Guest guest Posted September 20, 2003 Report Share Posted September 20, 2003 Dear members, Greetings. I am lacking in time and would respond to posts one by one as time permits. Queries will be honoured by me if you are a member who participates in discussion or post some 8/10 past major events with your query, just like Jawaher Jain Jee did. If you post your 8/10 important in your life then it will mean that you really need help, since we really no not have time to help people who want prediction for fun only. On the other hand the data provided by you will be great learning material for us. I appreciate your kind patience in this regard. Best wishes, Tanvir What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine. Tanvir Chowdhury Mail tanvir Personal site http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir Jyotish site http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro Jyotish discussion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2003 Report Share Posted September 20, 2003 Hello, Namaste!I need help badly and this mail from you have given me the confidence to approach you for it.My birth details are given below. 11.53PM Indian Standard Time( Not war time) 16th May 1944 Quilon,Kerala,India Long 76E36 Lat 8N54 Ever since the marriage of my daughter on the 17thMarch 2001 and her departure with her husband to US,I cannot shake off this nagging trepidation about the future of her married life.I stayed with them for about 5 months from Nov2002 to April 2003 and that has only increased my tension and worry.It is basically because of the arrogant and hostile behavior of my son in law towards us as well as all the close relatives of my daughter.This hurts my daughter and all of us eventhough he is nice with her. Will things be normal and I regain my mental peace or am I torturing myself by exaggerating things too much?I am otherwise OK in my health,finance and relationship with my wife and family.How will the rest of my life go? I was married on the 8th May 1970 My first son was born on the 28th April 1971 A severely retarded male child was born by the end of 1974 and it died by the end of 1976. A daughter was born on the 4th Dec 1978 Left for the Gulf on a job asignment on the March 17th 1980. A major turning point in our life as it gave a big boost to the financial position.Came back in July 1985 and again left for Gulf in 1991 and returned by the end of 1993. Dramatic rise in professional status in March 1995 as well as financial position and it continued upto 2001 begining and stabilised our life comfortably. My mother died in May 19th,1996 My son is married and settled in Malaysia from 1996 and ever since we make at least one trip there every year and it continues. I was in US with my wife staying with my daughter and son in law from Nov 2002 to April 2003.A very painful and traumatic experience for me from which I am yet to fully recover. Please let me know your evaluation regarding a normal relationship with our son in law and his family eventually taking place which will give me peace of mind. Thank you very much. Kaimal - Tanvir <tanvir Jyotish Remedies <> Saturday, September 20, 2003 5:48 PM Notice to members > Dear members, Greetings. > > I am lacking in time and would respond to posts one by one as time permits. Queries will be honoured by me if you are a member who participates in discussion or post some 8/10 past major events with your query, just like Jawaher Jain Jee did. If you post your 8/10 important in your life then it will mean that you really need help, since we really no not have time to help people who want prediction for fun only. On the other hand the data provided by you will be great learning material for us. > > I appreciate your kind patience in this regard. > > Best wishes, > Tanvir > > > > What can not happen, can never happen. > Which is mine, is forever mine. > > Tanvir Chowdhury > Mail tanvir > Personal site http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir > Jyotish site http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro > Jyotish discussion > > > > > > > > ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~ > > Your use of is subject to > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2003 Report Share Posted September 20, 2003 namaste, however it has to be mentioned that i am only a student and that is why may not be always correct in assesment. the understanding of the chart and the case will be greatly dependant on the past events given by the members so the honesty / candidness in giving the past events is extremely important, as we see from the past discussions. [i am saying this because i forgot to mention it last post, however the list site mentions this already.] i would reply as soon as i get some time. regards tanvir What can not happen, can never happen. Which is mine, is forever mine. Tanvir Chowdhury Mail tanvir Personal site http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir Jyotish site http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro Jyotish discussion - SRCKaimal Saturday, September 20, 2003 7:52 PM Re: Notice to members Hello, Namaste!I need help badly and this mail from you have given me the confidence to approach you for it.My birth details are given below. 