Guest guest Posted December 15, 2005 Report Share Posted December 15, 2005 Dear Rajesh, Thank you for your email. I am glad that you are taking steps towards improving your life. We all have problems. None of our lives is perfect and none of us is perfect. You're Aries, so you will be rather self centered by nature. Also because you are Aries, Mercury is a Functional Malefic ruling your 6th Mooltrikona sign house Virgo which deals with analytical faculties. So I think that is why Aries are normally very impulsive and only think afterwards... I think one very good thing for you would be to join a Meditation Group. I have a friend who's also an Aries (of course!!!) and since he joined a Meditation Group his life improved a lot and he is now enjoying life much better than before. Peace, Rui. peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97 wrote: Dear Rui: God bless you, I found the answer. Three days ago, I self-diagnosed myself as having ADD/ADHD (attention deficit hyperactive disorder). It atleast gave me some peace to understand all my life's miseries since childhood, such as: being ridiculed (and called unspeakable names) at school by students constantly while teachers were complecent about it, getting beatings from teachers, problems making friends at school, frequent job changes (either quitting or getting fired), unstable career, starting many things and never finishing ONE (i played chess at University level and my biggest strength was knight which has 8 possible moves in eight directions), unfinished projects and work in progress, problems with paper filing & paying bill on time (disorganised), rage and short fused temper (temper is much better now); daydreaming, going at tangents in conversation with other people, not being able to read peoples subtle reactions on their faces, constantly talking or talking before thinking, not being able to sit at one place for even a short duration either while studying or working, always fidgety and moving my fingers on the desk in classroom and getting reprimended from the teachers; extremely messy home and office desk (lack of organisation), lack of time management (no sense of time), getting late everywhere consistently, forgetting things here and there, laziness, depression & anxiety due to low self-esteem as well due to frustration of not utilizing potential, missed opportunities and chances in life. I had extremely high intelligence (I had scored perfect on GMAT quantitatives (for MBA entrance, 18 years ago)) in HALF the alloted time. High intelligence is one of the sources of trouble, everyone had expectations yet bewildered and confused; poor listening (my ex-wife constantly complained that i would not listen to her) while I "could not" listen as my thoughts is elsewhere. At least, I have no one to blame including myself. Besides, my sixth house and twelfth houses speak of mysterious illness (ADD/ADHD is one of the latest disorders since 1980, most difficult to diagnose ever; before 1980 society just shunned these kids), enemies, self undoing. I am trying to start my life, with a new realization that I am different from others (well, actually everyone is different (not superior or inferior) in some sense, that is HOW god created the world), that i should not compare my achievements, shortcomings strenghts and weaknesses with other people; that I am to ACCEPT everything entirely without guilt, blame, ego and resentment; And work with strengths and be aware of weaknesses and not be hard on myself or anyone. JUST ACCEPT. Not to have high dreams and not start something new before finishing previous projects, work, errands... anything. that I should have empathy and compassion for everyone without judgment of good or bad attributes (if one judges, then one judges god's creation), On a lighter note: I was very upset on Sunday afternoon. I cried loudly like a kid, then I was praying and talking to GOD for few minutes. Asking for mercy. Then I forgave each and every person in my life, that i remembered, and I asked GOD to forgave them too. Then I went to my computer and typed words "extreme lazy" and "procrastination" hoping to find a clue to my situation OR a group where I can find help. Procastination took me to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Procrastination Where I found a clue on ADHD, then I found a dozen websites on ADHD where I found other people with similar attributes as myself. I have been reading continuously on this and bought 3 self-help books. ONe of them: "driven to distraction", is the first comprehensive written on it. I totally feel "blessed" at this moment for having found the name to syndrome or disorder or style of living that I had (it is genetic or biological). i do not have to knock myself with anger or frustration anymore. I sincerely want to give special thanks to Dearest Wendy, Rui, krishnan, and other people from last year namely, ravindramani, Babu and scores of other learned members, who have been answering my queries and have been supportive in my times of Need. With Lovingkindness.. All beings be happy Rajesh -- In jyotish-vidya, RPM <rupamede> wrote: > > Dear Rajesh, > > Ask yourself: "What is the reason for my laziness, lack of motivation, depression, erratic routine" and I think you will find the