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Jai Jinendra Mr. Rao,

 

As world has changed so does people have changed and

there approach towards Life.So those qualities of

gana,gothra,lingam etc etc should not been given prime

importance.It is valid traditionally because people

use to grow up under shadow of parents, but today

world they are more of outwards and more getting

influence because of that.

 

So chart as individual we should first look at

1)Sexual inclination,attitude,performance,libido or

affairs etc etc.As TV and todays modern

clothings,people around,offices etc etc are major

influencing factors.

2)Spiritual Inclination; that is opposite of Sex.He

will do it for soul, for material pleasure or for sake

of others need to be seen.

 

As first points is most important because all your

emotional,mental,illness,feelings,money,ego,anger,jealous,possesivness,

etc etc act as healer for our living and also

destroyer for our life.So it is a talent in a person

to handle it.

 

As shastra says Sex is a door way to an unknow world,

it is a mental state of a human ability to see it as

materialistic or spritualistic.

 

In terms of materialism you will adhere to it all time

and ultimately same will lead to your disaster as not

properly channelised and controlled.

 

In terms of spiritualism, you will open a door to

unknow world where deepest secrets or Universe lies

and life after life you will not adhere to it and

ultimately lead to moksha.

 

So it is up to human ability to avail SEX as

spiritualism or Materialism.

 

You will always find good sexual ability person is

able to enjoy more of material benefits in this

World.But never gives happiness to soul, which later

on with time becomes destroyer of himself.

 

But spiritualisitc person may not have lots of

spiritual benefits and in material terms may have to

go through hardship in Life,Because his karmas are

acting or they have become live to be nullified, so

time will help him to attain materialism and leave

that and ultimatum towards astecism and to Moksha.

 

So I guess answer for my second point is also been

included above.

 

So my studies on shastras and theories developed by

me towards practicality of todays world suggest ned to

look at Mars and Venus first in chart.

Than Mercury.As you grow old talking is that all you

need when you will not able to do Love.

Than Sun, as Ego leads to disaster of

Love,Money,relationship etc etc.

Saturn, as you can take is at first place,But as it is

very slow moving planet and people are adaptive to

situations with time, so understanding automatically

comes if you have above factors or planets in

harmonious to each other.

Moon and Jupiter in last, because they are prime for

spiritualism.As moon is to be considered with Mars and

Venus together, because Moon will lead you to change

from one thing to other.So Moon charts should be

analysed seperately.

 

I guess I have told you my approach.I always see chart

first and see compatibility b/w charts than rest

matters.

 

Anything else let me know.I have less time as i get it

only in office.So rest things later.I can on

writing...

 

 

--- Raghunatha RaoNemani <raon1008 wrote:

 

> Om Krishna Guru

>

> Namaste Shripal Ji,

>

> Thanks for the note and you have raised very good

> points and I love

> that approach. Trust me I am thinker of that nature

> my self. Because

> of lack of time, I am not able to give you a very

> detailed reply to

> your questions, rather wanted to ask you to help me

> to answer the

> following:-

>

> You have mentioned that:

>

> > Second category can be broadly classified as

> > a)Prime factor SEX

> > b)Money

> > c)outward or inward

> > d)Spiritual inclination

> > e)Routine work

> > f)time devotion

> > e)prime goals

> > f)sacrifice etc etc.

>

> Let us take just two factors from your questions to

> see how the sages

> have given the principles for that area of life in

> terms of marriage

> compatibility. Please consider the following two

> factors ( from your

> list) for this exercise purpose:-

>

> a) Prime factor SEX and

> d) Spiritual inclination

>

> Now pleaes refer to my original analysis and tell

> me, what are the

> factors (Category and Item number ) we should

> consider to give

> answers to your two questions.

>

> Secondly, what points or what compatability outcomes

> I have arrived

> at for the above two?

>

> Finally what do you think the results arrived are

> telling us for

> these area of life for these two ( if they get

> married ).

