2-[JR], & Shaluu, from Mark, 11/28.......re..... How to time marriage

[Guest guest]

Dear Shaluu:

 

There are two points that come to mind when I look at your chart.

 

#1...Saturn in your first house, whilst Sani is again transiting Gemini,

again could produce some natural delay in marriage.

 

And one of the many things that Saturn has taught me over the years is that

delays... may be a good thing!

 

In other words, where Sani is aspecting or influencing is not, just a

concern or worry, but it's Nature protecting us.

 

And though this may be hardest to understand in terms of love and

marriage...

 

It's consequences can certainly be seen where individuals rush into marriage

and without proper preparation or education, have a very difficult time,

and too often, ending in divorce.

 

#2.... Mars in your 7th....is also a point for concern.

 

And whereas Saturn... may be about being more patient, since Sani's in the

first. So, being more patient within yourSelf... and also being more

patient with partnerships, since Sani aspects the 7th house....

 

Mars in the 7th is about 'style' of marriage or partnership interactions.

 

Mars is 'kuja dosha' in many places in the chart, ie. especially first,

fourth, seventh & 12th.... because it aspects directly the 7th House.

 

Now...Mars there, represents... Mars 'imbalance' and in many cases, the

habit of using often times, too much Mars firmness or energy, especially in

a house and area of the life that is naturally ruled by Venus!

 

Part of the formula for success, however, is to learn to diminish your

fieryness, especially as it's related to 'others'.... since the 7th house

represents also, 'all' others.... you can begin to practice with these,

'all' others!

 

You're right, though, this is a good time for you since Jupiter is indeed

aspecting the 7th House, but also because Jupiter's aspect into the 7th, is

an influence into it's own Home, Sagittarius...

 

So....you're especially....getting the Wisdom....or relationships at this

time... And with balance and non-rushing....

perhaps...the fulfillment of desire will come during this time.

 

But, spend this time preparing to get married.

 

Think of the many things that you should do in preparation for the

opportunity to have a spouse.

 

Are you ready for all that.....?

 

 

This is a very significant area of life, and I've not found any system of

Philosophy or Knowledge that so deeply understands all the complexities of

Marriage....like Jyotish....

 

 

The problem also is exacerbated by the fact that the old systems of natural

matchmaking have fallen in disrepair in every culture in the world, today.

 

Even in India, where the advantages of Jyotish matchmaking have been; there

are many examples where either the matchmaking is not being used properly

or the indiviudals in our world today, are not willing to accept this

guidance.

 

Hope some of this helps.....

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

PS.... I also create a daily Jyotish Newsletter; that focus on the Transits

and other aspects of Jyotish. If any of you'd like to , contact me

at: m.kincaid.

 

The newsletter is free.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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>"shaluuu2000" <pyarii

>

> How to time marriage

>Fri, Nov 28, 2003, 11:24 AM

>

 

> The information Alwar Ji wrote was extremely informative concerning

> timing of marriage. I hope respected memebers will correct my novice

> attempt at predicting my marriage.

>

> Currently ju is aspecting my 7th, 9th, and 11th houses. On Jan 26,

> 3004 venus will be in my 9th houses aspected by jupiter. Also, venus

> will be aspecting jupiter. Jupiter will also be aspecting my 7th

> ruler from the moon (mars in Aries). Jupiter will aspecting my lagan

> ruler in the seventh house (mercury) this is also jupiter's own house

> sagittarius. I feel maybe not marriage, but maybe a prospect may come

> to light at this time. Jupiter will be aspecting ,y seventh only

> until it moves to virgo in less than year. I think marraige should

> materialize during this period, however, saturn and rahu are also

> aspecting my seventh house at this time. January 26th or March 5th

> were a few date I think maybe dates for marriage or prospects of

> marriage to materialize. I would appreciate anyone's insight into

> this matter.

>

> My DOB: If anyone is intersted to shed some light is January 23, 1975

> 2:39pm Salt Lake City-Utah MST.

>

>

>

>

>

> ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~

>

> Your use of is subject to

>

>

[Guest guest]

Mr. Kincaid,

 

I aplogize for my late reply. Thank You for your kind insight into my

chart. I am from a semi traditional indian family, Though I was born

and raised in the U.S. My parents raised us here adopting both

cultures with a good balance. When we visit India we are able to mix

with our cousins with no problem and I am very involved with the

indian culture and values. In India girls get married quite early as

you can understand I quite late. I inquired because mostly my parents

are very worried, and impatient for my marriage. They are constantly

bringing it up. I cannot say I do not think about it, but I feel I

would be more patient if they were not so worried. I feel so bad that

they are. This is mostly why I wanted to know what the status is for

marriage or if marriage was even going to happen for me. Due to the

natal saturn aspect on the seventh house and also mars in the

seventh. I am trying to be patient and keep faith, it is hard though

at times to be strong enough to let go to fate and not worry what the

future will bring.