answer. > > Jupiter is a benefic planet for Aries and you are doing its benefic dasha plus those are the exact months I predicted Jupiter would be transiting your Sun and aspecting your ascendant degree. > > Sometimes those temporary positions can change a person's life in such a way that you never want to come back to the life you had. Think of all that may come from this temporary change. If nothing changes, then can you not come back to the USA? I think that having positive thinking may also help a lot, don't you think? This proximity with your son, does it not excite you? > > Best wishes, Rui. > > peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97> wrote: Dear Learned Members; > > I am going through a dilemma. Help me. > > I was offered a job with the govt (taxation deptt) in Canada, which > is supposedly temporary till June, 2006. I am in USA, currently, > trying to find a job (laziness, lack of motivation, depression, > erratic routine, etc). > > My car broke down (Happened at the same day, the job was offered!! > Talk about Saturn being in the house of losses, while lord of 10 and > 11th), adding to the problem of moving and mobility. > > What should I do. Take something small and temporary and MOVE > (without car) OR stay put, where I am, and keep looking for > opportunities. > > RG > > > > jyotish-vidya, RPM <rupamede> wrote: > > > > Dear Rajesh, > > I am on holidays so only now I could look at your chart. Not sure > anyone has already told you that you're running your Jupiter period > and that Jupiter is transiting your 7th and your debilitated Sun? > This means that maybe soon (from end of Dec to May 2006) you will > probably see your son again. Jupiter is a benefic planet for Aies > and in this case also the 9th lord of foreign travel, long journeys > of short duration and life in foreign lands, so I would say your son > may visit you in India... or more likely you will visit him in > Canada because all happens in your 7th aspecting your ascendant. > > This is just a temporary blessing indicated by transits and > hopefully since you are doing your Jupiter dasha maybe the Divine > Planet will be strong enough to help your Sun and most of all you > since it will be aspecting your Ascendant degree from end of > December to May 2006. > > Best wishes, Rui. > > > > peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97> wrote: I was born November 7, > 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India > > 31n32,75e54 > > My particular question regarding my career is: what should i be > > doing whether a job or my own business. (I have been without a > job > > for the last 5 years, and I worked in 1999,2000 and before that > > without job for 2 years), I lived in USA and Canada for the past > 16 > > years. > > > > My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada > 43n39, > > 79w23 > > I have not seen him for the last 20 months due to problems with > my > > in-laws after the divorce. My question with regards to my son: > How > > is his future affected with regards to divorce and my not being > able > > to seeing him, plus my relationship with him in futre. > > > > My ex-wife was born february 5, 1970, 16:40 (4:40pm) chandigarh > > india,. She is very vicious person (with her parents), > fraudulently > > cheated me of money, through changing court order papers along > with > > her lawyer (and lawyer conspiring with them!!) in year 2001. I do > > not find enough courage to fight out court battles with them to > see > > my son. My question: Can I pursue matters relating to court NOW? > > > > > > thanking you in advance > > > > Rajesh > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Astrology > chart Vedic > astrology Personal > reading > > > > > > > > > > > > > Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. > > > > > > jyotish-vidya > > > > Terms of > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To help you stay safe and secure online, we've developed the all > new Security Centre. > > > > > > > Astrology chart Vedic astrology Personal reading > > > > > > Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. > > > jyotish-vidya > > Terms of Service. > > > > Cars NEW - sell your car and browse thousands of new and used cars online search now > > > > > Astrology chart Vedic astrology Personal reading Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. jyotish-vidya Cars NEW - sell your car and browse thousands of new and used cars online search now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Dear Rui: I had joined a 11 day silent retreat last year April, at Vipassana (mindfulness or Insight Meditation, at other places). Which I repeated in August this year. I am definitely going to keep the practice (which was OFF and ON), Daily, NOW. Plus Breathing Techniques from Art of Living (taken in 2002) from time to time. AGAIN, i do not intend to keep my plate over-full with spiritual aspects. I had taken atleast 8 different courses from Art of Living, Sri Chinmoy group, Sidha samadhi yoga, Vipassana and few Yoga classes. I am laughing as I write this. I read ADHD, all over written in it. Starting 8 things, never sticking to ONE. But seriously, I can see all the BLIND SPOTS, NOW. I am much more aware. I noticed that my son had same charts, regarding Moon