>

> Regards

> Raghunatha Rao

>

>

> vedic astrology, Shripal

> <d_shripal>

> wrote:

> > Hi Mr Rao,

> >

> > Jai Jinendra,

> >

> > I just love your analysis.

> >

> > But aren't we are missing whole topoly of

> analysis.

> > Eve if we say some where points are 4 and

> somewhere

> > 9.but those 4 points may destroy whole compatibity

> > issues.

> >

> > For example if i am seeing Mars of each other's

> enemy

> > house is opposing or squaring up, doesn't that

> lead to

> > horrible life or compatibilty through out they

> leave

> > together. Like when both ways sun squares up pther

> > saturn; they don't divorce but life is like a

> living

> > hell.Everyday fight, they have kids,families

> etc,But

> > stil life is like a hell.

> >

> > So in compatibility shouldn't we should focus on

> first

> > prime parameters like 1)First individually

> analysing

> > one's chart what is his or her needs.

> > 2)Than matching those needs to satisfactorily to

> an

> > extend to each other's chart.

> > 3)Than looking for are they compatible for new

> born or

> > adaption is better.

> >

> > Second category can be broadly classified as

> > a)Prime factor SEX

> > b)Money

> > c)outward or inward

> > d)Spiritual inclination

> > e)Routine work

> > f)time devotion

> > e)prime goals

> > f)sacrifice etc etc.

> >

> > Above some are very prime points need to be

> matched

> > through planetary placements.

> >

> > Through poits I am not able to get anything.May

> > average will come out as compatible.But exp says

> they

> > are not, as prime things are missing.Than rest can

> be

> > taken care of.

> >

> > --- Raghunatha RaoNemani <raon1008> wrote:

> >

> > >

> > > Om Krishna Guru

> > >

> > > Namaste Nitin Rastogi Ji,

> > >

> > > As per your request and with my Guru Ji and my

> > > Mother Mahalakshmi blessings, I have done the

> > > marriage compatability analysis for you with the

> > > Proposed Girl and here is my analysis.

> > >

> > > As usual, I have applied few different methods

> to

> > > see the focused area:-

> > >

> > > 1) First I have applied the Marriage matching

> method

> > > which I have learned from Sri Rayudu Ji's book.

> > > 2) Then I have done the UL, AL, A7, Sun, Moon

> and

> > > A.K placements also.

> > > 3) Then I have done the matching with the

> Ghataka

> > > method taught by Sanjay Ji.

> > > 4) At the bottom of this mail, I have given my

> > > summary of findings with some remedies too.

> > >

> > > Hope this is helpful to you.

> > >

> > > Regards

> > > Raghunatha Rao

> > >

> > > ----->>> Girl and Boy Analysis begin <<-------

> > > I-(A)

> > > I have considered the following birth details

> for

> > > the analysis:-

> > >

> > > Boy :-

> > >

> > > February 1, 1980

> > > Time: 18:25:00

> > > Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT)

> > > Place: 77 E 42' 00", 28 N 59' 00"

> > > Meerut City, India

> > > Girl :-

> > >

> > > July 7, 1981

> > > Time: 20:37:00

> > > Time Zone: 5:30:00 (East of GMT)

> > > Place: 79 E 02' 00", 28 N 49' 00"

> > > Rampur(UP), India

> > >

> > > 1) Varna: ( for this aspect, 1 point is allotted

> ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's = Brahmin

> > > Girl's = Vysya

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [1] point.

> > >

> > > 2) Vasya: ( for this aspect, 2 points are

> allotted

> > > ):-

> > > Boy's = Jala

> > > Girl's = Chatuspada

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [1] point.

> > >

> > > 3) Grahamaitri or Rasyadhipti : ( for this

> aspect, 5

> > > points are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's = Lord of Janma Rasi is : Moon

> > > Girl's = Lord of Janma Rasi is : Sat

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [1] points.

