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the results) Thanks Rajesh ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~ Links Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2004 Report Share Posted March 23, 2004 I came to canada 15 years ago, and my life's misery started from day one. I came to study here for MBA and my uncle #2 gave me money for studies, and he also strongly suggested that i focus on my studies and not worry about making money by working part-time (which almost all students do). Fine, no problem with that, but I started to accumulate `DEBT'. But my uncles started interfering in my life at the core level. Such as they want my academic results, and so forth. They decide among themselves that i need to marry (i was 21 years) inorder to live in Canada. Which was total misguided, misinformed, ignorant statement. Although, my youngest uncle worked for department of immigration and employment(very shocking). They would never listen to me or my feelings, but play the role of HITLER (my way or high-way), they would keep on saying. Once i had borrowed money, the youngest uncle would go to india on a trip and tell my parents about the money borrowed and how it will be returned. Next story: my parents feel down, and tell me that i have to pay the loans, as soon as possible. NOW, the loans can be paid by working and saving money, not by "MARRYING" is my statement. Next story: i cannot go back home at the end of my studies because my father insists on my "MARRYING someone" for immigration purposes. My story: by marrying at the young age of 22 or 23, you cannot find someone suitable in Canada (average age of marrying in Indian community is not that young, usually girls at least 24 years old). Next, what has marriage to do with paying debts. Another game: my uncles would tell me that marriage is good for me, because then, I would get immigration and I can sponsor my parents to Canada to live here. My parents would insist that marriage is the answer for me because then only I can earn money and repay the loans. My uncle #2 would not say about paying the loans back, (as he always said), but his younger brother would make a fuss about it to my parents. This is chakravyuh. If your head is confused, i can understand that. Because i went through the agony and mental harrasement. After finishing studies, one is allowed to work in Canada for a year. HELL, no, not by my uncles, because they are GOD, and if they say so, then it does not happpen. So they will tell me, that immigration will send me back home and etc etc. BY THE way: i am Canadian Immigration Consultant, today. The truth is that any body seeking Canadian Immigration, who has education , can get it. But I would not support from anyone for that, and everybody would tell me that it does not happen without marrying. (BASICALLY TREAT ME LIKE A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN, if you get the idea). One thing leads to another, i return about $5,000 of the 20,000 borrowed by 1993 early. Because of the remaining balance, i marry one girl, in 1993. The girl does not like me. she feels used for immigration purposes. I repay the loans by 1996. My son is born in 1997. In 1999, i and my wife are separated. I am working in USA, but my wife and her parents do not want her to live there. They tell me to live and work near their house in Ottawa, besides, my father in law demanding $150,000 as a advance/security etc etc. (unbelievable). He has the guts to say that I am impotent, that my wife has boyfriends, that she would continue bringing guys home, even if I give him the money to save my marriage. (I could not believe my fate or karma for that). Before marriage, I did not have a single girl in my life, and this is what I get from life. Even today, my son lives with my ex-wife in Ottawa. I have been living here for the past 3 years, hoping that I would find a suitable job and be at least close to my son. But unfortunately I could not find one. And as for my own business, where other people make tons of money, I was not able to do it successfully because of lack of my personality such as extreme laziness, no motivation, lack of time management, depression, etc. I get into frequent arguments with my in-laws due to getting my son every two weeks for a day. Sometimes, they would call my uncles and my uncles would ask for explanation. Now the surprising part is that when I have problems, and I talk to my uncles, they totally ignore it. Currently, I am on the verge of getting into debt again, if I do not find a job or kick-start my business. Basically, I find myself totally alone, all the time. With no one helping or assisting me, in any way. Basically, I would equate my situation to `Chakravyuh" from Mahabharat about abhimanyu. Therefore, my parents are asking me to come to India and live and work there. The question is: what should be the strategy for my life, from now onwards. Rajesh , "." <ssa@n...> wrote: > > Don't worry, 6 planets in 6,8,12 are possible in VIPAREET RAJ YOGA too. Can > you > give dates of the events you've mentioned in your mail. > > Vaasistha > > > > rajesh [rrgupta97] > Sunday, March 21, 2004 11:12 AM > > A reading request please > > > Dear Learned Members > > I was born November 7, 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India 31n32, > 75e54 > > Have experienced circumstantially forced marriage (debt from maternal > uncles, immigration related issues), a divorce, a son from marriage > (faced problems with access), had unbelievable car accidents (car > sunk in the water while i was in it, during a flashflood), faced > extreme agony humiliation from ex-spouse & in-laws. Without a stable > job or career for most of the past 12 years despite higher education > ( i have not had a job for the last 3 and a half years, since i quit > one in US to come and live in Canada, to be near my son). For the > last 3 years, lived in secluded environment, spend time reading books > on spirituality, ayurveda, autobiographies etc.My identity is obscure > socially. Have lived in Canada/US for the last 15 years. Parents in > Delhi. For the last 2 years took interest in spirituality such as > yoga, pranayam, meditation raw diets, juicing, ayurveda, aromatherapy > etc. but had troubles with health due to smoking (smoke one or two > cigarettes a day, quit it for 4 months on a trip to india, but took > it back when i returned to Canada). Find extreme laziness in my body, > no motivation or enthusiasm or zest of life (well, i do not call it > non-attachment, just disinterested so far). > > I am deciding to leave everything in Canada and live with my parents. > Although, i have problems living and adjusting to society and values > (or rather absence of values) in India. But for my parents and my > welfare, i found it to be a solution to live near them (that would > keep my away from my son, though) > > My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be doing > whether a job or my own business. And where should i be living , ie > my birth country. Whenever, I look at my birth chart and find 6 > planets in houses 6, 8 and 12, besides debilitated sun in 7th, i > wonder what life had in store for me, when i was born. Currently i am > wearing a Topaz gold ring in my index finger right hand. > > My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada 43n39, > 79w23 > > I am usually concerned about his well-being, his future character and > his place in society. Since boys without much fatherly presence and a > stable family have problems settling in later life. > > Please comment on my charts and let me know, what are the fixed > prarabdhas in my chart so that i do not try too much to change them > (i have a tendency to be stubborn and go any length to change the > results) > > Thanks > > > Rajesh > > > > > > ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~ > Links Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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