11.53PM Indian Standard Time( Not war time) 16th May 1944 Quilon,Kerala,India Long 76E36 Lat 8N54 Ever since the marriage of my daughter on the 17thMarch 2001 and her departure with her husband to US,I cannot shake off this nagging trepidation about the future of her married life.I stayed with them for about 5 months from Nov2002 to April 2003 and that has only increased my tension and worry.It is basically because of the arrogant and hostile behavior of my son in law towards us as well as all the close relatives of my daughter.This hurts my daughter and all of us eventhough he is nice with her. Will things be normal and I regain my mental peace or am I torturing myself by exaggerating things too much?I am otherwise OK in my health,finance and relationship with my wife and family.How will the rest of my life go? I was married on the 8th May 1970 My first son was born on the 28th April 1971 A severely retarded male child was born by the end of 1974 and it died by the end of 1976. A daughter was born on the 4th Dec 1978 Left for the Gulf on a job asignment on the March 17th 1980. A major turning point in our life as it gave a big boost to the financial position.Came back in July 1985 and again left for Gulf in 1991 and returned by the end of 1993. Dramatic rise in professional status in March 1995 as well as financial position and it continued upto 2001 begining and stabilised our life comfortably. My mother died in May 19th,1996 My son is married and settled in Malaysia from 1996 and ever since we make at least one trip there every year and it continues. I was in US with my wife staying with my daughter and son in law from Nov 2002 to April 2003.A very painful and traumatic experience for me from which I am yet to fully recover. Please let me know your evaluation regarding a normal relationship with our son in law and his family eventually taking place which will give me peace of mind. Thank you very much. Kaimal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 20, 2003 Report Share Posted September 20, 2003 Namaste, Thanks for the mail.I have indicated the past events honestly.But I would like to add that my childhood was a nightmare under a brutal,callous abusive father and a helpless mother.I am the eldest of 6 brothers-no sisters- and I graduated as an engineer in 1965 and was posted far away from home which slowly helped me to regain my confidence.(I got a job in the Electricity Board immediately on graduation).It was a hard life but the building up of life was taking place slowly but steadily inspite of so many problems.In 1964 I was stricken with pneumonia and almost died. In 1972 I was diagonised to have lung TB but got complete cure after 3 years of medication. In 1977 I completed construction of my own house and shifted there with my wife and son.We still stay there. >From 1977 to 1980 two of my brothers -youngest of the 6- succumbed to mental decease(paranoid schizophrenia) and never recovered.Their lives are in shambles.So this was the start of another period of nightmare filled with anguish for the whole family. In August 1998 and February 1999,I made 2 trips to Europe as Govt representative. Hope these details help. Regards Kaimal - Tanvir <tanvir <> Saturday, September 20, 2003 11:30 PM Re: Notice to members > namaste, however it has to be mentioned that i am only a student and that is why may not be always correct in assesment. > > the understanding of the chart and the case will be greatly dependant on the past events given by the members so the honesty / candidness in giving the past events is extremely important, as we see from the past discussions. [i am saying this because i forgot to mention it last post, however the list site mentions this already.] > > i would reply as soon as i get some time. > > regards > tanvir > > > > What can not happen, can never happen. > Which is mine, is forever mine. > > Tanvir Chowdhury > Mail tanvir > Personal site http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir > Jyotish site http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro > Jyotish discussion > > > > - > SRCKaimal > > Saturday, September 20, 2003 7:52 PM > Re: Notice to members > > > Hello, > Namaste!I need help badly and this mail from you have given me the > confidence to approach you for it.My birth details are given below. > > 11.53PM Indian Standard Time( Not war time) > 16th May 1944 > Quilon,Kerala,India Long 76E36 Lat 8N54 > > Ever since the marriage of my daughter on the 17thMarch 2001 and her > departure with her husband to US,I cannot shake off this nagging trepidation > about the future of her married life.I stayed with them for about 5 months > from Nov2002 to April 2003 and that has only increased my tension and > worry.It is basically because of the arrogant and hostile behavior of my son > in law towards us as well as all the close relatives of my daughter.This > hurts my daughter and all of us eventhough he is nice with her. > Will things be normal and I regain my mental peace or am I torturing myself > by exaggerating things too much?I am otherwise OK in my health,finance and > relationship with my wife and family.How will the rest of my life go? > I was married on the 8th May 1970 > My first son was born on the 28th April 1971 > A severely retarded male child was born by the end of 1974 and it died by > the end of 1976. > A daughter was born on the 4th Dec 1978 > Left for the Gulf on a job asignment on the March 17th 1980. A major turning > point in our life as it gave a big boost to the financial position.Came back > in July 1985 and again left for Gulf in 1991 and returned by the end of > 1993. > Dramatic rise in professional status in March 1995 as well as financial > position and it continued upto 2001 begining and stabilised our life > comfortably. > My mother died in May 19th,1996 > My son is married and settled in Malaysia from 1996 and ever since we make > at least one trip there every year and it continues. > I was in US with my wife staying with my daughter and son in law from Nov > 2002 to April 2003.A very painful and traumatic experience for me from which > I am yet to fully recover. > > Please let me know your evaluation regarding a normal relationship with our > son in law and his family eventually taking place which will give me peace > of mind. > > Thank you very much. > Kaimal > > > > > > > ~! LIFE MEANS STRUGGLE, THE FITTEST WINS SURVIVAL !~ > > Your use of is subject to > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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