> > >

> > > 4) Rasi Kuta : ( for this aspect, 7 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Rasi is : Cancer

> > > Girl's Janma Rasi is : Capricorn

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [7] points.

> > >

> > > 5) Dina Kuta or Tarabala: ( for this aspect, 3

> > > points are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [1.5]

> points.

> > >

> > > 6) Yoni Kuta : ( for this aspect, 4 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha ( Male )

> :

> > > Cat

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni( Male )

> :

> > > Cow

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [1.5]

> points.

> > >

> > > 7) Gana Kuta : ( for this aspect, 6 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha :

> Rakshasa

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni :

> Manushya

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [2] points.

> > >

> > > 8) Nadi Kuta : ( for this aspect, 8 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha :

> > > Sleshma/Anthya

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni :

> Vatha/Adi

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [6] points.

> > >

> > > 9) Rajju : ( for this aspect, 4 points are

> allotted

> > > ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha :

> > > Avaroha-Pada

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni :

> > > Aroha-Nabhi/Udara

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [3] points.

> > >

> > > 10) Vedha - ( for this aspect, 2 points are

> allotted

> > > ):-

> > >

> > > Boy's Janma Namashatra is : Aslesha

> > > Girl's Janma Namashatra is : U.Phalguni

> > >

> > > With the above combinations, we get [2] points.

> > >

> > > 11) Mahendra - ( for this aspect, 2 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > The Nakshatra of the Boy counted from the that

> of

> > > the Girl is 25.

> > >

> > > So this combination will get [2] points.

> > >

> > > 12) Stree Deergha - ( for this aspect, 2 points

> are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > The Nakshatra of the Boy counted from the that

> of

> > > the Girl is between 13 to 27.

> > >

> > > So this combination wil get [2] point.

> > >

> > > 13) Moon's Position - ( for this aspect, 2

> points

> > > are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > The Moon is not hemmed on both side houes by

> malefic

> > > planets in the Girl's chart and also not hemmed

> in

> > > the case of Boy's Chart too.

> > >

> > > So [1] point here.

> > >

> > > The Moon is aspected/associated by a natural

> malefic

> > > in both charts.

> > >

> > > So [1] point here.

> > >

> > > So Total for this combination will get [2]

> point.

> > >

> > > 14) Moon's Ashtakavarga - ( for this aspect, 2

> > > points are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In Boy's chart Moon has 4 bindus and Girl's

> Chart

> > > Moon has 5 Bindus.

> > >

> > > So this combination will get [2] point.

> > >

> > > I-(B) Compatibility on the basis of other

> Aspects:-

> > > ===================================

> > > 15) Kuja Dosha - ( for this aspect, 9 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > From Lagna:-

> > > ===========

> > > Boy has Mars in 2nd house

> > > Girl has Mars in 5th house

> > >

> > > So the above cominations will get [0] points.

> > >

> > > From Venus:-

> > > ===========

> > > Boys has Mars in 5th house

> > > Girl has Mars in 7th house

> > >

> > > So the above cominations will get [0] points.

> > >

> > > From Moon:-

> > > ==========

> > > Boys has Mars in 2nd house

> > > Girl has Mars in 9th house

> > >

> > > So the above cominations will get [0] points.

> > >

> > > Total for the above gives [0] points.

> > >

> > > 16) Other Malefic Planets dosha-( for this

> aspect, 4

> > > points are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this, if the other natural malefic

> planets-Sat,

> > > Rahu, Ketu and Sun are placed in the houses of

> > > 1/2/4/7/8 and 12th from lagna, then this dosha

> is

> > > considered and points are given if they present

> in

> > > both charts.

> > >

> > > So the above combinations get [1] point.

> > >

> > > 17) Lagnas - ( for this aspect, 3 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, the combination of lagnas will

> get

> > > [3] points.

> > >

> > > 18) Lagna Lords - ( for this aspect, 5 points

> are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, the combination of lagna lords

> > > will get [4] points.

