Guest guest Posted October 27, 2003 Report Share Posted October 27, 2003 Dear Ignat, you are welcome, I hope this is useful information. The psychological method I know of to help remedy disharmony that I learned in counseling is to ask and accept the answer, rather than assume you know when you want something. The other is to be friends, that is, enjoy little things together like friends, and keep other interests of your own and other friendships outside the marriage alive too so there is not too much pressure on the partner in the relationship. Although there is a desire sometimes for passion, the fire is reduced when there is any fear present. The traditional remedy given in Brihat Parasara Hora Sutra for the two Dasa/Antaradasa mentioned is: Venus-Venus: Durga Path and cow in charity Jupiter-Rahu: Mrityunjaya Japa and goat in charity And the general upaye (remedy) is Mrityunjaya Japa, recited softly out loud, pausing at the end of each line. Usually 27, 54, or 108 per session. It typically takes 30 minutes for 108. 125,000 repetitions for mantra siddhi, which takes about 40 days at 108 per day. You can do less for more days. Om trayambakam yajaamahe sugandhim pushti vardhanam Urvaarukamiva bandhanat mrityor muksheeya maamritaat A good remedy for marriage problems is devotional practices and fasting on the day of the upapada lord, which is: Ignat: Taurus, ruled by Venus -- Friday Tanya: Aquarius, ruled by Saturn -- Saturday Also, have the charts been rectified? The lagna for you, Ignat is 29 Libra 58 and for Tanya is 1 Cancer 32. These are both very near a change. 8 minutes earlier is Gemini lagna for Tanya. One minute later is Scorpio lagna for you, Ignat. If these are different the upapada will change. Thinking of the mutual love between Krisha-Radha, Siva-Sakti, Vishnu- Lakshmi, or Brahma-Sarasvati, etc. as you are inclined is helpful for some. , Ignat Skoryh <ignat.skoryh> wrote: > Hare Krishna! > > Thank you very much for your comments. Indeed I am in Venus/Venus/Ketu > period now, and my wife is in Jupiter/Rahu/Mercury. So seems my Ketu and her > Rahu work as you said. What can be the remedy in this situation? My Ketu > subperiod ends in several days on November 3, but my wife's Rahu subperiod > extends till December 10, 2004. > > Thanks, > Ignat. > > > dhamakesin [dhamakesin@s...] > Wednesday, October 15, 2003 5:16 AM > > [sJC: Achyuta Gurukul] Re: Q: Yoga-karaka, maraka results in > incompatability? > > > Dear Ignat, > > It seems to me that there is a mutual BENEFIT between the yogakaraka > in one chart with the other's 7th lord. Saturn yogakaraka for Ignat > is spouse's 7th lord. Mars yogakara for Tanya is spouse's 7th lord. > > One idea that has helped me in marriage is to be aware that: when > there is peace after a conflict, ignorance tells us that we are being > imposed upon. > > Rahu in the second (Tanya) (which I have also) is disruptive to > family harmony, causing depression and argumentation. Ketu in the > 7th (Ignat) is also disruptive to harmony in relationships. It will > be important to encourage self confidence in the wife and to gain > that in oneself also. Both have equal right to exist and can truly > share only what is freely given. It will be important to realize > that one cannot just say anything one wants to the spouse but must > exercise restraint to avoid upsets. (I have had to learn this the > hard way.) > > I hope this is not unwanted advice. If so, please disregard. > > > , Ignat Skoryh <ignat.skoryh> > wrote: > > Hare Krishna! > > > > I have one question. In my horoscope Mars is maraka (2-nd and 7-th > lord) and > > Saturn is yoga-karaka (4-th and 5-th lord). But in my wife's > horoscope Mars > > is yoga-karaka (5-th and 10-th lord) and Saturn is maraka (7-th and > 8-th > > lord). See attached jhd files. > > > > This situation, I believe, sometimes causes troubles to us. That is > what is > > good for me is bad for her, and that is good for her is bad for me. > > > > Is it possible to overcome results of such combination? So far, > empirically, > > we made conclusion, that we should keep to each other business, > because when > > one tries to help the other, everything goes apart. Also I never > heard that > > such combination can cause troubles in determination of > compatability. > > > > Maybe I imagined this and the problem is somewhere else? Please, > advise. > > > > Regards, > > Ignat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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