#4 To Visti Ji (Maja)

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||| Hare Rama Krishna |||

 

Dear Maja,

 

Good to hear that you are already fasting on the day lorded by the UL.

 

Here are some thoughts…

 

http://www..org/learn/ck.htm#_Toc25590629

Consider a form of Vishnu for Mercury in the 2nd from the UL.

 

“Real” husband / wife? Perhaps I have misunderstood your writings and question…?

 

The following is subjective:

I’ve only known society to have people who either have a spouse, or do not. I

consider this recognized by the guidance of Dharma wherein either the Government

(The Sun) or the Priest (Jupiter) can sanction the institution of marriage. For

others who choose to be together irrespective of their intentions or needs,

society usually does not acknowledge them as a married couple.

 

The natural significators of the 9th House in the Rashi is Jupiter and the Sun.

The Navamsa (9th divisional chart) is considered the chart of Dharma, and is

also looked upon for the spouse, amongst other things.

 

Speaking as an inexperienced bachelor, I’m sure that you will be able to gauge

more into the concept of “giving,” sacrifice and compromise, amongst others,

one usually associates with a spouse…

 

Good luck in your marriage. Don’t get nervous – it’s a common state at times,

and I may seek your counsel at a later stage in my life.

:>

 

Best wishes and warm regards,

Nitin.

P.S. Please simply address me as “Nitin.”

 

|| Namah Shivaaya ||

 

 

 

 

Dear Guru Nitin,

 

Thank you so much for that thread on Sanjay's way of explaining

Upapada meanings-his words are really so treasures!

Thank you also for your thoughts.I do fast already on UL day.Just

one question for Deity -graha plased in 2H to UL,you said important

when once married for lasting marriage-Budh in Makar-what deity is

pointing to?

Basicly I understood root "matter of giving without expecting"

that's showing us upapada.I was more asking for way how to

differ "real" wife/husband to whom we should give completly to-and

trough comparing 2 charts of partners it's becoming real complex

issue for my level of knowlage now.

It's more above simply-Venus,Moon,Mars matchings that should be

presant-cose we do interact with complete personality of partner.

As I understood Sanjay's words-there is way to see and say trough

charts if one partner is meant for us or not-that's only base of my

questioning now,so I asked for some Joti from learned.

 

Best wishes

Maja

 

 

 

>

> ||| Hare Rama Krishna |||

>

> Dear Maja,

>

> Although addressed to Visti directly, allow me to share some

thoughts…

>

> I have not looked at your chart, and come in late into this thread

of conversation.

>

> If there are concerns regarding harmonious relationships, one

thing advised is to fast on the day lorded by the Upa / Vyaya /

Gauna Pada.

>

> Follow the thread(s) from the SJC Archives:

> vedic astrology/message/26309

>

>

> Once married, examine the 2nd House from the Upa Pada. It is

suggested to worship the Graha / manifestation of the Deity there

for a lasting marriage.

>

> Good luck to you. Best wishes and warm regards,

>

> Nitin.

> || Namah Shivaaya ||

>

>

>

> Dear Guru Visti,

>

> I really understand your "don't mess in" attitude,but there isn't

> anything tempting in it - I asked just on your well learned

> comment 'cose I would apreciate it much. I promise I will calmly

> acept what ever you say.

>

> "Love is blindness"-and we must admit we have short sight when

it's

> happening to us-like is it meant to be "good marriage" after

all,or

> it should stay -love story.

>

> After once married we continue life for long time companied with

> that person-so it is of great importance to know if it's well

meant-

> or we gona hurt anyhow eachother,at least if there are some bad

> influences to know how to react,and what are we supouse to learn

> trough one relationship.

>

> So please do answear me on compatibility matters.

> One more thing -you put a worm in my mind with that"suprise coming

> in Venus antar dasa".I tryed to figure out did you just thought

for

> this marriage matter that could arrise or something else?

> As I can understand Rahu would be one that can bring this matter

of

> suprises(sudden events)

> -so it is placed in 7( Venus house) and it is in 5 watching from

Mo-

> having argala to Ve-it implifies some problematic suprise or what?

>

> Best regards

> Maja