> > >

> > > 19) 7th House - ( for this aspect, 2 points are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [1] points.

> > >

> > > 20) 7th House Lords - ( for this aspect, 5

> points

> > > are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [2] points.

> > >

> > > 21) 8th House Lords - ( for this aspect, 3

> points

> > > are allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [0] points.

> > >

> > > 22) Other Planets - ( for this aspect, 16 points

> are

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > The 8 other planets - Sun, Mars, Rahu, Jup, Sat,

> > > Merc, Ketu and Ven are considered in this

> category.

> > >

> > > Sun:-

> > > 0

> > > 1

> > > Mar:-

> > > 1

> > > 0

> > > Rahu:-

> > > 0

> > > 1

> > > Jup:-

> > > 0

> > > 1

> > > Sat:-

> > > 1

> > > 1

> > > Merc:-

> > > 0

> > > 1

> > > Ketu:-

> > > 0

> > > 1

> > > Venus:-

> > > 0

> > > 0

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [8] points.

> > >

> > > 23) Lagnas and Moons - ( for this aspect, 1

> point is

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > The Lagnas/Moon houses of the both charts are in

> > > Shashtashtaka or Dwidwadasa then 1 point is

> given.

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [1] points.

> > >

> > > 24) Venus and Mars - ( for this aspect, 1 point

> is

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [0] points.

> > >

> > > 25) Venus Position - ( for this aspect, 1 point

> is

> > > allotted ):-

> > >

> > > In this category, we will get [0] point.

> > >

> > > Now let me give you the final compatability

> analysis

> > > as follows:

> > >

> > > Comptability Points:-

> > > ================

> > > 1) On the basis of Moon ( Categories 1 to 14 )

> are

> > > 34 ( out of 50 )

> > >

> > > 2) On the basis of Other Aspects,including Kuja

> > > Dosha ( Categories 15 to 25) are 20 (out of 50)

> > >

> > > Analysis and Conclusion on Method I:-

> > > ==============================

> > >

> > > The total compatability points scored are 54.

> You

> > > will notice that the points relating to Moon

> scored

> > > are 34 which is much more than 25 which is Good,

> but

> > > the Aspects based score was 20 which are very

> low.

> > > Therefore, the matching of the horoscopes are

> just

> > > Average/OK.

> > >

> > > II) Having said that, now let me see the

> maritial

> > > happiness and other things using another

> following

> > > method.

> > >

> > > Now Let us see compatability from the UL, AL and

> A7

> > > point of view:-

> > > ================================================

> > >

> > > From Girl's Chart:-

> > > ============

> > > Lagna = Cp

> > > UL = Pi

> > > A7 = Sc

> > > AL = Ta

> > > Moon is in = Vi

> > > AK (Atma Karaka) = Mars

> > > Sun is in = Ge

> > >

> > > From Boy's: Chart:-

> > > ==============

> > > Lagna = Cn

> > > UL = Le

> > > A7 = Ta

> > > AL = Ar

> > > Moon is in = Cn

> > > AK = Ven

> > > Sun is in = Cp

> > >

> > > Upapada Matching Rule:-

> > > ==================

> > >

> > > Here the UL's are in 6/8 (Shashtashtaka)

> > > relationship and this is not a very good

> > > combination.

> > >

> > > A7 Matching:-

> > > ============

> > >

> > > Here the A7's are in 1/7 relationship and this

> is a

> > > very good combination.

> > >

> > > A7 and AK Matching:-

> > > ===============

> > > The Darakaraka of the native should have some

> > > relationship with the Atmakaraka of the spouse

> and

> > > vice versa.

> > >

> > > Here in the Girl's Chart A7 is in Sc and the

> Boy's

> > > A.K Ven, which is placed in Cn, which is in 9/5

> form

> > > A7, so this is a good combination. Now from the

> > > Boy's A7 is in Ta and Girl's A.K Mar is placed

> in

> > > Le, which is placed in 4/10 so this is good, so

> the

> > > combined result is good.