exalted, aspected by Saturn in Pisces (and Mars in Virgo). ADHD sounds Genetic for sure. You can read his birth details, if you wish, below somewhere, I had written. Rajesh Rajesh jyotish-vidya, RPM <rupamede> wrote: > > Dear Rajesh, > Thank you for your email. I am glad that you are taking steps towards improving your life. We all have problems. None of our lives is perfect and none of us is perfect. You're Aries, so you will be rather self centered by nature. Also because you are Aries, Mercury is a Functional Malefic ruling your 6th Mooltrikona sign house Virgo which deals with analytical faculties. So I think that is why Aries are normally very impulsive and only think afterwards... I think one very good thing for you would be to join a Meditation Group. I have a friend who's also an Aries (of course!!!) and since he joined a Meditation Group his life improved a lot and he is now enjoying life much better than before. > Peace, Rui. > > peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97> wrote: > Dear Rui: > > God bless you, I found the answer. > > Three days ago, I self-diagnosed myself as having ADD/ADHD > (attention deficit hyperactive disorder). > > It atleast gave me some peace to understand all my life's miseries > since childhood, such as: > > being ridiculed (and called unspeakable names) at school by > students constantly while teachers were complecent about it, > getting beatings from teachers, > problems making friends at school, > frequent job changes (either quitting or getting fired), > unstable career, > starting many things and never finishing ONE (i played chess at > University level and my biggest strength was knight which has 8 > possible moves in eight directions), > unfinished projects and work in progress, > problems with paper filing & paying bill on time (disorganised), > rage and short fused temper (temper is much better now); > daydreaming, going at tangents in conversation with other people, > not being able to read peoples subtle reactions on their faces, > constantly talking or talking before thinking, > not being able to sit at one place for even a short duration either > while studying or working, > always fidgety and moving my fingers on the desk in classroom and > getting reprimended from the teachers; > extremely messy home and office desk (lack of organisation), > lack of time management (no sense of time), > getting late everywhere consistently, > forgetting things here and there, > laziness, > depression & anxiety due to low self-esteem as well due to > frustration of not utilizing potential, > missed opportunities and chances in life. > I had extremely high intelligence (I had scored perfect on GMAT > quantitatives (for MBA entrance, 18 years ago)) in HALF the alloted > time. High intelligence is one of the sources of trouble, everyone > had expectations yet bewildered and confused; > poor listening (my ex-wife constantly complained that i would not > listen to her) while I "could not" listen as my thoughts is > elsewhere. > > At least, I have no one to blame including myself. Besides, my sixth > house and twelfth houses speak of mysterious illness (ADD/ADHD is > one of the latest disorders since 1980, most difficult to diagnose > ever; before 1980 society just shunned these kids), enemies, self > undoing. > > I am trying to start my life, with a new realization that I am > different from others (well, actually everyone is different (not > superior or inferior) in some sense, that is HOW god created the > world), > that i should not compare my achievements, shortcomings strenghts > and weaknesses with other people; that I am to ACCEPT everything > entirely without guilt, blame, ego and resentment; > And work with strengths and be aware of weaknesses and not be hard > on myself or anyone. JUST ACCEPT. > Not to have high dreams and not start something new before finishing > previous projects, work, errands... anything. > that I should have empathy and compassion for everyone without > judgment of good or bad attributes (if one judges, then one judges > god's creation), > > > On a lighter note: I was very upset on Sunday afternoon. I cried > loudly like a kid, then I was praying and talking to GOD for few > minutes. Asking for mercy. Then I forgave each and every person in > my life, that i remembered, and I asked GOD to forgave them too. > Then I went to my computer and typed words "extreme lazy" > and "procrastination" hoping to find a clue to my situation OR a > group where I can find help. Procastination took me to > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Procrastination > Where I found a clue on ADHD, then I found a dozen websites on ADHD > where I found other people with similar attributes as myself. I have > been reading continuously on this and bought 3 self-help books. > ONe of them: "driven to distraction", is the first comprehensive > written on it. > > I totally feel "blessed" at this moment for having found the name to > syndrome or disorder or style of living that I had (it is genetic or > biological). i do not have to knock myself with anger or frustration > anymore. > > I sincerely want to give special thanks to Dearest Wendy, Rui, > krishnan, and other people from last year namely, ravindramani, Babu > and scores of other learned members, who