Thank you again for your kind insight.

 

 

, "Mark Kincaid"

<m.kincaid@m...> wrote:

> Dear Shaluu:

>

> There are two points that come to mind when I look at your chart.

>

> #1...Saturn in your first house, whilst Sani is again transiting

Gemini,

> again could produce some natural delay in marriage.

>

> And one of the many things that Saturn has taught me over the years

is that

> delays... may be a good thing!

>

> In other words, where Sani is aspecting or influencing is not, just

a

> concern or worry, but it's Nature protecting us.

>

> And though this may be hardest to understand in terms of love and

> marriage...

>

> It's consequences can certainly be seen where individuals rush into

marriage

> and without proper preparation or education, have a very difficult

time,

> and too often, ending in divorce.

>

> #2.... Mars in your 7th....is also a point for concern.

>

> And whereas Saturn... may be about being more patient, since Sani's

in the

> first. So, being more patient within yourSelf... and also being

more

> patient with partnerships, since Sani aspects the 7th house....

>

> Mars in the 7th is about 'style' of marriage or partnership

interactions.

>

> Mars is 'kuja dosha' in many places in the chart, ie. especially

first,

> fourth, seventh & 12th.... because it aspects directly the 7th

House.

>

> Now...Mars there, represents... Mars 'imbalance' and in many cases,

the

> habit of using often times, too much Mars firmness or energy,

especially in

> a house and area of the life that is naturally ruled by Venus!

>

> Part of the formula for success, however, is to learn to diminish

your

> fieryness, especially as it's related to 'others'.... since the 7th

house

> represents also, 'all' others.... you can begin to practice with

these,

> 'all' others!

>

> You're right, though, this is a good time for you since Jupiter is

indeed

> aspecting the 7th House, but also because Jupiter's aspect into the

7th, is

> an influence into it's own Home, Sagittarius...

>

> So....you're especially....getting the Wisdom....or relationships

at this

> time... And with balance and non-rushing....

> perhaps...the fulfillment of desire will come during this time.

>

> But, spend this time preparing to get married.

>

> Think of the many things that you should do in preparation for the

> opportunity to have a spouse.

>

> Are you ready for all that.....?

>

>

> This is a very significant area of life, and I've not found any

system of

> Philosophy or Knowledge that so deeply understands all the

complexities of

> Marriage....like Jyotish....

>

>

> The problem also is exacerbated by the fact that the old systems of

natural

> matchmaking have fallen in disrepair in every culture in the world,

today.

>

> Even in India, where the advantages of Jyotish matchmaking have

been; there

> are many examples where either the matchmaking is not being used

properly

> or the indiviudals in our world today, are not willing to accept

this

> guidance.

>

> Hope some of this helps.....

>

>

> Sincerely,

>

>

>

> Mark Kincaid

>

>

>

>

> PS.... I also create a daily Jyotish Newsletter; that focus on the

Transits

> and other aspects of Jyotish. If any of you'd like to ,

contact me

> at: m.kincaid@m...

>

> The newsletter is free.

----------

> >"shaluuu2000" <pyarii@h...>

> >

> > How to time marriage

> >Fri, Nov 28, 2003, 11:24 AM

> >

>

> > The information Alwar Ji wrote was extremely informative

concerning

> > timing of marriage. I hope respected memebers will correct my

novice

> > attempt at predicting my marriage.

> >

> > Currently ju is aspecting my 7th, 9th, and 11th houses. On Jan 26,

> > 3004 venus will be in my 9th houses aspected by jupiter. Also,

venus

> > will be aspecting jupiter. Jupiter will also be aspecting my 7th

> > ruler from the moon (mars in Aries). Jupiter will aspecting my

lagan

> > ruler in the seventh house (mercury) this is also jupiter's own

house

> > sagittarius. I feel maybe not marriage, but maybe a prospect may

come

> > to light at this time. Jupiter will be aspecting ,y seventh only

> > until it moves to virgo in less than year. I think marraige should

> > materialize during this period, however, saturn and rahu are also

> > aspecting my seventh house at this time. January 26th or March 5th

> > were a few date I think maybe dates for marriage or prospects of

> > marriage to materialize. I would appreciate anyone's insight into

> > this matter.

> >

> > My DOB: If anyone is intersted to shed some light is January 23,

1975

> > 2:39pm Salt Lake City-Utah MST.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~

> >

> > Your use of is subject to

 

> >

> >