> > >

> > > AL Matching :-

> > > ==========

> > >

> > > Here the AL's are in 2/12

> (Dwidwadasa)relationship,

> > > hence this combination is not good.

> > >

> > > Moon's Placement:-

> > > ==============

> > > Here the Moon's are placed in 3/11 relationship,

> > > hence it suggests that these two will learn

> together

> > > in due course of time. It is recommended that as

> > > long as the Boy leads the Girl then things will

> will

> > > be OK based on the Sambandha principles. It does

> not

> > > mean the Boy has to be a Boss all the time, but

> > > leading in important decisions as the Moon rules

> the

> > > mind.

> > >

> > > Sun's Placement:-

> > > =============

> > > Here the Sun's are placed in 6/8 (Shashtashtaka)

> > > relationship and this is not a very good

> > > combination.

> > >

> > > UL/AL placement in individual Charts:-

> > > ===========================

> > > In the individual Charts the UL and AL

> placements

> > > are fine.

> > >

> > > III) Now let me see the last compatability using

> the

> > > Ghataka Principles:-

> > >

> > > Girl:-

> > > Moon is in : Vi

> > > Birth Tithi : Sukla Sapthami

> > >

> > > Boy:-

> > > Moon is in : Cn

> > > Birth Tithi : Krishna Pratipat

> > >

> > > From the Girl's Chart point of view: The Moon is

> in

> > > Vi, and she has to avoid the Purna Tithi spouse,

> but

> > > here the Boy's Tithi is Nanda, hence it is fine.

> > >

> > > From the Boys's Chart point of view: The Moon is

> in

> > > Cn, and he has to avoid the Bhadra Tithi spouse,

> but

> > > here the Girls's Tithi is in Bhadra Tithi, so

> the

> > > combined affect is again an Average

> compatability.

> > >

> > > Summary of Analysis:-

> > > ==================

> > >

> > > Based on the above combinaitons and detailed

> > > analysis, I am seeing these two may have a JUST

> > > AVERAGE compatability in the married life with

> some

> > > challenges ahead, but they will learn together

> when

> > > they get older.

> > >

> > > ----->>> Girl and Boy Analysis End <<-------

> > >

> > >

> > > ---- original message ---

> > >

> >

>

vedic astrology/message/63459

> > >

> > > nitin rastogi <nitindotcom_in@>

> > > Mon Sep 12, 2005 11:02 am

> > > Re: Please Help Us

> > >

> > > Thanks Lyudmila for your help.

> > >

> > > Someone from Indian astrology system please help

> > > me.....

> > >

> > > regards

> > > Nitin

> > >

> > > vedic astrology, "Nitin

> > > Rastogi"

> > > wrote:

> > > > Namashkar Everyone,

> > > >

> > > I am in love with a girl who works in the same

> > > company, its been more than one year, we like

> each

> > > other and want to get married. But girl's

> parents

> > > are not supporting our marriage and say that our

> > > kundli doesn't match. As per them I was born in

> > > ashlesha nakshatra and therefore I will not be

> good

> > > for her parents.

> > >

> > > We have shown our kundli to some astrologers and

> no

> > > one seems to communicate the same. Yes, I agree

> to

> > > the fact that our thinking doesn't match all the

> > > times but that is the thing we can work on.

> > >

> > > As we like each other so much that we can't live

> > > without each other and nobody from her side is

> > > supporting us, we are in deep trouble. So please

> > > guide us through the right way. Please let us

> know

> > > if there is any solution.

> > >

> > > Your response can save our life.

> > >

> > > Regards,

> > > Nitin

> > >

> > > My Date and time of Birth : 1st Feb, 1980 ,

> 06:25PM

> > > Meerut (UP)

> > > Girls Date and time of Bith : 7th July 1981 ,

> > > 08:37PM Rampur (UP)

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

>

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> > >

> > >

> >

> >

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> >

> >

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