have been answering my > queries and have been supportive in my times of Need. > > With Lovingkindness.. > > All beings be happy > > Rajesh > > > -- In jyotish-vidya, RPM <rupamede> wrote: > > > > Dear Rajesh, > > > > Ask yourself: "What is the reason for my laziness, lack of > motivation, depression, erratic routine" and I think you will find > the answer. > > > > Jupiter is a benefic planet for Aries and you are doing its > benefic dasha plus those are the exact months I predicted Jupiter > would be transiting your Sun and aspecting your ascendant degree. > > > > Sometimes those temporary positions can change a person's life in > such a way that you never want to come back to the life you had. > Think of all that may come from this temporary change. If nothing > changes, then can you not come back to the USA? I think that having > positive thinking may also help a lot, don't you think? This > proximity with your son, does it not excite you? > > > > Best wishes, Rui. > > > > peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97> wrote: Dear Learned Members; > > > > I am going through a dilemma. Help me. > > > > I was offered a job with the govt (taxation deptt) in Canada, > which > > is supposedly temporary till June, 2006. I am in USA, currently, > > trying to find a job (laziness, lack of motivation, depression, > > erratic routine, etc). > > > > My car broke down (Happened at the same day, the job was > offered!! > > Talk about Saturn being in the house of losses, while lord of 10 > and > > 11th), adding to the problem of moving and mobility. > > > > What should I do. Take something small and temporary and MOVE > > (without car) OR stay put, where I am, and keep looking for > > opportunities. > > > > RG > > > > > > > > jyotish-vidya, RPM <rupamede> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Rajesh, > > > I am on holidays so only now I could look at your chart. Not > sure > > anyone has already told you that you're running your Jupiter > period > > and that Jupiter is transiting your 7th and your debilitated Sun? > > This means that maybe soon (from end of Dec to May 2006) you will > > probably see your son again. Jupiter is a benefic planet for Aies > > and in this case also the 9th lord of foreign travel, long > journeys > > of short duration and life in foreign lands, so I would say your > son > > may visit you in India... or more likely you will visit him in > > Canada because all happens in your 7th aspecting your ascendant. > > > This is just a temporary blessing indicated by transits and > > hopefully since you are doing your Jupiter dasha maybe the Divine > > Planet will be strong enough to help your Sun and most of all you > > since it will be aspecting your Ascendant degree from end of > > December to May 2006. > > > Best wishes, Rui. > > > > > > peacejoylovenj <rrgupta97> wrote: I was born November > 7, > > 1968 17:25 Hoshiarpur, Punjab India > > > 31n32,75e54 > > > My particular question regarding my career is: what should i > be > > > doing whether a job or my own business. (I have been without > a > > job > > > for the last 5 years, and I worked in 1999,2000 and before > that > > > without job for 2 years), I lived in USA and Canada for the > past > > 16 > > > years. > > > > > > My son was born july 28, 1997, 4:37 AM Toronto Ontario Canada > > 43n39, > > > 79w23 > > > I have not seen him for the last 20 months due to problems > with > > my > > > in-laws after the divorce. My question with regards to my son: > > How > > > is his future affected with regards to divorce and my not > being > > able > > > to seeing him, plus my relationship with him in futre. > > > > > > My ex-wife was born february 5, 1970, 16:40 (4:40pm) > chandigarh > > > india,. She is very vicious person (with her parents), > > fraudulently > > > cheated me of money, through changing court order papers along > > with > > > her lawyer (and lawyer conspiring with them!!) in year 2001. I > do > > > not find enough courage to fight out court battles with them > to > > see > > > my son. My question: Can I pursue matters relating to court > NOW? > > > > > > > > > thanking you in advance > > > > > > Rajesh > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Astrology > > chart Vedic > > astrology Personal > > > reading > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. > > > > > > > > > jyotish-vidya > > > > > > Terms of > > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > To help you stay safe and secure online, we've developed the > all > > new Security Centre. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Astrology > chart Vedic > astrology Personal > reading > > > > > > > > > > > > > Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. > > > > > > jyotish-vidya > > > > Terms of > Service. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Cars NEW - sell your car and browse thousands of new and > used cars online search now > > > > > > > > > > > Astrology chart Vedic astrology Personal reading > > > > > > Visit your group "jyotish-vidya" on the web. > > > jyotish-vidya > > Terms of Service. > > > > Cars NEW - sell your car and browse thousands of new and used cars online search now > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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