AW: Married Life

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Dear Jyotish gurus and learners,

 

if you need an example for a failed second marriage, you may take my chart.

It would be very interesting for me to hear your opinions!

 

My first marriage lasted ten years, my second one was separeded after only

ten months.

 

Maybe it is interesting that one jyotishi predicted this second marriage

before we fell in love! Later, two other jyotishis analyzed our mariage -

one saw bad, the other one good signs. At the beginning it really was like

heaven but unforunately this did not last more than a few weeks.

 

Now I realized that the separation took place at the time when I came into

Sa-Ke dasha. Sani is the lord of my 7th, while Ketu is in the 7th.

 

My dahsas:

 

Sa-Bu: Nov. 1999

Sa-Ke: July 2001

Sa-Sk: Sept. 2003

 

You can see my chart in the attached GIF file (which was created on the

website www.geocities.com/sharma_jyotish).

 

Bith date: 9th May 1960 , 12:48 (noon)

Birth place: Nuernberg, Germany

 

Maybe someone can tell me about prospects an remedies.

 

Thanks for all the interesting information and the recitations, especially

to Tanvir

 

Kind greetings from Frankfurt, Germany

 

Eberhard

 

 

 

-----Ursprungliche Nachricht-----

Von: Tushar [tushar_9]

Gesendet: Donnerstag, 24. Juli 2003 07:19

An:

Betreff: Re: Married Life

 

 

Dear Learner and members,

 

It's really very informative mail about marriage and

related matters.

 

I always wonder on one point. Many time we have seen

that some people suffers like hell in first marriage

and in second time their marriage life becomes like

heaven. Some time suffering continue in 2nd and in

special cases 3rd time also.I could not get any

explaination of such situation.

 

Being more clear suppose Mars has damaged one's

married life being in 7th. (Here let's assume Mars is

the only reason) then it is going to be stay there for

entire life then why it does not affect 2nd time.

 

I have 3 case of such type in my circle and out of 3 I

have birth details of one case. If anybody want to

study further then I will provide birth details and

details of what was happen in his life keeping his

privacy.

 

regards,

 

Tushar

 

 

--- Tanvir <tanvir wrote:

> hello,

>

> this is a good initiative.

>

> i am not sure about the role of 4th house and lord

> about marriage. but yes it is the general happiness.

> how much sure are you about the 4th house's role in

> married life? this might add to my knowledge...

>

> another thing that 4th house and lord rules "family

> life" and "home environment". disturbs to 4th lord

> will disturb family life but not necessary problem

> in married life. the disturb might come as any form

> like even problem from kids, or parents, or any1 you

> live with in the home... and as one of the matters

> married life is a probable answer... not so?

>

> you are right, that in short, any affliction to the

> 7th house / lord / venus will disturb marital /

> romantic matters.

>

> also look for the 2nd house for second marriage etc.

> sani there might give 2nd marriage... :-(

> [i have this]

>

> to know more about the spouse, see any planet

> situated in the 7th, or aspecting 7th. or planets

> joining 7th lord and venus etc. who is strong among

> them? etc etc. also see the 7th lord's own nature

> and his position...

>

> also see where is the 7th lord from his own house?

> like, 7th lord is in 3rd = 7th lord is 9th from own

> house. th is for teachers, religious. the wife might

> be involved in teaching or religous. this matches in

> my father's life. i also have the same.

>

> now if the 7th lord is wel placed and unafflicted

> then the wife will be virtuous since 9th house is

> the house of virtue.

>

> if the planet is exalted or own house then wife will

> make great prosper and will also help the hus since

> 9th is the house of prosperity.

>

> also 3rd house matters will come. well placed - good

> initiative in married life. ill placed, married life

> suffers for lack of initiatives. this i find true.

>

> again, if the 7th lord in 3rd is afflicted, esp by

> cruel 3rd lord, or rahu, or sani - then 3rd house

> ppl (siblings) will distrub marital life. even union

> between wife and sibling is possible.

>

> sani joining / aspecting ve will give separation

> from wife (being away). for aspect, sani has to be

> strong like it is exalted in my case - LOL ! sani in

> 7th might make a too much formal marriage by

> guardians, conservative marriage against ur wish, or

> a conservative wife, hard owrking or sick health

> wife. there may be age problems in the couple. this

> is what i see. always remember the planets own

> nature.

>

> etc etc.

>

> best wishes,

> tanvir

>

>

>

> What can not happen, can never happen.

> Which is mine, is forever mine.

>

> Tanvir Chowdhury

> tanvir

> http://www.geocities.com/king_tanvir

> http://www.geocities.com/planetaryastro

>

>

>

> -

> Learner

>

> Wednesday, July 23, 2003 7:32 PM

> Married Life

>

>

> Hi,

>

> My knowledge in this area is limited.

>

> Marriage /Married Life can be inferred from :-

> 1>. 7th House and 7th Lord

> 2>. Venus

> 3>. 4th House and 4th Lord

>

>

> 1. 7th House and Lord Related :-

> In general, if the 7th house is aspected or

> occupied by benefic planets (Jupiter, Venus) the

> marriage will be happy. If the 7th house is occupied

> by malefic planets (Mars, Saturn, Ketu, Rahu, Sun),

> there will be conflict and unhappiness.

>

> 2. Venus

> Venus is the next indicator (Karaka) of marriage

> and spouse after the 7th house and its Lord. As

> with the 7th house and its lord, if Venus is strong

> and well aspected, the spouse and marriage will be

> strong. If Venus is badly placed or aspected,

> trouble is indicated for the spouse, and possibly

> also for the marriage.

>

> 3. 4th House and Lord

> The fourth house is the indicator of, among other

> things, happiness in the home and marital harmony.

> If the fourth house is occupied and aspected by

> malefic planets, or if the 4th lord is badly placed,

> it will indicate a lack of harmony between the

> husband and wife, which may result in separation.

>

>

> Now we need to know the role of aspects and

> special yogas etc etc.

>

> Some of the things to look for :-

> 1. Venus should not be combined with enemy planet.

> 2. 7th lord and house should not be badly placed.

> 3. 4th lord and house should not be badly placed.

>

> I do not know how to find out more about the

> spouse's career(profession) and behaviuor (nature)

> and looks etc etc.

>

> Whatever I have written is very primitive and I

> will post one/two examples from which we can study

> on this basis and infer. But I request others to

> come forward anf give valuable input.

>

> Thanxs

> Learner

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